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Ladies and gentlemen, this is one of the main reason Nigeria as a country and a lot of its citizen suffer so much. SUPERSTITION. It is really sad seeing the amount of people quick to advice him to move out without really giving him more advice on how to address the situation. Seeing the amount of likes as well paints a good picture of how superstitious the people are. What I have gathered from your post is that your landlord is a kind man. There is no correlation between what is going on in your family and landlord not bothering you for rent. There is really no proof that he is the cause of your misfortune.

My advice:
1. On her next pregancy, take your wife to a good hospital where they can monitor her and the baby more regularly expecially when she is close to delivery. There is honestly nothing unique about your wife loosing the preganancies that late. I can assure you it happens every where in the world, not just in your compound. What is key is how you and wife address the situation.

2. Regarding your job, look at ways to develop yourself so you can be more employable or improve your business if you are self employed. you are probably one or two skills away from gaining the ability to earn more. I know it is not easy, but the best thing a man can do for himself is to look for ways to continuously improve. The energy you put in blaming others for your misfortune (in this case, your landlord), put that energy in delevoping yourself.

Note: This is my first comment on Nairaland. I will not argue with anyone here. The aim is to get my message accross, take it or leave it. it is a free world.