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Romance › Re: I Am Confused, Do I Still Love Her by TheNigerianMan: 10:18am On Apr 02, 2018

Jamesrock:
Thank you very much for this... its really helpful....

but as for those qualities I want her to develop, she is reluctant to learn them...
And its not like am forcing my poverty mentality on her, but my decision is that I'll marry an enterprising woman....

thanks for ur advise... God bless u

I believe she is reluctant to learn because of the environment and because she sees no reason to learn. I mean her parents are there to provide all her needs and she has been told that as a woman all you need to do is go to school, get a certificate, get a job and get married. so you see where the problem lies (it is not actually a problem).

Try to see things from her side and not from your side then things will be easier... You can even start small by teaching her Microsoft packages like MSword, excel and coreldraw, from there she will be open to more opportunities. or you can get your sister to stay with you and help cajole her into learning how to make hair, she will easily pick up... Whatever you want her to learn should be for her benefit and not just yours (and not because you want an enterprising woman), this way she will learn faster and accept to learn..

Remember to try to see things from her side

Don't mind any guy insulting her because of sex or because she is mummy's pet, these guy will be the first to gist her once both of you split... That is how guys rolls

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Romance › Re: I Am Confused, Do I Still Love Her by TheNigerianMan: 9:40am On Apr 02, 2018

Jamesrock:
Hmmm... I'm confused

1. You said she is mummy and daddy's pet. Is she the last born or the first born or the only child. If she is either any one of these then there is no problem being a mummy's and daddy's pet, she is a girl for goodness sake. You can simply decide that when you guys get married that all that will stop. The only real problem should be if she starts allowing her parents decision to dominate the relationship.

2. What is wrong with you sef, are you forcing her to be who she isn't. Her parents have trained her to rely on them and she has been like that for 20 years and just because she is with you for just 3 years you want to change all that. My friend, don't bring your poverty mentality close to her but think differently, her parents provide for her so she has no need to seek out enterprises. She told you that it is her nature which is totally true and as her bf, you are supposed to respect that. Then take it upon yourself to coach her in any handwork you want her to learn, stop advising her and expecting her to do it, that is not how she was trained. Instead, explain the reasons to her and put in painstaking hours to make sure she learns something, that is what lovers do (na you talk say you love am just now)

3. Young man, you can't expect a woman to be romantic except you bring out that side of her. Have you ever seen Nigerian girls asking a boy out... I advise you to not put sex on your mind too much because if you make her do it against her will, it will change your relationship forever. Instead, behave like a lover and not like a pussy, teach her how to be romantic, teach her how to feed you, pet you and cuddle you just the same way you do to her... I taught my ex how to suck dic.k and she became a pro before we broke up, so its up to you...

4. Dont' force her into the streets because you are a street guy, if you do, my guy, you will not be able to control her ever again.. Right now, I don't expect you to have marriage on your mind or expect it to weigh you down. She isn't forcing you to get married to her, but just suggesting and you can also decide to marry her in 5 years time or 10 years time, she will wait. Please stop behaving like a pussy.

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Romance › Re: When A Girl Asked You To Come And Take Her Out by TheNigerianMan: 10:29am On Mar 30, 2018

goodman41:
There is this girl i like in my office, we started getting close, collected her number and called her three times, the way she was responding to me on phone i wasn't good with it so i decided not to call her again for like three months now.

I was chating with her on sunday and she asked me to come and take her out which i told her next week sunday and she was very happy, Called her on phone and she was responding well and smiling now.

Yesterday one of my co-worker told me that he went to toast the girl, she told him that had it be i am the one toasting her that she will not wast time to agree but for him no no no. I did not tell this guy that she had alredy asked me to take her out. Pls is she realy want to date me or she want to friendzone me?

