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truthlegend:
OK,just dont push her OK?be gentle on her

truthlegend:
niggar Don't try to bully my princess or else

OmaBliss:
Park well..

OmaBliss:
Stale!

Joromi1:
I've been wondering.....most women have this NO SEX ON FIRST DATE motto like it's the only criterion to ascertaining feminine decency. They say it gives the guy the impression that you're too cheap and he would definitely dump you easy. But to me, it's not true. You can play the hard-to-get for a year and still get jilted. So, ladies, allow your mood determine for you. If you have to bang that guy, bang him! And who knows, it might result to true love and marriage. Or what do you think, guys?

blesseddivah:
I want to join

Akinsnaira:
Mind you, Nigeria might not have as high divorce rate as USA, this is largely due to societal pressure, as women are forced to confine themselves to patriarchal name of their husband.

But the consequence is greater, it has one of the highest (if not the highest) rate of marital infidelity in the world.

Most married couples in Nigeria, order than going on divorce, resort to extra-marital practices just to stay married. When they are no longer getting the fun they crave in their marriage.

adconline:
Like bequeathing our offsprings with generational poverty!

coogar:
be deceiving yourself.....
african women live & die for marriage. it's the single-most important achievement in their lives & it cuts across. getting married is almost seen as more important than bagging a doctorate degree.

the women are coached/trained by parents & pastors to stay in the marriage. they are told to persevere & not worry so much about whatever the hubby is doing. there's always a worse example to bring up whenever a woman complains of the abuse she's suffering in her matrimony.

the solution is fast & pray.....

According to reports, Ratan Lal Jat, 35, is an elected local member of the Gangrar village council, in Rajasthan, West India.

On June 23, it’s thought that Ratan Lal Jat wed the extremely young child bride in front of five witnesses in a secret village temple ceremony.

Local marriage broker Jamuni Bai – notorious for arranging such marriages for fees – was said to be present.

Police explained that Ratan Lal Jat’s unsettling ceremony was to fulfil the requirements of Nata Pratha.

An ancient local custom, Nata Pratha dictates that any married man can have an affair with a married woman if he provides financial compensation, the two lovers must both be wed.

Because Ratan Lal Jat was single, he married the six-year-old girl in order to comply with the age-old tradition.



The girl’s family were paid an undisclosed fee and although she is now married to a man 29 years her senior, she can continue to live in her family home.

Police have arrested Ratan Lal Jat under the Prohibition of Child Marriage Act 2006.

Gyanendra Singh, inspector and Station House officer of Gangrar, said:

"We learnt about the incident when the pictures of the wedding started circulating on social network apps. We managed to get hold of the pictures and we sent a team to investigate the matter.
We found Ratan Lal had married a minor to follow age-old customs. But for us it is a clear case of child marriage and we arrested Ratan Lal Jat under the Prohibition of Child Marriage Act 2006."

Concerning the marriage broker, Inspector Singh added:

"But Jamuni Bai is at large and we’ve launched an operation to find all witnesses involved in the illegal child marriage."

coogar:
and there's no divorce in africa?

africa is actually worse. majority of the people still pretending that they are in a marriage are not happy. they are just scared of the stigma the society would attach to them if they walk out of the marriage.

cococandy:
the divorce in Lagos and the north alone is greater than that in U.S. And UK out together

coogar:
what if i stay there?
would it not be logical for me to be fearful about marriage especially when i tend to lose almost half of my assets should divorce ensue?

coogar:
any more questions??

coogar:
divorce rate currently stands at 50%
if that does not cause you to fear, nothing else would. that's like tossing a coin. would you board a plane that has 50% probability of crashing?

coogar:
the means isn't even enough.
he has to be mentally ready for it. marriage isn't child's play. a lot of stuff are involved...he has to consult his other half in every decision he's about to make.

coogar:
even when he doesn't have the means & the emotional maturity to sustain that marriage? no wonder the revolving doors of poverty never left nigeria.

Joromi1:
Which are?

Joromi1:
It's a Nigerian phenomenon that when u marry at a very young age, u'll avoid the stress and pain of raising ur kids at old age. If that is only reason then the idea is useless because one needs to be mature and financially strong enough before taking decisions towards that

mentorandfriend:
For the records, any sex with your patient or patient relatives is a big case for MDCN. Your provisional license will be withdrawn even if the sex was consensual. This is because it was clearly mentioned in the Hippocratic oath doctors take. NO SEX WITH PATIENTS OR PATIENTS RELATIVES/VISITORS. But sex with coworkers (female doctors and female nurses) is nothing if it was consensual. But then, your self respect will keep on reducing in the social circles till you lose the trust of all your patients if they know you get down low with anything in skirt. Thats a classic example of how to be a poor, unknown, unethical, unproffesional, two room apartment doctor.

What you lose will be greater than what you gain if word spreads that you have no hold over your JT.

Beamborla:
what a magnanimous list.
I really should save it somewhere.
thanks, hun

mentorandfriend:
Sharap joor!

Jokes apart. The implications of a doctor engaging in sex with his patient or patient relatives is disastrous. MDCN can withdraw the person's license.

Doctors are the most proffesional when it comes to ethics and respecting their boundaries. Outsiders however think otherwise. I used to think like that too, but not anymore.