₦airaland Forum

Genea:
I pray God protects and keep you

walkingshadow911:
Women don't reveal that thing even at gunpoint.

authority2006:
So marriage in Nigeria should be all about the amount of money the husband can bring home? It is well.

omojesu202:
Only you pointing towards money, it's like you didn't pass comprehension.

flexyrule:
You seem to be the only one that understands the OP's situation.

OP, dust yourself, work on your finances.

Pimine:
Aswearugaaad

Lol pesin wey dey pay 60k monthly contribution (2 slots) still dey cater for the babe no dey financially stable?

Make money for yourself not for any goddamn woman. Money no dey keep woman; if you like buy her the moon she go still off pant and won ma do!

Iyaebe:
How am I the reason for a man's inability to control his penis? I'm not bordered if a grown man decides to use his penis recklessly and hence the reason I move on fast without looking back.I'm rather a focused lady because I'm on top of my game,deal with that.

LOGICALKEN:
She has never ask of anything financially from me that I didn’t do. I may not be too rich but I am comfortable

LOGICALKEN:
So I met this lady in 2019 through a mutual friend, after few weeks of getting to meet her we started dating. She is 29 and I’m 31. She’s based in Benin where she works and I am in Lagos, the agreement was that after our wedding she will join me in Lagos which she agreed. Our relationship has been going on smoothly which made me do the introduction January this year and I’ve told her the wedding will be by January next year, which she knows I am making adequate preparation to that effect. I even had to get involved in a monthly contribution of 30k which is done in her workplace, I told her she should collect 2 slots so we can save enough for the wedding . She has never made any financial request that i did not grant, just two months ago she started acting all weird, I have asked her what the problem was and she would say nothing. She stopped picking my calls and told her parents I offended her, I called her to know what my offense was and she said I should forget. God knows I have never deliberately done anything to upset her. Just yesterday morning she called to tell me she is done with the relationship which left me so confused and devastated. I have already paid for cow and all the wines we will use for the wedding and now she has called it off. Please nairalanders what could possibly be my offense? I have thoroughly searched my heart and I can’t seem to remember when I offended her.

Genea:
you can imagine. That’s why I am not in my secondary school or university group chat, cause I don’t want devil to use anyone. Just avoid them like a plague, don’t even say hi to anyone. If at a young age they were evil, removing your script to find faults, they can kill now. It’s the evil they did that’s hindering their progress.

Genea:
aaaah people are evil… please avoid them o