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Many guys see a lady for the first time, try to woe her by calling her pet names like...hello baby, hi beautiful etc. You're doing it WRONG! What connection did you have with her and how did she become your baby, I mean you just met her. Get off that mentality and strive to build connection first before anything else.

When you meet a lady for the first time, you thought process should be let me see if she's worth my time and attention, will getting to know her add anything to my life, the problem is many guys don't take time to ask themselves these questions because they are so in a hurry and too afraid to say something not nice to her.

Some guys also believe having a great body will improve their social approval, six packs will make her fall in love, WRONG again! Women establish emotional connection with you from what you say and how you make her feel by what you say, she's not attracted by what she see but what she hears. A man is a visual being attracted to what he see.

Having great body is very cool but only workout because of you not because you want to impress her. This MenCode three (3) confidence Questions will get you the pus*y even if it's your first hangout together:

Ask About Her Boyfriend:

This works very well if you didn't acted needy from the get go. A lot of guys meet a lady for the first time and start acting like a puppy, want to be allover her, can't wait to call/text her every moment they get. They start acting like without her their life will end. If you have done the opposite by not making it obvious that you're not interested in her, either by telling her this or through your actions.
She will drop her defense, realizing that you're not after her like every other guys, when you ask for a hangout; she will show little resistance.

In the hangout you can ask her about her boyfriend best local soup, the favorite delicacy she's prepared for him or they have eaten together. Her responds will lead you to asking more questions and also reveal more about her past relationships. If you can use this trick very well, you will get to know if she's still in love with her boyfriend, if she's single, if she's ready for a relationship and so on.

Ask Her Last Time She Had Sex:

This is where a lot of guys fizzles out, they lack the confidence to talk about sex especially with a lady they already place on a pedestal. The confidence man go all out and do, ask the unthinkable because it's better to be too daring than been very polite, weak and acting nice like every other guys she's met.

If she has had sex recently, you get to find out and also an opportunity to know how sexually active she can be. If she's still maintaining a cordial relationship with the boyfriend or it's just a pump and dump kind of relationship.

Her Best Sex Position:

If she's mature and confidence enough to have answered your questions so far, this will not be a big deal to respond. Get it in your almost all women are IMMORAL, so don't think this one is different, she's not corrupt, it's a lie. (except if she's a nun/reverend sister).The conventional woman will give it all out for the man who dare to break her boundaries, when she provide answers, you respond by talking about how you make women squirt when you make love to them, your modus oprandi of love making. ...continued in the blog, this is a public forum.



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Feminism was weaponize in the late 19th century, and since then it has become a tool for the woman to invade the male space and control the narratives. The feminine imperative promotes this ideology and damn that man who dare go against it. It’s now a Sisterhood thing, every woman must subscribe to, it’s now a matter of she is with us or against us!

Feminism is NOT about equality, nothing is equal in life, but a platform for the woman to have it all. She want to be the CEO, build a career, command respect. Be able to bang the hot guy in the neighborhood while still married without judgment.

She want to have it all like the man, Sheryl Sandberg,COO of Facebook advised in her book that the “woman should bang the bad guys in her party years but when it’s time to be married, she should marry the ‘good guy’ because what makes the ‘bad guy’ so damn good with sex may not make him a good husband suitable for marriage”.

Today, the woman want you to believe fighting for the girl child, empowering the girl child is what are feminism is about, anyone could possibly do this without needing any ideology. The real truth is, she wants to be free from judgment and have it all like the man, take over any man space, then dominate and control the narratives.

Feminism thrive on the ignorance of the man, the feminine imperative has invaded the man’s space and controls how the story is told, it’s the Sisterhood code to blame the man, play the victim card and they eventually get what they want because they control the narratives, controls the Main Screen Media and the feminized man help in propagating their narratives.

A woman has one decade in her entire life to make a decision that will affect the remaining decades of her life, today she’s been told to waste that single decade, the feminine imperators falsely made her believe she can have it all. Sub unconsciously preconditioned to believe this, she goes all out to waste her party years and only to realized that she is about to hit the Wall and now need the beta provider, (good guy) and social provider kind of man.

It’s the man’s fault if she doesn’t get what she want at this stage of her life…the man must be blame. From this failure comes her activist nature of being a feminist, now she proudly associate with feminism and in a mission to take over the male space. All because she is now a rich, lonely single woman, single mother for the ‘bad guy’ she banged so hard in her party years.

iLegendd:
I hate to debunk people, but I had to do it before you start scamming anyone by selling eBooks from other authors claiming you wrote them or by giving guillible youths dating tips when you're only after blogging and a student who hasn't grasped the system yet.

THE QUOTE ABOVE AND SOME EMAILS I RECEIVED CALLING MY ATTENTION TO YOUR WHINING IS THE ONLY REASON I'M RESPONDING TO YOU.

I BELIEVE NOT CARING WHAT OTHER PEOPLE (ESPECIALLY LIKE YOU) THINK IS ONE OF THE GREATEST JOY OF LIFE!

THIS THE LAST TIME I WILL EVER RESPOND TO YOU!!

