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 Family / Re: Why Should The Honeymoon Be Over? A Must Read! by thecreativeguy(m): 11:05am On Aug 07, 2015 |
continuation WHY SHOULD THE HONEYMOON BE OVER? The honeymoon period is a very important one in marriage. It is that wonderful period when a couple begin living together immediately after wedding; and are graced with the excitement of their new found freedom (exploring each other body, emotional tie and joy, etc). And in the midst of the pleasures and enjoyment couples feel during their honeymoon period, they do wish they've gotten married earlier than they did; and thank God for the gift of marriage. However, for many couples, after sometimes, the honeymoon get over. They no longer feel what they felt at the initial stage of their marriage. And they see their union moving away from the state it was when they are newly weds, into another stage not too pleasant. Here are vital factors that could make the Honeymoon get over soon in a marriage (i.e that pleasurable stage). 1. Adjusting To Pregnancy. Sure, one vital thing that makes the honeymoon delicious is the exploration of each other bodies (sex and intimacy). But as soon as pregnancy set in, many couples sex life get cold. Some women wouldn't want sex due to their unstable hormones; while some men will be scared of 'harming the baby.' Also, during pregnancy, some husbands find their wives' behaviours disgusting and irritating, thus they avoid coming home when they should. SOLUTION: Sex during pregnancy is wonderful. Wives, if you don't have the urge, please consider your hubby (be prepared to offer 'sacrificial sex'- even if you wouldn't enjoy it, be happy to let him enjoy it). Unless the doctor said abstain, the baby is safe, fire on! Also get good resources that give tips for sex during pregnancy Husbands, when she's acting irritatingly during pregnancy, practice sacrificial love- love her when she doesn't deserve it. Remember, you put the baby there! 2. Adjusting To Parenthood: I'm sure every first time couple will tend to battle with this. When some women just put to birth, they shift their attention to their newly found pearl (their baby). And there is hubby, in a dilemma: He is struggling not to see his baby as a rival. Then slowly, he begin withdrawing himself. SOLUTION: Babies are gifts from God. Couples shouldn't allow their babies put a gap between them. During the early days that the wife put to bed, both can still have intimate fun if they want (avoid penetration, do other things). Always remember that your children will leave you someday, and only your spouse will remain with you. 3. BOREDOM: When we keep doing the same thing all over and over, chances are that we will still get bored of it. You know one of the reasons the honeymoon period is exciting? It is because we always look forward to something special we know we will love. But unfortunately, many couples soon get to a stage where they become 'to used to each other'. SOLUTION: The keywords here are 'varieties' and 'spicing'. Keep surprising one another with different things. Sex, food, dressing, dates, games, hobbies, vacation, good thrills, anything: Varieties and Spice. SOURCE: http://www.creativeguyhub.com/2015/08/why-should-honeymoon-be-over-must-read.html 1 Like |
| Literature / Re: Princess Habana Find True Love- Part 1 by thecreativeguy(m): 7:24pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
the episode 2 is now on my blog. kindly check it out. |
| Family / Re: Why Should The Honeymoon Be Over? A Must Read! by thecreativeguy(m): 7:16pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
Behira: Come on, read it and learn the points I'm trying to pass whilst I call lalasticlala and ishilove |
| Family / Why Should The Honeymoon Be Over? A Must Read! by thecreativeguy(m): 6:34pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
written by thecreativeguy Dotun just found himself in an entire new world. A world different from the one he knew when still a bachelor. He dipped himself into this new world two weeks ago, immediately he tied the knot with his fiancee- Folu. During their courtship period, he thought he completely loved Folu. But when Folu became his wife and had stayed in his house for just three days, he was suprised to find out that he can't actually live without her. Just then, a text message came into his phone, bringing him out of his sweet thoughts. It was Folu: 'Sweetpie. I just saw your 10 missed calls and your romantic message. I forgot my phone at home when i went to get some foodstuffs. But guess what? A surprising meal awaits your stomach, and my hands can't wait to give you a tender massage immediately i've washed dirts away from your body right under the shower. Expecting you.' Dotun was still savouring what he just read when Fred, his friend and colleague, entered his office. 'Guy. The meeting has being shifted to another day. We are free for today. This is good news to we guys..' 'Thank God.' A delighted Dotun intercepted, hurriedly standing from his seat, preparing to leave. Fred looked at him surprisingly. 'Where are you going?' Fred asked surprised. 