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Romance › Ladies! Would You Bang? by TheMenCode(op): 3:57pm On Mar 07, 2018

Would you let him smash?

Romance › Re: 6 Things Nigerian Women Must Do To Make Themselves More Attractive To Men by TheMenCode(op): 7:01pm On Mar 06, 2018

Liliyann:
Someone will just sit in his house and write trash about a woman.
No lady should live to please a man,do what pleases you as long as you are happy.
Women should stop worshipping men and living by their dictates they ain't god!!
I live to please myself and no one else
My happiness over everyone else.

Enjoy Your Spinster doom!

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Romance › Re: 6 Things Nigerian Women Must Do To Make Themselves More Attractive To Men by TheMenCode(op): 9:16am On Mar 06, 2018

BossLaifay:
Noted! But what would the men do to make themselves more attractive for us?

http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/02/24/17-things-wrong-nigerian-men/

Romance › 6 Things Nigerian Women Must Do To Make Themselves More Attractive To Men by TheMenCode(op): 6:00pm On Mar 05, 2018

Talk Less:

Nigerian women talk 80% of the time and want the man to not just listen but agree with them, they can literally turn a man's resting time to gossip time. If they can just be quite a little and not talk too much of how interesting their day to day was, just relax and let the man lead the interaction.

Every man will want to spend time with her. The real man knows to watch what a woman do and not what she says because he knows her superficial is a contradiction.

Get Rid of Ideologies That Encourage Her Worst Trait:

Women should think logically for once to realized that feminism ideology is a hoax, it creates more problem for her because its the only ideology that believe empowering one gender is equality. The feminist wants to put more time into her job and less time with a man.

The fact is, she will be more attractive if she put more effort into yourself outside career the more value, attractive and feminine you will be. No man will want to be with a woman who brag about accomplishment in her career.

Lose Weight:

Nigeria woman should get their shit together, very minute weaker men like obese women. Most women become excessively fat with reckless abandon after dropping one or two children. Every man like a model like woman, get in shape and you will be attractive to men.

Don't Reject A Guy Because You Want To Boast Your Fragile Ego:

Once a woman start feeling she's too special and drive pleasure from rejecting guys she don't want to fu*k. She reduce her chance of building connection with men because arrogance is what the men see when they approach her.

It's okay, to turn guys down but don't feel too good about yourself but politely refused, change the conversation and go on with your life. Being cold to guys should not be a way to inflate your ego or self esteem.

Stop Tattooing, Piercing Your Nose or Body:

Has any woman actually ask herself how many men really like to see them mutilate their body for the sake of being more attractive? The fact is piercing and ugly tattoos make you look unwise and a street urchins, jailbird etc. Maybe in entertainment or you probably read it in some novels and you want to stand out by piercing your nose, it's cool but you're just coping the every other body mutilating women.

Don't Sacrifice Family For Career:

A woman has the only naturally given right to bring another human to the world, this power shouldn’t be abuse or wasted in an attempt to be equal with man. Your best biological years should not be wasted on promoting an ideology that will not stop you from hitting the inevitable biological wall when it comes.

So many other things Nigerians women need to do including not keeping guys in the waiting list too long because men do not like to wait, while waiting or chasing her, he may bump into another woman who clearly see an opportunity and grab with both hands. This type of women are usually the one other women call loose girls in their school days but today the same women are the one that got the lucky men and happily married.

The girls who were nice, too careful and wanting not to be called sluts, put the guys through a list of shits tests are the ones asking question today of 'where are the good men'? The answer, you left them when you were 22 years!

http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/03/06/6-things-nigerian-women-must-do-to-make-themselves-more-attractive-for-men/

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Romance › Would You Bang Her? by TheMenCode(op): 8:23pm On Mar 02, 2018*

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Romance › 3 Ways Women Are More Intuitive And Smarter Than Men In Relationship by TheMenCode(op): 6:55pm On Feb 27, 2018*

Women are not smarter than men or have a sixth sense while the rest of us have five senses, they just have better micro-cues than men. Women are able to read body language, tone and the sound of words, remember that you speak more with your body and how your words sound is more important than the words itself.

Anyone that can read the movement of the face, eyes, posture, hands and legs will be able to know what the other person is feeling and for a man, this will help him to understand the woman and her feelings for him better.

1. Women Know How To Test Man's Suitability:

Men are more visual oriented, so what they see affect them. A man could see a woman right now and decide whether she's will be a good wife or not, but the opposite it's for the woman. She has created a subconscious test to filter men who are worthy or suitable for her through accumulated genetic wisdom, this helps her to filter lesser men from higher value men.

The woman has a gut feeling and a subconscious formulated psychological 'tests' she applies to know a man's strength, characters, attractiveness to other women and ability to handle her issues without breaking down.

She get so emotionally satisfied with the man who passes her intuition filter and she open up her mind, body and all to him.

2. Women Recognizes Early Warning Bad Signs In Relationships:

She is quick to know something is not right with her relationship, her intuition help her to know some little things in relationship that could lead to bigger problems if not tended to.

Women attractiveness decline as she grow older, so her chances of getting a desirable husband reduces as she grows old than a man who can still get a hot young partner at an old age and because of this she stand to lose more if after investing months and years into a relationship when it fails.

A man (even an old man) can start hanging out and exploring the dating scene within a short time after a failed relationship

Therefore women have developed a sense of smelling like a dog to sniff out warning signs that a man is losing interest, reduced love and commitment or no longer interested in the relationship like before.

Men are often shock and can't understand when women talk about problems in the relationship but the man overlooked it as not worthy of discussions, she foresee the problems and this help her to quickly get out of the relationship and go back to the dating market only this time it's the older version of herself and this unlovelier outlook don’t get her quick attention from men.

3. Women Don't Give Up Easily:

For a woman when it comes to getting the man that her intuition believes is suitable for her, it's a zero sum game. She either get it or die trying. When a man sees beautiful lady with a man, even though if he really like the woman and want her badly, he will just walk away and say to himself 'if she's already with him, why bother myself I will simply go for another woman'.

For a woman, she will say to herself, 'if the man is already with another woman, he's taken but I’m going to steal him'. So it's a zero sum for women, they just go for it and no logical consideration, this is why you see young women dating men they even know his wife or girlfriend.

Her intuition is the counterweight to man's logical thinking and in most cases it gives her the fantasies of intellectual equality with the man but are too emotional to do or make any logical decision with it.

The only exception is women being able to know when her children need her but it can also be argued that she spent time with her child, so she should know. Men are more intuitive than women else there will not be too many single mothers, women dating murderer or armed robbers etc.

Her intuition is a false intuition of leaving things undefined and just jump into conclusion but a man will have more accurate representation of the reality before judgment.

Therefore a woman only have micro-cues NOT intuition and this enable her to pass judgment on things that men often overlook. The man body language can become a woman's reality for judgment of his frame (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/08/the-frame/) or how he treat the relationship.

Men who have mastered the art of knowing women intuition from several experience with women have developed their own intuition to compete with women. He knows when to cut his loss, when she's no longer interested or about to cheat and not fully committed to the relationship, when to stop trying to make her continue the relationship.

They do this by manipulating the woman's intuition to serve their purpose and the best way to work against her intuition is not given it answers.

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Romance › 17 Things Wrong With Nigerian Men by TheMenCode(op): 7:15pm On Feb 22, 2018*

1. Loss of Frame:

In any business or relationship, someone has to provide leadership. Many Nigerian men lost their frame (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/08/the-frame/) the moment they got that 'special one' woman. They are happy if she allows them access to the Television remote, and watch their favorite sport channel because she controls everything, they are afraid to call her to order because if they do she may deny them sex.

