₦airaland Forum

MrBachelor:
Tell her you are not ready for a relationship at the moment, but you are happy to be friends with her.

thank you, this is a subtle approach

Hacks4dummies:
oya tell her say Yiu no like her

I'm looking for a way to say it politely

benqo01:
No sexual talk, make una still dey communicate Sha no love talk, sex talk, money talk just random

thanks, I hope it goes well with her

goodamerican:
Commend her boldness in letting you know and be equally honest with her that you're not looking for any relationship right now and that you wish her good luck in finding the right person for her. You don't have to force yourself to be in a relationship you don't want to be in (you probably don't feel the same way and that's okay) or that you're not ready for. Keep exchanging greetings on a friendly level when you run into her, then keep it moving.

thanks man,, I'll probably still be greeting her but I'm not sure she'd return the favor once I tell her I'm not ready for a relationship, this girl's ego is top notch, I'm even surprised she got guts to confess

imagrg:
It's rare to find a girl like this.
Oh boy, you will always get it for free whenever you want totow.

Please don't turn her down even if you don't need a relationship. Tell her you appreciate her offer but that for now, you want it to start on a platonic platform.

yeah,, I'll try something like this,i mean the starting slowly part, but it would have been more easier if I didn't like her a Lil bit in the first place

Nonywendy:
simp forming redpiller

i never claimed to be any of em

Gerardo88:
Just give her the chance, allow her to help shape you at least to be opening up to her...... Cus u may one day regret if u reject her. Give in, if u see harm u can later leave.... I believe The feeling's real, but as an introverted soul if u give in ND u see harm u will know ND then u can leave

you know these things but the thing is I don't want any commitments right now, ever since she told me yesterday for example, that's what I've been thinking about all through out the night, see say distraction has already started

Lonestar124:
Crushing Ko, crushing nii the moment you eat her kitten, that crunshness in your eyes will disappear....

A girl open her mouth tell you she love you in first discussion you have with her, and you can't read the handwriting on the wall..Chai!!!!

Op, if you can smoke, smoke, if you can drink, drink and eat cumcunber to absorb the smell of it in your mouth, that is before meeting her tomorrow, tell her you will be preparing a dinner for her tomorrow night, she should come and visit you in your hostile, after the dinner, don't fail to dine with her in your bed aftermath come back and thank me here...

i don already start to thank you sef, I told you I don't want a relationship, it would distract me

Allison012:
Look,toast the girl.but never tell her, you like her.just make sure you end the conversation well. no sexual talk o,if not,u don offend her be that.


but we introverts, we dey suffer inside abeg.

i dey tell you bro , what if she asks me what I feel for her?

Hacks4dummies:
Op accept her, You Arrow

i said I'm not ready for a relationship

MrBrownJay1:
reject her politely and let some other brotha chop that sweet thing.

you know girls na, probably she won't talk to me again

buttlover:
run anytime you see her coming from afar. do this for days. if she didn't check up on you in your room, forget her. she wan use you catch cruise.

i never really thought of this possibility, say she just wan use me catch cruise, girls sha

Othority:
Men encourage ladies to open up and tell their feelings to guys, but the same men, 9 out of 10 times, reject to date them.

really? I thought guys normally jump on the slightest opportunity to date girls

Allison012:
see op,i swear what happened to you has happened to me.exactly as you talk am. even me i don't wanna date the girl and don't wanna offend her.


the day i killed that thing called introvertness in me,i toast this girl sotay she no understand herself.


another terrible thing is,this girl is living rent-free in my head.but i don't want to date her.

you know am bro, I don't know how I'll stylishly tell her that I'm not interested in a relationship

jedaii:
tell her you dont have time. And even though you care about her, its just on your time frame and see her reply.

thank you, I'll try this

Danbukason:
You communication with her should be platonic and not erotic/sexual. Not all friends are meant to date each other.
If the feelings is one side, pant go shift be that oo

yes thank you, but what could I possibly tell her tomorrow?

Crowwejihadist:
Baba don fall in love. leave story!!

love? even though it's true, I don't want a relationship oo

Good evening nairalanders, something just happened in my hostel, I'm an introvert, though I always tell myself that it's my choice because really I see girls as distractions that would slowly eat you up, moreover I barely have time for myself talk less of another person.
So to the issue, there's this pretty girl in my hostel (yes I admitted she's pretty ) though I hold her in high standards (maybe crush if you wish to interpret) but I'd never wanted to date her or anyone else for that matter, she's gentle, composed unlike many girls around.
we usually exchange pleasantries anytime we see and that's all, we've never had any conversation, today is just terrible and I wish it never happened. Today her friend called me, the three of us sat outside and her friend started talking to me, me and the other girl didn't talk to each other, few minutes later, her friend left leaving only me and her and boom it happened, let me not get into details ,she told me she likes me. I laughed and pretended as if she was joking but she said she wasn't. I told her I was very tired, that tomorrow I'll see her, I left her outside.
Now it's either tomorrow I rebuke her feelings or I accept ,I don't want to be in a relationship but I don't want to offend her either, we see each other everyday, now no matter what, it would never go back to the way it was when we walk pass each other, please I need your advice on how to reject her politely.

I think you got this wrong, you are one of the rare ones, that's just it, in this era I don't think there are a lot of girls around who would choose love over money, so guys just use that as a leverage over them

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ok thank you

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Sweetvie:
Lol... I hear o

did it

AishaDant:
Op, you should have added a picture of yourself so we can know if you are lying or just day dreaming...

just did

israelp:
nor go to there...even in 100yrs u won't get shishi

ok thank you

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