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andyanders:
Teeshafoods

What is the situation now?I hope your mum is ok? Need to hear from you on the situation report.

Yes my mum is OK. I believe the letter has also gotten to my dad. We are trying to raise money for her to leave. She was also advised to stay off for a while. He comfronted her last night and according to her,he says if she likes she should go to the president of Nigeria,he will make sure she dies. She seem to be laughing it off based on the fact that we have reported and they have given her hope but am scared he will kill her and kill himself too cos he's not scared. OK,he called my sis yesterday to ask how she was doing....he's trying to find out which of his kids is behind this because to him,mummy wouldn't have known how to free herself with the law. I sense he's a bit scared but dosent want to show it. This is the most recent happening. He says he will go ahead and do what he will and we on our part are trying to get her out. He hasn't touched her,just threat. Like I have been saying,I won't wait for the worst to happen before acting. His friends are pleading to let the matter die that they are talking to him. Not friends per say but colleagues. So this is it sir. Am raising something. Am 8months pregnant so its not that easy for me jumping up and down but am trying my best to see that she's out soonest as advised. Love u all

Hannysmilez:
I've been doing this for my kids,I add wheat and milk though. My mum taught me. Thing is,your baby will gain weight and you'd lose weight from carrying him/her.

Ahahahahahaha so true! Omg this got my cracking....

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I also believe that we shall soon see nutrition playing a major role in our healthcare system. A time will come when nutrition will have to be considered as a factor in all disease and a time when natural supplements will replace many drugs. Hopefully, in the future, every baby will have his or her own individualised nutrition programme, based on biochemical individuality. This would help to establish the optimal health possible for the genetic disposition of the baby, and prevent future degenerative disease.

Until then, it should be our responsibility to make sure that our babies are given the best possible nutritional start in life - at least a year of optimal eating for the mother-to-be before conception is envisaged whenever possible. I have outlined below some quality nutritional grains and animal protein for weaning for a 6month-old baby on a mixed diet.

Crayfish
Dryfish
Groundnut
Millet
Guinea corn
Soya beans

We have neatly processed these together in powdered form to make your baby very chubby and healthy. This is the best weaning food ever. Why not give it a try?we have packaged it in 5kg and 10kg only so result is seen as soon as it finishes. No doubt,babies can't reject this and we assure you,there is no other food better than this....we are AFRICANS and our foods work for us better. We have been lied to by importers because they want to sell. We have been sold baby food to yet we don't see the result of what they are talking about. Imported foods floods the market yet no one is asking whether truly these foods work?

Wake up! This has been ON for a while but the method of preparation has pushed mothers to opt for the easy made foods....don't worry! I am here for you.

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eyesofgod:
Does your product have the required certification?

No not yet. We are on the NAFDAC issue. Although I hear it takes months but we have started the process since 3weeks now.

doveJfj:
Teeshafoods
how's yr mum's health?
The lord restores peace to yr family.

She's OK sir. Thank u so much. Amen and amen!

andyanders:
Let her tell you what she told them. Understand that this is now a legal matter so that your statements don't differ.

Let her open up and tell the world what she has been passing through. Relationship is not a Do or Die affair. If it is not working out, go your separate ways. Keep us updated.

Yes she has told me. Sorrry for the late response. A letter has been written to his office already but I can't say if he has been summoned yet. Mum told me he has been calm anyway. I will update you all soon.

andyanders:
Glad to hear that. Tell your mum to speak out and say the truth because her life is at stake. Anybody that is after her life must die for her to be alive.

A man born by another woman cannot take your mother's life. As far as they are not legally married and even they are, he has no right over her life.

Make sure that this man is brought back to his senses and that any steps to take the life of this woman, his own life MUST be taken away too in same manner.

Let him understand now that she has people and that people she got is us, the public. He figured he can eat his cake and have it. That time is gone. We are in another generation.

A woman MUST be respected and not to be abused. Maybe, his father abused his mother, that was her mother and not this woman.

Uhmmm thanks so much anders.......words can't express how grateful I am. She's actually speaking. I don't know what she said and she didn't tell me but am sure she answered correctly.

andyanders:
You can still try to contact Human Rights Crusader Joe Odumakin on this issue and as a woman, she will have this issue taken up and even aired. Never give up 'Teeshafoods'

God bless you real good. We were there today. I was interviewed seperately though. Mum was with another woman while I was in another room with another woman. I was asked series of questions and asked to provide a recording either video/audio as evidence. We are still on it though. Details later. Am a bit relieved........

andyanders:
And may God Almighty bless you and yours immensely. We all need each other because we are brothers and sisters. Each and everyone of us came to this world through a woman hence we cannot/should not neglect any woman because they are our mothers.

