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Romance / 5 Undeniable Signs That Your Woman Is Cheating On You by theophiokhai(m): 7:58pm On Mar 01, 2019
it might be important for you to take a long hard look at the statistics for a little bit. In a recent survey, around 74% of women have claimed to have been in emotional affairs outside of their marriages. Around 65% of women said that they engaged in infidelity because they had been experiencing problems in their relationships. And more than half of women have said that they have cheated on their spouses more than just once.

There are plenty of signs and red flags that your wife may be cheating on you. Some of these signs take the form of behavioral changes, defensiveness, and secrecy. But you probably already know about these signs and red flags from stories that you’ve heard from friends and family.

But this is a different age that we are living in now. We are now in the era of social media and technology. It’s so much easier to actually engage in extramarital affairs these days. However, it’s also a lot easier to pick up on a cheater’s trail of clues.

The question is how far are you willing to take your investigative efforts? You want to respect your wife’s privacy and you want to trust her. But you also want to listen to your intuition whenever it tells you that something is just off. You know that you want to avoid all of the mess that is involved with snooping around. But you don’t want to be played for a fool either. What else can you do? What are you supposed to do?

Well, it might be best to focus on a few simple signs that will present themselves naturally every so often in your relationship. You just have to make sure that you always stay observant. You really need to pay attention to the little things that she does on a daily basis. That way, even when the slightest of changes take place, you will know whether something fishy is going on or not.

But before we delve into the signs of whether your wife might be cheating on you or not, it might be best to know a few facts and numbers surrounding cheating and infidelity for now:

There are studies that show that around 30-60% of American people engage in infidelity or unfaithfulness at some point throughout their marriage.

Research has confirmed that it is perfectly possible for a human being to develop emotional bonds and connections for more than just one person at a time.

There is also research that suggests that biologically speaking, it is inherently difficult for a human being to stay loyal and faithful in a relationship. However, it’s not entirely impossible either.

Men are more likely to cheat in a relationship than women.
Almost everyone admits to daydreaming or fantasizing about being involved with other people aside from their actual spouses.

The initial decision to actually act unfaithfully in a relationship is rarely ever a rational one. A lot of the time, it is triggered by a person’s emotional response to certain circumstances and problems surrounding the relationship. A lot of people who engage in infidelity are actually surprised by their own actions and feelings.

So, without much further ado, here are the 5 undeniable signs that your girl is cheating on you:

1. She gets really experimental with you in the bedroom. She is going to start doing things with you that she has never done before. And weirdly enough, she does them really well too.

2. She starts to distance herself from you in both a physical and emotional capacity. She doesn’t really seem like she’s available or accessible to you anymore.

3. She becomes a lot more secretive about her whereabouts, companions, and activities. She doesn’t want to give you too much info so that you won’t get to piece the puzzle together in your mind.

4. She doesn’t feel any sense of possessiveness, anger, or jealousy in your relationship anymore.

5. She doesn’t feel invested or territorial in your relationship at this point.
She acts on autopilot in your relationship. She’s essentially emotionally out of it.

FINAL THOUGHTS

At the end of the day, it’s always rough whenever you discover that your woman has acted unfaithfully. It’s a stab to the heart. It’s painful and it’s not something that you would ever have expected to find yourself in. And yet, here you are.
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Romance / For The Ladies by theophiokhai(m): 8:05pm On Dec 30, 2018
During your 20s, men are trooping and everyone wants to marry you. They are all over you. Your WhatsApp doesn’t rest. Your messenger is filled up. If you breath on Facebook, you will get 400 likes and 350 comments.

You can’t walk on the street without ssshhh ssshhh. Your breasts are very comely at this time. Your lips are succulent and your legs are smooth. Even if you are ugly, it doesn’t show much at this level of your life because everything is still standing tall. The backside is still very nicely shaped and bouncing properly.