They couldn't provide leadership and she has to take over the role, instead of the man getting back and maintaining the frame, he accept following her wish and rationalized it by saying 'I want peace and don't want to annoy her, more so women are the owner of the home'

2. They Pedestalized Women:

Nigerian men listen to music and watch movies, read novels, told by mothers, feminized fathers, blue pill conditioned relationship/life coaches to believe the best and only way to get a woman to like them is when they do all the nice things (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/12/6-things-nice-guy-attract-girl-every-real-man-must-never/) and they will overtime get her sexual reward.

These men try so hard to do and say all the good things, so afraid not to offend her. First to 'like' and offering her undeserved complimentary comment to her social media picture post, DM her to beg for her attention thereby over inflating the value of her pussy (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/18/facebook-twitter-instagram-ego-inflated-pussy-value-woman-shes-busy/) and making her to see herself as a mini celebrity.

3. They are Feminizis:

Many Nigerian men are too feminized, they now act and think like a woman. Some were raised by a woman/single mother who only taught them only how to be 'nice' to women and loosing their manhood in the process is a good bargain, because of an absent of a father figure or presence of a feminized father they think embracing their masculinity is a danger to women.

4. False Sexual Pre-Condition:

Most Nigerian men with their blue pill sexual condition believe when they go on date with a woman, makes them entitled to her sexual reward and they go mad if she refused. As indicated in the How to Unplugged Yourself From Inter Sexual Conditioning
(http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/12/08/unplugged-inter-sexual-conditioning/) a sexualized situation can lead to sex without going on a fancy date, so she owes you no obligation to have sex with you.

5. Male Feminist or Woman Ally:

Many Nigerian men are now feminist ally because they think defending women ideology will get her to like him, he never bother to ask himself how many women are fighting for better treatment of men or boys in schools.

6. Lack Knowledge of Inter Sexual Dynamic:

Nigerian men don't understand what a woman does is more important than what she says. So they can't read her indicators of interests IOIs (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/02/06/dangerous-times-nigerian-men/)and know that her reactions only change when her feelings changes not by her talk, but would rather come on Twitter to seek for praises of how nice they are because she said 'stop' and he stopped.

7. Lost Their Masculinity to Feminism:

Nigeria men like every men in the world are protectors, social providers, provide leadership and security for the woman. In war, dangers or hard times women look up to men for rescue, that's masculinity (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/25/masculinity-makes-man-man/) but many men have lost this natural role in support of feminism. Yet they are called when the woman NEED them (use their masculinity in danger), but talk of equality when they are WANTED to provide sperm and support their feminism ideology.

8. Lost Role of Training Boy Child:

Many Nigerian men now think it's the power of woman to train the boy child, so ignorant to know that a boy need a man/father (same way a girl need her mother/woman) to teach him about embracing his masculinity, not to think or act like a woman. And to know that a boy only need the mother to know what real love is and how to love his woman, but today men would rather allow the woman to train and teach boys to become feminized boys who grow up to become weaker men/nice guys. Women train boys to conform to their thinking and mode him in her image.

9. Ignorance of Their Sexual Marketing Value:

Many Nigerian men like every other men in the world do not realized that their attraction level increases, become more confidence, highly attractive to young and beautiful women as they grow old if they stay fit with good body, instead they are worried like the woman when they are 30 years and not married. A woman attraction level decreases as she grows older and it takes a short time for men to start passing her by or prefer her younger sisters (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/21/fear-every-woman/). This ignorance of men is her strength.

10. No Love Lost Among Men:

Nigerian men don't support each other but would go extreme to defend a woman because the society and the feminine imperatives have subconsciously made men to believe it's the right thing to do. When a man is sometimes wrongly accused, the sisterhood come together to name and shame him and in many cases men help this women to push their agenda.

11. Lazy and Soft:

Many Nigerian men make woman their mission in life and involve in robbery to get her what she want, they don't invest time to build themselves mentally (by learning more about sexual dynamics, philosophy, stoic, acquiring a skill etc), physically by working out and staying in shape, muscles, great body, and maintaining the frame of their relationship. Instead they spent money and invest time in bars, eating voraciously ANYTIME thereby reducing their six packs to a big ZERO pack ending up with pot belly, they think it's a sign of good living.

12. They are Nice Guys and Always in The Friend-zone:

Most Nigerian men invest their time and attention, provide pillow of comfort for their woman friend who's ill treated by her boyfriend, listen to all her story and offer her advice, believing this will make her see them as the nice guy who will treat her right assuming she's dating him. They go violent when after all their good 'advice' she goes back to have sex with the same 'bad boyfriend'. Nice guys (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/29/paying-bills-good-act-expecting-sex-intimate-commitment-reward-weakness/) are only nice until they are not!

13. Living a Lie:

Very many Nigerian men are mislead to believe that feminism is all about equality for the woman and the only way for the woman to make great achievement. This is false because any progress made so far by women can be achieve without feminism (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/18/bitter-truth-feminism/). Rape or fighting for the welbeing of girl child can be achieve by creating an NGO or when women partner with an NGO.

When the need arise men will be call upon to protect women, you will assume they can take care of themselves and also let the men take of themselves as equality dictates. NO! They can't! Feminism is a window of opportunity for her to do what ever she want without judgment and to blame the man for her failures.

14. Waste Their Time Searching For The One:

Almost all Nigerian men believe there's that one special women somewhere waiting for them and all they need is for the universe or the right to for them to meet and will be happy ever after. They never realized there are only good and bad ones when dealing with women, no special one (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/11/no-special-one/) and falling in love with her doesn't make it so.

15. Scarcity Mentality:

They suffer from scarcity mentality and focus all their attention to one woman because of her beauty and stop making new approaches, only to be disappointed when she break up with him and left in desert of sexual dryness.

16. Black Lips and Teeth:

Many Nigerian Men as a result of heavy smoking have dirty and decaying tooth, black lips with eyes always red like a crying baby.

17. External Mental Point of Origin:

Many Nigerian men seek approval from a woman, they are happier when a woman accept their proposal. A man should be his own mental point of origin, his happiness or finding it should come from him

You may want to visit our blog (www.themencode.com.ng) for deeper understanding of inter-sexual dynamics between a man and woman.

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Romance › Re: Feminism, Egg Freezing, Egg Growing, Equal Pay, And Rest Of Men by TheMenCode(op): 8:54pm On Feb 17, 2018

greiboy:
op you misunderstood my point the other time, I never said feminism as a movement is perfect, I merely countered the points you raised about how feminism dictates when to marry, or what to eat.

Feminism as a movement has its excesses and what you have highlighted today are some of its excesses. Nonetheless, we need to always acknowledge some of its progressive achievements

Any progressive imagined achievement women made today can be accomplished WITHOUT feminism.

Any old married woman with grown up children and happily married NEED feminism to draw attention of the single women in their prime.

She could partner with an NGO or set up one to promote her cause but she won't... As i noted in the essay The Feminine imperative (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/13/the-feminine-imperative-in-cooperate-world/). Because freedom won't come if she doesn't hide under the language of the feminine imperative FEMINISM!

Feminism is freedom for the woman to have it all without judgement, sacrifice their most fertile decade to carrie and when the sexual attraction decline because of age, they blame men if they couldn't settle....etc

That freedom also takes away eating right as she eat junks outside than homemade....after all she makes more money now and can just order..while waste time preparing traditional rich meal? She is so busy after all!

Replace the kitchen with the office and the bedroom with boardroom. Feminism is 'Man, i want you now but I really need you when in danger'.