Some men tend to be acting as if they were not brought to this world through a woman hence they act like animals.

No matter how a woman got you provoked, take a walk and know that they are the weaker sex. Some men look at women as if they are not supposed to be while not knowing that same woman you look down on, can decide to kill you without any form of any trace linking her.

This part of the world, women tend to be looked down on and treated like animal. Therefore, this is the time to fight for their right. The abuse of women these days is getting out of hand. Our legal system is not working as corruption has taken over their practice.

You see a father molesting his female child and nothing is been doing to put away such men away from the society.I am advocating for a life sentence for pedophiles and rapists in this country.Most women are going through pain in their respective homes and they are not speaking out. People should encourage them to speak out because the end result of their silence is the deaths we are having now.

Uhmmm insightful. He's been calm sir......I confirmed from sources. All his raging like an animal has reduced in the last 24hrs....people who I never imagined has viewed this post. Some sense is entering him now. I know it won't last though.......we have started work on getting him already. I was at Femi falanas office today and mum is going with me tomorrow. Making progress! Will keep you all informed.

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Thanks dear, we intend to do all that for her. She needs medical help. The best I did was to get her RUZU herbal bitters which made her sleep well but he still forcefully opens her door at night and even with sleepy eyes,she's made to sleep outside in the midst of mosquitoes. I remember I used to protect my mum so much before I got married. I had fought with my dad before that he took a lamp and hit on my head,I bled seriously on my head and mum was crying. I was rushed to the hospital and the following day,I went with my mum to make a report. What did the police say?that how will I lift my hands to fight my own father?I was so insulted,I felt bad. He has always been saying it that he's waiting for us all to get married then he will show my mum who he is. He has hammered so much on the suckaway at the back of our house. He has taken my sis to show her the place and that he's waiting for us all to go first. For a man to boast openly that the law can't do him anything....he seems so sure he's doing the right thing. I know my mum's brain has been shrinked...I know and it pains me so much but I wish I can help so she comes to live with me for a while till we can get her a place. You see,am always remembering this as I type,this experience has been ON since we were younger.....as young as 6years of age. All of my siblings have something to say. When we gather to talk,we all burst into tears. We have seen mum in blood many times. We don't concentrate in class cos we want to run home to see if dad is beating mum. Its not that he beats her when she does something,no,he just beats her. He finds excitement in it. He will gather us and sit us down telling us to watch and he will beat her in our presence but what can we do,we were so young and can't hold him. Truly,she would have died a long time ago but God kept her for a reason. Am crying now....I can't contain this. Someone help me drag her out. Its not a problem going to that address being given,we need an excort who will make them attend to us. All I want is for military men to go there with an order that she packs her stuffs and he mustnt touch her while doing that. That's all!!!!!....he had locked her out MANY times and if people say he should at least take a wrapper,he dosent agree.....he dosent....see my family?pls.....I will go there but my mind tells me this stories are too long to take immediate action. Let me catch some sleep pls.

OK. Thank you anders. Yes he knows about the mistress. According to him,they have severally cautioned him and told him he's going the wrong path. Uhmmm....am not out to even hide any secrets here. They have been ON for a long time. The so-called woman came to my wedding. He invited her. She was also at my younger sis wedding too but we never knew until recently when talks came out. Remember I said neighbors called me to tell me things when I first cried out on this post. This and many more is one of the gist I heard. She came in company of her friends and when it was time for mum and dad to dance,she was really uncomfortable. People were pacifying her. Even one of my flower girls told me about it months after my wedding that didn't I see what's going on after I confided in her of what mum is going through. I told her how is it possible I know what's going on,its my wedding and over excited. She went as far as sharing stuffs. Infact people saw everything but we the family didn't know or suspect anything,we though everyone is a guest. When I and the man got talking,he told me he knew everything but how is it possible he told us or my mum when it looks as though the home is going well. The painful part of all theses is that,my dad was jobless for almost 6years,frustrated and drained,it was my mum who got the job for him in the company he currently works. We stood by him all through but now that he has money,he flirting with everything skirt. Can u see how deep this matter is?The day he was called for an interview,I was the one who borrowed money to get him a haircut,new clothes and shoes and even transport money. We transported him all through till he got his salary which of course he spent on us. But what's with molesting domestic staffs and telling them he will make their lives better if they date him?that he will rent a house for them?What's with molesting my own housemaid who I told to go stay with mum alongside my mum. The girl told me she took a bottle and threathened to break it on his head if he touches her again. Can u just imagine? What I detect from all of these is that the man in his office dosent support his activities. He says the women he's even making passes at are casual workers like cleaners,messengers who are less priviledged and he's using his position to lure them to bed. He's not even hiding it. A lady by name Rachael called my mum and explained activities at his work place that with it she dosent even greet him anymore. My mum knows many more of what am typing yet she's still there. I asked her yesterday evening what she's hiding and she said she's not hiding anything. My sis was there when I asked. And I told her I won't interfere anymore that am being blamed. She pleaded we stood by her but I made it clear I can't help her if she remains silent and dosent leave there. As for getting her a place,I wish I can,I am just not financially bouyant at this point and hubby is paying off debts monthly so my bsiness is what's sustaining us for now. I wish I have the means,am sure she will go. We talked on it,she said she's not go enough to rent a house that she's now willing to go so we are stuck now. Sir, how long will I have this bad feeling for my dad even after mum is out of there?I feel HATE and disgust!!!! Am embarrassed!

