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look! it s obvious Obama will not and cannot win! the white majority will vote Clinton in, the stir obama is causing is due to his charismatic personality, poeple like obama are only setting the ground for a black president in the future, a very distant future

hey mooni, just wondering wassup with u, finally told my girl what happened and she s amazed at the coincidence, we ve resolved whatever issues we had, and i just remembered u, thanks and goodluck

another case of common ordinary micro-evolution, same stuff that happens when bacteria adpats to some deug and becoms resistant
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hi nooni
i dont think ure my gf either, obviously some mix up, but ur situation with ur bf is so suprisingly similar to mine that i ll try to use u to undertsytand and get thru to her. i calld her a few minutes ago and she assured me she didnt post anything on the internet. shes never even heard of nairaland. however,
1. i do try to carry her along, however since im not telepathic i can only be aware theres a problem if she communicates that fact to me
2. she s aware of almost all im going thru at the moment, men also need some support
3. i apologised (almost to the point of death 4 forgetting her bday and even tho im aware tht most women take stuff like tht very seriously, im reaaly at a loss at what to do next on that issue
4. if she doesnt realise tht i love her now, she ll never realise it, my so called shortcomings came the fore recently when i started to spend most of my time managing my business, there are nice ways of letting ur bf know youre unhappy with a relationship without hurting his pride. and i dont think the fact that u guys dont go out anymore is strictly his responsibility, why dont u suggest places 4 u guys to go?, except hes totally unwilling to go out with u.

moni u really sound like my gf and i really love her a lot, i guess both of u are very similar people. y dont u hit me up on yahoo so tht we can chat? id really like to undertsand her better thru you, cheerio and goodluck wiht ur bf

people!!!!!!
i apologfis if my tone was harsh, i was quite upset when i read the post, i cant imagine y she would post stuff abt us on nairaland instead of discussing it with me, also i want to set some issues staright

1. i did buy her a bday present, however i ve been out of town on business 4 over a month and we havnt seen each other, when we do see , i ll give her her present, i wonder y she just assumes i hav no gift 4 her simply because i didnt metion it or send it thru sm1, i actually wanted it to be a suprise, like give her smthng when she least expects it, and i expected thtt if she was upset abt it she d tell me instead of coming to nairaland!!
2. i really cant afford to take her out to places we are used to going AT PRESENT!! cos as she knows ALL the moni i make is going into a project
3. i dont see y she cant suggest tht we go out and foot the bills especially when she knows exctly what im diverting my funds for, she s not xctly broke, shes got a very good job
4. i actually apologise to her if i havnt been paying her as much attention as b4, i m not doing it because ive lost interest in her, its just that my business is still in an immature, fast evolving phase and its demanding all my energy rerserves, both physical and emotional!
5. if i sounded nasty in my 1st post it s because i was upset tht she harbored such sentriments against me and didnt even hint me, please read her post and imagine you re her bfriend, there are some facts u ll discover that will hurt you a little

i also strongly object to some posts on this thread that used insulting words on me, thers no need 4 that. please learn not to judge ok? remember the saying that goes, pluck out the log of wood in your eyes before,

@above
lol
really muslims can be so inferior!

hi guys
the lady sounds suspiciously like my girlfriend!,,,, the story is practically identical to mine, like in the story, my girl and i are of different religious backgrounds,
like in the story, i 4got her bday and promised to make it up to her blablabla
like in the story , i have been quite stingy of late, however, i have what i regard as a reasonable explanation, if the story is ACTUALLY about me!

1st of all i must say im suprised at the no. of ladies who insist on her dumping me simply because she thinks im stingy!!!!!

i am REALLY busy becos like she said im trying to setup a business of my own and as im also tryng to pull tremendous resources 2gether i can no longer afford to take her out 4 dinner and movies for now!!! i really need every penny i have to set up a business bc even tho she and i both have reasonable paying jobs,, i d really love to be a lil more finacially secure in a marraige.
YES!!!!! I did momentarily forget her bday!!! I ADMIT IT!!!!!! ok is she going to kill me now? but i calld as soon as i remembered, im not proud about it but im a sort of 1 track minded person.
I havent given her a bday gift simply because I AM OUT OF F, G TOWN!!!!!!
as soon as we get to be 2gether, i ll give her something!!!! yes, even if its chewing gum!!!!

The problem with most ladies is tht they think falling in love is all about peaches and cream! when we get married , guess whos gonna have to pay the bills

and if youre getting bored because i no longer take you out then, what do u xpect me to do? go find someome who will! i really cant even afford to spend as much money as i do on credit everyday (well nearly everyday) but i do. im putting myself thru such tremendous pressure simply because of you and i! the only reason y i dont take you out baby is because i CANT!, the last time we went out to the movies i had to borrow the moni, which i have just paid back!

REmemebr what i gave u last bday?
remember what i gave u 4 xmas?
so if i wasnt stingy back then , isnt it likely tht theres a justifiable reason 4 my apparent stinginess now?

Regard to the religious thingy, its strictly between u and i, if we can live with it fine! if not, fine!

I really hope im the person in question on this thread, or else i just wasted an hour i should have spent working
Cheers folks!