I AGREE THAT THE RULES MAY NOT 100% BE IN MY OWN WORDS BUT I DETEST A HOLIER THAN THOU ATITUDE. DUDE I'VE BEEN ONLINE SINCE 2008 AND DID'NT START TODAY. MOST CONTENTS ONLINE ARE USUALLY IN THE OWN WORDS OF THE AUTHOR (THAT'S DOESN'T MEAN THEY ORIGINATED IT) AND SOMETIMES SOME WORDS CAN NOT BE ALTERED NOT TO LOSE IT'S MEANING, CREDIT MUST BE GIVEN, I AGREE.

HENCE THIS RULES ARE MORE THAN 8 YEARS, I CAN'T SEE WHY THIS IS YOUR PROBLEM. YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY PROTECTING YOURSELF BUT MADE IT APPEAR LIKE A BABY WHOSE CANDY WAS TAKEN FROM HIM YET PRETENDING TO POLICE THE ONLINE CONTENTS.

BUT NEVER DARE YOU INSULT ME OR USE THE WORD 'SCAM' ON MY THREAD. IF THIS IS NOT ENVY YOU SHOULD HAVE EMAILED ME, BUT YOU WANT TO THRIVE ON THE OPPORTUNITY OF A VIRAL POST TO GET MORE FOLLOWERS. YOU TAG ME THE BAD GUY, SO YOU CAN BECOME THE GOOD GUY.

HAVE YOU BEEN SCAMMING PEOPLE BY SELLING EBOOKS FROM OTHER AUTHORS? DON'T OFFER ME BAD IDEAS.

I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU WHINING OVER SOMETHING OF ALMOST 10 YEARS. ANYWAY YOU GOT MY ATTENTION, ENJOY YOUR 5 MINUTES OF FAME AND FREE TRAFFIC TO YOUR WEBSITE. THIS IS HOW SMALL PEOPLE LIKE YOU (KEYBOARD WARRIORS) BULLY OTHERS ONLINE. SO YOU CAN REMAIN IN YOUR IMAGINARY TOP. GET IT IN YOUR HEAD, I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU.

YOUR EGO IS YOUR PROBLEM, I GUESS I SHOULD BECOME YOUR STUDENT SO THAT EVERYTHING WILL BE RIGHT IN YOUR WORLD AND 'GRASP THE SYSTEM'.

YOU CLEVERLY PLUG IN YOUR FORUM AND WHATSAPP GROUP WHERE YOU SELL OTHERS PEOPLE IDEAS (YOU CUNNING TWISTED TO SUIT YOU) IN A VIRAL POST YOU CALLED 'STEALING'.

PLEASE GET OUT OF MY THREAD, IF YOU UNDERSTAND ONLINE CONTENT MARKETING AS YOU CLAIM, YOU KNOW HOW YOU COULD HAVE REACHED ME.

YOU ARE VERY CUNNING INDEED! GOD BLESS YOUR HUSTLE.

Frame series in three parts include:

Part 1: The Frame

Part 2: Frame For The Single Man

Part 3: Frame For The Married Man

Part 2 & 3 will follow this thread.

Frame is everything in any relationship, business, inter and intra-gender relations. You must make sure to know whose subconsciously frame you operating from. Always control the frame but never give the impression that you are in control.

Psychologically, frame is an often subconscious, mutually acknowledge personal narrative under which people behavior will be influenced. Basically, our beliefs, day to day living, emotional investment, political decisions are influenced and biased by the psychological narrative framework that we accept to operate under.

In most cases, a man actions can be as a result of the subconscious frame, he’s under. Because it’s subconscious he believe and accept it as normal. It takes a masculine man to know whose frame is operating in his relationship with woman.

Some frame we are painfully aware of, and many others we are not, in any case we are passively influenced by frame, everyone of us. This write up is concerned about how frame controls the way we do things, how it set the environment for us to operate, and the reality in which we relate with a woman we met at a social gathering and our relationship with the woman we have lived with for 5-10 years.

Frame is who’s reality you choose to operate in relation to a woman, frame is not power, maybe the act of controlling frame is. One thing is clear though both man and woman internalized concept of frame is influenced by their socialization, upbringing, education, psychological conditioning and so on. It’s either you are operating in your own frame or hers.

Frame is not stable, it’s dynamic and can swing from the man to the woman or vice versa, a man who was in control at the beginning of a relationship and then subconsciously relinquishes it, the woman will subconsciously set her own for the man to operate from. Frame is always present consciously active or passive, can only change when there is a desire or no desire to change it. Frame is always operating in a relationship.

The forces that leads to desire or no desire to change frame is not important, frame will always exist. Who’s frame are you under in your relationship, can you give instances that made you feel not in control? Let discuss in the comment.

Cardinal Rule 15

Fu*k Her So Good!

A man must fu*k a woman like it's his last fu*k. And hers. Fu*k her so good, so hard, so wantonly, so immoral that she is left shivering in her body and sex fluids. Drain her of everything, drain her some more. Kiss her all over, make love to her all night, and hold her close in the morning.
Own her body, own her gratitude, own her love. By simply GIVING her SQUIRTING orgasms.


Coming from the emails and comment I received in the past couple of days, I'm forced to consolidate and explain further on this Number 15 of The Seventeen Commandment of Pussy as posted on my blog and on https://www.nairaland.com/themencode

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I wish with this essay you will be able to understand better how you can EASILY make her squirt.

There are some body part of women I like to call the hot spot- all you have to is to caress this spot to turn her on like crazy and make her squirt while she also enjoys doing so. That many men can never give to their woman, in fact most women never get to experience it in their life time.

