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RomanceRe: How To Make Girls Like You! (Guys) by tenderheart1: 9:36pm On Aug 16, 2011
9ce one bro @ SEXkillz
making much sense,
RomanceRe: Why Does It Take So Much For Her To Be With Me? (Matured Minds Pls) by tenderheart1: 9:16pm On Aug 16, 2011
andromida:
Op, you lost your mom and your gal called it a small issue? she could not be bothered to visit you. After graduation she has never visited you in your parents home. Is she 10 yrs old and cannot come out of her house? Is she chained to her house? her parents have a bodyguard watching her 24/7? or is she that slow and cannot comprehend the demands of a rship? or are you so unpresentable and must remain hidden from her family? When you go to her house does she walk with you to your car or to get a cab? have you ever set your eyes on her parents and when you did did they drive you out of the house or after you left you heard she was beaten and almost died. In the abscence of this events i believe your sweetheart is not into you. Love makes sacrifices.she did not lift her leg to your house to comfort you, offer a shoulder to lean on during your trauma and YOU believe there is a r/ship.

The writing is clear. This gal has since left you she is waiting for you to get the message yet you insist on holding on to her. Do not blame her for any pains you are going through you are entirely responsible for all this stress you are putting yourself through and yes the clock is ticking but its ticking for you.
Omg! Adromina is thinking, M SO IMPRESSEd
OP, U really shld not conclude shez so not into U yet, I think U shld do a face to face talk wd her nd ask her ryt there, it is most likely shez insensitive, Wait a minute! Is she a true Child of God, as in, a born again christianhuh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: No Cute Guy Here by tenderheart1: 8:58pm On Aug 16, 2011
Mr, Cork:
Mr Cork <<<<< Cute, single, hand some, shy, sweet, 17inches long and God Fearing wink
lmfao
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 5:55am On Aug 14, 2011
sexkillz:
he would MUMUCIOUSLY go back and BEG the GIRL!!! grin That's gonna be a DISASTER!!! grin grin grin NA THERE THE GIRL GO SEE AM FINISH! grin Then he would open another thread and Start complaining!!! grin
LMAO, MADMAN!!!
Now, U contributed reasonably like a 26-yr old
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 9:26pm On Aug 13, 2011
sexkillz:
****YOUR FADA**** wink wink cheesy
YEAH! Nairalanders, I'm sure y'all need no further proof as to who is mur matured btw a 26yr old nd a 20yr Old, innithuh
I REST MY CASE!!!
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 9:13pm On Aug 13, 2011
mice:
Guy i really feel bad for u because it is like me and you are going tru the same ting just three wks back on the 30 of july around 1:30am, a girl i have always luv ended up our relationship, i feel worse than ever, rejected, betray, hurt and pain. I am just askin god for help write now. Pls take care, and we would be fine.
LOL, EHYAH SORRY MICE, ND UR WORDS ARE COMFORTING, YEAH! We would be fine, THANK GOD U'RE MAKING SENSE, I'M SURE U AREN'T AS OLD AS DT OLD, GIRLS-FORSAKING BOFOON RANTING ON MY THREAD( SEXKILLZ) OBA AWON OLOSHI
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 9:01pm On Aug 13, 2011
sexkillz:
I HOPE YOUR DAD KNOWS THAT THE HARD EARNED CASH HE SPENDS ON YOU IS GETTING WASTED! SEEMS ALL YOU DO IS STALK A GIRL ON FACEBOOK!!! NOT ONLY DO YOU NEED TO GROW UP, YOU NEED TO GET A BRAIN! THE ONE CURRENTLY IN YOUR HEAD HAS CRASHED!!! WOMP!!! undecided
DONT BRING MY DAD INTO DS EMPTY SKULL, I'M SURE U DNT EVEN AV ONE, WHAT HAS MY DAD GOT TO DO DS, U'RE NOTHING BUT A MUMU @ 26, A FOOL ND A REAL BAST@RD, WHAT'S MY OWN WITH U, HUHhuh
Did I ask 4 your senseless advice?, GO GET A LIFE aBEGi, WHAT SENSIBLE LADY WOULD EVEN WANNA STAY WT U, Y WON'T DEY BREAK your HEART, @ 26, GO DO STH BETTER WT your LYF, FOREX TRADER OSHI, U CLAIM TO AV YOUNGER BRODA WHO IS MY AGE ND U STILL HERE, EXCHANGING WORDS WT ME, OMG, I'M SMH 4 U BIG TYM, 26 MINUS 20, DO D SUBTRACTION URSELF ND SEE WHOZ MUR MATURED BTW U ND I
OLOSHIII
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 8:52pm On Aug 13, 2011
WHO REALLY HAS TO GROW UP BTW U ND I, AS U ALWAYS CLAIM TO AV BEEN IN LOVE ND HAD UR STONY HEART SHATTERED, WHEN U HAD UR FIRST GURL, OW OLD WERE U, 26huh
U av no sense @ all nd I really should not be exchanging words wt U,
lmao, E even sed M running after skirts just because I wanted mur to learn 4rm ha outta here, omg! Ow do U think nd reason @ 26, GOD!!!
