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And with influence, comes power.

ednut1:
this comment is funny. Do you want the 50k? Note i dont believe in prayers

I want it too sir. I won't mind if it's extended to my side.

It would be significant in my pursuit of the orthopaedic treatment completion I earnestly seek, currently.

In fact, it would be a life saver.

Please, do not forget me.

May God not forget us in critical and trying times.

I don't intend to vex you, buhh, hope that lingers for too long, without the expected outcome, sickens the mind.

It's the reason I took the initiative to ask if you still have me in mind?

NiceLegs:
Statement... statement.
That's all they know how to do best.
Release statement.
No Action.

haba!

Buhh if Dangote group failed to say a thing even when they know of her demise, people would probably brand them insensitive and apathetic.

Sentiment aside, they took actions. They covered her medical costs and were going to airlift her to India for further treatment, were it not for the pending clearance.

SarkinYarki:
Dangote failed to airlift the girl out

This isn't really true.

Based on what was made known from credible source, plans had been set in motion, for her to be airlifted to India for advanced treatment.

What caused the delay, was the pending clearance state, from the Doctors that attended to her.

The explanations I made in my messages might sound unbelievable sir.
Buhh God is my witness. Everything I said I went through, and still going through (although not as intense as before), are true to the core.

I came across a news recently, which perfectly conveyed and highlighted what I went through back then.

Here's the link sir: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/8/lady-shares-painful-journey-of-living-with-hip-condition.html

Please, do vouchsafe to check the news. The link is an harmless one, in fact, it was extracted from the blog of Linda Ikeji.

Mine didn't degenerate to melting of the femur head. I was able to take myself to a teaching hospital somehow early, so, the inflammation of the hip joint, was what I was diagnosed with, and even though my diagnosis wasn't as severe as hers, still, I can very well relate to all she said she experienced.

Thereafter, for at least 2 years, before momentary scarcity of needed resources set in, I was able to subject myself to rigorous treatment which stopped and progressively reversed whatever happened in the affected area.

Buhh the treatment hasn't reached it's completion, so due to this, the reversal of whatever happened in the affected area, isn't yet complete. This formed the basis of me reaching out sir.

Based on the content of the news, the lady mentioned something that momentarily distressed and depressed me.
She said: Her mother stayed solidly with her, cared and made things easier for her throughout the experiences.
How fortunate she is!

My mother died 6 years ago, in fact, I returned from national service to meet her grave.
So, I can't really relate to the care, concern and empathy which was showered on the lady in the news.
I don't need to say this, buhh maybe I just need to vent it out, since I don't talk much verbally.

All I experienced from father, as far as this treatment is concerned, are insensitivity, callousness and war, which unhealthily impacted my mental health.
They are the complete opposite of what the lady experienced when it comes to empathy from at least "a parent".

My consoling factor so far, has been listening to Apostle Joshua Selman messages.

I don't need to say all these. Buhh perhaps, my mind will feel lightened when I type them out.

You said you would keep me in mind, sir kossyablaze?!
I appreciate this a lot sir. May God Almighty Keep you at the core of His Radar!

hi, sir kossyablaze.

I neither intend to be presumptuous nor mean to be bothersome, buhh I have resolved to deem it appropriate to make it known to you that - I have sent messgaes to you sir, I mean to nothingelse****

michaelabimbola**** is my id sir.

For God's Sake, please, do spare me some minutes out of your time to look into the messages 🙏🏽!

All will be well eventually.

SAMBARRY:
lmao dey play

lmfao, okay nah

SAMBARRY:
lol she is what we call Barbara the builder. Another pickmesha and I do not feel bad for her because pickmesha no dey ever hear word until they collect hot breakfast

If you are a woman in nigeria of today witnessing all the things men do to women and witnessing what 2face did to annie and you're still a Barbara the builder then you deserve the breakfast

lol, okay nah

Banditry, kidnappings, herdsmen menace.

All of them can be stopped within a short time, if the government so wills it.
They keep happening, because the Nigeria government seems to tolerate them.

All will be well though.

It is plausible, that, pain is needed to achieve some distinct forms of progress.
Buhh using "pain", as an integral prerequisite for all forms of progress in life, isn't tenable please. It is misleading.