The hot spot you caress in a woman are:

Her neck, Inner Thigh (almost same time)
Belly Button (her stomach area)
Hips
Ass/Buttocks
Breast
Vaginal/clitoris

Never ignore this process because a woman is like an iron, it gets hot over time unlike the man who can be charged up almost immediately just seeing naked body of a woman....

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Doughboysss:
so true.

First rule about the fight club: Never talk about the fight club.




i feel u bro

have u visited reddit's r/theredpill. so much quality positive masculinity info to be found there .

Thanks bro! nice reference.

WORDWORLD:
To be frank its not a gender thing but a general thing in human affairs. Example, you go to the market to purchase some wears e.g and you suddenly spoted one which really excited you so much and you cant hide how you LIKE what you have seen. And like "that moment you show a gal how much she means to you, that is when you have sold yourself out" same thing applies to the SELLER in the market. That moment you start showing how much you really LIKE the stuff you want to buy, bro you have sold yourself out because the seller is going to hype the price. But if you pretend as if it no big deal, something you dont care, not so interested as if you are actually doing the seller a favour. You see how the seller becomes so HUMBLE, trying as much as possible to give it out at an affordable price and not cut throat price. IT APPLIES TO SO MANY OF OUR HUMAN AFFAIRS, AS FOR ME I FIND IT TOO BE TO SAD A TRAIT, WHEN WE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF PEOPLES' EXPRESSION OF THEIR SINCERE FEELINGS FOR LIKING OR LOVING US OR A THING JUST TO HARM THEM FOR BEING TRUE TO THEMSELVES. Very pathetic really and i must tell you, its a show of UNGRATEFUL mentality.

Always CONCEAL your INTENTION. This is a law of power and you can also find it in the bible. Don't go against it so you don't have to blame women or believe its a show of UNGRATEFUL mentality from them (They are beautiful souls with a warm heart). It's NOT. You are only rewarded (maybe in a negative way) for going against that simple law.

IamKashyBaby:
No Love Lost ...No Love Found for the bad guys...not my cuppa tea.

I wud still prefer a gentle soul.

Women want a guy under their FRAME. My next post 'FRAME' is about whose frame people are under in their relationships. A man LEAD and Woman FOLLOW. There's nothing gentle about leadership. A 'gentle sou'l is NOT a leader but a YES MAN!

dyadeleye:
bruh, how much is your handout?

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A woman will end relationship with the bad guy “selfish jerk” but she will never fall out of love for him, she only ended the relationship after many failed attempt to make the jerk stay committed, put a ring on it and start a family but she will continue to have strong feeling of love for the bad guy who don’t give a fu*k about her. The jerk bad boy has a special way of igniting the love of a woman, once this love is ignited it’s hard to extinguish.

However, a woman can fall out of love for the following reasons:

1. The Spontaneous bad boy that swoon her emotional world become so gentle, behave like a puppy and turns beta as he became so comfortable in the relationship or marriage:

This is one of the major reason women fall out of love, the sizzling and charming jerk selfish boy she once knew and fell in love with has become a beta male at her becks and call for her emotional reward. He lost his grip of the relationship from been too comfortable.

2. When She Found a Higher Social Status Value Man:

The desire of a woman to go for a man of higher value that will provide her emotional investment and long term commitment to raising family. She can fall out of love when she meets a man who’s superior to her current man in almost every ways. This reason is not greater than the first above, a woman love for her “bad boy” or jerk boy takes almost forever for her to fall out of love. Love is a strong feeling that cannot be overcome by her hypergamous desire.

3. When She Lost Weight and Suddenly Become a Paragon of Attention From Men as a Result of Her New Slim Body:

If a woman feels and believes because of low self esteem that she has a lower Sexual Marketing Value due to her getting old, this can make her fall in love with a man of lower Sexual Marketing Value. For a beta male who marries a fat woman and she later slim down and begin to realized how sexy and attractive she has become, she will leave her beta man who settled for her while she was so overweight and move to better men who choose and appreciate her new slender and sexy status.

When a woman ends a relationship with a jerk bad boy, she still remain in love with him because of how he made her feel. The crazy feelings don’t go away quickly. She rationalizes her decision to end the relationship by blaming the man for not being serious even though she gave him her all. She will never hide the feeling that she still love him but just have to end the relationship because it wasn’t going anywhere and he made everything difficult, he wasn’t ready to be committed and she know her biological time is tickling; so she had to end it.

She still love the jerk and cries about the breakup. The “bad guy” will feel sad for the breakup but not worried about finding another girl, when he does, this will make her go mad and deeper in love with him. She will be so angry and feel bad for breaking up the relationship when she clearly didn’t want, if not that the bad guy was not committed . She will go through this pain and remain in love for months, years and longer until she’s able to get over the jerk and find an inner peace with herself to love another man with her body and mind freely without remembering her love making with the jerk in the previous relationship.

The opposite is true when a woman breakup with a beta male, she moves on quickly, no love lost and feel the freedom, ease of moving to another relationship. She don’t feel any pain, guilt or remorse for falling out of love with the beta male but rather blame the beta for her lose of desire for him. She don’t need comfort or emotional support from her girlfriends after the breakup as she start dating immediately.

Women never really fall out of love with the Alpha bad guy, they carry that mark of the bad guy with them as a reminder of their loyalty to him and this present a problem to the beta who tries to win her heart completely. He cannot succeed because a part of her heart is always with the jerk boy.