Romance › Feminism, Egg Freezing, Egg Growing, Equal Pay, And Rest Of Men by TheMenCode(op): 4:09pm On Feb 17, 2018

greiboy(m) set the tone for this essay because a lot of people may also share his position. You can read his comment here (https://www.nairaland.com/4335452/5-ways-feminism-destroying-nigerian#64873061) and read the entire post here (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/02/02/5-ways-feminism-destroying-nigerian-women/)

It's good for people to actual posit their believe intellectually and I respect that, this sometimes help the author to see things beyond his own personal beliefs and orientations. However, I will like to point out some facts that may throw more light into the discuss.

Feminism may have given the discerning an impression of fighting for equality, equal pay, sexual harassment and so on.

You can believe this if you like, but men who can see beyond the surface can testify that feminism is not about any of this rather it's about freedom to cuckoldry, the woman don't want to be judge when she decide to fu*ck Emeka today, Ayo tomorrow and Musa next day and then settle down later like the man.

As I outlined in the 20 Things Wrong With Nigerian Single Ladies (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/28/20-things-wrong-nigerian-single-ladies/), she want to eat her cake with the icing in it and still hope it's still fresh and hot when she's ready to settle.

Technology is becoming more feminine imperative, every scientific labs in the advance world today are refocusing research to how to grow the female egg in women who cannot produce it, it's moved from just freezing the eggs to growing it.

All this give the feminist the idea they are winning in their quest to eradicate men but only NEED them when in danger as I noted in the Masculinity: What Makes Man, Man? (www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/25/masculinity-makes-man-man/).

No emotion can replace the physical touch of opposite sex, cuddling and holding after sex, in all this the fact still remain all the new discovery is to help the woman delay the inevitable biological wall and increased her sexual market value for longer time.

But can she deceive nature? As I pointed out in Woman's Hypergamous Nature (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/04/else-watched-view-tvc-program-morning-manifestation-womans-hypergamous-desire/)

She already knows it just a matter of time before the epiphany stage set in, so she need to freeze her egg and hope to find the beta bucks who will provide her social and parental needs when she's ready to settle.

BBC Equal Pay Row

If you have been following, the latest trends is women accusing men and complaining of unequal pay for doing same job as the men. Now here's the deal, I do not have issues with women (or BBC's news editor Carrie Gracie) asking for equal pay doing same work as the men.

If a woman is enlisted into the military or police, same day with the man and at the same rank, by all means they both deserved equal pay for doing same job and offering same value.

Male feminist and sympathizers how do you explain a situation where a woman want an equal pay for a job she got recruited to perform with the minimum qualification of every employee in the establishment, but she want equal pay with the men already doing same job for some number of years.

This is more like an actor just commissioned to act along side Omotola or Genevieve (both pulled years of experience in Acting) wanting equal pay because in her judgment she's offering the same value and doing same job like this thespians?

TESCO Equal Pay Claim

Earlier this week it was all over the international media of how some female shop workers sued the company management for equal pay.

The women practically want to earn the same amount of $11 per hour paid to the men, now the men in this company works in the factory, carry the goods from one point to another, offloading and uploading the goods, while the women stays in the store and record this movement of goods which is the proviso of their job.

That's all they do, basically record keeping and today they are in court claiming they offer similar value as the men who carry this heavy goods from point A to point B and they deserved equal pay, I.e that same $11 per hour as the men.

I will understand this, if some of this women can also work in this department and not just limited to the store, asking for equal pay would make a lot of sense.

Now this is the problem feminism has created today, it makes women rationalized everything with their emotion, to want to have it no matter how many men go down in the process.

Before now, who could have taught any human will want equal reward for merely filling form in the store with another human who carries the heavy loads and does the heavy duty jobs.

This women are no more qualified academically or carry heavy duty tools like the men, but they just want equal pay because they feel they offer the same value to the company like the men does. For her it all about what makes her feel good, and if need be eradicate men who don't want this for her.

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Romance › Don't Ask Her This! by TheMenCode(op): 11:00am On Feb 14, 2018*

Nice is boring, familiar and not challenging, this is why people already have an answer to a simple 'hello' without thinking about how to response.

Being too nice means you're trying hard to impress her and that give the impression that you're weaker with lesser value and you need to be too nice to raise your value in her eyes.

A man should be his own mental point of origin, this means his happiness and satisfaction comes from inside, he doesn’t need a girl vibes to motivate him to achieve the goal he set out for himself.

He should not ask the woman for direction or what and how to do things but ask her what she thinks and want.

The man is her security, protection and her leadership, so don't make her scared by not knowing what you're suppose to do.

If you don't know, fake it, when you fail, own it, try again or do something else rather than making her insecure or scared by not knowing what to do.

Owning your failure makes you man, it's masculinity. I noted this in What Make Man, A Man? (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/25/masculinity-makes-man-man/). When you succeed, own it because you made it happen.

What She NEED not WANT

When it comes to buying her gift especially on Valentine's day, you get her what she need not want, she may have insinuated what she will like to have or you may have notice her reaction when she see some items when you're out together.

If she like to workout, get her a work out mat, if you notice she's gotten not a enough bra, get her a bra. Fuc*k buying chocolate, ice cream or flowers, you're not buying sex. You're buying her what she really need.

Gift shouldn't be too expensive, what is important is the intention of the giver and who the gift is coming from. If your girl don't appreciate the gift you offer, she don't deserve you.

The fact no matter how small a gift, if it's something your woman really NEED, she will thank you for it. The problem with many guys is they offer gift their girlfriend want and has no need for.

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Romance › Valentine's Day: 5 Signs You Should Approach A Girl by TheMenCode(op): 12:05am On Feb 14, 2018

It's easy to decide on the number of girls to approach daily but the key thing is to approach the right target, the wrong target will waste your time, cockblock you and give you a cold treatment.

Mastering the sign to approach a girl will get you a seamless conversation and an easy poon.

1. Group of Three or More:

When a girl is in a group of one or two other girls, you may be successful if you did make an approach because in most cases the other ladies usually just get busy with other things like checking their phone.

In a group of more than three, approach will be strongly rejected not necessarily by her but by the team.

She will also reject your approach even though she's single, because she's part of the group and will let her friends do the rejection for her.

2. Is She Wearing a Strong Face:

A girl who keep frowning her face and never loosen it when you incidentally make eye contact, she never soften it for a smile and always harden it especially when you make eye contact with her, she's will harshly reject your approach.

3. Holding Hands With Her Friends:

If a girl is holding hands with her friends in an event or a bar, this indicate that she is in a mood of 'all for one, one for all'.

This means she will cannot attend to anyone alone with her friend in hand. If you dare approach a girl in this position, she will completely ignore you.

4. Doesn't Care About Friends:

A lady who's in an event and appear not caring about her friends but often break eye contact to look into the crowd, see what's going on.

Women like this are interested in meeting new people, in fact single ladies look around in the crowd just like the single guys.

But the opposite of this is if she appear to be so much into the people around her and completely ignored happenings around her, there's no need to break into this circle because she will completely ignore you.

5. Observe Her Style of Movement:

You need to carefully watch your target like the Lion watches her prey, how quick or slow her movement will determine if she's ready to pay attention to someone new .

Ladies in hurry or walking fast have low attention span for a quick conversation.

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Romance › The World Largest Erect Pen*is Size, Nigeria Is On The Top List by TheMenCode(op): 6:37pm On Feb 09, 2018*

If you wondered whose countries got the largest pen*is size in the world, you can finally have a sigh of relief as the list in now finally out. Size do matter but they also say it's not the size of the dog that matters but the fight in the dog. So you can still deliver no matter your size, sexual satisfaction is more than just penetration, how you handle the clito-ris determines how much satisfaction you can provide her.

You can do it no matter your size let no woman deflate your ego that size is important just the way chest size is important to men.

In the list below, Congo, Ghana, Gabon, Nigerian men have the biggest pen*is and are at the top spot. With Sri Lanka and North/South occupying the smallest spot, this however do not in any way take anything away from this countries.