'Home of course' Dotun said absentmindly, zipping his laptop bag. Fred was still surprised. 'But today is the F.A Cup final between Man U and Chelsea. The rest guys are already waiting down stairs so we all could go watch it together.' 'Oh. Am not watching.' Dotun said, moving towards the door. Fred stood up, still surprised. 'But Dotun. We are talking about Chelsea. And it's the final.' With a hand on the door jar, Dotun addressed Fred with a tone that seem dreamy 'I say i don't want to watch. I want to go home.' 'But...Dotun...Dotun!! Two Years Later. Fred entered Dotun's office and threw himself on a seat. 'Lover boy. The supervisors wouldn't come again today. We are free to go.' Immediately, a frown glued to Dotun's face. He looked at his wrist watch, then Fred's face. 'But why should we close yet. It's just 2 pm.' 'If the manager said we are closed, then why shouldn't we close? Fred said happily, rising from his seat. 'Besides, it's good news to we guys.' He was moving toward the door when Dotun called him back. 'Guy' Dotun begin, 'Where are you going now?' 'HO' Fred begin talking enthusiastically 'There is a new joint in town where they sell snail pepper soup? Have you tried that before? Samson is sponsoring us there today! That brought a smile to Dotun's face. 'But why don't you guys carry me along like before? Fred looked at him, half serious, half mockery 'We thought marriage is still 'shacking' you na. So we don't want to disturb you.' Dotun quickly replied. 'Okay. I'm going with you guys' Fred was excited. 'Yes! You are back to your senses. The guys really missed you in the crew. But wait. Is your wife not at home? 'Ho, She and her daughter are there jor. Let's forget about her. Let's start going.... SOURCE:www.creativeguyhub.com/2015/08/why-should-honeymoon-be-over-must-read.html?m=1 |
| Family / Re: How I Escaped Having Sex In My Early Teens (A Must Read For Parents)! by thecreativeguy(m): 12:40pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Continuation... Nevertheless, something keep coming into my mind(even now that i'm writing this). Something keep telling me that if we had have sex then (even if it's once) she will get pregnant. And even if she didn't get pregnant when me and her did it, other guys will have sex with her and impregnate her. And when her parents ask her who slept with her, she will certainly call my name. Now imagine if that happened to be the cas, a young J.S.S 3 teenager already a father! It will be a big disgrace to my family, and it will certainly have some effects on my future. So, I will give parents some advises. You should take this issue seriously. When children are approaching puberty, they experience changes. They want to experiment those passions they are yet to know how to tame. So parents must play an active role; hence your child put you to shame. What should parents do? Don't give them too much chance. After my episode with that girl, I would have being having sex around (even with prostitutes- I will still talk about that in another post) but my mum doesn't give me and my siblings 'anyhow' chance. Before we can go play football, we seek permission. So, no chance for nonsense!! Don't belong to the school of thought of 'Our world has changed, they can't but do it, let just teach them contraceptive'. That's wrong! Our traditions and cultures (either Ibo, Yoruba, or Hausa) celebrates virginity. Even our religions (I'm a Christian, and I know this) encourage chastity. So, encourage your children to embrace chastity. Let them be chaste, it's for their own good! lalasticlala, ishilove http://www.creativeguyhub.com/2015/07/how-i-escaped-having-sex-in-my-early.html 50 Likes 4 Shares |
| Family / How I Escaped Having Sex In My Early Teens (A Must Read For Parents)! by thecreativeguy(m): 12:38pm On Aug 01, 2015 |
Presently, there's something happening around my vicinity. There is a young girl (i learn her mother is late) brought from the village to Lagos by her aunt. She had settled with her aunt's family and had being living with them for some years now, and they were sending her to school. Before now, I use to think her aunt was her mum. But few days ago, they couldn't find her. Then it was later discovered that she've being with a boy in his house. Now that she's back home, her aunt is determined to send her back to the village. Her education is at stake (she should be in S.S.S 2 next term), and so many other things. 