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What I say here is from experience. If you are the hardworking type, and you care about people being grateful for what you do for them, then don't marry someone who doesn't work. The rare exception is when the person is loyal and takes care of the needs at home.

Women who don't work (generally) tend to not be very unappreciative. (Note that I say generally, not everyone)They complain a lot that you haven't bought this or that, you haven't taken them out. Sometimes, they could be using something you just bought them but yet still complain about some other thing you are yet to buy, or what someone else is doing for their spouse. The real issue is they don't have a sense of the value of getting things.

I don't intend to be sexist, but women tend to focus on the present and that is what they care about mostly. Men, on the other hand then to remember things they've done in the past. So if a woman doesn't work and she is the unappreciative type, her demands will never end, because she lives in the present most of the time, you have to keep doing things for her just to keep her happy. This is not sustainable.