Largest Average Erect Pen*is Size

Congo, 7.1 inches
Gabon, 7.04 inches
Ecuador, 7.01 inches
Ghana, 6.8 inches

Nigeria, 6.76 inches
Colombia, 6.73 inches
Jamaica, 6.6 inches
Haiti, 6.50 inches
Iceland, 6.54 inches

Second Largest Average Erect Pen*is Size

South Africa, 6.3 inches
Italy, 6.2 inches
Mexico, 6.0 inches
Sweden, 5.9 inches
Greece, 5.8 inches
Norway, 5.8 inches

Germany, 5.7 inches
New Zealand, 5.5 inches
UK, 5.5 inches
Canada, 5.5 inches
Spain, 5.5 inches

France, 5.3 inches
Russia, 5.2 inches
Australia, 5.2 inches
USA, 5.1 inches
Romania, 5.0 inches
Ireland, 5 inches

Smallest Average Pen*is Size

India, 4 inches
Sri Lanka 3.6 inches
Thailand, 4 inches
Malaysia 4.1 inches

North/South Korea, 3.8 inches
Indonesia, 5.0 inches
Brazil, 5 inches
Japan, 4.1 inches

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Romance › Re: 5 Ways Feminism Is Destroying Nigerian Women by TheMenCode(op): 12:15am On Feb 08, 2018

Dimples129:
Ask him if these apply to male feminists?

He will say they're gay

Ignorance is a disease

You sir are the cure

Thank you

Male feminist are women ALLY.

http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/12/6-things-nice-guy-attract-girl-every-real-man-must-never/

Homo or Hetero is no more an issue than the frame ( http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/08/the-frame/ ) and sexual conditioning of the man (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/12/08/unplugged-inter-sexual-conditioning/

Bitter Truth about feminism no one talks about.

http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/18/bitter-truth-feminism/

Romance › Re: 5 Ways Feminism Is Destroying Nigerian Women by TheMenCode(op): 12:01am On Feb 08, 2018

greiboy:
First of all, I am guy not a lady

Secondly, every of your counter statement is based on your own perceptions, not actual facts

Those who initially push for feminism or women's liberation were after right to vote, right to get equal pay check as their male counterparts, right to education for the girl child, adequate legal protection for women in abusive relationship all other issues around social justice, which any rational person should support.

I understand that some modern day feminists have also added issues around female sexuality to feminism I.e. they believe women should also demand to have sexual satisfaction like their male counterparts, which might support promiscuous behavior to some extent

Nonetheless, there is nothing in feminism that support your assertions, which are

> women should not marry when they like

> women should not eat good food or cook for their husbands, that is if the lady is a better cook and have the time, otherwise it will be unreasonable to ask a very busy woman to cook all the time. it is not about feminism, it is just common sense

If you don't want a woman that is too busy, you can always marry a house wife

> if a woman earns more, she will be independent and attractive to decent men as long as she is not to proud or egoistic about it, mind you some broke ladies who can barely afford their own undies can just be as proud. Pride has nothing to do with women financial status or feminism.

Now, equality which feminism is fighting for is quite different from equity which most men prefer

Equality is fairness regardless of the situation

Equity is fairness in all situation

I have added a diagram for better explanation

http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/12/6-things-nice-guy-attract-girl-every-real-man-must-never/

Romance › Re: 5 Ways Feminism Is Destroying Nigerian Women by TheMenCode(op): 8:32pm On Feb 07, 2018

greiboy:
This is absolutely wrong

First of all, Feminism is just an advocacy for equal rights between the sexes.

> Feminism did/can not insist or suggest when a lady should settle down. There is nothing in the movement to suggest this, This is only the only misconceptions going around on social media platforms in Nigeria. There are lot of feminists who are happily married

>Feminism don't dictate the type of food a woman should eat. it is not advocacy for the nutritional value of women. Therefore, it has very little to nothing to do with the second point you raised

> Feminism has nothing with finding a life partner. The fact that women earned more than they use to do in yesteryears doesn't mean they should not find love

NB; I am not a feminist but a firm believer in the idea of a fairer world, whether we practice equality or equity

Feminism is NOT about equality! It's about FREEDOM to cuckoldry for the woman.
http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/18/bitter-truth-feminism/

Romance › 5 Ways Feminism Is Destroying Nigerian Women by TheMenCode(op): 7:31pm On Feb 07, 2018

1. Makes Them Waste Their Single Most Important Decade

A woman has one decade to make a decision that will affect the remaining decades of her life but feminism want her to waste that decade, this is why you hear women say they want to be able to achieve the many goals they set for themselves and maybe settle when she’s 35 years.

They now believe if the man can wait and settle later, so can the woman and in worse case scenario she can freeze her eggs. Every man knows that a woman attraction level decreases as she get older as she move closer to hitting the unavoidable biological wall but she clearly cannot think about this because she’s too emotional to logically evaluate her decision. She’s made to believe cosmetic surgery and a hip of makeup layers will give her the ‘I still got it‘ feeling after hitting the wall.

2. Makes Women Unfit Mothers

It’s no longer unusual to see kids are obese because they eat a lot of junks, as their mothers no longer have time to prepare them organic food, she traded that time for career and can no longer care for the household leaving everything at the mercy of house-help. Eating out is a basic routine and she explains it away by saying she’s a wife not a cook, if the man need a cook he should hire one.

3. Makes It Hard For Her To Find Life Partner

Feminism has given women the opportunity to make more money while taking away their biological need to start a family early. Makes her seek for equal pay for doing the same job as the man even if she’s just recruited newly, she still want equal pay with the man doing same job for decades.

With this comes difficulty for her to settle with a man who earn less because she naturally want to marry a man earning equal or more than her. Women continually pushing for equal or higher pay has left men with little options and prefer to go for women of lower means, leaving the women of higher means lonely without husband.

READ MORE=>>http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/02/02/5-ways-feminism-destroying-nigerian-women/

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Romance › Re: How Often A Married Couple Should Have S*x by TheMenCode: 6:43pm On Feb 02, 2018

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SEX IS SPONTANEOUS NOT PLANNED, MARRIED OR SINGLE. People ask this question because they already lost that 'trigger' to make sex just happen, so it becomes a routine that's to be planned. MEN MUST ALWAYS MAINTAIN THE 'FRAME' (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/08/the-frame/) AND ...ALPHA UP!

Romance › Dangerous Times For Nigerian Men by TheMenCode(op): 6:19pm On Feb 02, 2018

We saw recently how Oprah Winfrey officially revealed her hatred for men with the Time's Up, #MeToo campaign in an event that's was supposed to be an award and celebration of talents, the irony is many Nigerian women feel inspired by her speech and created their own #NoMore campaign.

The significance of this is that men now need to be judge by any woman's social media post of an allegations of sexual harassment without even hearing from the man, now it's her words against him. As I once proved in the feminine imperative, (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/13/the-feminine-imperative-in-cooperate-world/) that the Main Stream Media MSM, Cooperate Organizations, Twitter are feminist, this narratives will be accepted, widely propagated wholeheartedly without hearing the side of the man.

A woman who voluntarily had sex with a man and only to discover she wasn’t satisfied sexually can now go to social media and alleged rape, so as to punished the man for misleading her (to believe he can perform). Men must be careful of how they relate with women in workplace these days, merely saying 'hello' and asking her for a date may just lead to another sexual harassment claim and a hashtag.

You know when Nigerians copy things from Abroad they go extra miles to interpret it, as it's now no one really knows how much damage Nigeria Women are prepared to do with the #NoMore campaign, this could provide an opportunity for women to get back at men who they felt cheated on them at some point in their past relationships with rape and sexual allegations because he dumped them for another woman.

