₦airaland Forum

eejo:
Majority of Nigerian Security Forces are on Nairaland and this information is for them. The current system cannot solve our security issues but this advice if followed will reduce the killings in Nigeria.
Advantages of Nigeria security forces
1,Total Air space control by Nigeria Airforce
2, They outnumber the Bandits

Bandits Advantage
Lack of information during attack on Nigerians due to lack of Emergency call centre
Solution
Expansion of National call centre to all the 36 states of the Country which will notify security forces within minutes of attack and the Airforce can response with back up following it up. local vigilantes should be converted into Civillian JTF for effective coverage.
Nigeria needs expansion of our national call centre number 112 to save lives.

Your suggestions and inputs are good sir.

Your proposed measures, if implemented, would significantly curb banditry, even kidnappings and armed robberies.

Buhh I need to bring it to your notice that, the bandits can't work smoothly, infact, won't be able to deploy logistics at all, without having insiders in the air force, army, police, who constantly supplies them with intelligence reports.

The bandits have infiltrated the security apparatus of this country. Those bandits have moles everywhere. So, even if the security personnels are contacted during the precise time bandits are attacking, the moles either in the army, air force or police, would likely always sabotage the intervention of the security forces.
Those security personnels are underpaid, so it's easy for some of them to be compromised when met with huge financial rewards, from the sponsors of banditry.

In addition to your proposed solutions sir, I will use this medium to suggest to the security personnels, to work hard to fish out the moles among them, to stop leakages of intel, so that rescue missions and counter attacks on bandits won't be sabotaged anymore.

DrFunmisticGlow:
And you think he will do all that?

His actions of sending his wife and 5 children packing will forever be a stain and a curse on anything he wants to be in future.

whether or not he would change, is something I won't know, since I'm not pansophical.
Omniscience is God's Divine attribute, so only Him, who Sees and Knows all things, is in the Ultimate Position to Judge.

Besides, the past deeds of many people in this world, are much worse than this man's. Yet, those people genuinely changed for the better, and went on to become great people.

The past can't have any hold on a man, unless he allows it.

Kobojunkie:
It is up to the ma but earlier you had mentioned it was the responsibility of a god somewhere.

For God's will to be established, man's input is needed.

Man's availability and actions are needed to actualize and perpetuate God's Cause.

As men, we are God-dependent. Though God-dependent, men are to be proactive in the course of fulfilling their purpose. It is in men's intentionality and zealousness, that God's involvement would find expression and manifest, if the purpose behind the proactiveness is consistent with God's Will.

That I wasn't fully expressive in my previous comment, doesn't invalidate my claim.

I won't engage you more than this.

DrFunmisticGlow:
past behavior is always a good predictor of future behavior

"The best predictor of the future is the past."

This above ipsissima-verba is apt.
Even the present, just like the past, is a true pointer to how the future could be like.

Buhh both predictors and pointers, though valid, are tethered to limitation, so they aren't the ultimate.

Change is constant.
There are individuals who used to be rich in the past buhh presently, they're impoverished due to a reason or the other.
And, some individuals were pauperized in the past, buhh when whirligig of time happened, they're presently wealthy.

In both cases, their pasts didn't determine their future. The same also applies habit-wise. That an individual used to be belligerent and cantankerous, doesn't mean he won't eventually grow into a very gentle and peace-loving person

It's up to the man himself, to take hold of his destiny and command it.

Kobojunkie:
How? By opening stores which they then expect to thrive by magical means for the financially incapable women they marry?

This is parochialism at it's peak.

Kobojunkie:
Thousands are dying of hunger related causes in Nigeria today many of them children and majority of them from very poor backgrounds. But your opinion is that these issues should not be judged...God somewhere with identity unknown should be allowed to do so?

2. Ah! The magical-mindset at it again... Naira 1000 a day feeding for six is temporary, tomorrow everything go better, right?

I won't engage in logomachy with you.

Your pronounced atheistic tendencies, coupled with illogically logical stances, invalidates me from indulging in any form of engagement with you.

You've been denying the basis upon which you're made for very long, so at a capacity, you're numb, antagonistic and won't pander to tendencies which are of divine source.

Until you back'pedal from being a juggernaut of atheism, you won't be engaged please.

DrFunmisticGlow:
But we know that men don't look for money when getting with a woman, that's not how the world works.

That was previously.

Men are starting to incorporate financial independence in their criterion for compatibility, when it comes to seeking women for marriage.