Psoul:
Ok...but i need her permission. Once obtained, i will let u know. I may need a phone line or email to forward it.

Please do convince her to. 08027853057...that's my number. Let her give me a call.

andyanders:
Amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. I am already putting you, your mum and family members in prayers. I feel your pain, I understand what it means to have a mother and to know what women pass through in bringing up children. Only a madman would wanna kill his wife.

Take her for medical check up as I know that her condition of the blood flow is as a result of the trauma of the abuse she is passing through, though I do not trust such a man as he could turn fetish and do some kind of bad things.

I hate men who abuse women and children and the society should stand and defend them. Our legal system is one of the worst and I pray that this is taken care of in our society.

Infact I am very grateful for the likes of you who has taken time to follow through this case. I wish I know who you are really. Issues arising daily but I thank God she's scaling through. I am to see her again today. Am going to pick my kids from school. I am going to her this evening. Will come back here if anything comes up but am sure something came up because she called me this morning that he disconnected her room light,removed the ceiling fan and disconnected the tap that runs water to her bathroom. All these signs are telling her to go. He has taken a few of her clothes and burnt it too. Well,that man in his office told he he has a mistress in their company and am sure that one is doing somethings.............oh my God,I don't even know whether to laugh or cry.

OK. I have read and understood your concern. I pray God won't make me guilty in the end. I still have those numbers shared here. I will resume calling and if possible go there to explain my plight. I pray this is settled once and for all so I can go treat my mum. Honestly,I now feel OK. Mum was in my house visiting and we resumed talks on the matter. Do we know she now bleeds without control even if its not her period. Like the woman with the issue of blood. She's been on it for 3 weeks now. She says when he starts his madness,she just feels blood dripping down her legs and it continues for a long time till he dosent talk to her again. Looks like am loosing this woman. I will do something. Looking at her,I wanted her to stay with me. I asked her why she's going back home and she says its not right for her to be with me in my husbands house and again what example is she showing us if she leaves that marriage is for better for worse that she knows the extent Dad can go and he's been on it for years so if he wanted to matchet her,he would have. My brain almost came out of my head.........anyways,I will add prayers,talks and action to the issue. I know one day,I know I will sing and song and tell a story with songs of praise.........

Psoul:
I saw this on a friend's Facebook Wall and feel it's good to let other know of this. Read her post below;

Good day ladies and gentlemen, trust our day is going on well. Just to alert us on what we just found in a Chivita small sized tetra pack and advise us to be more vigilant on what we take in from none transparent juice packs or what we pack in our children's lunch bags to school . someone just opened the pack now and started drinking until she noticed a black substance in her mouth.

She pulled out the straw and we were astonished as to what we saw and decided to look further, low and behold, we saw fungi in the juice pack. She didn't notice the anomaly on time because the drink was a bit frozen.the pictures below show what we saw in the Chivita Orange juice pack size of 250ml. Mind you, the expiry date says 31st September 2016. This is so sad.

We cannot vouch for our quality control system in some manufacturing lines in our country anymore.

Please dear,can I have the contact or facebook name of this person?This matter has gone viral and authorities with Nafdac are interested. Need a reply asap!

