Lovelink1991: You wants to waste the precious time of ladies when you know that they have short of reproduction but can reproduce at anytime. I hope you will agree the same for your sister for another to have fun with
are you not the same same person advocating for women to date for fun...always taking with both sides of the mouth.
if you want to Bleep around pick one side and stay there...if you want relationship be ready for that as well.
but don't say men are wasting women's reproductive years and still sit on the fence.
Hungrychicken: Blue Ivy is the only sane or descent celebrity kid. The way she carries herself with pride and style is beautiful, better than Kanye’s kid and Will smith’s. The latter are just too weird, and do strange things; dress strangely. Ivy is so composed like she's modeled to be queen.
try not to mention Kanye in this...this is all Kim's doing.
he was always against the way Kim was parenting her.
At 13 years old someone's daughter is already piercing every part of her body.
I don't even want to talk about how mature she looks at 13 years old because someone will come and argue with me about nature.
Let kids be kids and enjoy their childhood Some parents say no. Later these kids grow up and end up becoming delinquents to society because they always have a piece of the puzzle missing in their lives and are always struggling and striving to fill that gap.
Not everyone is fit for parenting!
a good number of celebrity kids that also rise to stardom at a very young age often off themselves later in life
mostly due to depression. family pressure to always perform for the camera always...
Oyindamolah: Download gps camera light and turn location setting on your phone
phone keh...if them kidnap person first thing na phone disposal....thats why I said AirTag or other gps devices ...phone no fit help in these kind of situations
Onegai: Please calm down, can I send you information via email?
And offer counseling
Let us step back from the cliff.
Because Divorce is wonderful for lawyers looking for rent money.
2 years mandatory separation, if you want to file before then it will cost more.
N1million-N6million to file (yes, I am not joking, especially if you're in Lagos or Abuja). You will pay for extra like printing and any other documents lawyer needs.
File in High Court, she will be served a month later, she has 30 days to respond and your first court date will be 4 to 6 months after, just for Mentioning.
After that, another month or 2 for Conference (you and your wife will go before the Judge, no lawyers allowed to speak and mediate).
Then another month or 2 after for your trial.
Courts are backed up, so unless she responds back Uncontested, expect to spend 3 years on this matter, some people that got caught during Covid spent 10 years.
Even with no kids, you fit spend 2 years if clerks go on strike and since na high court, I dunno how backed up it will be with election tribunals next year (Political Aspirants pay more so their cases will be heard faster than your inconsequential marital issues, sorry )
Are you fighting for custody? Add an additional year plus you'll pay extra for Child Welfare Officers for the mandatory house and school visit. You need to be financially buoyant because you have to pay Child Support or she can garnish your bank accounts
If you start dating, she can sue you for Adultery and sue your side chic for alienation. Upto N10million, another court case.
Court cases are open, so everyone in court that day (bloggers, other petitioners and anyone who just feels like attending) will be listening to you and her air your very dirty laundry in public. They can write about it too, mentioning your name. Not a crime.
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Oya please drink water, let's talk
Well over 50% of marriages are salvageable and in 5 years time you'll probably feel different.
But if we work on it now, and you give yourself to this process, in 5 years time, I pray I never see you again
Please, let's talk
IF ONE HAS TO GO THROUGH ALL THESE AND DID NOT AT THE BEGINNING WHAT IS THE POINT THEN...
BOTH PARTIES SHOULD JUST HAVE CHILDREN SINCE THAT IS THE MAIN GOAL ANY WAY AND