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CosmicJames:
If you understand how the universe works, you will know that nothing can just happen except someone or something caused it to happen.
And there is one iron law of the universe:
The Law Of Cause And Effect.

When you said because one or two reasons, you sound weak and guilty.

You are already afraid of what you have done and what is coming. Yes. Whether you like it, believe or not, something will come to you in the same proportion that you created it.

If what you created was good, nothing can stop it. Good will come to you. If otherwise, bad will surely come to you.

You ask and I quote " If the girl curse you will it work? "

Now, let me tell you: the girl don't need to curse you for you to suffer for your wrong doings.

Don't even think that anyone can curse you and it will work.
No. Nobody can curse you.
You are the only one that can curse yourself.


And if you curse yourself, don't blame anybody for your sufferings.

The same one or two reasons why you marry another girl is the same one or two reasons why you will bring the penalty to you.

The only time that you will pay no penalty for a girl you promise to marry and didn't marry her again is if:

1. She breaks the promise herself by leaving you to marrying another man. In this case, the penalty will follow her.

2. You catch her cheating on you. In this case, it is not your fault. You are free to end it right there. And no reasonable girl will blame you for leaving her in this case.

3. If she change her mind. That is, she decided not to marry you again on her own without any fault from you.

4. She turned from the good girl you use to know and become something else. And refused to to change after several talks, complains and maybe warnings from you.


Anything outside of these and you deliberately promise a girl for marriage only to deceive her later to marry another girl, you created a negative energy in the universe and it will follow you. You don't need extra curse.

What if the girl that left the guy that promise her marriage? what of the girls that leaves the guy after he must have trained her through school? what happens to these folks?

lol hahahahahaha bro nothing beats. a real hairy pussy for.memwirh a sexy enticing natural aroma but this is awesome technology

Adedove:
It is actionable in court.

The offence is called 'breach of promise to marry.'

So, take a legal step!

there's no evidence, just he say she say and that doesn't stand in court.

HotPoundedYam:
was she a virgin when he made the promise?please answer me

. E get why.

No she wasn't a virgin..she has been fucking for a long while.

donbachi:
U took advantage of her,using marriage.and she fell for it.u come dey knack front and back,without condoms,that was accompanied with aborted pregnancies...paddyman,make i tell u the truth.e go work.and for u to ask dis kind question wen u never brush ur mouth.e be like e don dey see the signs.

I dont know where to start replying you bro, you sound so childish. knack her front and back, with and without condoms? abortions and whatever? are you freaking serious? you need to update your mind.

Abortion can't happen without a lady's approval (at least to a reasonable extent) once a lady walked to the hospital and spread her legs to abort a baby she's solely responsible for it, a man or any other person can only threaten, influence, manipulate, brainwash her to abort but the actual steps and process can't happen unless the lady agrees to it 99% of the time so stop this abortion blackmail. after all relationship is not a prerequisite for marriage.
so basically one should marry a lady BC she did abortion for him, they bleeped, did doggy style and missionary with and without condoms? your case is different lil man.

Futuragetty:
Dear girls,
an agreement to marry is viewed as a binding legal contract, and if a party can show that there was in actual fact an existence of a promise to marry , and one party reneges, then a civil claim can be made.
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and as far as I am concerned, Curses only work in our Nollywood dramas.

hahaha legal action indeed, that is if she has an evidence that can't be disproved or contested. let's say she wins will she be compensated with what? fund for emotional trauma or what? she ain't getting nothing bro.

Oluromantic:
If the reasons are genuine like if you find out that you're both AS or your parents are not in approval or some things are to be done in ur culture which she doesn't find proper. Then no cause for alarm

But if you deceived her, took advantage of her when u have someone else in mind especially after plenty abortions, d curse go stick. Because dating to a Nigerian woman is like life investment. It's d greatest achievement they envisage.

you're right about it being a life investment to naija ladies but promising a lady marriage and later decide to retract your promise is not a do or die affair is it? OK, what about guys that promises ladies marriage and the ladies left them to marry another guy?

cooooooks:
I think you can sue him for that. Especially if you spent money on the relationship.

and when have naija guys not spend in relationships? bro try and judge from a place of no sentiments.

phelonrays:
You are in hot soup brah,

It's ain't gonna be magic, but clear reality, don't fall a victim of promising young girls marriage just to enjoy free pvssy.......

If na Calabar girl, I'll advice you got in touch with Queen of the Coast for outright cleansing

being in a hit soup won't be a problem once I have garri or fufu with me. the thing is a promise can be retracted if something comes up. its not a do or die affair, to enjoy free pussy? are you serious? was she not enjoying a free very good dick? you guys that see fucking as a favour from any girl need brain formatting. Sex is enjoyed by both parties and anlot more by females joor.

Uyi168:
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If curses were effective, don't u think all of our leaders would have been dead by now??
It's not big deal, if u decide to back down after promising a lady marriage..

exactly, after all what happens to guys that promises ladies marriage and the lady later leave them and marry another guy? de girls dem de die so?

MedicH:
marriage is not a thing you promise anyone, it is not a gift nor a favour. Any woman that lives on the premises that a man serious with her should promise her marriage and stick to it is utterly useless and stupid. Come to think of it marriage is not for everybody.

your statement is valid, marriage is not for everyone.

haaaaaaaaa:
Guy, I pity you oooo

why do you pity?

