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WantsandMore:
you’re acting with logic but we all know there’s nothing logical in the matters of the heart…He mustn’t sacrifice one for the ambitions of the other, moreover what’s guaranteed if not love and affection?

Buhh in this case, his heart doesn't yearn for the lady at all, so there's no "matters of the heart".
It's the lady that's forcing herself on him through manipulation.

Besides, in all life facets, love especially, allowing the heart the sole liberty of choice, is something dicey, because it could lead an individual far astray.

With this valid and pragmatic concept, an enlightened individual won't boycott logic and circumspection when it comes to "matters of the heart", because his stability, focus and progress in life depends on it.

The heart would always feel. It's something involuntary which defies volition.
Buhh the brain is also allowed to do critical analyses, to play safe.

And no, love and affection aren't ultimately guaranteed, if he gives in to her advances.
More manipulations, exploitations and narcissism are what's guaranteed, if he panders to her tendencies.

WantsandMore:
you need both, don’t be deluded, a relationship that works is one where a man chases his dreams while a woman chases his attention/affection and love and protection and everything fits. “Tell her you want to date her on trial/probation” see how she reacts

So, you think he's wriggling and jiggling in delusion, because he's firm and certain of the fact that, he doesn't want distraction and exploitation disguised as love?

ebubeson:
Its been years I put on radio FM to hear. Do many people still put it on to hear?

It's an habitual thing with me, and I've been at it for a decade, at least.

An individual would have access to high levels of wisdom, by listening to some distinct programmes on radio.

There are some specific radio programmes which are strategically scheduled, and when listened to on an everytime basis, such individual would be very enlightened in such a way that, his/her life would never remain the same again.

guobe:
Who needs a million naira and why do you need it.
Someone might just see your comment and decide to help out.
An angel has once sent me something huge here on nairaland.
Keep hope alive .
God

Edygrin:
I don't understand how some people reason, how is transferring someone money a scam, who exactly did I scam? or does scam have another meaning, the person I sent the money received it but you're calling me a scammer, who exactly did I scam?

I blocked him because I detest bad energy.

I don't have to send everyone money to prove any point, tomorrow I'll be going through the thread again to pick someone else, not because you asked me to but because I want to help and for the OP there's something for you too

Great and open-minded individuals, I don't need a million naira, rather, I'm in genuine and dire need of 70 - 90k, to complete my orthopaedic treatment at LAUTECH Teaching Hospital, which has been lingering and paused due to a momentary lack of funds.

An excellent and philanthropic soul, NemoDatQuod, has helped with the initial amount of 50k, which has enabled me to delve into the treatment completion phase at a capacity.
However, 70 - 90k remains needed momentarily, to see the treatment completion phase to it's finishing.

It's the reason I'm actively using this avenue to appeal to your discerning, empathetic and benevolent personality, to seek financial aid, so as to secure the made-known amount that remains, perhaps.

Wonderful people, please, do graciously extend the benevolence of donating any amount you're able-to, so as to add it to the one on ground, to purchase the next batch of drugs for the 3 - 4 months that remains, in the treatment completion phase.

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Samueltemi337:
8k sent

I acknowledge this, sir eejo.

thanks Samueltemi337.

Samueltemi337:
Those on the list drop account number as sir eejo has instructed

Thanks

eejo:
Am going to give you 100k, take your 50k and share 8k each to 6 people who wrote the correct answer

Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria.

@ Samueltemi337 please consider.

All will be well eventually.

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