sounds just like somebody i know. this girl comes, cooks, washes, cleans and at the end bikes home. the shell guy has 2cars and many houses, so money is no stress. anyway, he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches. some guys are just not worth the trouble of catering for them. they turn you to "my property" and expects u to accede to their demands without batting an eyelid. she should be careful, lest she loose the "good one". cheers

do you trust yourself?

you need to exercise caution in what ever you do.

you did right by not retaliating. though it is not easy. the funniest and disheartening thing is that i think for most private firms the bosses there think they are the alpha and omega of their employees so they treat the like in "slave trade". something similar happened in my office a couple of weeks ago, the man threw a stapler and u know what despite the fact that it did not hit me, couldnt hear for 3minutes, wonder what would have happened if i were hit. Do not allow your anger to overide you like it did your boss.

hi,

I love him and he claims to love me too. The problem is he wants me to severe all communication with my friends especially the male, he wants me to visit his aunt everyday even if i'm constrained by cash, fatigue or otherwise. Whatever is my excuse is seen as lies. He compares me with his ex. At any slightest disagreement, he concludes by saying he is tired of the relationship. I've cried too much.

hi oldies,

this is another new member.

You've all been doing a great job on this site.

love u all.

thanks,

I read Secretarial Studies, HND Upper Credit.