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is work bringing you here? whats your contact?

@ Snokky- I know we are like ants - all over the place.

@ Phuck_NL, Where did u get ur quote from, me i havent heard dat one before o. LOL, but i get ur jist, the be say, Naijas are everywhere sha; dey really gats to be killing them if they are not in a certain place

SWEET, what is the name of the church you are discussing here. I currently attend word of life church and it is a pretty popular pentecostal church here. Could there be some naijas there? Can I get some contact from you? Thanks

It is not my fault o, It is work o, I dont want to be here myself except for a shorterm basis like vacation,but my job transferred me here, and only oyibos i see all over d place, No african store sef, so I might not be able to even eat naija food a long time. To buy naija ingredients online sef is hard because they said the postal system here is bad. It takes months to get stuff because of the Ocean and all. I dont know o

Hello:

I recently moved to Oahu and I am looking to meet Nigerians around here. I have been here for about 2 months and looking to make friends - male, female, haemophrodite. LOL>, just any naija person sha. Thanks

@POSAKOSA1, LOL @ American Citizenship. I am not an American citizen o. Not at all. But thanks to all u guys, dat was funny POSAKOSA1. But I am not even sure I should be in a relationship with this condition sef. I think I just needed an outlet and Nairaland provided that.

I still have things planned for my future, so I would hope that I am not a complete desperado. LOL/ I feel a bit better after venting a bit, but I think I will just work on getting myself together and just go where the wind blows. I dont want to be one of those girls that get taken advantage of, I will enjoy the opportunities God has given me to travel and see the world.

@ aisha2, thanks a bunch for your encouragement. I will look into doing what you have recommended.

@MrLoverMan, i just sent u an email.

I love this site already and I just joined - thank you guys for all your encouragement. Things can just feel so hard sometimes.

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Thanks a lot, i shld be here till end of April - at least that what my boss says. Where are u located, and what type of IT consulting did u do? How did u get out of it?

@ MrLoverMan Well i didnt date them as a joke, it was serious, but things did not go well. I have always preferred Nigerian men, but as time went by, I noticed I had to settle for someone I liked around me given that I am usually in locations where there arent Nigerians. I would hope to be in a place like MD or NJ or TX, but it is not possible for now since it is hard to even consider changing jobs because of the economy - I am also on a work visa so I am stuck to my company till i get my Green Card.

No I am not at work. It is 1.40 AM in Hawaii.,

@debest, I totally understand your point, I just hope it all works out at the end

@ debest,
thanks, I will try to keep an open mind, but I just worry about my parents and all- that.
I certainly hope that I do not come off as desperate with all these crap,
Things are just so difficult sometimes - I am here all by myself - well, I will try to make new friends, but Hawaii is so diffrent
most ppl here are simply here on vacation or taking time off to relax and then they go back to the mainland. Ah well,

I will keep praying

Hawaii would probably be tons of fun if I werent in this condition. It is pretty with lots of beaches and pretty shops and people

yes, please I need help with all those questions you have mentioned

Problem is his job carries him around as well - he is currently out of the country (US) and would be back in 3 weeks. We just met and i am worried that his affection for me might wane fast with all the travel he does and also because we had spent only 2 weeks getting to know each other before I left for Hawaii. My parrents are also disturbing a lot and its not like I could go force myself on a guy. Not like there are any Nigerians in Hawaii sef. I asked some ppl around and they say there are some families and they are mostly military. So I am guessing these are married men and their families.

I dont date only Oyibo men - I prefer naija guys like I have stated. I have dated nigerian guys too, but it is hard to find them in Hawaii where I am right now. anyways, I needed a place to vent

I am not understanding your question. I certainly havent found the man of my dreams.

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