Jenifa_:

If she saw this thread, don't you think that her heart will be broken as well?

How did you come to the conclusion that she doesn't care about you just because she's 18 and doesn't yet want to commit to a serious relationship. In fact, she must be a very smart and intelligent christian girl. I can see from your post that you also are a very nice guy.

I understand where you're coming from but you must realize that she probably felt that she was compromising her values and morals to satisfy your need for companionship. I think you should try to find other ways to cure your loneliness. make more male friends, find a hobby etc.

In the future, you too will break a girls' heart. that's life for u. you give and take
in fact, this girl you are talking about will also have her heart broken when you move on to d next girl. because it does seem that she cares about you but she's trying to keep her morals.
Jenifa, U're so totli on point, U seem to understnd me better dan any1 here, but seriously, Jenifa, I really wish I won't break sum1's heart, I can't even do dt, my conscience will never allow me, trust me!

AS 4 U SEXKILLZ, I'VE BEEN FOLLOWING U ON HERE, U SURE MAKE SENSE @ TYMS IN UR POSTS but most of ur contributions are so disrepectful, I REALLY DNT KNOW WHO U ARE OR WHAT AUTHORITY U AV BUT U SHLD HENCEFORTH TRY ND WATCH D WAY U ADDRESS STRANGERS AIIT
It's getting too much, If U've really met me in person, I'm sure as hell, U'ld NEVER address me in such a manner, if U've got advice nxt tym, be constructive aiite, dnt just go about, shouting nd ranting lyk a derailed dog, IT'S REALLY ANNOYING

Jenifa_:

If she saw this thread, don't you think that her heart will be broken as well?

How did you come to the conclusion that she doesn't care about you just because she's 18 and doesn't yet want to commit to a serious relationship. In fact, she must be a very smart and intelligent christian girl. I can see from your post that you also are a very nice guy.

I understand where you're coming from but you must realize that she probably felt that she was compromising her values and morals to satisfy your need for companionship. I think you should try to find other ways to cure your loneliness. make more male friends, find a hobby etc.

In the future, you too will break a girls' heart. that's life for u. you give and take
in fact, this girl you are talking about will also have her heart broken when you move on to d next girl. because it does seem that she cares about you but she's trying to keep her morals.
Jenifa, U're so totli on point, U seem to understnd me better dan any1 here, but seriously, Jenifa, I really wish I won't break sum1's heart, I can't even do dt, my conscience will never allow me, trust me!

AS 4 U SEXKILLZ, I'VE BEEN FOLLOWING U ON HERE, U SURE MAKE SENSE @ TYMS IN UR POSTS but most of ur contributions are so disrepectful, I REALLY DNT KNOW WHO U ARE OR WHAT AUTHORITY U AV BUT U SHLD HENCEFORTH TRY ND WATCH D WAY U ADDRESS STRANGERS AIIT
It's getting too much, If U've really met me in person, I'm sure as hell, U'ld NEVER address me in such a manner, if U've got advice nxt tym, be constructive aiite, dnt just go about, shouting nd ranting lyk a derailed dog, IT'S REALLY ANNOYING

Advocator:

Breakups are devastating, and the only thing that will make you feel better is time.

Advocator:

Breakups are devastating, and the only thing that will make you feel better is time.

sexkillz:

Whatever SOFTHEART! GROW UP!!!

tenderheart!!!:

@ Advocator bro, dt was sensible enuf, kindly tutor SEXKILLS ow to address strangers wt respect, tell Him He neccessarily dnt av to

sexkillz:

What fu[i]ck[/i]ing ever Dude! GROW THA F[b]U[/b]CK UP! When you get your heart broken more than once, you'll learn!  

@ADVO LOL! you know how many don break my heart? Leave this KID abeg! Let him read his BOOKS

Smilenw:

OP, take it easy. Though it hurts  now,I'm sure you'll be laughing at it in about 10 years from now. That is life ! Just concentrate on the positive side, you guys just dated for just 5 months and not 5 years (imagine all of those years and the hurt that could've caused), she didn't dump you for another guy,you never caught her cheating on you, she never used and dumped you,-I could go on and on. As  time goes by, you'll feel much better.

Don't mind those who r here abusing you.  All of them would've gone through this, but just can't get themselves to admit it ! Some men refuse to grow up even when they ask others to grow up !