DrFunmisticGlow:
A man that gives a woman 1k to feed 6 people and ask for sex in the same day cannot raise children ALONE to be useful members of society. Period!!

Some of the children will die under his care.

Or he will pawn them off for his mother/relatives/ girlfriends to raise.

Is that not what most these poor single fathers do?


Lol!!

The man seems not to be financially buoyant "momentarily" based on what's made-known, so, the odds are against him currently, yeah.

Only God has the final say, so quit being judgemental and dismissive.
Today, he may be down financially, buhh tomorrow, he might be up there at the top of the ladder, financially.

Monetary-wise, character-wise, he might change, which could make my earlier made-known fact feasible.
Never say never.

DrFunmisticGlow:
if the woman is doing nothing to contribute as you think.

Let her drop the 5 children with the man so that she can look for work. See if it is easy to care for 5 children


Even if that 1k is his last money, shouldn't he be ashamed to ask for sex?

Will you still have an erection once you see that your wife and children are starving?

If you can, then yes you are selfish?

If I were the woman, I would pack out and leave his children for him

buhh if the man manages to raise those children into decent and well-to-do people, you would be back to claim what? being their mother??!

not justifying the man's callous act though.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Very true.
But women are the one getting pregnant and putting their lives at risk.


A poor woman's legs must never be moist for a poor man, but for a financially responsible man who can Guarantee the safety of her and his unborn child. If not, she is a fool

It's not the woman's leg that moistens when it comes to sex, it's the female reproductive organ between her legs that moistens and lubricates. You should know this.

The person you quoted, was saying poor women should never moisten at all because they themselves are poor, whether or not the men they encounter are poor or rich.
This was birthed when someone earlier made an assertion, that, poor men should not have an erection because they're poor.

eejo:
Tomorrow meeting on how to put international pressure on Nigeria leaders start with my international friends and will update my followers on the next approach. Nigerians are suffering and we cannot allow this to continue. I have friends all over the World and am ready for this course. Free Healthcare, Education and improve standard of living is all am asking for. Migration can no longer solve our problem as many Countries are closing their Borders to immigrants. The following is my invitation letter which shows people on the international stage are worried about Nigeria.

for some time now, trade unionists, human rights activists, and campaigners asking for a standard of living that people can pay for the basic bills with have been subject to state persecution in Nigeria.

Many young campaigners have been imprisoned, and paraded in court hearings where they looked malnourished and badly treated. International pressure has had some impact on the Nigerian authorities, who do not like this negative image of the country being seen.

Nigerian President, Bolo Tinubu has introduced policies that have seen souring inflation. He has done precious little to help the people of Nigeria.

Your aims are altruistic, buhh while at them, do try and play safe sir.

Corruption has eaten deep into virtually all sectors in Nigeria. And, one of your aims hoping to come to fruition, involves comprehensive war against corruption.

When you fight corruption, corruption fights back epicly. So, please be cautious sir.

Try and do your best sir, buhh if the emerging results seems inimical to the intended aim and challenges your peace of mind, please, endeavor to make sure you don't get endangered, by lieing low.

BItt:
I read your letter and it's a nice approach. But it's good to be realistic when it comes to education... Education, most especially from secondary level to the tertiary level should not be free.
This is will help people understand the value of paid education and effort.

I know your letter is born out of good will.

Should people who are too impoverished to sponsor their wards in secondary schools and higher institutions be denied access to education just because they can't pay for it?

The government is capable of doing it. Them being voted to be at the helm of affairs, is to utilize our commonwealth to subject all and sundry to a life of ease.

A student who will value education will value it, even if it's free.
And a student who won't value education won't value it, even if trillions are paid for it.

Besides, a significant number of the leaders at the helm of affairs today, were true beneficiaries of free education. They benefitted massively from free education which was provided by the government of their era.

eejo:
Thanks to all those who asked about me. Am fine and busy working on my dream for a great Nigeria. My tears came down watching the level of suffering Nigeria have been subjected to. Hospitals are expensive with no resources, massive unemployment and food unaffordable for the common Man. Security forces are trying their best but not enough resources to combat crime. My words NIGERIANS ARE IN ECONOMIC HELL and something must be done urgently to save lives. I have started my fight for Nigerians and below is my letter to the political class which have been submitted to their offices and will use all my power to see Nigerians enjoy free Healthcare, Education and massive employment for our Youths.