For a man, he will never breakup a relationship with a hot sexy woman because she refuse to commit to marriage rather nurse this pain privately and never think of an option of ending the relationship with a sexy fine ass woman for anything. If he does breakup the relationship, it will be because some equally sexy fine ass crazy woman ready to commit start showing interest in him. A man can also fall out of love when his woman become older and or overweight.

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WORDWORLD:
Number 14 was never ever taken for granted in the days of yore. Hence, kamasutra, perfume garden, Japanese sacred love making books and e.t.c.................were given birth to. Aimed at the DEEPEST CONNECTIVITY between spouses so as to ensure a successful matrimony, an authentic intimate relationship. Today the ILLUSION called PORNOGRAPHY is ruining lives, a debasement of our humanity. In TRUTH number 14 makes sense just as you have said and if only we see love making beyond the physical realm into the metaphysical, connectivity will be restored in alot of marriages. Sex is sacred (it is sadaqah/charity) and should be given the best of worship in a bond lawful.

PORNOGRAPHY is a way guys avoid the fear of rejection from women. My next post will explain this further and also expose how buffers that guys have created to avoid rejections.

Daniel2289:
I detest number 7.

Don't be Bro! Sometimes you can fall in love with a woman which is great and never bother about a plan B. Otherwise never make the mistake of letting her know she is the only one in your life, even if she is, NEVER make it seem so. Cheers!

Eggcelent:
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A woman is emotionally attracted to the man who treats her poorly because attraction is anti-logical, you must never communicate logically with a woman, she’s not a reasoning being. Here are the 16 commandment of pus*y for the man, after reading this you will never be the same!

Part of this rules were first published (not by me) almost about 10 years ago but are still relevant today.
You can also download the audio of this rules on my blog.

1. Own The Frame

Frame is everything in any relationship, business, inter and intra-gender relations. You must make sure to know whose subconsciously frame you operating from. Always control the frame but never give the impression that you are in control. Once you recognize or put yourself in the position of control by making yourself needing the relationship less than the woman do. You have to give the impression of surplus of option and NOT scarcity mentality. There's no greater power giving to woman for her to know she is your only source of emotional reward.

2. Bury Your Feelings And Never Say I Love You First

The feeling of having to ‘work so hard‘ for it, overcome an obstacle to win the heart of a man is a feeling every woman crave for. They beg to do the work to successfully win the heart of man who has many women in his plates, women who compete for his attention, then enjoy the sense of fulfillment of able to have the man award his committed exclusivity to her.

She will hate you, if you give away your emotion easily denying her the joy and satisfaction of earning your love. The man must never give away his emotion easily even though you are strongly in love with her, never reveal it. ( ‘Never reveal your intentions’..48 Laws of Power ), restrain yourself from showing that love and let her struggle, inspire her to take a leap to win your attention, if you let her do this, she will thank you for it and reveal her love in many ways you will never imagine.

3. Jealousy Excite Women, Make Her Jealous

Woman wants to Bleep the man every other woman want to Bleep, associate with the man other woman want to be with, no woman want a man other women don’t want. They desire a man who can flirt with other woman and watching you do that turns her on sexually.

Never shy away from an opportunity to flirt with another woman in front of her, jealously excite them like crazy. If you can successfully apply the power of jealousy through this singular act, you will control the direction of your relationship.

4. Make Your Mission, Not Your Woman, Your Priority

Don’t be carried away by those love stories in movies or the popular narratives of a man professing his undying love to the woman who completes him, to the contrary women do not want to be the ‘One’ or the only one that matter in a man’s life. Woman follow, the man lead, so they will want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, follow the path he created and help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support where it’s needed.

A woman deserves your respect, never lie to her that she is ‘your everything‘, she is not. You should have a life, something to achieve and make it your priority. If she is your everything, very soon she will not be anymore.

5. Never Play By Her Rules

A woman follow, she never want to lead but if you allow her to make the rules, to provide leadership, she will hate you for it. The hatred will be so extreme, not even up to what a rapist can inspire. The most adherent feminist and powerful woman want to be lead by a more powerful man. The man must have an undecided opinion and able to say No, the woman don’t want to have all the power to walk you all over, have you run wild at her mood swings.

Her emotion run wild like wind of an hurricane and her soul a destroyer, see yourself as the calm for her storm. The one she yearns for, when she need balance in her life, the pillar she lean on, the authority figure to fight her inner demons, you are her immovable, stable and solidified pillar to rest on.

6. Don’t Go Against The Golden Ratio

Never give too much of anything, if she gives you 3 declaration of love, that earns her 2 in return, if she call or text you 3 times, you only need to return 2 calls/text back. If she buys you 3 gifts that earns her 2 movies or night out.

Offer her two display of affection and stop until she return with three more, when she speaks, you reply with fewer words and when she emote, you emote less. Give your woman 2/3 of everything she offers you, this is to establish your greater value and make her to chase you and to show, you can control yourself to not be drunk in her emotional dramas.

Restraining yourself from reciprocating everything she does for you in equal measure or more is to imbibe in her the right attitude of your higher value status, she may not like it, but it’s what she truly want.

7. Evade. Keep Her Guessing

Women don’t want direct answer to their questions, the man who give the direct answers will be abandon and made to suffer the fate of the ‘nice guy‘. A man should Evade, downplay and tease a woman rather providing a direct answers.