Rather than pain, the true prerequisites for giant strides are discipline, focus, tenacity, patience and resilience.

Life in Nigeria, and the momentarily entrenched structures which are inept, births the propensity, to normalize pain.
There is everything abnormal with going through pain, everytime advancement wants to be made.

Shall we say an individual is truly living when he/she is always experiencing unending pain??!

At times, pain that is being avoided, either spontaneously or by advise, is where an individual's failure or doom lies.

People need to be careful about the teachings they encounter and subject themselves to.
Someone may listen to a message, and either be set backward or forward, by at least 10 years, in the course of fulfilling destiny in life, so, individuals needs to make it an habit, to properly vet what they read or listen to, before commiting to it.

Elzazzi:
My parents owe me everything even though I’m from a humble family.



Again I think you’re getting it wrong in this context. Nobody owes you money. That’s what I mean. I do help people but don’t make it look like I owe because I decided to help. Many have this entitlement mindset and I think that’s where the OP is driving at. We can help each other but don’t make it an entitlement. I can bet it that if I say you should give me 20k for something important you won’t do it. You will feel why will you even want to give me. That’s the thing.

"Nobody owes you money".
Even your parents?!

You say, you're from a humble family and your parents owes you everything, and still harbor the mindset that, nobody, even your parents owes you money?!

It seems you haven't grasp the needed insight to acknowledge the fact that, money is at the core of everything your parents have ever done for you.
It is the reason you sound conflicting, and think I'm getting the whole point wrong, when infact I've encapsulated what you made known in my subsequent write-ups.
Remove money from all your parents have ever done for you, and see if what remains hold water.

I'm not a proponent of an entitled mindset, especially to other people's resources, excluding parents, because they willingly brought a child to this world without being forced.
Buhh based on how things work, individuals that constitutes this world, needs to acknowledge the fact that, we are man-dependent. It has been proven that, it is impossible to achieve anything, without inputs of other people, so due to this, individuals owe each other inputs, so as for purposes to be achieved.

It is not about being entitled, it's about acknowledging reality. And despite this reality, it isn't tenable at all for an individual to be apathetic, and not be practical about his/her life. It is a sin.
It is the individual's proactiveness and intentionality about his/her life, that would attract probable inputs from others.

You can't approach me for 20, 000 in an entitled way, and expect to elicit a response from me.
At best, you can only appeal to me to oblige your request, and if you do, then, it would now be up to me to critically ascertain your genuineness, and thereafter, recognize the fact that, my input is really needed to birth an achievement in your life, just like I would need input of others eventually, to fulfil a purpose.

Elzazzi:
But true true nobody owes anyone anything na. I mean at least try your best even before someone might look out for you. You know people feel too entitled in this country. By the way, I can be friends with him online, just to see some of him nuggets not physical friends Lol

even you feel your parents owe you nothing?!

As a toddler when you couldn't do a thing and all you did, was mess up everything, how would you have fared if they treated you with the mindset that, they owe you nothing?!

Even now that you've grown well, do you still feel your parents doesn't owe you imbuement of wisdom, guidance, and be on the lookout for you, so you won't err?

And what about friends and family, should you be down momentarily and unable to do a thing for a time, are you sure you would be the same again if the mentality of "I owe you nothing" is being bluntly dished out at you?

The leaders are voted-in by the citizens of Nigeria, to be at the helm of affairs, to bring forth what they promised to fruition, so Nigeria owes them everything.
Just because most leaders here are the way they are, I mean narcissistic and on the lookout for their interests alone, doesn't make it normal. They ought to be made accountable for their actions on all grounds.

Would America be great today if her leaders never put the citizens first?!
Even the present president, Trump, is always shouting "Make America Great Again". He's always saying "Americans first".

Do you mean an individual would wait under rain and the hot sun to cast votes for people who would eventually feel they owe such individual nothing?!
If it were you, OP, would you do such?!
It would only be sane to vote for leaders who has the best interest of the citizens at heart.
And a leader who has the best interest of the citizenry at heart, would undoubtedly put them at the core of his interest.