I dont believe in curse either its a make believe shit.

Where is the vin number bro and whats the price?

Guys if a guy promises a girl and later abandoned her because of one or two reasons come marry another girl. if she curse him will it work?

damn its awful to see her looking like that. looks poor or like shes hooked on something or really struggling. thats the greatest rapper's sister meeehn

Carchoice:
My sister, you see this life isn’t too complicated like we humans have made it to be. Whatever the man might have done to them, where’s thy heart? The goodness the Bible talked about. Why hold on to things of the past? Such people don’t go far in life because they are holding on to too much. This is the time to make that man realize his mistake and give thanks to God for giving him a chance to realize his past mistakes. It’s a pity we all are not really the same.

Sending her away is to give the corrections from afar. I know when I bring it up while she’s here, either she might want to all of a sudden put on a good performance before my eyes or she’ll go cold in embarrassment. When she gets to her destination, I’ll table it when she’s settled and observe for a while. But that single experience from her is something I don’t condone. It changes my affection and views of that person. She’s the opposite of me.

op is a smart guy, you observed and saw the bullet abi bomb. she's damaged goods, no matter what your parents did to you why mock them? mock a very sick man. she's a psychopath. she receiving that call in your presence was God's way of telling and showing you what she's made of.
A girl I wanted to marry last December, made a nasty comment about her father and family and not just that. I put in consideration that they must have wronged her or something but then I observed how she treats people. she shows me love like mad, does everything to make me happy and cries anytime she offends me but bro to me thats sentiment. if you want to see how someone is watch how they treat strangers.
she's always putting this dont mess with me attitude and ready to tackle or trash anyone that messes with her. I understand it must be as a result of what she has been through but I ain't no shrink so I have to bail out of the marriage intention after I tried to correct her and saw she doesn't learn. I bounced, still fucking her on the side though.

RUN AWAY FROM DAMAGED FEMALES

vertueptime:
The black man sef na amebo, how wil you just go to d park and start videoing some one, anyone will feel threatened

you're not exposed yet, don't worry when you leave the shores of Africa to a saner clime then you will understand why that mam started recording her.

That guy is one veery stupidd house nigga, a big fat illiterate and a proud one too. He knows nothing about how the world really works he is only brainwashed by whatver the news, blogs and white media put in his dumbb brain, that is if he has a brain anyway.

Captainrambo2:
Proud and ignorant. Fade

Stephenomozzy:
These bad elements amongst us always have a way of making Nigeria look so bad and morally bankrupt in the global economy. Exploiting a system that is set up to save the lives of people for selfish gains!

Una go think say "Oyibo no dey swear Ogun" - the repercussion that will hit y'all (the delinquents) soon eh. Karma is one introverted B!!tch

You must be specially stupppid to believe anything that comes out of the white ppls mouth. don't you know that america has more fraudstaars than the whole africa? the try to tarnish the image of nigeria and you dumb fuckkers help them out. I don't believe that nonsense, statistics with no evidence. Go and learn or read so your brain can function on its own.
Whites and americans are bad ass scammers and fraudsters but nigeria is used as the scapegoat all the time. how about the fraud that was commited sometime ago and they were saying its a nigerian and at the end of the day they discovered that its a whiteman.

ObaOfUyo:




What has this got to do with anything or do you ask dumb questions for a living?!?
He is/was an internet scammer. Hope you satisfied? Shebi na wetin u wan hear.
Now Has that justified his murder in the hands of criminals.
If you have nothing good to contribute next time, switch off your data and stop adding insult to injury by causing more pain to the bereaved.
Channel your energy into getting justice for the deceased and stop asking stupid questions all over this forum.
Ewu!!!

Dont mind the heartless goat, someone was murdered in such a wicked and horrible manner the most important thing in his mind is what is his occupation? what a vagabond. if he's brother was murdered how will he react if someone asks him suck stuppiddd question. that entails how dead he is inside, no empathy or human feeling in him. He's desensitized and acts like a robot.

Golan007:
Are you ashamed to tell the world he's a Yahoo boy?

Ashamed? you must have a mental issue. He can be a terrorist thats not the bone of contention, the thing is that he was murdered, itsna murder case and the way of murderers are horrible devils that must face justice.
Someone was murdered and the imps first question was what is his occupation
Like he's occupation will rise him from death. Y'all minds have been fvcked up that evils as this such is a normal thing.

bigiyaro:
shut up modafvcker, scam the wrong people and die.

why are you angry? ;-) you asked a question and I answered you and you're angry Nawao. Go to ur father's company he's a staff there naa.

bigiyaro:
OP, what does Isaiah do for a living? just curious.

He works in your father's company. The horrible murder of the young man in cold blood by some devils and your concern is his occupation and not why or how horrible he was murdered. "Intelligent" Nigerian. No one deserves to be murdered in such a cruel way, no one. I wonder if you will ask same question if he was ur brother or relation.
The killers should be killed too.

anybody who opposed my way of making money, my office or extortion will die?? I wonder why people still go to these "churches", ppl can be goats oo.

Are you dumb or what? how did you come to such ridiculous presumption? Do you know he feels about her? you ppl are crazy.