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that school is just for those who can't pass JAMB. i've lectured them before and to my amazement, most of the KIDS can't think rationally.

anyway, if u want to know what they are like after school, just head to any night club in VI/IKOYI/IKEJA omo u go see die.
the authorities are'nt makin the students to 'practice what they preach'.

to me, this expulsion is a show biz.

@ poster

u get a job, u get married ok. then u get another job, u get married again ok.
^{just thinking}

what happens when u get out of a job? u get out of marriage . it's all good.

advice is: try to develop urself. look everyone has a good degree in geo(whatever) even a better one than u. there is competition out there. instead of being this desperate ^{(posting cv and pictures of u in a car)} channel this energy into developing urself. c'mon stop bragging about being smart or intelligent.u r still too young and have enough time to develop urself.

_{i don tire sef. use ur head now}

try lady in red

@poster r u perfect?

if u r perfect, u will have a partially perfect relationship

if ur partner is also perfect then certainly u will have a perfect relationship

_{*does this really exist?*}

lol

@poster

if we don't look at you, u ladies will feel bad i.e. u feel as if u r not attractive enough. it's natural even though u may deny his, but i'm very sure ladies appreciate been looked at.

calender

SOMALIA: try this place and get value for ur money.

[quote author=gabe_logan link=topic=145719.msg2422762#msg2422762 date=1214476448]@ templa

u are being unnecessarily religious. the madman see wetin e like thats why he went after them. afterall they say men think with their dicks and not their heads, so it was his privates thinkin then because as he is mad, his head definately can't think properly.[/quote]guy, atleast i believe in God.

r u saying that since men think with their dicks [b](i no follow, cos i dey think with my brain)[/b]and in this case a mad man is thinking with his dick,  all men can be said to be mad?

may be we should also research on how to prevent a mad man from identifying these ladies

@ poster

u and ur friend need spiritual deliverance cos that mad man is possessed by a spirit. the spirit in him has seen something in both of u that has attracted it.

sincerely speaking u need to be delivered or better still get closer to God. the way things are going, it's not normal.

@ poster

another word

Memi:
Hi Samix I'm sorry to hear of your pain, but I must tell you I think she was already seeing this person , smoking is something that most people do not like , but its something you will endure if you love your partner and you see that their trying hard to quit, She didn't even know you were smoking no one is that good. She already was seeing this person and she used your smoking as an excuse , because she was a coward and couldn't tell you the truth. Right now what you need to do is pray and ask God to heal your hurt, you can't lose focus and not get through school its hard enough as it is , but if you get behind it will be even harder, Another woman will come along and love you for you and if she hates that you smoke she will help you to quit but with love and patience,

@ poster
word

this story is quite in complete.
what have u done to her?
did u sleep with her?
if no, then why has she suddenly decided to "brave the wildest sea" when she had the opportunity to "prevail over this storm".
anyways, my advice is that you don't need any advice cos u r not a kid.

@ post

no shaking

@ abyodune

open ur eyes wide enough cuz the button is right in front of u on the right hand side i.e. new topic

@poster

do u mean u guys had sex in his family house?

i mean where the hell does this ur guy f***

and who was looking 4 peeping Toms

this thread is not for the[b] MENTALLY LAZY[/b]. abeg.

my grand mum told me "neva be the first to call names"

@ all

thread not for cybercafe people but 4 guys at home.

also thread for the mentally alert.

Why Nice Guys Finish Last


Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky guy -- the one who barely appears interested in the girl -- is usually the one who gets the girl?
Have you suffered from hearing the words, "You're a really nice guy, but I only like you as a friend," from a woman who you would do (or may, in fact, have already done) just about anything and everything for -- only to turn around and watch her date (or even chase) a guy who treats her like she's nothing special? And are you stumped wondering why she would date a guy who treats her like that when she could have you who would treat her like a princess and give her everything she wants? Well, you better brace yourself because I'm going to tell you a couple of secrets that you might not want to hear.

First, "nice" equates with boring and predictable. Look up "nice" in the dictionary and you find: pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory. In other words, average -- not exceptional, not exciting, and not sexy.I'll bet you've never heard a woman say she didn't want to date a guy because he was too confident, too passionate, or too exciting -- have you? But, I'll bet you have heard women say things like, "He's such a nice guy. He's so sweet and he's always there for me, but I only like him as a friend." Or, "He's such a good guy -- kind, thoughtful, generous, honest, loyal -- but there's no chemistry. He just doesn't turn me on." Sadly, I hear it all the time. The fact is, Mr. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you. And as obvious as that sounds, if you are one of those guys I described that is exactly what you are trying to do. And it won't work.
Please understand that I am not suggesting that you mistreat women or disrespect them in any way.
What I suggesting is that you value and respect yourself more. What I suggesting is that you value and respect yourself more.

To illustrate what I mean: The answer to the question, "Why does the guy who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?" is simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so, he has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes. After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable.

It works like this: Once you need something, or you want it too badly, you forfeit your strength and lose all power of negotiation. Once you need something, or you want it too badly, you forfeit your strength and
lose all power of negotiation. You are in a position of weakness and you are perceived as weak. Someone (or something) else is in control of you, the situation, and it's outcome. Men in this situation appear to be anything but confident, strong, and exciting. More, they are perceived as being unworthy and as lacking value.

Translation: Things that are easily acquired, obtained, or maintained, without any effort or sacrifice, lack value, it's human nature.
The secret to why the cocky guy wins with women, over the nice guy, is that he is perceived as being a stronger, more confident guy with more value. How? He never invests everything -- his entire being, ego, and self-worth in what one woman's response or reaction to him is. He doesn't gush with compliments; he isn't always available; he doesn't give too much; and he knows he isn't going to die if a woman says "no" to him. More, his attitude is, yeah, I'd like to go out with you, but if I can't, that's OK -- I'm a busy guy, with exciting things going on, and lots of other options.

it's all good

has anyone heard of URTICARIA? google it and see for urself.

^^

oh man u harsh no be small. as 4 me,

Your man & bridesmaid caught in the act?

ladies what would u do?

^^^^^^

for real?