My thoughts EXACTLY!!!

tenderheart!!!:

It's ok SEXKILLZ, U're entitled to your opinion, freedom of expression, na 9ja we dey naw, I just pity your sorry lyf, I hope your hands/fingers won't get U in2 trouble sumdei, U may insult all U want, U dnt know me so I really dnt care, I was just being brotherly tryna advice U, not evry1 dt comes here comes in ghud intentns nd it's an anonimous syt, U dnt know who is who, DESIST 4rm addressing pple just anyhow, I REPEAT, DESIST, dnt injure your future over stories dt doesn't concern U, I mean, my story neither takes nor add any value to your lyf, Y are U taking it so personal, If I was really wicked, I'ld make U suffer 4 what U're doing ryt now:, I dnt evn care who U are, I want to biliv U're matured enuf, let'z gv ourselves constructive advice, I'm not saying U shldn't rebuke but be matured wt it also, huh?
May d Lord be wt U,
Advocator nd smile, really appreciate U guys a lot, dnt wanna drop my PIN here, would luv to hook up wiv U guys, tnx once mur, I know I'ld get better, maybe wt tym anyway BUT I sTILL LOVE HEr, SO MUCH!

HEY! DONT, INSULT ME FURTHER THAN YOU ALREADY HAVE! YOU'LL MAKE ME SUFFER? YOU MUST BE DRUNK ON SOME CHEAP, LOOTED IMPORTED VODKA! WHAT THA F[b]U[/b]CK DO YOU KNOW ABOUT LIFE? YOU ARE JUST 20 FOR FU[b]C[/b]KS SAKE! I HAVE 3 BROTHERS AGED 24, 22, and 20! WHAT I TOLD YOU IS WHAT I TELL THEM! IF YOU DONT LIKE IT, SUICIDE IS ALWAYS A VIABLE OPTION DAMMIT! I COULDNT CARE LESS! NEXT TIME YOU COME HERE SEEKING ADVICE, BE READY TO RECEIVE ALL MANNERS AND TYPES OF ADVICE! NOT NECESSARILY WHAT YOU WANNA HEAR! I'LL ADDRESS YOU ANYWAY AND ANYHOW I LIKE BOY, YOU DONT OWN ME! NO ONE DOES! HOW YOU TAKE WHAT I SAY IS NONE OF MY GADDAMN BUSINESS, OK?. . . . DONT PUSH THIS FURTHER!

tenderheart!!!:

Now I can see, U're really matured wt all ds your 'bleeping' fu*k bleep fu*k and 'fu*cking', U really are matured, like seriously, av a ghud day pls, I really dnt av your tym, dude! keep doing ya thing, ok? I mean dt's what U know ow best to do, insulting pple on dere thread nd causing pandemonium all in d name of being allergic to bullshit, U'ld learn your lessons sumdei, ok
**walks out of thread never to come reply SEXKILLZ back**

BETTER YOU DONT COME BACK! BEST THING YOU COULD DO IS GET YOUR DAD TO BAN ME!. . . . . SPOILT KID!

Jenifa, U're so totli on point, U seem to understnd me better dan any1 here, but seriously, Jenifa, I really wish I won't break sum1's heart, I can't even do dt, my conscience will never allow me, trust me!

Jenifa_:

The thing is that sometimes you won't know when you are breaking someone's heart. This girl for instance, I don't think she's breaking your heart on purpose or intentionally. That's why I asked you if you knew that this thread you created may break her heart if she sees it. doesn't mean you intentionally wanted to hurt her feelings. Just that some of her expectations are different from yours.

I think u should try to respect her desire and be a good friend to her. Over time, you will find that the romantic love you have for her will fade away(yes there is a difference between romantic love and unconditional love) and you are falling in love with someone else. but at least you will still have a very wonderful and true friend if your friendship lasts.

deniyor:

I agree with you mostly except on that one point. What is it with you women? After shattering some dude's heart, you want to remain friends. Friends fire!!! You do realise being friends make the healing process harder, longer and sometimes impossible. When someone breaks your heart, you take a clean break from them. Till you are strong enough, or over it, don't even say hello to them. Go heal first.

Mynd_44:

@TOPIC, please grow up dude and stop being a whuss