'Absurd' characters are often displayed by young teens (male and female) every now and then. You know, they are just finding those passions, and are just bent on experimenting with them, irrespective of what may. Let me tell you my case. I remembered when I newly stepped into puberty phrase. We were done with our Junior W.A.E.C, and while others goes to school, the J.S.S 3 students stay at home. I remembered how glad i was when i discovered i can now have a 'different' erection. I remembered when i discovered my penis can now bring out sperm. I was delighted when i saw the sperms coming out whenever i'm touching my penis (while looking at half-naked women or their private parts, in books or newspapers). Then i think i begin seeing girls as i haven't being doing before. I'm now very aware that by touching their bodies (especially their breasts) it will bring pleasure to me. I want to put the things i hear about sex into practice. And there was a girl, a tenant in our house. I think she was also a J.S.S 3 student. Thus, when everyone had gone to school, we were at home. And i was imagining doing it with her. She also was just approaching the phrase, and from her gestures, it seem she also want to experiment with her passions. But do you know one basic thing that didn't let me and her be able to have sex? BOLDNESS. I Thank GOD i didn't have the boldness to tell her that. I didn't even know how to tell her. When my mum (she's now late) ask her to call me (my mum's shop is beside our house) and she's inside our house, I will want us to utilize that chance, but Boldness. And till we begin going back to school, i never have the boldness to ask her for it. SOURCE: http://www.creativeguyhub.com/2015/07/how-i-escaped-having-sex-in-my-early.html 11 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance / Re: 10 Reasons Some Working Class Ladies Still Have Sex For Money by thecreativeguy(m): 5:25pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
gamaliel121:What is it? Any way, I think lalasticlala and ishilove should see this |
| Webmasters / Re: Simple Truths All Nigeria Bloggers Must Face For Success In Blogging! by thecreativeguy(m): 2:37pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
charix:That means you encourage hard works and creativity You need to follow my blog then www.creativeguyhub.com |
| Webmasters / Re: Simple Truths All Nigeria Bloggers Must Face For Success In Blogging! by thecreativeguy(m): 2:34pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Obrigardo:which mean, if you see a creative Nigerian blogger, you must appreciate and encourage him or her. See my blog www.cretiveguyhub.com |
| Romance / Re: 10 Reasons Some Working Class Ladies Still Have Sex For Money by thecreativeguy(m): 1:31pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
XavierBlue:See points 5 and 8 |
| Romance / 10 Reasons Some Working Class Ladies Still Have Sex For Money by thecreativeguy(m): 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Written by thecreativeguy You see a lady working with a big company but still render the service of bed-warming to millionaires and billionaires, and you wonder: 'What does she want? www.creativeguyhub.com/2015/07/10-reasons-some-working-class-ladies.html?m=1 26 Likes 3 Shares |
| Literature / Princess Habana Find True Love- Part 1 by thecreativeguy(m): 5:30pm On Jul 30, 2015 |
The story is a Teenage Adventure Fiction
If you are a lover of adventure novels, you should follow this. Happy reading. In a big village called Popona, there was a great king called king Zola. King Zola was a rich and famous king loved by all and sundry because of his numerous good characters. One of his prominent characters that endeared him to people was that he does not discriminate people based on their social status. In fact, the humble king preferred to be around the ordinary men in the village instead of staying around the chiefs and rich men of the village who could go on boasting about their wives, farms, slaves, and so on, for a thousand years. Many of the inhabitants of Popona even made it a habit of visiting the king in his palace and the king always entertain them with foods and drinks; and in many cases, gifts. Before king Zola attained the throne, his predecessors who had ruled before him never stayed on the throne for more than eight years before they die. Meanwhile, king Zola is about to celebrate his sixteenth year on the throne. Little does the king know that his good characters as well as his humility contribute immensely to the factors that made him alive and remained with the crown for such a number of years when his predecessors only stayed for a maximum of eight years only. King Zola is a happy person when people are around him. But when he is alone, he is a sad and worried person. The prominent reason for this is that, his only wife Queen Kiki could not give him a son that will become his heir after he has gone to the place his forefathers had gone. Queen Kiki had only a daughter for the king. The name of the child is Princess Habana. After the royal family waited for a long time and no other child seem to be coming, they accepted their fate and gave all attention to their only child- Princes Habana. Princess Habana, being a child of the king, was pampered so much. She has lots of maids at her disposal. But despite being pampered, she wasn’t spoilt, but turned out to be a wise humble girl. Many of the villagers do say she took after her father’s good characters. Princess Habana grew into a very beautiful elegant lady when she begin approaching the stage of womanhood. Anywhere she passes, people around will usually get so carried away by her beauty. They loved and cherished their princess. She was an epitomeof feminine beauty. *****to be continued****** www.creativeguyhub.com/2015/07/princess-habana-find-her-true-love-part.html?m=1 |
