Frame series in three parts include:

Part 1: The Frame

Part 2: Frame For The Single Man

Part 3: Frame For The Married Man

Part 2 & 3 will follow this thread.

Frame is everything in any relationship, business, inter and intra-gender relations. You must make sure to know whose subconsciously frame you operating from. Always control the frame but never give the impression that you are in control.

Psychologically, frame is an often subconscious, mutually acknowledge personal narrative under which people behavior will be influenced. Basically, our beliefs, day to day living, emotional investment, political decisions are influenced and biased by the psychological narrative framework that we accept to operate under.

In most cases, a man actions can be as a result of the subconscious frame, he’s under. Because it’s subconscious he believe and accept it as normal. It takes a masculine man to know whose frame is operating in his relationship with woman.

Some frame we are painfully aware of, and many others we are not, in any case we are passively influenced by frame, everyone of us. This write up is concerned about how frame controls the way we do things, how it set the environment for us to operate, and the reality in which we relate with a woman we met at a social gathering and our relationship with the woman we have lived with for 5-10 years.

Frame is who’s reality you choose to operate in relation to a woman, frame is not power, maybe the act of controlling frame is. One thing is clear though both man and woman internalized concept of frame is influenced by their socialization, upbringing, education, psychological conditioning and so on. It’s either you are operating in your own frame or hers.

Frame is not stable, it’s dynamic and can swing from the man to the woman or vice versa, a man who was in control at the beginning of a relationship and then subconsciously relinquishes it, the woman will subconsciously set her own for the man to operate from. Frame is always present consciously active or passive, can only change when there is a desire or no desire to change it. Frame is always operating in a relationship.

The forces that leads to desire or no desire to change frame is not important, frame will always exist. Who’s frame are you under in your relationship, can you give instances that made you feel not in control? Let discuss in the comment.