₦airaland Forum

some of us seem to have forgotten so quickly.
these animals never let go and they value their cows than human lives.
remember the thunder strike news on cows in Ondo some time ago...i think these guys kept it in their left hand hoping to revenge when no one would expect it...and i think this is it.
not political, not religious, etc...
its just fulani organized revenge.

south west need to wake up...and lets these idiots know they dont hav monopoly of vawulence.

waduyu think
separate Nigeria las las.
remember to vote Peter Obi

kapelvej:
Damn! O thought I wrote this. Or someone that I told my story wrote it. This is exactly my story word for word. I am just dumbfounded

i tell u bro...many people are into this same shit.
the mistake here is that certain things were not discussed at the foundation..
but now...ure forced to negotiation.

what would a redpiller do in this case?

I have read some write ups about issues in todays marriages...and some say it is more complicated for those abroad...but lets use Nigeria as a case study.

I hear some suggestions by some persons and am wondering......is it actually an easy thing to do? especially when u have someone that is demonic n stubborn...Not homely trained actually.

In dating women submit and can give as much sex as u need, but in marriage they demand submission first and go on celibacy.

I hear "If you can't handle this woman it's better to let her go, or send her back to her house...
what if she refuses to leave the house??.. and if kids are involved.
and If the man leaves the house...then he begins to foot double house bills..(rent on the kids/wife and his private apartment)...else the woman can also file for abandonment.

If the man threatens to walk out, and she threatens same but actually waiting for ur move..
some women can be a bone in the neck.

I also hear "u're the man, take charge of ur home...be the man....HOW in this case

my wife can stay as long as possible without sex nor asking for it.....i will have to appease, make her feel good, and put her in the a good mental state before i can sometimes have it.....if she's not in mood...dats all....and only God knows when the mood returns cos she wud never say or ask...thats a burden

For example..my wife clearly refused that she or the kids wont travel with me to see either parents..and that I cant take the kids without her.
will i force her?

Food....U punish yourself by not eating her food cos she doesn't care.

Seriously i have a woman with a big mouth...really big anger provoking mouth.
She is a dominant alpha female actually....A woman without a blink not afraid to raise a hand or call me names..and if I dare retaliate...someone would be dead.

One of the issue is this - she's from a broken home only raised by the father, mother abandoned them since she was 10 or so and is out of country...so no home training.

I missed some vital agreements/rules before marriage..out of pity...am 36, and 3 yrs apart....and we dated long.
U can call me a simp...but am learning n growing the hard way....things are improving gradually...but it's not been easy.....but what else do u advise.

Truly...she was all submissive during dating...no issues