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I e-mailed my bf telling him that if he doesn't shape up, I'll leave him. I think it scared him because he wrote back saying sorry blah blah and that he'll promise to change blah blah. Girl, I'm not the one to play with in a relationship.

I'm in a relationship, even though I don't feel like it is a relationship
It's a pain. Always wondering why he doesn't do this or that. Ahhh, how I miss the days when it was just me, myself and I, however, I'm glad I'm back into the dating world. Been alone for 9 years!! I'm hoping that this relationship will last but if it doesn't, I won't break down. After all, I'm use to being alone

Have you tried becoming friends first? The reason why I asked is because most of us girls like to figure out a guy before becoming a couple. Also, if a girl doesn't like you because of your looks, then forget about her, she's not worth your time. (you're cute by the way ) Becoming friends first will give you and her the chance to know more about each other and figure out if this is the person that you want to date. Once you found the right girl and your feelings are telling you "go for it", ask her date, but don't rush into it and don't push her into it.
Good Luck!!