She enjoys it, if you let her imagine your thoughts about her. She will lose interest if she knows exactly what you think or feel about her.

8. Always Keep Two in the Kitty

Do not give her the satisfaction of having to keep you as her man only, a man with options is a man without needs. To have options (other women in your life) builds confidence and boldness dealing with women, this option will serve as a safety net, to catch you when there’s breakup, divorce/separation, or when she break your heart. You will be lonely and experience a dry spell of no sex or a woman comfort.

This is important because a woman knows that once she slept with a man, she has given away part of her power and she surrenders that power almost completely when she falls in love with him. Love can last for a short time, overtime she may re-discover her power and threatens to leave the man and if she acts on this immediately by withdrawing her love, body, sex her last defensive weapon; the man will be left lonely and miserable.

Having options the man can turn to the woman who will provide him affections and meet his sexual desires required through that period.

9. A Man Only Say Sorry When It’s Absolutely Necessary

A man should never say sorry for every wrong thing, doing so is an indication of submission. Saying one sorry increase the chances of saying another sorry. The woman will come to always expect you to apologized for any and everything, she now expect you to always admit wrong and apologize for it.

Because you started it, she will always expect it like a dog expect it meal at a certain time of each day. However, if a man has done something wrong; he should acknowledge his wrong in a sincere way but not saying the actual words “I’m sorry”. The man can apply the Bill Clinton maneuvering and say “mistakes were made” or tell her “You feel bad” about what you did.

This is important because a man has only two “I’m Sorry” in the lifetime of his relationship, use them wisely.

10. Connect With Her Emotion NOT Logic

Don’t be like the other men, set yourself apart and connect with her emotionally. Her mind is a stranger in a foreign land that require a skillful direction to destination. Let emotion be the description and not logical explanation, be very playful and use all your five senses. It’s better to be weird than been too careful.Offer the description in a sexy, beautiful and amazing scenarios to set her heart afire. Give your feelings the liberty to “roam wild”. You are not on the same logical frequency with her but roaming allover taking her on an emotional adventure.

You are holding her, running with her to a point of no ending, laughing and letting your fingers move smoothly or effortlessly like a round stone along the way. In this life, no need to finish thoughts or draw conclusions, the only need is to EXPERIENCE something.

11. A Man Must Train Himself To Ignore Her Beauty

A man who has perfectly train himself to subdue the part of his brain for thinking about a beautiful woman face, will magically transform his interactions with women to an unprecedented level. The fear and self awareness of thoughts like she is so beautiful, I have to act nice or behave certain way…will disappear, and paving the way for honest and self possessed with the woman of his desire.

It’s one of the reasons, men whose primary interest in seducing women get more love than they can handle, because of their many positive experience with beautiful women, the “O my God feeling” of seeing a beautiful woman has disappeared and the power of a woman beauty no longer controls them.

The easiest ways to have this frame of mind (not affected by her beauty) is to stop using the words: “beautiful, hot, cute, gorgeous” to describe ladies who turn you on. Instead, say to yourself “She’s interesting” or “She might be worth getting to know”. Only complement a lady on her look if you’re FUCKING her already. Don’t try it at all! NEVER complement any lady on her look especially the one you’re not fucking.

Do all you can to put off that part of your brain that want to put ladies on a certain level of honor. However, this is easier said than done but very possible, to achieve this state of mind, you have to sleep with MANY attractive, hot , cute, beautiful women and try not to sleep with ugly woman, this will trigger that part of your brain to put beautiful ladies on a pedestal.

12. A Man Must Be Irrationally Self Confidence

It doesn’t matter where you are in life at the moment, walk in life like you owe no one any apology or excuse. It doesn’t matter if you definitely not the best man a woman hope to get, what matters is you think and act like it, you are the man.

Women smell it! They have the instinct of a dog and smell or uncover weakness in men, so don’t make it easier for them. A man who is self confidence, whether he deserves it or not triggers submissive emotional response in women.
Nonsensical or irrational confidence will get you more poon than rational weakness.

13. Lean to Maximized Your Strength, Minimize Your Weakness

As a man improve on himself, he attracts women into his area of influence. For a man to achieve this gravitational pull as painlessly and efficiently as possible, he must know his natural talents and weakness, then put more effort on developing the talents.

If you’re a comedian, don’t waste your time trying to show you’re the real man by engaging in global warming debates. If you’re a good dancer, you should show your skills on the dance floor not waste your time trying to write a book. You are a dancer NOT a writer. Focus on what you’re good at, a man goal to attract women should be so effortless, one of the easiest thing in his life.

Whatever you are good at, it’s your strength, use it. It doesn’t matter what they are, there are women who enjoys what you can provide. There is a community for everyone, maybe not for warcraft or evil spirits.

14. You Should Err on the Side of Too Much Boldness, Rather Than Too Little

Going ahead to touch a woman in not suitable places on first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all. A man should not let a woman fake or artificial indication of rejection of his boldness weigh him down.

Women secretly love it when a man aggressively pursue or go after what he wants and makes his sexual intention know. You don’t have to be too stupid about it, but going after what you want is better everytime than being a nice, gentle guy. Everyone knows what women do with nice guys. It never ends well.

15. Fu*k Her So Good

A man must Bleep a woman like it’s his last fu*k. And hers. Fu*k her so good, so hard, so wantonly, so immoral that she is left shivering in her body and sex fluids. Drain her of everything, drain her some more. Kiss her all over, make love to her all night, and hold her close in the morning.