Are U really acting d age U claim, Obviously not, WHO REALLY HAS TO GROW UP BTW U ND I, AS U ALWAYS CLAIM TO AV BEEN IN LOVE ND HAD UR STONY HEART SHATTERED, WHEN U HAD UR FIRST GURL, OW OLD WERE U, 26huh
U av no sense @ all nd I really should not be exchanging words wt U,
lmao, E even sed M running after skirts just because I wanted mur to learn 4rm ha outta here, omg! Ow do U think nd reason @ 26, GOD!!!
Are U really acting d age U claim, Obviously not,
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 8:44pm On Aug 13, 2011
sexkillz:
When i say make this PIKIN GROW UP, Una wan SHOOT ME! undecided
At deniyor, d guy is a big fool nao, I've tried making peace with him, he still won't stop displaying his stupidity
Even if I need to grow up, can't E just shut up nd save his comments 4 His young once @ home, huh Ahn ahn! Y is He evn coming here to comment btw, tot he sed he was tired of replying, E should stop commenting on here, E really hasn't given a sensible advice since, Always shouting grow up, grow up, E makes me evn feel like E just leant doz words 'GROW UP'
There're pple here who had rebuked me but urs is just senseless @ least 4 d age U claim, get out nd dnt come back here lokking 4 trouble, I've heard U, I'ld grow up, so get lost, IDIOT SeXKILLZ, nonsense
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 8:22pm On Aug 13, 2011
Sexkillz, U're nothing but a big fool @ 26, omg! U're so shameless
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Are There Good Looking Guys On Nl's Romance Section? by tenderheart1: 7:27pm On Aug 13, 2011
Jimmy, U av a gud dress sense but ur fingers are short, kind of, my observation doe, *no offence intended pls*
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 7:08pm On Aug 13, 2011
lol, Omg!!!I'm so dead, U guys are crazyyyyyyyyyy, Just leave me alone oooo
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 5:31pm On Aug 13, 2011
hmmmmm, I'm just dumbfounded, Seriously, we need sum talking to do outta Nairaland, ow can I contact U pls, maybe on fb, twitter, email, bb pin, whatever works 4 U, we av sum talking to do, try nd understnd pls
RomanceRe: What Is The Best Pick Up Line You Have Ever Heard? by tenderheart1: 5:14pm On Aug 13, 2011
Hi Alosyby92, we need to talk mur outsyd here pls, ow do I contact U, maybe on fb, twitter, bb pin, email, whateva works 4 U, We av sum serious talking to doHi Alosyby92, we need to talk mur outsyd here pls, ow do I contact U, maybe on fb, twitter, bb pin, email, whateva works 4 U, We av sum serious talking to do
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 1:30pm On Aug 13, 2011
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alosiby92:
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maybe she felt that you had wrong intentions and would end up pressurising her to fornicate or commit immorality eventually, even if for now it looks innocent. Or maybe she doesn't want any distractions now (and wants to focus with school)
My best bet is that she was scared of what would happen in future and did not know what to do, maybe in her heart she began idolising you and felt like she was sinning against GOD. She sounds like good wife material though.
Omg! Bro, U can say dt again, Shez a very very ghud wife material, may God bless your intelligence, it's just like U know her 100 percent, dt's really her fears cos she talks about it, but then I'ld keep assuring her, I won't do anytin silly, dt I was heaven-conscious, den her mind will be @ rest, after about few weeks, maybe we go out into a secluded place togeda nd I try holding her hands or tell her to come nearer, She would start smiling nd preaching, lol, dere was one nyt, She told me, Even if shez free, She can't come to my house @ ds stage our relationship had gotten to, She says she doesn't trust me nd dt She doesn't evn trust herself neither( jokingly nd we both laffed bout it) but I'm not happy with her because I keep reassuring her I won't hurt her nd won't force her to do anytin silly but Is it sinful to hold d girl U're in love wt, or wanting to av your arms round her, is it badhuh

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Upon rereading this thread, I think you should try and stop communicating with her too much or she will abuse your friendship knowing fully well that u will be her "shoulder to cry on" and that you still love her. People tend to do that after rejecting people but knowing that they still are'nt over them.