The campaign of #MeToo, Time's Up and now #NoMore is a unification of women coming together to eliminate men and make them conform to woman's conditions for sexual relationship. Now, a tweet, one Facebook and Instagram post could be all it takes to ruin a man as it's today and gone are the days of innocent until proven guilty. How can a man claim innocence in a society where what the woman says is all the matters?

Hope is not completely lost though, for the Alpha man; now is the time to muscle up, lift, 300 crunches daily and become Game aware.

Purposeful Life

Men must man up and take ownership of the narratives, we saw in the bible how Adam refused to caution Eve but rather watched her caress the snake until it became an everlasting problem today. By what ever means necessary sexually harassed boys/men must speak out right now to avoid the Adam and Eve scenario.

Men should also invest more time in physical and mental development by learning all there's about becoming Game aware and inter sexual dynamics, regular workout to be physically fit, have a project to work on daily and make it your mission to succeed in it and never complain when you fail, own it (success or failure) and move on this is how you give your life a purpose.

Men who complain are not leaders, for a man leads and never trades this leadership role for anything, else you are just a soy. Let the women continue with their campaign, invest their money on sex objects and pets in their lonely spinsterdoom.

Go Your Own Way

Game women as possible you can, increase your daily approaches and never make any commitment to any self proclaim feminist, she may suddenly wake up tomorrow and accused you of sexual molestation to punish you for bad sex or for no commitment. Men need to be sure that the indicators of interest IOI from a woman is legit before making approach, this is why men need to be Game aware in order to be able to read the signs.

This is no time to fear, only weak men see this women campaign against men as a problem, NO! it's an opportunity to up your Game because even the most self acclaim feminist crave for a man who can dominate her. Let that man be you, because this campaign is to preselect the boys from the men. Imagine a woman wakes up in the morning and suddenly realized that she was sexually harassed in the early 90's, 2000's, few weeks ago, only to speak out now and the feminine imperatives condemned the man without an opportunity to hear his side.

She may be rightly sexually harassed and because of fear refused to speak out, but the problem is tagging all men potential sexual predator that mus be eliminated, making men to conform to women new definition of sexual relationships is the crux of the issue here, by all means any man found guilty of a sexual crime committed many years ago or recent should do the time.

Who protect the boy/man sexually assaulted in the past and today? Men are also expose to same assault but yet the men are still the problem that should be remove from circulation. Time for men to cut loose women agenda and control the narratives.

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Romance › REVEALED: Two Patterns Of Women Sexual Relationship With Men, Avoid Pattern 2 by TheMenCode(op): 6:26pm On Jan 27, 2018

A man possessing woman as his only sexual, emotional needs provider and believe he's the ONLY one in her life is delusional there are always other men orbiting around her and sometimes other women (lesbian) want her for the same needs she provide the man. It's not just that she shares the Hot pot with other men only, the issue is what she does when she's with the man who calm her emotional storm that determine how she treats other orbiters.

She display two patterns, if you fall in the second; better do ALL you can to eliminate yourself from that woman because there are many good ones. Never waste your time or compromise your emotional needs for a woman whose affections are conditional.

Pattern One: She Knows Her Place in Your Life

A woman will break rules for the man that turns her on and create rules for the man she doesn't respect, she will bang him in an uncompleted building, jump through the fence to see him and lie for him. This is a woman who's attracted to the man, this attraction makes her respect him and see every opportunity to help him as valuable because those opportunities are rare.

Pattern Two: Necessary Evil in Her Life

There's the other woman who see the man in her life as a necessary evil whose presence disguised her but she has to be with him because he continues to meet her specific conditions. She only offer when he meet those conditions.

She always expect the man constant support rather than appreciate his occasional voluntary support and hates it if she has to be the one to help because she sees the man as a maid whose presence often irritate her. The man is useless when he can't meet her required specific functions because she treat her needs, time and effort as more valuable than anything else.

Now, look at your life and see if you have a woman who fits the second pattern and if you do, this is the time to remove her from your life because it's always easier to start a new healthy relationship (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/01/5-manly-ways-get-girl-want/) with someone else. Remember there are no special one or soul mates (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/11/no-special-one/) but many good ones and bad ones, the choice is up to you.

Romance › 5 Deadly Sexual Habits That Reveal Your Girlfriend Is NOT A Wife Material by TheMenCode(op): 9:14pm On Jan 26, 2018

If you are in a situation where you wonder if she’s type of woman you want to take home, know that you may not completely know, women don’t know anything about honesty and this is why they wear makeup to cover their blemish. As much as they hate full disclosure (don't be decisive if they tell you, they want to know everything. It's a lie!) same way most of them lack the courage to attend event without makeup. However, there are some pointers which by no means is all there’s to it that a man can look out for.

1. Type of Men She Dated Before:

When women are about to hit the biological wall (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/20/when-she-propose/), they change lanes from dating pop stars, sport athletes, celebrities and the likes to wanting to date regular guys with stable jobs (civil servant, regular jobs), small business managers. It’s important to know the type of men your girlfriend bleeped before and why she suddenly now took shine to a man like you who’s completely different from her previous boyfriends.

If she used to banged guys like sport athletes or men who fuc**ed her so good whether with drugs or stimulants, it’s important to know this, if you are different from the type of guys she dated before, it means she is changing lanes after realizing that are sexual marketing value is declining and about to hit her biological wall. This type of woman is good for dating not marriage because sooner or later she’s going to crave for that spontaneous hot sex and if you can’t meet it, the woes that befall beta male will be your fate.

2. Retired Fuc**ing Machine:

If you’re dating a girl who makes you wait for sex and when she finally let you have it, the sex is of a high class porn star quality, almost about to ruin you with sex and make you wonder how come she fuc*ed so good. A woman like this has been putting up an act, pretending not to be a slut. Basically she performs sexual acts like an actor on stage.

3. Sex by Barter:

More like trade by barter, to her sex is a commodity or currency she expect to claim after giving it to you. She has this entitlement mentality when it comes to sex, if she is offering it, something must be offered in return.

4. Selective and Strongly Control the Sex:

If you have a girlfriend that won’t do certain things and will only have sex at certain times of her choice and will do anything to avoid performing certain sexual acts because she want to give the impression that ‘only sluts/whores do that’ and she ‘doesn’t want you to think she’s a LovePeddler’. Also after sex, she immediately get up to watched the semen in her vaginal/body because she “want to avoid infection” or clean the area that’s wet.

She is very cautious of herself during sex and always accessing her performance and how you are evaluating her sexually. She is never completely free when having sex with you and because of this she never enjoys herself.

5. Are You Committing?

She wants to quickly move to next stage of the relationship, she want to be sure that you are ready to be committed and she will indirectly and openly give hints that she expect to settle down soon as possible. She expect you to also show the same commitment as your own way of compensating her in exchange for the sex she’s doling out. She want you to be committed in exchange for the sex.

Like I said, there are many other tell signs to show a lady who’s sexual attraction level is declining and urgently want a man (Beta man) who meet her social provisioning desire and ready to settle down. A man who can provide for her and take of the kids whom ignorantly may not be their father.

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Romance › 20 Things Wrong With Nigerian Single Ladies by TheMenCode(op): 3:35pm On Jan 18, 2018

1. They can't keep conversation going in a One on One physical meeting.

2. They have bad online chatting manners: 'k', 'kk' for 'okay', 'hi', 'hw', for 'hello'.

3. They are too fat eating free junk food from every dates attended.

4. They tag friends along when invited to a date, movies etc. thereby ruining the 'connection moment' with the guy.

5. They prefer sex objects (vibrator) cat, dog, Tiger and other wild animals instead of putting effort to find a quality man.

6. They are more interested in maintaining a good career than building a good home.

7. They friend-zone the 'good guy' and banged the 'bad guy' at night even though they just met him earlier in the morning.