Own her body, own her gratitude, own her love. By simply GIVING her SQUIRTING orgasms.

16. Man Must Maintain State Control.

The man must first learn to master himself, this way, he will have mastery over a woman. A man is an oak tree. He is not influence by shit test, crying, disappearing acts, jealousy strategy, lying, sexual withdrawal, yelling, her hot/cold/hot/cold behaviors, or a feeling of self embarrassment.

She will rain and thunder all around the man and he will be the shelter until her storm passes. The man is calm, collected and emotionally stable, he will not be drag into the woman chaos, unordered, or be unraveled by it.

17. Never Be Afraid To Lose Her

A man must walk away from a woman when she abused his integrity. He will let the woman walk away when she no longer feel anything for him in her heart. This is very important, because a woman who destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power, love yourself before you love her.

A man must not fear, fear is the love killer. Fear is the ego triumph that brings abject loneliness. You will face your fear and permit it to pass over you. When your ego-fear is gone, you will turn and face your lover and only your heart will remain.

A man who can closely follow the letter of these commandments, the easier he will find and keep real, true unconditional love and happiness in his life.

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The concluding part below:

4. Women Always Claim They Love Maturity – What they are implying by that is they want to Date men.

But the definition of man becomes clouded because any person can define what a man is according to his understanding and learning. What matters is what women mean when they say men. So that definition of a man is a guy who is:

I. Stable:

Now, this doesn’t mean you have to be financially stable at the very moment you are talking to her, you have to be a millionaire or working at Facebook, NO! Its the vibe they get from you, which can be described as dutifully ambitious. Every body is ambitious, only a few take it seriously. Are you focused, aiming for big things, how confidence and obsessed and sure you are towards your goal. That’s called mental stability.

II. Self Respecting:

This means you stand up for your ideas, are not afraid to disagree, are not afraid to call out bullshit, and respect your life. Only when you respect yourself, the requirement for others to respect you arises. Most guys are never able to convey to girls that they have respect for themselves, and the simple reason for that is – people simply don’t think about two things: Who am I? How do people see me? These two simple things brings self awareness into your life.

How many times have you actually cared to think: who are you and what impression do people form of you after meeting you? The truth is, we take self respect for granted, ‘I am so cool in my eyes, clearly I deserve respect from everybody‘. And that makes you a child, if I asked you right now, why should I respect you? You would not be able to come up with a straight answer that has meaning to it, not lingering self doubt. And that’s what women notice too when they talk to you.

I am not saying that women don’t date such guys, they do very frequently, but that image of you stays in her mind. And the day she meets a guy who is self respecting, challenges her notions, and appears mature to her, he will satisfy that requirement you never could, ultimately creating attraction.

III. A Streak Rebellion:

One of the basic requirement to attract any girl is to appear interesting. The image of you in her mind should consist of this word. Women in their minds strongly judge guys on how they make them feel. And if the word she thinks of you is interesting, then the emotion you are going to make her feel is excited, because women largely derives excitement from mental stimulation.

What every guy basically tries to be is thoughtful, considerate, kind! Basically: I am the fairest, nicest guy on the planet. I understand and respect everything. This person is every guy’s choice because it’s safe. You are projecting the right behavior, you want to show you are a nice guy. Nice is not interesting, nice is pleasant and cordial, but it’s not adding that want in her to talk to you for hours and hours more. You know why? Because every nice thought you have and are presenting to her, she already thought of those, heard them, and is selling the same shit back to you by agreeing with you. It’s nothing new.

What do you like to watch on TV? Shows based on some old storyline you have watched before, or something new? We love shows that make us think, that are out of the ordinary, characters that rebel, are not reminiscent of people around you, for example, people love Jack Bauer because of his different outlook on life, human behavior, philosophy, even though it comes at the expense of hurting other characters feelings.

He goes against the norm, does what is necessary at the detriment of everyone around him, yet you, as the viewer you love him and never categorize him as a jerk, because you are presented with his point of view. Now try to understand what I am saying here, I am not saying you become Jack Bauer, and I am also not asking you to become a jerk. People always want something new and people love those new things to stimulate their minds, make them think differently.

Lets takes the example of jerks, a jerk can be something new that is simply rude and unpleasant, but after a while it wont be new anymore too, and your jerk-ness would simply become offensive behavior to which no human being takes a liking. It’s a huge misconception that girls like abusive jerk assholes, because that’s your point of view of that guy, and that very well could be the personality of the guy, but if he is able to easily court women, charm them, and is popular amongst them, then trust me, you are yet to find out what aspect of his unorthodox behavior he is presenting to them.

In simple words, you know who that guy is from your personal interactions, you don’t actually know what his game is with women. You are judging him based on his evil motives but you are clueless as to how he does it. And the ‘how‘ most definitely is not calling her up and simply being outright rude and brutish, no women takes it. Do you know how many options any woman has at all times in her life? No woman is prepared to, nor bear abuse from one guy because she has to. They will dump you immediately. Try doing that with the girl you are dating right now or your girlfriend, and notice how promptly she stops talking to you.

Women will always have the upper hand in terms of dating, simply because they win the number of members of the opposite sex dying to be with them. What you never cared to find out is the tactics guys whom you call jerks employ! For example, a very common tactics is holding back all approval one gives to a girl, and them drop it bit by bit in a manner which makes her feel as if she is earning it.