Take her out, buy her stuff, but let it end there... Never date at work or you will not just lose your job, but your career, its coming from experience

Romance › Re: The Girl That Friend Zoned My Wants Me To Give Her Easter Gift by TheNigerianMan: 10:28am On Mar 30, 2018

dcosmosboy:
Pls my follow NLer, there this girl I love after much efforts she friend zoned me. She won't let me be after she told me she hv a boyfriend (1st luv). I stopped calling or chatting with her bt she called dat she is sorry. The problem here is since she has a boyfriend then let me be bt she keeps disturbing me online & with calls. Just 2days ago she says I must do Easter for her. I dnt want to screen shot our chats because I am dis kind of secretive prsn. Pls should I do the Easter for her or she I ignore her?
NB: I still like & want her to be my girlfriend

i know that you will buy for her and keep buying for her because you are a nice guy and you are weak.. I wish I were that guy because the kind of maga I will use you for will be so good.. Imagine asking for recharge cards, food, help and all that without even dating the guy.. It's the best win for every nigerian girl. The question is... do you want to be a maga or a real man?

Stand your ground that if she doesn't want to date you then there can be no gifts.

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Politics › Re: Lagosians Trek Due To President Buhari's Visit (Photos) by TheNigerianMan: 8:52pm On Mar 29, 2018

Its like Nigerians didn't know that this iwas meant to happen

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Crime › Re: Man Bathes Girlfriend With Acid After Family Rejects Marriage Proposal by TheNigerianMan: 8:51pm On Mar 29, 2018

Why are men being so desperate and confused and behaving like women these days

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Culture › Re: Igbo OR Ibo? What You Should Know. by TheNigerianMan: 8:27pm On Mar 27, 2018

Like seriously, I think we shouold decide if its Igbo or Ibo... Too much insult already

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Education › Re: 2018/2019 Admission Process Thread Guide by TheNigerianMan: 4:00pm On Mar 26, 2018

Orezy5:
Woah

Congratulations Bro..!

246 going for biochemistry in FUTO, i am using two results, do i have a chance?

Phone/Internet Market › Re: Say Bye Bye To Coming To Computer Village Scam by TheNigerianMan: 12:55pm On Mar 26, 2018

dramaticspeak:
Wow! 10k is quite low. But what are your specifications. Something that can just make and receive call? Or ou want the additional feature of browsing. I will suggest you go for a blackberry phone then. Then I will show you how to do the whatsapp thing.

which phone can i get with 6.0 inch 2GB/16GB ROM/RAM for 27k

TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Voting Results Of Ex Housemates That Returned Khloe And Anto by TheNigerianMan: 9:51pm On Mar 25, 2018

God, give me the wisdom to run a show like Big Brother, just imagine how many people are voting and how many times they are voting... the last time they made just N333m from one voting session alone.. That is 11million votes that N30 which is the cost...

Now imagine people voting up to 10 times that is N3.3bn... Chai

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Celebrities › Re: "Welcome Home Sinzu" - Davido Welcomes Rapper Sauce Kid Back After His Release. by TheNigerianMan: 9:42pm On Mar 25, 2018

next time when he wan'ts to do fruad he will be more careful.... I know Nigerians will accept him back like a saint and claim that no one is perfect, some will even make him their role model saying that he want to prison and came out better.

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Celebrities › Re: Swankyjerry Styled Jamil Abubakar As He Weds Fatima Dangote by TheNigerianMan: 9:39pm On Mar 25, 2018

doulble my hustle oluwa

Romance › Re: My Wife Set Me Up With Her Sister So She Could Divorce Me - Man Cries Out by TheNigerianMan: 9:13pm On Mar 25, 2018

Are women really this evil and manipulative. Teh man is not telling the truth jare

Family › Re: Why Do Women Change Their Names After Getting Married?? by TheNigerianMan: 11:33pm On Mar 21, 2018

TheUpsetGirl:
it still baffles me why women have to change their names because of marriage, who introduced this tradition? ,for instance my name is Isabella Peters and I want to get married to Mr Phillips, so after marriage I'm going to change my name to Isabella Phillips or Isabella Peters Phillips??.
This has to stop, I keep wondering why feminists don't include this in their agenda

cc lalasticlala

The actual question is why does a woman have to answer a man's name as the surname even when she is a child or married. Why can't it be a woman's name as the surname?

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Education › Re: Study In UK Completely Free - Apply For 100% Chevening Scholarships 2018 by TheNigerianMan: 11:54pm On Mar 19, 2018

tiponschooling:
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Education › Re: Study In Canada For Free - International Scholarships At University Of Saskatche by TheNigerianMan: 11:53pm On Mar 19, 2018

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