See, it takes the availability and actions of other men, for everyone in this world, to fulfil destiny, based on how the world is designed.
Buhh this realization shouldn't make anyone lazy, laid-back or complacent. It is in proactiveness, that the needed inputs of other people, would spring forth.

Even the OP' would be unable to express his views on here, without the initiative of Mister Seun Osewa.
He's able to access this site, through the internet that's created by other people, using the mobile that was invented by unique individuals.
Infact, he was able to subscribe to internet plans, by spending money that was given to him by other people.
And for him to be given money?! He had to work for people.
Even if he doesn't work for people and he is an entrepreneur, it still takes inputs from people to get his business running and patronage of his services by people, for him to rake in profits.

We as people, are integral to each others functionality.

femi4:
Your parents, family, friends et al owes you nothing. Stop using them as excuses

listen to this.

what sort of mentality is this for God's Sake?!

who has engineered this mindset into some people??!

If parents owes the child nothing, why then was he/she brought forth to this world by them in the first place ?! To just leave him/her out in the cold to fend for himself/herself?! Why then are they called "parents" if they feel they don't owe the child they birthed anything??!

If people you call "family" feels they owe you nothing, why then are they called "family" in the first place?!

If people you regard as "friends" don't have your back, won't it be puerile to still call them "friends"?! Does it even make sense??!

Parents owe the child everything! Family owes one of theirs everything!! Friends owes their fellow friends everything!!

People, yourself inclusive, won't be able to fulfil purpose, without inputs of other people.

We owe it other people to help them rise.

Even the Supreme Being, God, needs people, to herald and perpetuate his godly works. How much more we human beings??!

Elzazzi:
I so much love this. OP can we be friends? I love having folks like you as friends.

Be friends with the grotesque mindset that you owe each other nothing?!

Please, how would such friendship be beneficial in the long run since the mantra would be "all man for himself"?!

GOFRONT:
Its an ineffective shit...........It is needless getting irritated by the shit of a newborn odourless shit...


If it were to be the shit of those adults who defecate openly at Bariga motor park and Iyana Iba that crawl down ya hands, then there should be a cause for alarm.

Imíkímí, lol!

K'Ólórun máje k'éyàn soríi'bú.

grazoks:
Hello bro, I will give you this counsel because you said your "WIFE", before them go carry you go Mr crazy clown therapy session.
Please understand that most women don't like penetration, most of them do it for the men but majority dont like gbola. So if that's the way she gets climax, please read.

1. Vj actually has a taste and that's natural "if it's clean"
2. Without Infection, there is no known health implications the last time I checked but studies are still on, however there are different theories here and there...
3. Try to control the saliva but if it pours out, try not to swallow the saliva, you can always excuse yourself after she climax to clean up, brush your mouth and come back to her. Please don't leave her in the heat just to brush, ensure she achieves orgasm before leaving. It's easier for you to restart than for her.
4. I want you to understand that there is no known template in the scripture. It's your duty to satisfy your wife sexually and sex is sweet when you both pleasure each other. If that's what she wants, please don't deny her. This is how to do it. Ensure you both take your shower, no panties after bath, then you can attempt it. Use only tongue and try to avoid saliva, you can do it for a long time without saliva if you control it well. Since it takes some ladies longer time to climax, you might want to be touching other parts as you do lick the plate, avoid kissing at this point. Check out what makes her climax and do it quickly. So you can go and wash up, if tooth paste isn't available, use mouthwash. After that comeback and finish your own work.
Good Hygiene is essential bro. Love your wife and do your best to enjoy sex and in turn marriage.

If you good your wife a good head!!! Bro, she will just be smiling sheepishly the next day.

So, you mean he should oblige her request of cunnilingus, because according to you, there's no known scriptural template of acceptable form of sexual demand in marriage, and that, it is his duty to satisfy her sexually, even if he could get cancer from it?

The Supreme Being is not an author and orchestrator of confusion and destruction.

That He mandates him to satisfy her sexually, doesn't mean he should indulge in dirty and depraving acts of giving head, thre*some, orgies etc, just because she demands it.

Vinnie2000:
What was done to Tesla, that you didn't like?

Go to page 56 of the book please. The 7th law starts from there.

The malfeasances against Tesla are documented there, in details.