Basically, you are saying the very things every guys says to her, but you make it seem as if she has to work for that, and this create a huge psychological difference. To create a similar effect, here’s an alternative: In your conversations whenever she tells you something about her, ask her questions that expand that topic at hand, such as, why do you believe that? What made you accept that?

Two great things happen when you start questioning her decisions, choices a bit deeper, one, you are talking about her, which is something she likes because of self interest. Two, you are making her go off script, what I mean by that is, usually people have recorded answers to general questions or details about their past because they have answered or talked about the same thing many times before. By asking something that pushes deeper than the script, you make them slightly defenseless, the conversation grows more personal, and you also start getting a glimpse of how they think.

4. Lone Wolf: Yes! Women are attracted to guys who are complete.

That doesn’t mean you are always alone, don’t have friends , are very dark, brooding, or simply hate the world. What that means is you are a man who is not trying to fix himself, or worse, doesn’t know how to fix himself. This is why, ‘I am so broken and alone‘ playing sympathy card doesn’t work. That too will land you in the friend-zone. Friend-zone because women love dramatic and emotional content, and generally have caring nature, so she will listen to your bullshit and empathized. But in her subconscious, the idea man is not who needs fixing.

This also explain why a lot of guys complain that their girl friends or partners try to change them a lot, this happens because even though she has decided to date you, she still isn’t willing to let go that idea image of the man in her head, and clearly you don’t fit that. So almost imperceptibly she starts getting annoyed with your certain habits, friendship, and behaviors in the name of immaturity.

Immaturity is the keyword which she will always use to express her annoyance. In all fairness, she is not lying, she actually believe she’s doing you a favor by trying to change you not realizing she is acting purely out of her imagined subconsciously created notion of what an idea man is, and you are not that guy in her life yet.

Lone Wolf implies not somebody abandoned, not a sufferer, but a guy who doesn’t need people to complete. Now you might wonder why them would such a guy look for a girlfriend. Another question you might be wondering is, if that guy is not the idea man she wants, why would she even decide to date him?

What women see when they meet such a personality is signs of maturity, dominance, self belief, and stability. A lot of guys live under the impression that girls become more interested in guys who have lots of friends, interesting friend circle and with the whole Bro dynamics. The truth is, girls find the whole Bro thing very fascinating. But just because she likes to hear the Bro stories of your goons, does not mean by even 1% that, that is improving your position in her mind.

How guy see it is, she is laughing at these stories, clearly we are having a good time, therefore, I am forming a deeper connection with her. NO! She is laughing because your stories are fulfilling her need for entertainment because frankly, Bro stories are simply hilarious. There are only two possible outcome from here: one, either she will be satisfied with her dose of entertainment and move on, or two, she would secretly get envious and try to become a part of the group, which if she tried, she will succeed, because you will vouch for her.

And once she does, you would be rendered useless. The third imaginary possibility that she would date you because you have cool friends would never happen because showing that you have cool friends will never get you a date, on the contrary, what it tells the other person is, you are so uncool that you use your association with cool people in order to appear cool. It’s actually perceived as a weakness because instead of selling your individual achievement and qualities, you wasted your time selling your friends circle. And once she penetrates into your group with your help, she is going to date one of your friends, because all this while, you have been getting her excited about one of those guys from your stories.

If you want the girl to date you, own her laughs, if she is laughing at a story, but you’re not the hero of the story, you’re digging your own grave.

5. Happiness.

Women like guys who make them happy. Let’s consider two words: Excitement and Fun. She needs to feel these two keywords whenever she is in contact with you. Why? Because generally life is boring, including the lives of the people around her. This part about happiness to be honest is superficial, nobody has their shit together, you are just like everybody, but unfortunately appearances in dating rank higher than reality.

So don’t talk about your shit, you are not sad, not distressed, not a normal person, instead you’re a bundle of joy! Whenever you pick her call, switch off the part in your brain which says: your problems. The reason why this work is, her brain registers your presence as a source of happiness. What later happens is, whenever she is bored, in stress, or looking for a bit of excitement, her brain automatically reminds her of you, which makes her call you, hang out with you, and so forth.

6. Patience

This is a problem with almost every guy I have seen trying to court a girl. They just want everything to happen the next day, or in the next hour. The trick of getting a girl is making her want you, and the first step to that is by removing any and all desperation. If you are texting her every hour, trying desperately to create conversations, flirting continually, you are reducing your chances of ever getting her genuinely interested.

There are two reasons patience is important for your mental health and in dating:

A girl is not the end of your life. I get it, you are excited, interested, and contemplating that she might be the one. If it is such a huge thing, shouldn’t you step back a little, and really think about it? I am sure you have other things in your life too, which you are disregarding right now because of the entry of this new person. One reason behind patience is to maintain your mental stability, stay on your feet, don’t go haywire.
Test it out, if you don’t text her for a day, does she text you? Think about what you have learned about her from your conversations, is it really what you want? Are you sure that her personality wouldn’t cause any problems in your life? Be mature. Don’t ever go in a relationship because your mind is overclouded with sex. In these breaks, get to know the real nature of your feelings, discover your honest intentions, are you just pursuing this for sex? Is it because you are desperate to have a girlfriend?

