This thread is primarily catered towards guys in their 20s. Guys this might be a hard pill to swallow but experience has thought me a very difficult lesson. And it's a simple one.

As far as this present era of human civilization is concerned, all a guy in his 20s needs to devote all his time to is the pursuit of money and an education. Women are a very big distraction that yields no significant benefit.

In fact if a guy can ignore women and focus on these two things, success is guaranteed on multiple levels.

I know many of you like sex, many of you enjoy being around women and having women for yourselves, but trust me when I say this. Women are of no usefulness to you in your twenties. Leave them alone. Pay them no attention. Just focus on your education and on making money and when you are successful in these two areas women will chase you to the point that you will be spoilt for choice.

All this fuckboy/player nonsense doesn't pay. I've done it before and they don't have any benefit besides satisfying your sexual cravings and tickling your ego.

And if you must experience relationships with women then minimize it. Don't invest too much and don't become emotionally attached because the female specie cannot be trusted. Their minds are fickle, their emotions are erattic and their actions never square with their words. They really aren't worth getting invested in.

Chase money and chase an education and all other things will be added onto you in due time.

BlackNeo:
IMPORTANT POST OF THE DAY: HOW YOU SHOULD COMMUNICATE WITH WOMEN

I’m inspired by a question by one guy about women in which he said why dont we tell women what we want without using fire to fight fire. Lol this guy has it all wrong. Women and men may speak yoruba or English Or Igbo together, but lol the communication tactics are different. HOW? Follow me


MEN ARE DIRECT COMMUNICATORS.

Men usually say A and mean A. When a man says something he usually means the direct thing he refers to. If a man says he wants food, it means he wants food. If a man says you are fine, he means you are fine. If a man says I want you, it means he wants you. Direct communicators thats what we are.


WOMEN ARE INDIRECT COMMUNICATORS: If a woman says A, she usually means B or C or D or E or F or A and so on and so forth. Never take what women say at face value. Always interpret whatever they say with suspicion. Use all the knowledge game has taught you to interepret ans decode what they say.



HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH WOMEn

Now that you know that women are not like you in communication. How do you communicate with them? By always interpreting whatever they say with suspicion. Use all the knowledge game has taught you to interepret ans decode what they say. Dont make the mistake of using direct communication with them. Use their power against them.

ILLUSTRATION

Now on a cold rainy day. One gal you have been eyeing to get posts on her whatsapp status: Weather for two! You see this as a guy and your testosterone takes charge of your brain. You enter into her DM to see if it will be your lucky day. You enter into her DM and make passes to see if she would love to spend the weather on your bed. Lol you enter and you get shenked and rejected. It ends in tears. That is women for you. That she said weather for two is a bait. It is an indirect communication. If a man says weather for two, he means weather for two. If a woman says weather for two, it does not necessarily mean weather for two. If you now use your own direct communication to reply her own indirect, you will get burnt.

How should you then reply her?

If a woman says weather for two. Beat her at her game by saying: Oh, get a cardigan or sweater or take some hot teal like I am now. If you tell a woman this, she will be weak because you have beaten her at the game. She expected you to be like 99% of the betas who will be like: you said weather for two, oya come to my bedroom cassava dey for you. If you make this mistake, na you go eat your own cassava walahi!

If a girl posts "weather for two" on her status, it's best to not reply. By replying you have already lost the game. By replying you have given her the attention she craves, regardless of your reply. You are no different from the horde of betas that responded to her attention seeking status post.

I created this account to posts secrets that will help men in their journey to become their best selves. The secrets I post aren't moral or immoral they are just facts that work when applied and they are secrets I've tested and have yielded fruits.

I'm not trying to promote sex but I know that there are guys who their sense of manhood and even their happiness is tied to their ability to be successful with women and this thread is for them. There are also guys who have failed many times in their effort to get women and are looking for ways to improve their game. If you are in this category please pay attention to everything I'm about to say.

The thing women value the most from men is attention. They value attention more than money because unlike attention they can get money for themselves if they work hard enough. But they can only get attention from men. However, what men value most from women is sex. Women need attention the way men need sex.

Now guys, imagine there is a lady that gives you sex all the time for free. Every hour of the day, her panties are always pulled down, legs spread wide apart, inviting you to Bleep her, even though you are not paying her for her services. Despite the fact that we guys love sex and we are receiving sex from this lady for free, such a lady would soon begin to irritate us. Even if at first sex with her was incredible, we would quickly grow tired and our attraction towards her will drop precipitously. That's one side to this. The other side to this is that we would never respect or value such a lady.

This is the same case for girls. When a guy gives his attention freely to a girl with nothing tangible in return, her attraction towards such a guy will continuously drop, that's if she was even attracted to him in the first place. Just like in the first scenario she would begin to think lesser and lesser of him till she begins to hold him in the lowest regard. Bear in mind that as far as male & female interaction is concerned, the only equal payment for a man's attention is sex.

Now how does all this apply to texting? Texting is the easiest way a girl can get her most valuable need from guys without offering anything in return. With texting, she can easily receive validation and attention from 50 different guys all within the same time frame. She doesn't even have to be in the same vicinity with them.

Guys, I know there might be a girl you like and you feel the urge to text her all the time. Maybe you just want to know how she is doing. Maybe you've been texting her everyday and you feel your texts are making her laugh and she is becoming more attracted to you. You are simply just being stupid. By texting her all the time, you are just putting yourself in the same category as the other droves of men who are giving her their attention for free. You are giving her your attention and she isn't giving you anything in return.

Never text a girl except in these scenarios:

• When you want to plan a meet up or a date.

• When you text in response to a nude picture she sent you.

• If she is a business partner and you need to deliver business related information to her or you need to ask important business related information from her.

• Or if she is your mother or sister or daughter.

If your reason for texting a girl doesn't fall into the above then you shouldn't text her.

And in the first two cases, your texts should be brief. Two sentences is enough.

Whatever you want to text a woman, say it to her in person. Attraction is never developed through texting. Attraction however reduces through texting. A woman will never lose attraction towards you when you don't text her. In fact the opposite is usually the case.

Even if a girl texts you first, you do not have to respond. Most times a girl will text you just to confirm that you are still among her legion of fans who feed her their attention for free. Most guys always fall for this and see this as an indication that she likes them and likes talking to them and they readily respond to her text and continue exchanging texts with her.

Stop commenting on her status updates. Stop commenting on her new profile. Just stop texting her and you will begin to see positive improvements in your relationship with her. I know this sounds counterintuitive but it's the truth.

Looking back at the girls I have had sex with in the past, there has never been one that I texted more than 5 sentences in total. Some of them see me in person and ask why I don't reply their texts and I simply say I'm busy. But when I think back to all the girls I've spent hours texting hardly has there been one I even kissed, much less saw her ñakedness.

Resist the urge to text her and invest that time in self development and making money.