The President
Federal Republic of Nigeria.

NATIONAL EMERGENCY SERVICES AND FREE EDUCATION FOR ALL NIGERIANS
Nigerians have over a long period of time have experience unspeakable things during incidents and this have to change. 80 percent of the country have no emergency response such as Ambulances, Fire service and many Families are struggling to pay educational fess for their children. My proposal to solve this problem is stated below
1, 10 percent Tax on all salaries paid in Nigeria to fund Healthcare and Education
2, Diaspora passport renewal should have a Tax fee for our development
3, All foreign Workers should pay Insurance Tax for our Healthcare and Education
4, 4 percent of all profit before Tax for Organisation in Nigeria paid as Insurance Tax
Insurance Tax from the above sources will generate the fund to run free Healthcare and Education for all Nigerians. In addition, this will generate over 20 million Jobs for our youths and reduce poverty.
The funding will be used to upgrade our 774 Hospitals in local government to international standard, 100,000 Ambulances from Innosons motors, 36 Air ambulance Helicopters, 100,000 fire trucks and this can be achieved within five years of investment.
This project when implemented will change lives and position Nigeria as a superpower in the World.
Enemona Ocholi


cc:
Vice President
Federal Republic of Nigeria

cc:

The Senate President
Federal Republic of Nigeria

cc:
Speaker House of Representatives
Federal Republic of Nigeria

cc:
Chairman
Governor’s Forum
Federal Republic of Nigeria



ENEMONA OCHOLI
(Team Leader)
Make Nigeria Great Again

Your candid aims and precise objectives are impeccable and commendable sir. Your altruism is admirable and inspiring.

Even those indicated political personnels, are well aware of the needs of the common people, buhh they consciously chose to be apathetic and lackadaisical about them, due to the saturation of Nigeria political microcosm with maniacal narcissism.
The Nigerian politicians, most of them, are only there at the helm of affairs, to serve their individual interests.

What you highlighted and enumerated and much more, should have been well established by default, by the politicians, buhh since it doesn't directly benefit them and all they gyrate towards is core toxic politicking, they would dismissively nip these laudable recommendations in the mud as usual, or probably showily implement just some of them, which would create an avenue for those who would be placed in charge of the implementation to loot the funds apportioned.

Letmecum:
I've been masturbating for over 20 years and I feel good about it because it helps me to stay away from olosho and all this hunger girls. It's a natural act but don't get addicted to it.

no, masturbation isn't holistically natural. It is morally unnatural.

It is an artificially-induced act, which due to persistent indulgence, has been incorporated into the body's natural circadian rhythm. This births an habit, and fools masturbators into thinking the act is natural. The habit of masturbating activity then creates addiction.

Most masturbators ends up being addicted to it, most times.
Even the OP has ended up being addicted, yourself inclusive, if you will be realistic.

You can steer clear from masturbation and still avoid olosho. You can have it all, it's all about mindset.

Everything is bad about the opprobrious and depraved act, called masturbation.

Do something once, then it becomes an habit, which eventually births addiction most times.

The brain would register the act immediately, and continues to replicate the act indefinitely, until such individual makes a proactive effort, gets deliberately volitional, and put the act to it's end.

Please, do whatever it takes to utterly rid yourself of masturbation. An individual would be condemned to perpetual limitation, due to habitual masturbation.

You can't be masturbating constantly, and aim to be productive. And with productivity out of the picture, it would be difficult or outrightly impossible to fufil purpose in life.

Ablesam171:
Those who choose self-deception may continue to live in denial, but as for me and my household, we will always consider a woman’s past before paying her bride price.

A woman’s purity is her pride and should be a cherished gift to her husband. You cannot live recklessly and expect no consequences.

Men should no longer bear the burden of repairing what they did not break.

Na de past of woman na en mata and na man future mata. If you know you know.

I am born with value, in fact, with the highest of value!

You can believe otherwise about yourself just because it was regurgitated by a random person or random people.

Man is born without value?!
No way!

A man, starts being valuable, right from the moment he's birthed, until his death.
Some men even continue to be valuable after death, because mentioning their names alone, opens doors.

A man's value isn't determined by his future alone.
The best predictor of the future, is the past, so, man isn't exempted from being determined in terms of value, by his past.
Also, what a man is presently, the value he contributes presently, would be a true pointer and a real eye-opener, to how valuable he would be in the future.