| Webmasters / My New Blog Is Now Running! by thecreativeguy(m): 12:44pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
| Literature / A New Creative Blog Is Here by thecreativeguy(m): 12:07pm On Jul 29, 2015 |
www.creativeguyhub.com Few years ago when I was still young and still determined to start something that will make me rely less on my parents, and that will make me a success, I found blogging. After doing this and that, I remembered jumping into a conclusion: 'MY AUDIENCE SHOULD BE INTERNATIONAL'. Why? I guess my assumption was that, if one should face a Nigerian audience, the person wouldn't find success because Nigerians can be kind of 'unco-operative'. I can't remember the main reason that made me come to that conclusion (maybe it's because my initial ventures didn't yield a desired result). Well, as i grow, everything grows. I discovered that before one should start something, it is necessary to do a large research about it. I discovered that before one should start a blog, it is a necessity to have a good knowledge about the blogosphere. And since I realised that, I discovered that the initial thought I had: 'A BLOGGER WOULDN'T FIND EASY SUCCESS WITH A NIGERIAN AUDIENCE' is not too true. You see, the internet is a different world. The internet world is an unique world. The internet seem to be coded in a manner that an internet user ought to be more 'exposed' and knowledgeable than his or her counterparts who doesn't use it. Nigerians had also seen how informative, educative, and entertaining the internet could be- and they've decided to embraced it. Yes, Nigerians have embraced the internet. There are millions of Nigerians using the internet. Nigerians had seen the good benefits which the internet has. Nigerians have seen the good pleasures which are inside the internet . And they've decided to embrace the benefits the internet got to offer as well as the pleasures they could derive from it. Nevertheless, many Nigerians have some problems with many Nigerian Online Platforms. Nigerian internet readers are sick of the 'copy and paste' syndrome which many Nigerian sites and blogs seem to know how to do best. They are tired of reading something on Nigerian Blog A only to come read it on Nigerian Blog B, word for word. Nigerian readers want creativity. Nigerians want something new. Nigerian blog readers want something fresh and refreshing. Nigerian internet users want platforms they could catch fun and learn something. Nigerian blog readers want style. They want talents. They want skills. Blog readers want a briliant blog. They want blog writers who will value them by providing what they love. They want valuable contents. They are ready to support blogs that can render this. But how did I know this? It is because i've seen Nigerian internet users support and embrace creative blogs with creative unique original contents. I've seen new bloggers come into the scence and were embraced by Nigerian readers. I've seen new blogs that became success in a few space, because they offer creative contents. And, that's what i've decided to do. My blog, creativeguyhub.com will offer informative, educative contents that will be presented in entertaining ways. I want Nigerian internet users to enjoy their time on the internet. I've decided to offer Nigerian readers creative contents. I want to find my way into your hearts so you could embrace me and my blog. I want you to make creativeguyhub.com one of your favorite blogs, and recommend it to your friends, neighbors, colleagues, bbm contacts, whatapp groups, facebook and twitter friends, etc. Having introduce myself. Let me get to work. www.creativeguyhub.com |
| Webmasters / Re: Rate My Blog by thecreativeguy(m): 2:46pm On Jul 28, 2015 |
KorrectMedia:my brother, I might not have talk but you asked us to. I looked at your blog and I saw an article I saw on naijasinglegirl's blog(she too picked it from another blog, but she wrote 'culled from.... ). If you pick someone article, and you post it words for words, kindly give reference to the blog. And, strive being unique. |
| Webmasters / Re: Do You Have A Website With Many Visitors And No Adsense??? I Have Offer 4u by thecreativeguy(m): 1:45pm On Jul 28, 2015 |
NEROSKY:Yes brother. But I want you to explain something to me. Since the code isn't going to be on my blog alone, how would you know the number of clicks generated from my own blog? |
| Webmasters / Re: Hire A Contributing Writer For Your Site/blog by thecreativeguy(m): 6:37pm On Jul 27, 2015 |
To view more of my works, you can visit my blog www.creativeguyhub.com |
| Education / Re: I Will Kill Myself On Wednesday by thecreativeguy(m): 5:59pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
fellowbeing:Bro don't allow the devil make you lose your bright future. Many successful people today are once seen as losers. Remember, winners never quits. God bless you. Amen. |
| Romance / Re: 10 Good Reasons You Should Not Date A Married Man. by thecreativeguy(m): 8:00am On Jul 25, 2015 |
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