OK. Am driving now to pick my kids from school. Will be back soon to go through your comments again.

charytea:
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Ever since I published this,I have been in constant communication with my mum. I never left her for a second. A man in his office saw this,am so very sure he read this on nairaland and he called me. He pleaded that I let this matter die and keep praying for my parents. Please how does one pray in a situation like this?Just last week,a woman was killed by her husband and it went viral on the net and I kept saying silently,"God,I reject this for my mum"....everyone is of the opinion that if she had left that abusive marriage,she would have been alive. Now,I don't even know what to do. The man who called was telling me that why is it now he will decide to kill her?why haven't he killed her since they were together 38/39 years?and I wondered,yes! He had the opportunity to do so when we we're younger. Oh I witnessed one kick he gave her,I was 8years or so,that kick sent my mum to heaven......it was on her chin. I remember crying that day but was helpless,no one came to help her and she didn't die. Maybe truly,there is something we don't know BUT what would make a woman stay with a man,one eyes closed everyday?This woman am saying is about to complete her own building.....Even when he heard she was building which she didn't tell him when she commenced said in front of us that the minute she steps there,its her dead body that will be brought out and my sis who just finished her youth service was stunned......she called me to tell me and I told her there's no love in that "marriage" anymore. My hands are tied. The very people telling me to do something to stop this once and for all are now backing out. My mum isn't making it easy to help her yet she runs to my house when the heat is ON. Its me she calls everyday crying on phone. Why don't u just leave there mummy?what are you doing there?a man disrespects you so much,dosent care for you,Beats you at 52,treats you like you have bo family......don't u see women living alone in other states?they ran!!! Mummy they ran..... What have I not said?yet in the end it looks like am trying to end her so called marriage with him. I just happen to love her so much to see her hurt but at this point,I need to now face my life. Thanks to all who are involved in this fight one way or the other,God bless you!

Thank you all so much for this. God bless. Well,I knew it would come to this at last. My sis is tired and isn't interfering anymore. I have to lay low too. Thanks for all and God bless.

About a month ago,she called to ask me if I was home at about 8:45pm,I said yes then she said she's in front of my gate that I should come open. My husband was home so I didn't know how to explain to him that mum will sleep here tonight. He's a good man who will never stop his inlaws from visiting or staying one or two days...but I just have to say something and explain why she's here. I went to open and she came with just wrapper,nothing.....I almost cried,I knew its daddy again. All I heard was "can I sleep her tonight?" And i was like no problem. I took her in and gave her food,she slept like a baby. At midnight,I went to wake her up to ask what happened and what I heard brought tears to my eyes and I sent my dad a text message....a very bad one which led to my publishing this online. I told him I will make sure Nigerians get involved.....



So many many many things....I believe the man is going insane...he does abnormal things. I have even gone spiritual and was told my mum has done nothing to deserve what she's getting but he's the one with the problem. All I need is for her to get out of there and if possible,compensated!.....

I thought towards that line too. It was even friends who brought it to my attention. Sometime in 2003,I called her to ask if there was something we needed to know because we feel we are interfering too much on their issue. I really can't remember her response to me. I remember asking in 2008,she said she was told that if she leaves him,he will die. And then am like,why not let him die?is it that you still love him despite all he has done and is doing?He has done many things and when we explain to people,you the victim will keep mute. When I went to report a case where he punched her eyes and she bled on one part,they asked that I bring you,I did and when you were asked questions you were mute throughout and I felt so stupid to myself. Asides from what he does to my mum,he hurt us all the children. He has really hurt me physically and emotionally. Word that can't heal,it replays everyday in my brain. I saw men differently,it even took the grace of God to marry the man and currently married to cos I was demoralized. I didn't see any good in a man,I didn't feel I needed a man for anything. Recently,just recently,my househelp went with my 3 year old son to go live with my parents,I asked them to go there during the easter break so as to help mum with one or two things while she plays with her grandson,do you know he almost molested that 15 year old girl?She never told me but I found out later when I asked that she took something to my mum and she told me she can't go because of daddy,I even thought he wanted to beat her or something,I never knew they had a struggle and she took a bottle threathening to break his head before he left her. Am hurt,am deeply hurt. Am so sad am explaining this but the more I do,the more am lighter. I felt so ashamed. Mum heard too but was silent. Did I mention in previous posts that he molests her workers?they don't come home again to give mom key to her shop,they drop it somewhere. Even the woman who washes mummys clothes complained of being lured to come cook rice in the kitchen and he grabbed her from behind. How can 4-5 people be saying the same thing?? Before I got married,I was home one day when a woman came in through our sitting room,I was stunned,what's she looking for?she saw me and turned back so I passed through our back door and blocked her at the gate,I really questioned her and she was practically shaking......I kept asking who she was looking for and she told me its a mistake that she meant to go to the other compound.....then dad came out and told me to let her go that next time we should lock the gate,I neve suspected they had an arrangement until later and I couldn't tell my mum. Am tired

andyanders:
well, it is not right to put your mums number here and as the situation is, nobody is gonna call her. I cannot even call myself cus it is not right. I think you earlier mentioned that you have taken her out? Well, he is still her husband and she may have her reasons why she would wanna stay with him. She knows what is best for her.Since they are legally married, she has answers to everything.