The past, present and future, sums up a man's, in fact, everyone's value in life.

martinosi:
Time to praise Him!!!

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt2IdjOx084

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I have sent you mails. Do vouchsafe to open and check please.

michaelabim*************27@gmail.com is my email address.
Michael Abimbola A. is the name.

I'm very expectant of your response sir.

I quoted you here due to privacy reasons, and so you can locate me with ease.

JagaLove:
My name is XYZ I graduated from secondary school at 15 in year 2010. That was the same year I first masturbated; I was in my room one day and all of a sudden I started stroking my genitals; after a little while I felt the release of semen. The feeling was enjoyable and soothing or so I thought not knowing the Devil had crept into my life. I curse the day I got to do this first.

I was staying alone with my dad in a single room apartment and dad would always leave early for work and return late. Immediately dad leaves for work I start masturbating. Sometimes once in a day, sometimes twice, even thrice at most.

I got admission into the university and this didn't stop. It was easier for me since I stayed off campus. Sometimes I masturbate before going to class and feel dizzy when in class through out my stay in the university I was masturbating. I started developing negative consequences like anxiety, guilt, tiredness and weakness, I thought some of these things were normal or so inability to associate with people especially ladies. I could just see a girl then and I want to have sex with her and sunce i can't I'd wait till my spare time and do the deed. I would think people were seeing through me that I masturbate. I had this false confidence like I was the man.

I moved in to the school hostel in my third year and that didn't stop. I masturbated in my hostel room and even in the open field in school. Just trying to skip a lot of details. There's no place of family or friend I've visited where I did not masturbate. Even during my NYSC in year 2022 I masturbated all through the scheme.

I try to stop and can go off for I week or three days and i'd be back to it. I masturbate with my productive time and It has been 15 years now since I started masturbating I don't have good social skills, my relationship with people is faint, i don't have a job and its even a scandal now. People around me say it because I don't have a girlfriend I don't have friends and I don't talk to anybody. Not having a girlfriend is not my problem Worst of it all is I missed my purpose. I can't say it to anybody cause I'm ashamed of it so I came here to pour my heart and advice anyone who is tempted. I t ruins life. I'm supposed to be a role model but I'm the opposite. I used to have high hopes but now my intelligence level has dwindled.

Masturbation is a demon and an evil spirit. I just pray God helps and heal me and restore me. Praise God.

honestly, the best time for him to circumvent the depraving act of masturbation, is at this time that he's alone, and not when he starts dating or gets married.

Him substituting masturbation with other activities, would only momentarily distract him from the act.
He would return to the act eventually, especially when the trigger factors surfaces again.
Besides, not all trigger factors can really be avoided. A time would come when he would find himself alone even if married or living with roommates.
Also, inasmuch as the OP has access to the internet, he can't completely avoid pornography. If he won't look for pornography, the internet would bring pornography to him. It's a fact!

Do something once, then it becomes an habit. The brain would register the act immediately, and continues to replicate the act indefinitely, until such individual makes a conscious effort, gets deliberately volitional, and put the act to it's end.

With masturbation, comes the accompanying fact that, the brain has registered the act since it's day of inception, and incorporated it into the body's natural cycle, indefinitely, birthing a urge.
This is the reason the OP has been unable to rid himself of masturbation since the brain has registered the act as natural, and no solid, persistent effort has been made, to end the spontaneity attached to the artificially-induced act.

Until the OP himself gets imbued with vehement resolve and become very persistently intentional in completely breaking the artificially-induced natural masturbating cycle, he would be perpetually plagued with the ignominious act.

Avoiding the trigger-factors alone won't put the masturbating act to a stop since the act has been established psychologically already.

The combined pragmatic actions of deep reflection, identification of, and withdrawal from the propelling-factors and root cause of the act, together with the simultaneous action of constantly working on breaking the natural hold masturbation has on the body, would rid the OP of the morally-depraving act.

Masturbation can only be circumvented totally by combined actions, and not by a sole, single action of avoiding the trigger-factors.

Even the combined actions must be practical, intentional and proactive.

The OP should do whatever it takes, to utterly rid himself of masturbation.
An individual would be condemned to perpetual limitation, due to habitual masturbation.
You can't be masturbating constantly, and aim to be productive.
And with productivity out of the picture, it would be difficult or outrightly impossible to fufil purpose in life.

As posted by "realmz" on Facebook, verbatim!

Give "realmz" their due credit at least.