8. They are emotionally confused about what they want and allow the man to 'chase' them until he's no longer interested, only for them to start 'chasing' him.

9. They are always glued to their phone and miss the real life moments with acquittance.

10. They believe having a nice and well paying job makes them a good catch for any man.

11. They watch too much movies channels, in fact they watched TV way too much.

12. They lie a lot by saying 'He's just a friend', 'I'm not like other girls' etc.

13. They over rate themselves with artificially enhance standard of expectation way too much above their sexually attractive level.

14. They idolized celebrities, want to be like them and imitate their silly behaviors.

15. They are not comfortable in their own natural skin, bleached it all and end up with multiple body skin colors (light face and black body, legs etc).
16. They are very proud dating multiple men at the same time as if they were men, and blame men when they can't find a man to settle with.

17. They have condoms in their rooms, bags, because they expect to bang the random guy who 'just gets it'.

18. They only dress nice for church, birthday, party, dates, and special occasions.

19. They want to do what makes them 'happy', 'achieve their goals', and 'have it all', 'eat their cake with the icing and expect to still have it' when ready to settle down later like the man (feminism 101 idealogy)http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/18/bitter-truth-feminism/.

20. 80% of them are looking for the 20% men who are already 'self made' to enjoy his wealth together.

This is TheMenCode (www.themencode.com.ng) 20 Things Wrong With Nigerian Single Ladies. You can add yours to the list.

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Romance › 6 Things Nice Guy Do To Attract Girl That Every Real Man Must Never Do by TheMenCode(op): 4:53pm On Jan 13, 2018

The myth of the shining knights is a story told many times over, it's a story that play very well in movies. Anyone who watched Prison Break will understand how Michael Scofield successfully played the shining knight to Sara's darkness (her hour of need), he was there to always save her.

Nothing against that movie, it's what men do, we are the savior of woman when in danger, the problem is women only WANT men for that singular role and after that want the man to play by her rules, her solipsism takes over. No matter your effort, nothing comes between a woman hypergamous desire. Making the man a tool when his help is needed is part of the feminine imperatives (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/13/the-feminine-imperative-in-cooperate-world/).

Most guys, to some extent by no fault of theirs and also due to ignorance become the white knights with the expectation of a reward or not ruin the imagined harmony in their relationship, fall into or stuck in one or more of the group even as I write this essay right now.

School White Knight: This guy help her to get a better mark on her school assignment while he scored a lower mark for his own assignment. He basically invested more time researching the correct answers for the girl while neglecting his own assignment.

The Investor White Knight: This guy spend his money to pay her through school, sometimes he can even borrow to ensure her fees, well being and school problem is taken care of. This investment also take place in other areas of her life, the idea is the guy invest his fortune to make her happy while struggling to get by in life but consoled that she will all be his at the end. We know how this story usually end WITHOUT happy ending.

The IT White Knight: This guy is a software developer, so he created all the contents and design her feminist website but she's the only one who gets all the money from donations and revenues.

Pretense White Knight: This guy pretends things are okay, just so he doesn’t offend her. He knows the children don't look like him but he can't complain because he will upset her if he eventually bring it up. If the house and other domestic stuffs are disorganized or not exactly the way it should be, be can't complain because he doesn't want to offend her and lose the pus*sy. A symptom of the soul mate myth.(http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/11/no-special-one/)

Social Media White Knight: Now this guy is the Twitter, Facebook and forum keyboard warrior whose only purpose is to rescue women online, his job is to argue that women are strong and independent, he basically helps them promote their feminist propaganda. Of course he get more likes, feel good comments and reteets. First to like like her pictures and offer her UNEARNED compliments thereby unnecessarily raising the value of her pu*sy astronomically! (more essay on this coming soon).

Friend-zone White Knight: This guy offer his time and attention to her, he makes sure he's there when she suffer mistreatment from her boyfriend, he's all ears and ready to hear the 'gist' and offer his advise on why she should leave the guy and date 'good guys' should she complain of her boyfriend, he blames her for always going back to the 'bad guy' after his advise. Then he help her to move on by offering her comfort through the period of her break up and after-wards shake her hands.

This is by no means all there's to the myth of shinning white knight. One main similar factor here is that ALL the guys did this for one reward => stable and regular SEX. The fact is if you are a man and find yourself in any one of this group or something similar, now is the time to leave fear behind and unplugged (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/12/08/unplugged-inter-sexual-conditioning/) your self from it immediately.

The bitter truth is if the woman decide not to offer her sexual or emotional commitment or be in a long term relationship LTR with the shining knight after all his done. It's still the guys 100% fault!

The woman owes you no obligation to marry or be in relationship with you merely because you were nice to her. I wrote an essay about this sometime ago, if you are open to accept this painful truth which is cont-rally to the beautiful lies you have been told and precondition to believe since you were a 5 year old boy. You can check it out here=>http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/29/paying-bills-good-act-expecting-sex-intimate-commitment-reward-weakness/

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Romance › The One Secret A Girl Never Want Guys To Know And How You Can Use It Against Her by TheMenCode(op): 5:34pm On Jan 11, 2018

A woman is not so much afraid of man knowing this secrets but what she fear most is for him to use it AGAINST her. Not many men even know this secrets, let alone use it against her. For most men they only realized it after it's too late, and in many cases they are always happy for it, better late than never.

As a woman ages, her values continue to decline but as a man continue to grow in age, so his confidence and sexual values increases.

Women thrive on beauty and looking younger than her age, the reason why ladies spend fortunes on beauty accessories. the same way a man want to look confidence, powerful and well established. The reason you see many guys work with swag, six packs workout, train their muscle and so on. A woman been able to look beautiful, young and attractive is a huge tune on for men, and a display of women fertility. Her beauty is a hot commodity every man want to buy at all cost.

They know that very soon their ability to remain young, beautiful and attractive will only last for a short time. Women live with this reality and do anything to look younger, every make-up kits, mascara, cosmetic, plastic surgery or implant devised, clothing styles that has been created with a very clear purpose to make a woman appear younger than her real age and or to convince her that her sexual agency to attract men will in a short while come to an end...(http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/21/fear-every-woman/)

The secrete is the rise and decline of her sexual marketing value.

Sexual Market Value: As a woman grow older, her ability to attract men decline because with old age comes a decline in attraction level. Once her attraction begin to decline, it will only take a few years of 10-12 years before her younger sister over-compete her in the attraction for men. As her sexual attraction level slowly decline, her mind gradually hardened into unbreakable rigidities.

Once she gets to that point after 24 years, her younger sister becomes the new attraction and men begin to choose the baby sister before her because she's already getting old and men want them very young. When she's 16 – 23 years, which is her party years, she prefer the bad guy with social approval but this desire changes as she grow old.

After 24 years and about to hit the wall at 30 and above, women start to blame the biological nature of men for attaching so much to beauty, she feels it's the man's fault for going after beautiful and attractive young women leaving her behind. However, the same type of man she now crave for is the exact one she rejected at her party years.

An older man is confidence and already earned social approval and to some extent well established, the younger woman in her party years is attracted to this kind of man. The man who already know this, use it against women by actually just having fun with the woman and never bother about commitment, she also just want the goodies, remember it's her party years!

For young guys who do not have so much social approval and confidence like the older men, the only option is to look confidence, because in dating, appearance is stronger than reality. When you flirt with a woman and she turns it down, move on to another one, then another one...come back in 1, 2 to 3 years to look at that lady who rejected your proposal and you will be grateful that she rejected you. It's simple biology, in 3 to 5 years (in many cases, it doesn't take that long but to be fair to her), nature will have place her in at least one of these regions: decline attraction, overweight, baby mama.

