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sarrki:
Cabal how ?

If your wife manipulate you or girlfriend for good what is bad in it ?

Aisha Buhari is just a greedy lady

She took personal issues to national stage to dent the image of Mamman daura and Kyari

Who took personal issues to national stage? Aisha or Fatimah?
What do I think you're smoking over there at your house?

I was on my way to place of work this morning when it occurred to me that who are my 3 greatest Naija musicians and why are they my favourites?
This list is comply in descending order which means from 3rd to 1st.

3. At number three is King of fuji KWAM1. He sits at number 3 because he knows how do live shows and eulogized his fans. I f you are a good fan of his you must have listened to VERSACE1&2, I FEEL ALRIGHT(Ori omi lawa), BERLIN, AWA DE, AFRICA, MY FATHERLAND, NEW YORK, etc(I can't even remember most of them now)

2. King Sunny Ade(KSA). Arguably, the greatest Nigerian musician export to the world hold the 2nd position for his music and flair. A great guitarist, and a great dancer...He wows me with his dancing steps and with his songs. From songs like "The good Shepard" to "Aye nreti eleya mi" to "Esu biribiri" to "Merciful God" etc

1. Fela Anikulapokuti. To me, He is the best Naija singer ever and why? Because, he tackled the corrupt government of his days. I don't think there is any Naija government from Obasanjo regime (1979) to Abacha's regime(1996) that escaped from him(Even the great Buhari never did). I especially love the way he tackled Obasanjo and MKO in his songs. Examples of Obasanjo's and MKO bashing includes..International Thief Thief(I.T.T) where he said "Like Obasanjo and Abiola...International Thief Thief, ITT, International rogue", COFFIN FOR HEAD OF STATE and UNKONWN SOLDIER , the Album he released when his mother was killed "Obasanjo dey there with big fat stomach ", Look Obasanjo! Before anything at all, him go dey shout: ‘Oh Lord, oh Lord, oh Lord, Almighty Lord!’ ‘Oh Lord, oh God!’ And them do bad bad bad bad bad bad things", ARMY ARRANGEMENT..."Supervisor Obasanjo Them say make him no talk o ‘Money no lost’, them shout again Inquiry come close o" and "me Fela, I challenge Obasanjo na wayo he dey all the time" etc

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Originalsly:
Read what you wrote and you will find both answers.

Am confused, that is why I came here

There is this girl I asked out to date and she told me she is not ready to into any relationship that will not lead to marriage and that she doesn't want to choose with love alone but want God to choose for her, so she said we should both go and pray over it and I quickly accepted that. She promised me that she wll tell her mom(who use to pray for her on things like that and I think she did).

After like 2weeks, She came to my house and told me she is not ready for relationship stuff again because she wants to face her education and I let her be without discussing the issues with her for a long time(months rather). During the time I let her be, our relationship returns back to what it used to be(i.e. Just greetings), but I discovered that she wasn't happy at all and on few occasions that I go beyond the casual greetings, she was always happy.

Now, during her final exams, I messaged her and wished her success in her exams and she didn't reply my message but after 6days(the day I saw her next), she came to me and thanked me for the message. By this time, I don't remember messaging her again but when I remembered, I just ignored her.

The next day, I told a friend of my what happened the other day and my friend asked me to call her...which I did and I use that opportunity to invite her again and since that time we have been communicating regularly. With I doing the calling and messaging most of the time(like 95%) and her just contributing(5%) but to my surprise, without inviting her, she has been visiting me 100% without I returning it(although, most of the time, we don't meet since am unaware of her coming and am already out), She is always eager to see me and stuff like that.

Now, She came visiting today and I expressed my feelings towards her again and she was like....'am not ready for relationship for now' and I asked her if she is into any relationship for now and she said no, the first time and later told me she is kinda like in a relationship but not the right way since every where she goes, they told him the guy is ok but(she didn't say the but and I didn't ask her)...and that she has been looking for a way to let the guy go but if the guy can change, then he can still have a chance but generally, she is looking for a way to let the guy go.

After talking to her for a while(I mean my feelings), She promised me to pray on it and told her not to pray on it any longer because, is like I want to force her since she doesn't love me and she replied that the love is there but she doesn't want the love to develop and the reason she doesn't want to pray on it is because the feeling is already there and if she does pray on it, she will only see what she has been imagine.

Now, my question is, is she into me or the guy? Do I really have any chance with her?