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Romance › Re: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 9:25pm On Aug 12, 2011

Advocator:
Breakups are devastating, and the only thing that will make you feel better is time.

@ Advocator bro, dt was sensible enuf, kindly tutor SEXKILLS ow to address strangers wt respect, tell Him He neccessarily dnt av to be harsh wd his words @ all tyms,
There's mur to da msg I typed up dere nd U dnt xpect me to put evrytin on here, I av reasons dt informed evry actns I took, k huh

Nd I dunno if U've really felt luv so deep 4 sum1 nd U really cnt xplain y U prefer her to all oda gels, evn when U av doz who wished U asked dem out nd won't stop calling U but U still luv ds one specially without wanting to hurt, dt doesn't make me immatured, U dnt know me, U dnt know ow nd where I was brot up, U dnt know my background, I'm I too young @ 20 to be in a realtionship when I av few months to be thru wt college( University) huh

I believe we all av preferences, I dnt really hang out wt girls, U dnt evn know d kinda girl in question, Shez got qualities I'm still yet to find in girls, dt doesn't mean She doesn't av bad sides too BUT I still love her nd I'm NOT a player, so, what are we talking about here, I need sensible advice pls, I've always respected U but U've really messed up!

Romance › Re: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 9:23pm On Aug 12, 2011

Advocator:
Breakups are devastating, and the only thing that will make you feel better is time.

Romance › Re: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 8:57pm On Aug 12, 2011

Jenifa_:
If she saw this thread, don't you think that her heart will be broken as well?

How did you come to the conclusion that she doesn't care about you just because she's 18 and doesn't yet want to commit to a serious relationship. In fact, she must be a very smart and intelligent christian girl. I can see from your post that you also are a very nice guy.

I understand where you're coming from but you must realize that she probably felt that she was compromising her values and morals to satisfy your need for companionship. I think you should try to find other ways to cure your loneliness. make more male friends, find a hobby etc.

In the future, you too will break a girls' heart. that's life for u. you give and take
in fact, this girl you are talking about will also have her heart broken when you move on to d next girl. because it does seem that she cares about you but she's trying to keep her morals.
Jenifa, U're so totli on point, U seem to understnd me better dan any1 here, but seriously, Jenifa, I really wish I won't break sum1's heart, I can't even do dt, my conscience will never allow me, trust me!

AS 4 U SEXKILLZ, I'VE BEEN FOLLOWING U ON HERE, U SURE MAKE SENSE @ TYMS IN UR POSTS but most of ur contributions are so disrepectful, I REALLY DNT KNOW WHO U ARE OR WHAT AUTHORITY U AV BUT U SHLD HENCEFORTH TRY ND WATCH D WAY U ADDRESS STRANGERS AIIT
It's getting too much, If U've really met me in person, I'm sure as hell, U'ld NEVER address me in such a manner, if U've got advice nxt tym, be constructive aiite, dnt just go about, shouting nd ranting lyk a derailed dog, IT'S REALLY ANNOYING

Romance › Re: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 8:54pm On Aug 12, 2011

Jenifa_:
If she saw this thread, don't you think that her heart will be broken as well?

How did you come to the conclusion that she doesn't care about you just because she's 18 and doesn't yet want to commit to a serious relationship. In fact, she must be a very smart and intelligent christian girl. I can see from your post that you also are a very nice guy.

I understand where you're coming from but you must realize that she probably felt that she was compromising her values and morals to satisfy your need for companionship. I think you should try to find other ways to cure your loneliness. make more male friends, find a hobby etc.

In the future, you too will break a girls' heart. that's life for u. you give and take
in fact, this girl you are talking about will also have her heart broken when you move on to d next girl. because it does seem that she cares about you but she's trying to keep her morals.
Jenifa, U're so totli on point, U seem to understnd me better dan any1 here, but seriously, Jenifa, I really wish I won't break sum1's heart, I can't even do dt, my conscience will never allow me, trust me!

AS 4 U SEXKILLZ, I'VE BEEN FOLLOWING U ON HERE, U SURE MAKE SENSE @ TYMS IN UR POSTS but most of ur contributions are so disrepectful, I REALLY DNT KNOW WHO U ARE OR WHAT AUTHORITY U AV BUT U SHLD HENCEFORTH TRY ND WATCH D WAY U ADDRESS STRANGERS AIIT
It's getting too much, If U've really met me in person, I'm sure as hell, U'ld NEVER address me in such a manner, if U've got advice nxt tym, be constructive aiite, dnt just go about, shouting nd ranting lyk a derailed dog, IT'S REALLY ANNOYING

Romance › Re: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 8:23pm On Aug 12, 2011

Jenifa_:
If she saw this thread, don't you think that her heart will be broken as well?

How did you come to the conclusion that she doesn't care about you just because she's 18 and doesn't yet want to commit to a serious relationship. In fact, she must be a very smart and intelligent christian girl. I can see from your post that you also are a very nice guy.

I understand where you're coming from but you must realize that she probably felt that she was compromising her values and morals to satisfy your need for companionship. I think you should try to find other ways to cure your loneliness. make more male friends, find a hobby etc.

In the future, you too will break a girls' heart. that's life for u. you give and take
in fact, this girl you are talking about will also have her heart broken when you move on to d next girl. because it does seem that she cares about you but she's trying to keep her morals.