How many times will she keep rubbing in the fact that there are other guys running after her and u were the one who didnt make it? those jokes were meant to touch a soft spot and make it harder for u to get over her. Be her friend, but from a distance. the closer you get, the harder she'll hurt you.
I guess I'ld stick to ds advice, I'm receiving a lot of it too much evn from my close friends, tnx again
RomanceRe: Romance Section Love Zone by tenderheart1: 11:30am On Aug 13, 2011
hehe, 190, wetin nahuh
RomanceRe: Romance Section Love Zone by tenderheart1: 11:23am On Aug 13, 2011
sexkillz:
I LOVE being a JERK Bro! I love JERKING people to their senses! Thanks! cool cool
lol, ok, just take it easy wt pple, especially strangers, We are here to learn morals too, Think about making a change when 1, 2, 3 or mur pple are tryna convince U about sth, remember, do not lean on ur understnding always!
Peace to U bro
LOL, GOLDIELUKS; U MUST BE BEAUTIFUL; CAN U UPLOAD UR DP PLEASEhuh
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 11:12am On Aug 13, 2011
Sexkillz! Sexkillz!! Sexkillz!!!, hmmmmmmmmmm!!! I don talk my own oooo, I want U to know, if I could handle it myself, I won't come here okhuh Can't U just b nice 4 oncehuh
Deniyor, I got dt, I WON't do dt den, I mean, I won't ask her on phone, tnx man
RomanceRe: Romance Section Love Zone by tenderheart1: 11:04am On Aug 13, 2011
doe I just started commenting on here but av been on, a long tym ago, So many pple make me laff nd loves coming to ds section of Nairaland, nd I wish we could be great friends outta here,
I dnt hate no one but der's sth or mur I enjoy in ds pple, nd I JUST LOVE dem 4 dt,
Sexkillz, I like his writing skillz a lot doe E won't stop being a JERk but I still like HIM
Goldie, I like dt name so much, I wont stop checking her profile to see maybe shez uploaded her dp, I dunno if Shez older dan me but I'm just attracted to dt Username :p
Pendo, It myt sound strange but I like dt name too
Atreides, mehn! dt girl is da bomb, Shez such a genius, I wish we could be friends on fb, I wanna see mur of her writings nd pictures, I LOVE
190, MMM, Mr. Cock nd their group of nyanshers, lol
They make me laff a lot lyk really laffin, they're so crazy, They r to me, d most important personalities in ds section of Nairaland, I LOVE U GUYS soooo much smiley
Babe, dyt nd Tasha, they are wonderful
Pweety4me, I like d fact dt, doe shez not Nigerian but She finds us interesting nd Shez very important here
I'm so in love wt Cuddlemii's name too, 'Cuddlemii', it makes me think romantically
Mur to come, doz are d once dt come to memory now!!!me, d most important personalities in ds section of Nairaland, I LOVE U GUYS soooo much smiley
Babe, dyt nd Tasha, they are wonderful
Pweety4me, I like d fact dt, doe shez not Nigerian but She finds us interesting nd Shez very important here
I'm so in love wt Cuddlemii's name too, 'Cuddlemii', it makes me think romantically
Mur to come, doz are d once dt come to memory now!!!