That beauty that had you crushing all over her back then has decline, maybe she's even overweight now, became a baby mama, and completely hit the lowest wall of her attraction level. Her beauty is her sexual market value, it's the commodity a woman sell to a man and it decline as she get older, never too worry if she turns you down today, trust me if she's not already a baby mama, obese, with declined attraction level after 2 years of your approach, she's somewhere praying to meet someone like you again.

If she fails this time, she will become a gender equality activist, feminist idealist, (God be with the man who finally marry her at this stage.) the same ideology that encourages her to waste her party years and settle down later. Unfortunately that 'later' is when she's more confidence like the man but NOT sexually attractive like the man.

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Romance › 3 Ways To Make A Girl Attracted And Submissive To You by TheMenCode(op): 5:54pm On Jan 09, 2018

I have been going through comments from my essays, I'm in many cases shock about the comments I get, so many guys are still stuck in the she's out of my league frame mindset when it's comes to some women. They place ladies in pedestal like a tin god and tell themselves that this one is 'low moral girl' and high moral girl'.

This is the 21st century, no ONE woman should be place in any level above others. Why demean yourself, I get it, you have been told to play nice and be careful not to offend her. But how long will you sacrificed yourself, your moments for her? This is the time to be you and do you, lead the life your love and love the life you lead. The Sisterhood has no chill right now and the dating world is a freaking survival of the fittest.

This three ways will get her attracted to you without having to say or do the nice things you were told since you were a 5 year old boy.

1. Show High Value

Written about increasing your social value in many of my essays, many guys make the mistake of thinking for the woman, (maybe she's will be busy at that time, maybe she won't like this or that..) this is wrong, you are important and everything should be about you. At first she may be angry with you, but she will come to accept it, realizing you are not afraid to be yourself and been in your world is a plus for her not for you and this will make her work to earn the privilege to be your priority.

Never consider what she's doing, or will she be comfortable with my questions, I see she's busy and maybe we can talk later. NO! What you have to say is more important, and don't trade it for anything, a woman will jump through the fence, window to be with the man she consider high value. Just do what you need to do and never consider what she's doing at the moment. If she's really busy, she will create time for you. People have time for what is important to them.

2. Dominate Her:

I wish I can play a video of domination right now, but will talk you through it in the easiest possible ways, when you're with her, don't stay too far from her rather be close to her, stand one meter apart, but be careful not to invade her privacy. Talk about what you want and change the topic to what suit you. You're in charge, lead her to the direction you want.

3. Look Straight Into Her Eyes And Mouth:

This is where many guys miss the ability to trigger that part of her brain that will make her attracted to you with little effort from you. When you're talking to her, make sure you're looking straight into her eyes and mouth simultaneously, this will create a connection that she can't explain but that feeling of...oh, this guy I met today, we had a connection i think so, don't know what it's yet...When you look straight into her eyes, you can see her weakness and this will trigger her submissive nature to follow your lead.

Woman follow any man who can lead them, this is why you see a guy not too well off, (you strongly believe better than) pull of the 'high class girl' because he can lead, and never give a Bleep about following or doing something because she likes it. He's not trying to impress or be too careful around, no need to speak with different intonation.

There's so much power in the eyes, it's a sign of strength and confidence. Have you ever wonder why adult get angry when talking to a child and the child looks elsewhere? You hear the adult screamed, look my eyes, I’m talking to you! Staring straight into a woman eyes when talking to eye create the same effect in her...submission to your will.

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Romance › Re: Someone Should Plz Teach Me How To Woo A Girl by TheMenCode: 6:24pm On Jan 04, 2018

NEVER take dating advice from women. What a woman says is different from what she does. The medium is the message not the talk, keep this in mind when dealing with ladies.

A little tip..
Look at a woman straight in the eyes, she will think she either knew you somewhere or she will be too shy to quickly withdraw her eyes, once you notice that... then follow up from there... If you have the confidence, you can do this easily...this way no need to worry about what to say to her.

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Romance › Who Else Watched 'Your View' TVC Program This Morning? by TheMenCode(op): 5:36pm On Jan 04, 2018

'Your View' TVC, 4 January 2018, Programme Was A Manifestation Of A Woman Hypergamous Desire

“woman should fu*k the bad guys in her party years but when it's time to be married, she should marry the 'good guy' because what makes the 'bad guy' so good with sex may not make him so good or suitable for marriage” -Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook

When I first wrote an essay about the Feminine Imperative FI (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/13/the-feminine-imperative-in-cooperate-world/)goal of achieving the dualistic nature of women, some people think it was just theory and a figment of my imagination. Today watching Your View on TVC this morning has helped to reveal the manifestation of the FI. The FI has become stronger with the advancement of technology, recently we saw this happened in Iceland where it's now a crime for women to be paid less for doing same job as the man, feminism which in the last six decades became a part of the FI made women believe they can have it all and then settle down later like the man.

Dualistic Nature Of Women

The dualistic nature of women makes them pre-select the suitable man for long term relationship LTR (marriage), the choice is between settling with the man who can meet her sexual, emotional needs with a good gene to have her children, and the man who's a social provider to meet her social needs, ready to take care of the children (of another man), so she can have the opportunities to go all out to live the life of her party years all over again. Basically, she need the Alpha Fu*k AF to satisfy her sexual needs and the Beta Buck BB for social provisioning and parenting needs.

Freedom From Consequence

It's no surprise to see a woman today, say she want to do what makes her happy – that's exactly what the FI is about, the goal is to make the woman believe she can have it all, while she's at it, sex is spontaneous and happens at the right place, right time and right moment. It's something that just happen. No judgment – freedom from been judge by other women, family or the society, having it all is the feminist religion, after all the sex and fun in her party years with the 'bad guy' AF, and when its time to settle down she will seek for the man that meet her hypergamous desire. She has no regret for her pre-selecting condition because a woman's hypergamous desire don't care who's man's ox is gored.

Now if she can't get a man that fulfilled her dualistic nature, she will make sure she's with the man that meet her desire for social provision and then seek the guy that will fu*k her so good. This is why women seek out for the older man with higher sexual marketing value that meet the social provider-ship role and then bang young and hot guys. They rationalized by saying the older man (Beta Buck) gives them freedom – freedom to cuckoldry.

The Inevitable Biological Wall

For the today woman, after wasting her party years to careerism, spontaneous sex, her mind hardened by so much investment in feminism equality propaganda and achieving her 'goal' in the process, when about to hit the biological wall with a declining sexual attractive value, her younger sisters sexually more attractive and gaining more attention, they want the man that meet their standard i.e their dualistic needs of a good gene and social provider-ship, when this man is not found, woman begins to blame the man for her inability to find the right man, she will blame him for not been serious and committed, there are no good men anymore, she will blame the biological nature of men for placing so much on visual or going after the young attractive woman, despite all her accomplishment.

In Your View, a caller actually asked if the guest was a Virgin? Men need to know that the medium is the message not the the talk when dealing with women. A woman who's involved in cuckoldry is easily recognized by how she say what she says, does what she does, her sense of dressing etc. - the medium is the message not what she says. Like I have written before in past essays, the woman want to have it all including been able to Bleep that hot guy she just met without strings, no judgment. She will rationalize it like.. it's just happens, the chemistry was strong, it was the right place, right moment etc.

The 'I Still Got It' Mask

The religion of the Feminine Imperative FI is for the woman to have it all right now, and settle down later with the man (good guy/Beta Buck) who meet a woman's hypergamous desire. Women never realized that they are been fed beautiful lies only until when they are about to hit the biological wall. A woman has one single decade in her life to prepare for all of her remaining years. Presently she is been taught to waste that decade. Use it to make herself happy, pursue a career and have it all like the man...but she cannot have it all, unfortunately she only realized this when it's too late. Her sexual attraction declines as she get older, but the FI recognized this and want her to believe she can apply make-up and go for plastic surgery to mask her blemish.

