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Grayjoy:
Yeah, she do cook atimes when she is chanced though. But most times esp. Saturdays na hunger strike.

oh okay but why the hunger strike on Saturdays health is better than wealth

Grayjoy:
Since I was born o. Are u thnking otherwise? What are u thnking?

I'm thinking same thing you're thinking

Grayjoy:
I dnt have frnds to check on during weekends, just watch games on tv, work on intended projects and endure hunger.

Now that's nice.....




But did I hear you say endure hunger :othought you said you have a girlfriend....?

Grayjoy:
Drama is constant in live, hope u knw?

Yes but it depends on how you handle such drama

Grayjoy:
Cool rough guys like me abi?

Since when did you become a cool rough guy Oga kolewerk

Grayjoy:
Na only u d see dat pride o. What i want and have is an integrity to protect. Dnt wan2 be a joke to any lady.

Oh yes I saw it in you nop I believe the way you present yourself speaks alot about you..... but naturally you just can't disrespect people simply because they chose to be your friends

Grayjoy:
and d tin is, I just have 2 frnds and none of them stays in town, our movement fluctuates alot, i restrict people in my life alot, dnt want too much closeness, dat is why I chat more online.

I and my friend only see during weekends because of work and everything is definitely trying to make their hours count

Grayjoy:
hahahahahaa, just like bae will say chicken, i will be like what's d meaning of dat, she will be like na insult, it makes me laff sha. So if I wan2 hear something 4rm her mouth then i will just do or say something stupid then she will be like chicken u have started abi.
Bt dat is on a jovial level.
Bt calling a guy who struggles for u "stingy" is disheartening and unreasonable.

Yeah I love it when people don't take things too personal just live a life full of goodies expect you ask for dramas

Grayjoy:
Pride can't kill me o. It only makes me more intresting. If I lower it again, am gone for good. Am sure u grlz dnt like cool guys.

Says who like it when cool rough guys treats us like a Queen which I personally "I'm"

Grayjoy:
hahahahaa, u will still enjoy d relationship. I do tell her I love d way she pronounce my name when she is hurt.
Although can't stand seeing her go tru pains sha.

Awww that's so sweet of you make sure you keep bringing out the sweetness in you and buried the pride in you

Grayjoy:
U can see. Am sure u wouldn't call a guy names if u love him.

It depends on what lead to the issue of calling names I might call you stupid I simply don't mean it but if you responded by call me idiot to me you meant it and you must apologize

Grayjoy:
dat will just breed outright hatred towards dat person in me.

That's why I'm always careful on the kind of people I keep as friends because my mom fought so hard to breed me up biko I can't ruin my hard earned reputation

Grayjoy:
No, no, no, dnt have a pix to describe it, bt bigger than this. Lol.

You're not serious

Grayjoy:
Awful things like what aunty?

Fighting,stealing,aggressive.....e.t.c

Grayjoy:
I knw bt it should be close to perfect b4 being considered worthwhile. I can't date a lady who can use words anyhow on me without checking the effect it will have on me. On the long run, she cares very less abt ur feelings.

Calling people names is a total no it doesn't helps

Grayjoy:
No point fighting for a lost empire when u are outnumbered.

True I hate it when people around me are engage in awful things it doesn't makes sense it destroys ones reputation

Grayjoy:
LOL, at least u knw exactly how am feeling now.

You mean like this

Grayjoy:
hahahahaa, bt i dnt wan2 be disrespectful.

The kind of you are so difficult to handle in a relationship you intentionally do things to get her hurt

Grayjoy:
It always take long 4 me apologise, so even after hugging me she will be like apologise to me o.

Don't allow your pride kill you what's wrong with you self low your ego a bit it doesn't makes you less a man

Grayjoy:
Just tell me u don't want d guy to leave her, Op said thingz dat if he marries d lady, it will gradually corrode his entire family u are talking abt being bigger.

He's meant to change her cause he understands her better he knows her soft side and he should touch it at as when due remember no relationship is perfect

Grayjoy:
Sweet of me? Remember proud guys don't do swt thingz o.

Come on see this one what are you feeling like right now proud.... ko.... pride ni

Grayjoy:
Ok, i agree. Then the ladies that am nt afraid of, i will dominate them na, I can't loose home and away abeg.

you're not serious intend of you to be fighting your fellow guys you're feeling like a king

Grayjoy:
And if a guy doesn't call, he is not caring abi?

Why would you not call no try that one with me oooo

Grayjoy:
I did apologise bt it was later when I wanted to drop her off after the outing, she did thesame thing. Satisfied now abi?

Awwww that was so sweet of you..... but next time you don't have to wait that long to apologize to her

Grayjoy:
It solely depends on if OP wants to keep the lady in question, ignore her corrosive traits and move on with her.

Yes by being the bigger person

Grayjoy:
Afraid? Hahahahaa, even old men and younger guys? I mean guys dat bend to greet me? D last thing I will do now is to fear, either failure, human or life. Except God o.

Abegi open up you're afraid of your fellow guys

Grayjoy:
LOL, see ur life? Make up sex.
Haven't u heard that "like poles repel and vice versa"? Dat is why I can't tolerate pride. Why I refused to apologize or call on dat issue was because, I tried apologising immediately I knew I picked on her nerves, bae got angry and was like "gud nyt, swt dreams" i wanted to call immediately bt it was late, i slpt late into the nyt cause of dat, u can imagine someone sending an official mail about 2am just to get over her and slp. The thing is we both felt the repercussions. And I preferred it dat way, had it been dat I called d next day to apologise, then She would ignore me next time.

Ladies like it when you come to their face and apologize not by calls we consider calls as being disrespectful

lefulefu:
Thegeneralqueen abeg come an carry ur husband comot here.

That's the kind of life he wants to be leaving just let him be with that American girl

Grayjoy:
I will always get lucky cause I knw wen to go high and when to go low. That is the difference between me and pride. It's quite unfortunate that only ladies do tell me u are proud or egocentric and just a few of u do dat. While d male be like dat guy is too humble.

Why won't you be humble to your fellow guys when you're afraid did you apologize to her....?

Pat081:
just to b a friend ntin more

Just a friend nothing more I have friends all over nairaland which kind of friend do you want to become.....?

Grayjoy:
U mean after ignoring his calls and texts? Respect for any personality no matter d age, class or creed demands u return missed calls. Even if it's an unknown number. That is what am talking about.

Like I said earlier this is a bigger issue which I don't think calls can solve he's meant to go to her place and apologize to her and she does the same

Grayjoy:
Hahahahahahaa, call it pride or whatever. That is why I don't tolerate people with pride. The thing is I knew she was going to miss me, I wanted to call but I had to drop my phone. I can't give a lady d impression dat I can't deal without you. She insisted I must apologise during the outing according to her "as that is the write thing to do for hurting her feelings and allowing her to do my job by being the first to call".

You don't tolerate people with pride when you have pride hello this isn't about giving a lady the impression that you can't do without her but as a sign that you care by making her know that no matter what happens your relationship is going to stand the test of time you can't go and start telling her girl I can't do without you ? nop just call or probably meet her face to face and tell her look I'm sorry for the way I sound last time I guess I was a little bit hash on you but I'm sorry you know what is relationship if we can't forgive ourselves and this helps us become a better person...... then you remind her about the amazing time you both spent together and how you guys planned your future...... before you'll finish she will be cool and apologize to you even though she does nothing to you then you huge each other maybe she'll cry along the way then you pet her....... before you know makeup sex follows immediately