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 10:40am On Aug 13, 2011
I NEED MATURED PIECES OF ADVICE PLS, I CAN'T DO DS ON MY OWN, DT WAS Y I BROT IT HERE, I MYT AV MADE MISTAKES OR I WAS IMMATURED IN MY DEALINGS WT HER BUT THERE'S ALWAYS A SOLUTION LEFT, ADVICE, CONTRIBUTIONS PLEASE ND NOBODY SHLD TELL ME TO GO FACE MY BOOK OOO, kindly save dt 4 ur younger once @ home, smiley
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 10:37am On Aug 13, 2011
lmaoooo, ehyah!!! Sorry bro, nawa 4 all ds girls self, y can't relationships just be perfecthuh Seriously, if I was to be wt a girl whoz got her heart broken b4, sum1 who was cheated upon by her man, mehn! If I truly love her, d relationship would be too perfect, I swear but I dunno y it's so hard to get attracted to used girls, to me, ds one is doing shakara because she'z still clean, neva fell in luv b4, nd because she still has her pride( Virginity),
Ok! Deniyor, what advice do U av 4 me as it is now, tell me if it sounds lame, ok?, I'm thinking of calling/texting( I prefer texting so dt, she'ld think about it well enuf b4 replying) her nd asking if She really is in love wd dt oda guy or if She prefers him to me nd tell her, it seems to me like Shez xpecting d guy to come ask her out, hence not wanting to commit to me, I know She'ld tell me d truth, She really cnt lie, do U think dt'ld b a nice ideahuhy or if She prefers him to me nd tell her, it seems to me like Shez xpecting d guy to come ask her out, hence not wanting to commit to me, I know She'ld tell me d truth, She really cnt lie, do U think dt'ld b a nice ideahuh
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 10:02am On Aug 13, 2011
Lol, Deniyor, I think I'ld stick to ur advice bro, I'ld try nd stop calling but seriously, d oda 'gud guy' is not bad @ all, He is evn mur righteous dan me, I think, She likes him because of his 'niceness', truly she myt change but I hope she doesn't, I know doz bad boiz who had asked her out, She refused them nd stopped calling dem, I myt be a wussy just as U sed, dt was Ow I was created by God, I wish U could know, itz not m so dumb nd cold lyk dt, I rebuke her @ tyms dt she'ld evn weep, Just because I love her so much doesn't mean I dnt yell @ her when She goes wrong, okhuh
U should try nd understnd me jo, lol
Seriously, I know her, she doesn't want a bad guy @ alll, U av d wrong impression of her, Shez just being careful about not making d wrong decision, I think,
RomanceRe: What Qualities Make Your Girlfriend Outstanding? by tenderheart1: 9:31am On Aug 13, 2011
Tosinville:
Girlfriend?
Ok! Tosinville, d one girl u luv specially, d person u're dating ryt now
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 9:20am On Aug 13, 2011
tnx Goldie but when do I start looking 4 luv, is it when I'm outta college, when I'ld no longer find sum1 lyk me nd really, are U saying, 20+ is too young as a guy, sum1 whoz almost thru wt college, if I'm inexperienced now, is it 'then', I'ld become xperienced nd maturedhuh
Ow old were U when U had ur 1st love, 25?
Goldieluks:
@OP

Why not focus on your studies more,instead of falling inlove
and getting hurt because of inexperience?
RomanceRe: What Qualities Make Your Girlfriend Outstanding? by tenderheart1: 8:59am On Aug 13, 2011
Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Wow! sounds familiar!! *thinking of herself* grin wink cool tongue


But jeee wait how do u know this much about her?and how old r u Mr Man? undecided[/color]
lol, Pweety4me, Is she not my gurl, huh I trust her as much as she trusts me, I can never doubt her, i know some ladies are bad but we still av d ghud, great ones, Shez indeed one ghud girl, Y won't I be crazy about her when because of her, I wanna better my life evn more, My age? Lemme say 20 nd av got months to be thru wiv University, age? Lemme say 20 nd av got months to be thru wiv University,
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Are There Good Looking Guys On Nl's Romance Section? by tenderheart1: 7:07am On Aug 13, 2011
hmmmmmm
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 6:18am On Aug 13, 2011
Mynd_44:
@TOPIC, please grow up dude and stop being a whuss
Oh! Thnks so much dude! Can U now pls, errm;, excuse urself outta herehuh
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 6:12am On Aug 13, 2011
hehehe, U guys are so funny nd lovely, U're really cracking me up ryt now, I still wanna be friend wt her, I know she still loves me, I called her yesterdei just to say 'hi', texted ha bout y I ad to delete ha from my friends' list, not dt I was angry, She was positive in her response nd evn replied my text, My problem now is, dere are other guys who are also crazy about her, She tells me bout some herself, we both laff about some of dem wen dey keep sending her gifts nd won't stop calling nd all dt, she'ld tell me I now av lots of rivals( Jokingly), probably so dt I won't mess up, but dere's ds one who is really a nice guy too, nd @ tyms she'ld tell me jokingly dt's her bf, I found out about d gu 4rm doz who know him, I got to realise, He really likes her, nd my baby feels d same tin 4 Him too doe she'ld tell me, She cnt date him dt dey are just ghud friends since high. Schl nd E's been a nice guy, I feel, I'ld send her d wrong message if I shld stop talking to her nd I'm so afraid d oda '9ce guy' myt wanna take my place,
When I agreed we shld just be friends nd dt we shouldn't av ourselves in mind, she was like, y nowhuh I won't change my fb password, U can av it as It's not lyk I'ld stop loving U, I just feel we shld do d ryt tin by holding on' she wouldn't agree @ first but later when I insisted, She agreed nd changed d password, den went ahead nd post on d guy's wall on fb, she wants to see him!