The Invasion

The FI have taken over the man space, it's every where, the Main Stream Media MSM is part of it, the feminized man (the self proclaim feminist) is part of, the social media is part of it, schools are now part of it, politics is part of it etc. They now set and control the narratives of inter sexual dynamics between man and a woman, only this time she want the man to man-up and accept her desire to have it all without consequences, she knows this is not possible but what can you expect from a creature whose decision are based on their ever changing feelings?

Mansplaining?

This is not mansplaining or claiming to know and tell the woman what her problem is, NO! No one actually cares about you, we already know the lonely woman will ruin herself if not now, at old age if allowed to have her way today. This fact just need to be said and for the Man to know that it's a jungle in the dating market right now, and to adopt the bitter truth or be ruined by an outdated idealistic concept of love.

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Romance › Re: How To Keep Conversation Going With A Girl Without Thinking About What To Say by TheMenCode(op): 6:52pm On Dec 29, 2017

ERORR404:
personally i have been in that situation, I just ended the chat there. haven't had any luck with chat based conversations with girls coz i myself don't even know how to keep the chat flowing

You may check this post out, it may help you clarify some things. Peruse it carefully, it's part 1 and 2.
http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/01/5-manly-ways-get-girl-want/

Romance › How To Keep Conversation Going With A Girl Without Thinking About What To Say by TheMenCode(op): 2:32pm On Dec 29, 2017*

Guys get this straight inside your head, women with high sexual marketing value will always have the upper hand when it comes to dating because at that time they have lots of options. There are so many nice guys who literally beg women to reply their message, to go on a date with them, for her attention. As long as these men exist, those women will continue to have the upper hand.

Many men have been told beautiful lies which has become a psychological precondition in their mind that they have to play nice, try not to offend her, otherwise they will not get her sexual reward and this is why most men beg women for a date that will cost them money, time and attention. A woman knows that she has to earn the right to a date with the man who knows what he's doing, but takes pride in knowing that many men are ignorance. She celebrate this ignorance of men and use it against them.

A Date is a post reward for her offering you a great sex, NOT a pre-reward. A Date is AFTER not BEFORE! Why take her on a Date when she has not earned it? That's like trying to buy or bribe her to like you because you're not good enough. If you so desperate to take her out BEFORE reward, then go for a hangout.

There are many ways I would love to share with you about how not to run out of what to say when you are with a woman but it's better I talk about two ways in this essay, a comprehensive essay on this will still be publish on an upcoming material.

1. Question Her Belief or Notion

Now, many nice guys say the usual sweet talk, that she's heard over and over again and this is like watching the same story in a movie but different title. Because she's heard all this sweet words, complement before, she already have an already made answers for you. This happens to all of us, our subconscious have already created a default answer to questions people ask us regularly, that's why we don't think about the answers when we respond. For example, some one ask you 'how far', you already know the response without thinking about it. This makes you not interesting , just one of the random the same set of guys she always bump into.

The right way not to be that same type of guy is for example, she tells you something about herself like “I visit this place sometimes” probe her further, ask her why? What do you like about this place? There are a lot of other place you could visit and so on...Now she's going to respond because you're talking about her, everyone is motivated by self interest and you're giving her an opportunity to talk about herself and also make her think about the reason, idea, motives of why she does what she does.

She will feel a special connection with you and notice how you made her think differently from all the guys she has met, she's going to feel a sense of maturity from you because you asked questions that probed her beliefs and she didn't have an already made answers for, this made her defenseless and expanded the scope of your conversations.

2. Only Reward Bit by Bit as She Earns it:

Here is the difference between the WEAK & STABLE guys (beta) and the STRONG & UNPREDICTABLE guys (alpha).

WEAK & STABLE: This guys take every opportunity to reward the woman without her earning it, he begs to do this because he's made to believe it's the right thing to do. Don't get me wrong, this is not to say you should treat ladies poorly, NO! (My aim is for you to understand the sexual dynamics of men and women, how women use your ignorance as strength to oppress you ).

STRONG & UNPREDICTABLE: Basically what the strong and unpredictable guys do is the same exact thing the nice guys does ONLY this time the reward come after she's earned it, so he's still saying the same thing, still offering complements but only when she does or say something to earn it. He makes her feel like she has to work for it.
When she's with you and say something nice, you only complement that singular 'act' this is to encourage the conversation to continue. When you praise people and make them feel smarter than they are, they feel more confident and relaxed to further the conversation.

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Happy New to You and Your Family!!

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Romance › Re: 3 Confidence Questions To Ask Girl That Will Make Her Offer Sex On First Hangout by TheMenCode(op): 7:42pm On Dec 23, 2017

edimolu:
@op

You are almost correct

But remove number one, that is a no no for the men-code, why should you even bring it up, by that you trigger her subciousness hence awakening every thought of her boyfriend if she has one! It puts you off-balance....you have no business whatsoever with such question....she might be dumb/wise enough to let you in on that in the future..her business!

You funny die, you even said one should ask what food she makes for the boyfriend? Lol..you for kuku carry the boyfriend come the hangout now..

Stop asking such unnecessary questions else she reminds you of how your relationship with her might not exceed the bounds of a hangout! It is basic knowledge fam!

If you can make a woman ANGRY, you can also make her HAPPY. Don't be afraid of losing her, this blog post may help clarify my point http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/11/no-special-one/ about having many options so you don't have to be CAREFUL what you choose to talk about. There's no soul mate or special ONE, there're only BAD ONES and GOOD ONES.

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Romance › Re: 3 Confidence Questions To Ask Girl That Will Make Her Offer Sex On First Hangout by TheMenCode(op): 6:58pm On Dec 23, 2017

Alexander07:
Op you are very wrong. Don't try it with decent ladies.

There's NO decent lady. You can't bring the 'sexual beast' out in her does not mean she's decent. Almost all women are sexually IMMORAL except maybe the one with a religious inclinations like Nuns or Reverend sisters. Stop putting women on a PEDESTAL!

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Romance › Re: 3 Confidence Questions To Ask Girl That Will Make Her Offer Sex On First Hangout by TheMenCode(op): 5:31pm On Dec 23, 2017

ubunja:
OP we need to get men to lift iron bra. men need that good body. that 6 pack will get u thru the door. a good body is never to be under-estimated.

Totally agree with you. Women are attracted to strength. It's sign of leadership and protection. Workout is the easiest way to INCREASE your value in her eyes. I have a simple daily routine, 5 sets of 25 workout, maybe i'll probably create a video of my workout in a blog post.

Women are Machiavelli in nature, in war they would rather fall in love with their abductors, they are attracted to the man they believe can protect them. They always go with the one that best serve their dual interest, the man with best REPRODUCTIVE GENE and SOCIAL PROTECTOR. A woman Hypergamy never cares whose ox is gored.

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Romance › Re: 3 Confidence Questions To Ask Girl That Will Make Her Offer Sex On First Hangout by TheMenCode(op): 5:07pm On Dec 23, 2017

dollyjoy:
See Yeye post abeg,the only thing that will make a lady have sex with you on first hang out is 'if she fancy you and really doesn't mind the implications there after"

In fact,don't discuss anything suggesting sex. Sexual discussions is a big turn off especially when hanging out for the first time. 'let it just happen'.

Stop following her rules. No one is to tell you what to talk about. Sex is NOT planned, it just happen! That should not stop you from talking about it. Break boundaries! Don't go with what she like to hear. You are more important. If she refuse to answer, it's either she smell weakness from you or she's OVER ANALYZING things. So you need to make her stop over analyzing things and just enjoy the discussion. Life is short, only memories last forever. Women crave for men who go after what they want from the get go. The medium is the message, not what she says.

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