Now, the mistake most of the ladies make is this:

1. At this level, you easily dump guys in relationship. Any little thing, you break up. In your mind, there are many fishes in the ocean. Over 20 other guys are bothering you for relationship, so you can easily hook up with another guy. After six months, you break up again and start another one. You are like hot akara. You cannot bend down and build a solid relationship nor learn how to tolerate a man and work on your own self. At this age, feminism dey shack you well. You no send anybody. You no wan hear advice at all. For your mind, this kind post na rubbish.

2. At this level, some ladies want to show everything: the boobs are still standing, so she can snap to show it. The buttocks are nice, so she can display it anyhow. You sell the romantic skin like akara. Every guy in the neighborhood is coming to take his own share. Even married men are collecting their own. Everyone is collecting and walking away. For your mind, marriage no go hard.

3. At this point, you don’t lack anything. Men are giving you all you need. You’re not working but your airtime is never below 10k on the phone. Shoes and classic clothes are unaccountable in your wardrobe, yet you are not doing any job. Life is beautiful and that’s exactly how your life is depreciating with speed.

A time will finally come when your age has really increased very well. The boobs are needing pillar support and the buttocks are no longer comely anymore but rather ‘loosing’, the face has a lot of pimples and holes. Many things have gone wrong. The tummy is out by the day, your local government is beginning to have some kind of mature odour and the armpits are darker. The waist tires are forming with speed.

At this point, days turn to months and month turn to years. It will always look nearly, but something will just happen, the guy will disappear. You will start following another guy with hope for marriage, like play like play, that one go just chop you run away.

The fear and worry of menopause will even make you age faster. By this time, all the multiple guys you slept with both the ones from a cursed family and the ones from ancestral curses, when you were lifting your legs to the ceiling and twisting your body like snake in bed. All those things that make guys rush after you are gone like a movie. At this time, you become emergency Christian. All your posts are about Jesus and church things. Any comment you make, Jesus must enter. Even when football is being discussed you must find a way to add Jesus to it. For your mind, you dey deceive guys abi? You want them to see wife material in you. Suddenly you learn manners, all the multiple people you had relations with, the battle is now more spiritual than physical. All the curses married women were laying on you for sleeping with their husbands are now controlling your life. Not even Mary Kay can remove all that mess!

At 40, a guy is still young but a lady of 35 is more like a “Christian mother.”

What is my point? Make haste while the sun shines to avoid had I known. Don’t while away your time playing games with men. I am not saying a lady cannot marry at 35 neither am I saying one should rush into marriage neither am I mocking those who are above 30 and still single, I still am not saying only those who marry at 25 have the best marriages. I am only saying, don’t waste your time sleeping around when you should accept a man and settle down.

Imagine you are around 30-35 years, at this point, only men of older age like 40-45 will come to marry you because young guys of 30-35 won’t like to marry a lady of 30-35 but unfortunately, those guys of 40-45, most of them are married. They even married girls of 22-27. They will still look so young at 40 but a lady of 35 will look like their senior sister. Ladies age faster. That’s why a girl of 16 can be looking so mature, guys would be wooing her but a guy of 18 would still be looking like 13 years old boy. It also applies to old age.

This might not actually be applicable in all cases, not all single ladies at 30s were slay queens, but the message remains, “make hay while the sun shines.
Romance / Delay In Marriage. (must Read) by theophiokhai(m): 6:52am On Dec 25, 2018
BEFORE YOU READ THIS, PLEASE I REPEAT PLEASE SETTLED DOWN AND GET A GUY THAT YOU KNOW IS SUITABLE TO YOU AS A HUSBAND THEN PRESENT IT TO YOUR FAMILY.

Some girls mentality is very low just like low battery... You will hear them saying "I don't want to marry yet am still young"... "I don't even want to hear anything about marriage now am still enjoying my life"...

Girls at the age of 18-24 always attracts serious men who is fully ready to get married but at this age most of our girls never wish to hear anything about marriage... You will hear them saying "who marriage eeep, who care about marriage"..... But this girls will be having serious sex relationship with small boys of their age... I mean serious sex relationship because at this age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them but they will prefer to chose those boys rather than the men.. They are still young to marry but they're not young to have sex with boys... If u even ask them why are you small girl having sex relationship like this... You will hear her asking you back "Who is small girl? Do u even know what I know? Are u expecting me not to be having sex at this my age? Do u want to kill me? And beside, what is your own problem with my own life? Abeg, pack well".