Ok! Now, she def knows I'ld go check ha wall nd see dt nd would def get jealous, could she really wanna see him or She's tryna play on my emotions, She doesn't like it when I comment on girls picture too, maybe Shez tryna pay me back in am own coin, lol
It now seems lyk I'm forcing love, m scared she myt wanna muv on wt d guy if he ever asks her out, Honestly, I still want her, quitting talking to her myt be dangerous, dnt U think so Jenifahuh
ut dere's ds one who is really a nice guy too, nd @ tyms she'ld tell me jokingly dt's her bf, I found out about d gu 4rm doz who know him, I got to realise, He really likes her, nd my baby feels d same tin 4 Him too doe she'ld tell me, She cnt date him dt dey are just ghud friends since high. Schl nd E's been a nice guy, I feel, I'ld send her d wrong message if I shld stop talking to her nd I'm so afraid d oda '9ce guy' myt wanna take my place,
When I agreed we shld just be friends nd dt we shouldn't av ourselves in mind, she was like, y nowhuh I won't change my fb password, U can av it as It's not lyk I'ld stop loving U, I just feel we shld do d ryt tin by holding on' she wouldn't agree @ first but later when I insisted, She agreed nd changed d password, den went ahead nd post on d guy's wall on fb, she wants to see him!
Ok! Now, she def knows I'ld go check ha wall nd see dt nd would def get jealous, could she really wanna see him or She's tryna play on my emotions, She doesn't like it when I comment on girls picture too, maybe Shez tryna pay me back in am own coin, lol
It now seems lyk I'm forcing love, m scared she myt wanna muv on wt d guy if he ever asks her out, Honestly, I still want her, quitting talking to her myt be dangerous, dnt U think so Jenifahuh
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 11:21pm On Aug 12, 2011
Now I can see, U're really matured wt all ds your 'f*cking' fu*k f*ck fu*k and 'fu*cking', U really are matured, like seriously, av a ghud day pls, I really dnt av your tym, dude! keep doing ya thing, ok? I mean dt's what U know ow best to do, insulting pple on dere thread nd causing pandemonium all in d name of being allergic to bullshit, U'ld learn your lessons sumdei, okhuh
**walks out of thread never to come reply SEXKILLZ back**
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 11:18pm On Aug 12, 2011
Now I can see, U're really matured wt all ds ur 'fucking' Bleep Bleep Bleep and 'fucking', U really are matured, like seriously, av a ghud day pls, I really dnt av ur tym,
RomanceRe: What Qualities Make Your Girlfriend Outstanding? by tenderheart1: 11:09pm On Aug 12, 2011
Shez soooooo real nd Uniq, She's a very beautiful Virgin even @ 18, shez so godly, caring nd loving, Shez modest in her dressing, funny nd always smiling, Shez got great intelligence too nd Shez from a very ghud home, I can go on and on, nd most importantly, She makes me feel lyk I can never love any other girl again, NEVER!!! wink
Omg! I love her sooooooooo much!
RomanceRe: My Heart Is Broken For The First Time:::it Hurts! by tenderheart1(op): 10:05pm On Aug 12, 2011
It's ok SEXKILLZ, U're entitled to ur opinion, freedom of expression, na 9ja we dey naw, I just pity ur sorry lyf, I hope Ur hands/fingers won't get U in2 trouble sumdei, U may insult all U want, U dnt know me so I really dnt care, I was just being brotherly tryna advice U, not evry1 dt comes here comes in ghud intentns nd it's an anonimous syt, U dnt know who is who, DESIST 4rm addressing pple just anyhow, I REPEAT, DESIST, dnt injure ur future over stories dt doesn't concern U, I mean, my story neither takes nor add any value to ur lyf, Y are U taking it so personal, If I was really wicked, I'ld make U suffer 4 what U're doing ryt now:, I dnt evn care who U are, I want to biliv U're matured enuf, let'z gv ourselves constructive advice, I'm not saying U shldn't rebuke but be matured wt it also, huh?
May d Lord be wt U,
Advocator nd smile, really appreciate U guys a lot, dnt wanna drop my PIN here, would luv to hook up wiv U guys, tnx once mur, I know I'ld get better, maybe wt tym anyway BUT I sTILL LOVE HEr, SO MUCH!

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