Romance › Re: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 8:18pm On Aug 12, 2011

**deep sigh**

Romance › Re: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 11:47am On Aug 11, 2011

Thank U so much evry1, all ur posts were comforting nd heart-lifting, I wanna stop hoping she'ld come back begging, I'm her 1st love too nd doe shez 18 but she always tells me shez still young dt I shld wait 4 her till when shez mur matured nd almost outta medical skul but I'ld be like, it makes no difference being togeda now as I'ld always gv her space nd I'ld always allow her read, I guess I was too loving, @ times I feel she loves me nd some oda tym, I dnt, itz just like her mood changes, I myt not be right doe but Shez a really godly girl nd dere was even a tym she disobeyed her parent just to please me, not dt I supported her, she just wanted me too, seriously her mood changes, She'ld show me love @ times, she'ld call, send texts, @ times, we'ld go to church togeda nd she was always smiling, I make her laff alot nd she'ld tell me I'm so funny, I'ld go buy us food @ d restaurant @ tyms when we're reading nd shez hungry, not dt i'm a wussy, I did all doz outta real true love, I really truly love her, @ tyms, on her own, without me calling or texting 1st, I'ld recieve texts 4rm her stating 'I LUV U' or just almost immediately I assure her bout my love 4 her, I'm missing her so much now dt I've not heard 4rm her in barely two weeks nd I dnt wanna call her, I want to know ow shez faring nd all dt but m soooo shy to call nd again, I feel like I'm 4ring myself on her,
I'm so confused now, I dnt know what to do, I dnt go to parties nd definitely I'm not d club type, I'm always indoors either playing wt my laptop or my phone, I'm sooooooo lonely!!!Thank U so much evry1, all ur posts were comforting nd heart-lifting, I wanna stop hoping she'ld come back begging, I'm her 1st love too nd doe shez 18 but she always tells me shez still young dt I shld wait 4 her till when shez mur matured nd almost outta medical skul but I'ld be like, it makes no difference being togeda now as I'ld always gv her space nd I'ld always allow her read, I guess I was too loving, @ times I feel she loves me nd some oda tym, I dnt, itz just like her mood changes, I myt not be right doe but Shez a really godly girl nd dere was even a tym she disobeyed her parent just to please me, not dt I supported her, she just wanted me too, seriously her mood changes, She'ld show me love @ times, she'ld call, send texts, @ times, we'ld go to church togeda nd she was always smiling, I make her laff alot nd she'ld tell me I'm so funny, I'ld go buy us food @ d restaurant @ tyms when we're reading nd shez hungry, not dt i'm a wussy, I did all doz outta real true love, I really truly love her, @ tyms, on her own, without me calling or texting 1st, I'ld recieve texts 4rm her stating 'I LUV U' or just almost immediately I assure her bout my love 4 her, I'm missing her so much now dt I've not heard 4rm her in barely two weeks nd I dnt wanna call her, I want to know ow shez faring nd all dt but m soooo shy to call nd again, I feel like I'm 4ring myself on her,
I'm so confused now, I dnt know what to do, I dnt go to parties nd definitely I'm not d club type, I'm always indoors either playing wt my laptop or my phone, I'm sooooooo lonely!!!

Romance › My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 9:57am On Aug 11, 2011

I've been a member of ds forum 4 a very long tym, m mur of a reader dan a poster nd d romance section is my favourite,

As regards d topic I chose, It's my personal xperience nd it happened to a friend also, I cnt start blowing my trumpet but seriously I'm a ghud guy, cute nd brainy, I recently turned 20 nd feel in love 4 d very 1st tym wt a girl I really luv, I loved evrytin about her, U know when U always wanna make sum1 happy, U dnt disturb her, U dnt stalk her around, U buy her gift, neva evn asked her 4 a kiss let alone thinking of 4nicating wt her, U sees her as ur younger sis nd U're hoping things works out btw U both, U're luking so deep in2 d future, U hide nuffin 4rm her, nt evn ur fb account details, U both av d same mind set nd she claims to love U also, U see lyk 1ns or 2ce in 2 weeks evn tho U're in d same college, as a gud guy, all U want 4rm her is real love nd companionship, U dnt flirt around wt oda girls cos U really do luv nd respect her but then She always make U feel insecure
About 5 months or so in2 d relationship, she wakes up one day nd tells U she afraid what U both are doing is not fornication but could mean immorality nd dt Shez heaven conscious nd dt U shld pls, just b normal friends, wat nonsense!!!
Ds is a person who knows U too well, sum1 who hasn't asked U 4 evn a kiss or a hug, so, where does d immorality come in huh

Now my heart is broken 4 d 1st tym nd as it is now, I'm soooo afraid to ask any oda gel out, I feel so lonely nd cheated( a guy nd not a girl) isn't dt strange huh

What do I do nairalanders, m trying hard to 4get her, deleted all her pictures, msges, deleted her 4rm my fb list nd avnt talked to her in lyk 2 weeks now but @ tyms, contrary to my wish tho, I still go to check ha fb profile, it's really hurting to know dt, she really doesn't care about me, I think I dnt deserve such treatment, not a guy like me, ffin 4rm her, nt evn ur fb account details, U both av d same mind set nd she claims to love U also, U see lyk 1ns or 2ce in 2 weeks evn tho U're in d same college, as a gud guy, all U want 4rm her is real love nd companionship, U dnt flirt around wt oda girls cos U really do luv nd respect her but then She always make U feel insecure
About 5 months or so in2 d relationship, she wakes up one day nd tells U she afraid what U both are doing is not fornication but could mean immorality nd dt Shez heaven conscious nd dt U shld pls, just b normal friends, wat nonsense!!!
Ds is a person who knows U too well, sum1 who hasn't asked U 4 evn a kiss or a hug, so, where does d immorality come in huh

Now my heart is broken 4 d 1st tym nd as it is now, I'm soooo afraid to ask any oda gel out, I feel so lonely nd cheated( a guy nd not a girl) isn't dt strange huh

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