Or maybe there is a compatibility. Whatever answers you find, accept them, and then make your next moves. A lot of guys get into relationships solely because of how hot she is! There is nothing wrong with that motivation, but if her hotness is all that attracts you, then maybe look for sexual relationship than a romantic one. By doing that, you save not only years of your life, but also save yourself from agonizing break-ups.

You’re not desperate
You are stable, you are not crazy about her, and you have a life. It also give her the time to think about you. And when she thinks about you, she not only becomes more interested in talking to you again, she also ponders about the conversations with you, and from that, she gets more questions, which indirectly get her more interested in you. And this really happens in case you’re pursuing an intelligent woman. When smart women find someone interesting, they subconsciously start scanning if there are deal breakers with this guy. So believe me, she is going to pay extra attention to your ideologies, your way of thinking, are you judgmental, how open minded are you, so on and so forth. How am I sure of this?

Two reasons, one, because of that subconscious idea image of man women get attracted to. I wrote about this here. Second reason, you have to consider the possibility that she has had a bad relationship. The same applies to you as well, but this is where men and women differ in their approach, men who have been hurt before and now have found someone new tend to fix their broken hearts by being extra attentive and extra loving.

Their approach unknowingly become achieving finality as soon as possible. They want it to happen quickly, as a result, they give their all, because in their heads, they are on the mission to prove I am the right guy. And the way they do it is not by patience, but by showing how upstanding, caring, loving, and perfect I am for you. So to prove that, the level of love a guy showers upon the girl, the attention, the care just skyrockets. And doing so, guys leave everything aside and become obsessed.

Now women don’t work like that. If her trust has been broken in the past, a smart woman will take a lot of time. Women’s approach is building finality gradually in time. And this really annoys women about guys as they are unable to understand that. The way guys see it is logically, if I fit the bill, why are you not giving me all your love? What is this patience nonsense! I have proved to you that I am the perfect guy, what else do you want me to do, just say it, define it so that I can do it and win your heart completely.

Men’s emotions in a compact phrase would be: ‘be mine‘. Whereas women have a very self protecting nature. Do they still make mistakes, date the wrong guys? Hell yeah. They are humans. What’s important for you is to understand how they think.

7. Be Willing to Kick a Woman Out of Your Life at Any Point

Now I am not asking you to be rude and disrespectful, this is a mindset. What do I mean by this? At any point during trying to impress a girl, always be fully prepared to accept that this might not work out, therefore I am not going to dive into this head-in. Obviously, if you are simply unable to do this, you lack maturity and are too desperate and your self esteem will be torn apart by the rejections that will come your way.

Why am I suggesting you this? Because women have the same mindset. Their mindset is built because they have too many options, which is why they don’t attach themselves to every guy they talk to, and very frequently reject, delete and block guys without any conversation. You need to build this mindset, firstly, because you must invest your time and energy only with the most suitable candidate, and not every girl that texts you back.

Secondly, when you start implementing this, you discover that girls automatically start taking more interest in you. Call it reverse psychology but this works. I believe this works because you’re the only one who is not running after her, and that turns her on. You’re patient, not flooding her with texts every time she wakes up, not dying for opportunities to talk to her, but whenever you get one, you take full advantage of it.

You make her happy, in her eyes, that makes you a strong secure man, almost like the idea image of man she fantasizes about.

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Below is the manly ways to do it right and get the woman you want once and for all:

1. Women are Naturally Attracted to Men Who Don’t Run After Them

The absence of an apparently clear motive helps create a secure space between you two which makes her feel comfortable around you,which in turns opens up space for better conversation and open minded dialogue.

Women also see that as a sign of a secure man, for example, if in the initial few conversations, you make it clear I have no interest in You, you become the first guy in her life to have said that to her. See the crippling thing about men is that they are always trying, insidiously, insinuatingly creeping in, dropping subtle hints of casual flirtation, without missing a bit, always looking for a window. Understand a simple thing: You are not the first guy to do that. More like, every guy she has met.

2. Just Because You have Mentioned You are Not Interested in Her Romantically, Doesn’t Mean You Start Ignoring Her or Acting Like a Jerk

Be curious about her instead of being interested in her. The way she is supposed to feel is: he is interested in knowing about me, myself, my life, and how interesting I am. Your curiosity will lead to more conversations and not flirting. Instead of devising thousands of plans on how to charm her, reading lines off the internet, what you are getting is crucial information regarding how she thinks, what she wants, what she likes, is she interested in some guy, is she over her ex, does she love somebody, is she a psycho, is she after money, how important her career is to her, and more.

A lot of people decide to get into relationships because they developed a crush on a person, and therefore now it’s a pledge or an oath that they have to have that person. Bro, your crush made you want to talk to her, the decision however to share a grand amount of time emotionally and romantically should rest upon qualifications and your equation with her. A relationship is long term, a crush is temporary and trivial.

3. Put Yourself Esteem Above Your Approval, In short, don’t kiss ass:

A lot of guys project themselves as too soft and comforting to every single thing she says. They think the perfect way to a woman’s heart is by showing no resistance at all. They are like: I accept you and every word that comes out of your mouth unquestionably. That will land you in the friend-zone.

You are a yes-man to her, you are her idea friend because you agree with everything she says and does. As a contender for her heart, you are uninteresting, boring, bland, and lack the ability to impress, surprise and challenge her. But has a person who would always be there to hear everything she has to stay on the phone, you are perfect....to be continued

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