If she want to stay with him, well it is left for her and that is it.

So take care,

I just wish I can explain. Not that she's happy there,she wants him to kill her. She said it several times. Yes,we took her to my aunt but somehow she went back there. Yesterday according to neighbors,he took a cutlass and chased her round the neighborhood,people went to call the police but it was too late(11:45pm) for any arrest. I know what am saying,it may not be right but mum says if her death will come by him,let him do it. A staff of his company called me to tell me they are taking action to pull her out. Her mum is on a hospital bed as I speak. No one knows what else to do as it seems they want to break them but Daddy wants her out for real. My elder bro in the UK is coming home because of this issue,its no longer news. They are not legally married according to mummy,its just a pregnancy that led to other pregnancies in his house. These fights didn't just start,I have witnesses firsthand violence for as long as I can remember. Wayback 1992,I recall many things although we were young and couldn't help much but I remember things that affected my brain till today. We run out to call neighbors who come to the rescue but if u go to call them next time,they won't come. We have made several complaints in the past 6 years to police stations and we are all back to square one at the end. She's the quiet type,everyone loves her. My dad has no friends but mum is a lover of all. During my wedding, people travelled far and near just to help out because of mum. Comments everywhere that she's a good woman and deserves the best. During my sisters wedding too,same thing. No one shows up if its dad doing anything......See,I know this issue is somehow but should I because she dosent want to go leave her to die?What have we not done?we have begged...even people from his workplace have begged her to just go n stay somewhere for a while as the beatings is too much but all falls on deaf ears. She says she wants him to kill her finally after destroying her health how will she cope when she's out. He has broken her jaw,once in a while her eye just turns red for no reason,she dosent have attreaties but her leg will just suddenly pain her and we will be running about for her sake just to save her. Whenever she travels,I can bet that he dosent want her back alive. One day some years ago,she went to visit her mum and we overhead daddy ranting somethings in his room that she should die by accident and leave his house. When she came back,he beat daylight out of her. My brother challenged him to a fight and he hit his chest,till today my brother can't breathe well. We are four in number,no one calls him. The reason we are seen around his house is because our mum is there if not we don't want to have anything to do with him. My kid sis ran to me with all her belongings recently that daddy says if he comes from work to meet her,he will burn her alive. How many do I want to write? But if putting her num here for Nigerians to help me talk sense into her won't work,then no problem. I wish u feel my pain.

andyanders:
What is the situation now and the steps taken so far nd how is your mother doing?

Here is my mums number. 08071347064 Please Nigerians help me beg Mrs Tinuke Olugbemi to have mercy on her kids and leave my dad. Pls

andyanders:
Stop saying that 'Am praying,even now,that this night will not be her last night'You guys owe her a duty to see she is ok. You guys need to act as you said you have taken her out.

For now, you guy's should stay off to where he cannot locate you guys until you have taken care of the situation.

May God help you guys.

Thanks sir

AUTOCRATIC:
that means you were able to get through to one of the numbers

I guess she was able to. She didn't get to see anyone of significance to listen to her. We have called all the numbers here and the one in abeokuta asked that my mother comes down to make a complain. We are still on it and I know all will go well. Thanks

andyanders:
Hope all is well and your mother doing well? Take good care of her cus you cannot have another mother like her and too, put her and your father in your prayers for God to take control.

Good evening. I spoke with her this afternoon. I haven't spoken to my dad for a very long time. We his children are not in good terms with him so he dosent ask of us. Thanks for your help. Am praying,even now,that this night will not be her last night.

Newway2:
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Happywoman:
Lalastically wonderful
Pls do the needful

Yes maam,we are on it.

AUTOCRATIC:
How far have you gone,,,,,, let others learn from here.... Their are others who can not speak out but when they are able to see outcome of similar case they can be encouraged. Feed us back

My sister isn't back yet,she's still there.