At the age of 25-27, parent will start asking them how far? Don't u have any one yet? Are u not planning to get married? Your mate are getting married? Or don't you know how old you are?... But mind you, parent only seems outside of their daughter not knowing that inside is finished.... With all this questions by her own parent she will now be thinking and asking her self some questions like... "My mate are getting married? Does it mean am old enough to marry? Hmmm but how should I go about it those my boyfriends are not a serious type... They're not even ready to marry yet.. Well, God knows the best I believe in God"... My sister, Did u just mention God?... Hmm!!!

At the age of 27-30... They will now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex again... They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage... But the funniest thing is that, at this age of 30 no men will be asking their hand in marriage... Though they will see men but those men will only want date from them not marriage... Then u will see them forcing their self to marry a man who didn't like to marry them... No single man at the age of 30-35 will like to marry a lady of 30-35 too instead they will be looking for girls of 20-25 to marry and that is why you will see some men going back to their village to find young girl to marry when they seems that those young girls in the city are not serious about marriage and those that are serious are too old for them.

At the age of 30-35, if you ask her why are u not marry yet by this your age it getting too late... You will hear her asking you some silly questions like... "Are you God? Or do you want to marry me? Single at 30 or 35 it's a crime? Did I see who is willing to marry me and I didn't marry him? God knows the best pls".

At this age of 30-35 they will start going to the people they call "wise men" like never before... They will now be a fake serious type.. Her name will now change from Mhiz Pweedy for sure to Mallama Rahma... At this age if u ask her for dating you will hear her saying "My brother, am not like them... Am looking for husband not dating if you truly love me go and see my parent for marriage I can't do anything without asking for my parent hands... But when she was 18-24 yrs she was doing everything without her parent hands.

But ladies, do you even know that no man want an old version? Everybody is looking for latest version e.g (Android 9.0). U don't expect a young man of 30yrs to marry you of 30yrs as his house wife... Men that will be interested to marry you will be men of 40 plus and mind you, those men have married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife and I know that naija lady will not want to be second or third wife.

Everything in life has it own season and time... No lady that is looking for husband now that didn't see who want to marry her when she was 18-24 yrs but by then, they were not serious because they're not looking for husband but they were looking for sex. Let's assume u started having sex at the age of 16-20... Now you're 30yrs old... My sister can you count how many time u had sex? Well, let's 4get about that because I know u won't like that part at all.

But let me tell you, everything is not about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you but when you by yourself changed the plan or miss the road you will now be shouting God where are you... When God is shouting my daughter where are u.. You were there doing Shakara, enjoying your life and taking men for granted.

Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies nowadays? Does it mean no men again? You will see that the old are there not getting married why the young ones are getting married. You as a elderly or senior sister never marry your younger or junior sisters are getting married.... You will now be asking God some stupid questions like "God why me? I mine not one among your slave's again? Do you want me to kill myself before u know what to do?"... After asking God those questions you will not go to your parent and be asking them some nonsense questions like "Mum what are u doing with my situation? Don't u want me to get married? Mum you need to do something ooh because I will commit suicide ooh."..... But why are u telling your mum before u commit the suicide? When you're committing sex and rejecting men did u tell your mum then? My sister, there is a time for everything... Don't let your time pass over you before you will start running after it.

They says grab your copy before is too late... Don't be too selective and never go looks because they can deceive ... Do not follow handsome... Nobody knows tomorrow,,, poor man today may be rich man tomorrow... I pray that God will by his mercy provide a better man (husband) for you... Amen.

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Romance / Most Nigerian Guys Are Afraid Of Dating Celestial Girls by theophiokhai(m): 8:11pm On Dec 17, 2018
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Crime / Re: Man Beheaded In Edo State, Body Parts Including Joystick Removed. Graphic Photos by theophiokhai(m): 10:56am On Oct 16, 2018
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