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The perfect number of kids, is there anything like that?
The number of kids to have in our world today is determined by so many factors, ranging from finance, health, choice etc. Some people like me would love to have 8 kids or even more, but mine will be on the condition that I get a surrogate mother ( someone else carries the pregnancy while it is my egg and hubbys sperm).
I have 3 amazing wonderful children that I ask myself everyday what life would have been without any one of them.
So far so good, I have learnt some lessons from having and mothering 3 children and some hidden truths inside it.

You will be needing SEE MORE AT [url][/url] http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/05/the-fun-and-facts-about-having-3-or-odd.html

Ok, sisterlies today it’s about me and my struggle to add weight at least 65kg. In the process of wanting to add weight, I found an easy, cheap, less stressful way to lose weight, no gym no keto,no dieting. To add weight it’s not easy, maybe for me, as I have eaten all the eatables, I don’t select food or junk, in fact I placed myself on everyday swallow, not semovita, correct akpu or eba. All these didn’t work, so I resigned to being me. I LOVE FOOD STILL.
I weighed 65kg for the first time after my third child and I was happy, omugwo food, sleep and all really helped. I tried to maintain it at 65and not go down again but somehow along the line I went back to 58kg abi 55kg sef , annoying really.

How did I lose this almost 10kg without gym, workout, dieting, portion control or keto? AEE MORE AT [url][/url] http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/05/easy-and-cheap-way-to-burn-fat-at-home.html

Here is my story, I’m sure every woman will relate to this my story.

Bed time; 11:30pm, after eating and sleeping all through the day, falling asleep at night won’t be that easy (sleeping and eating happens to be my pregnant when pregnant). I had to watch television till 11:00 and maybe finally fall asleep at 11:30pm. Sometimes I will be gisting with hubby, and I will be wondering if my gist that night was a lullaby.

11:45; Feeling uncomfortable and steals his pillow. He slept off while my gist was still going on; he has to wake up ooo, I’m not feeling sleepy yet. Maybe intentionally looking for trouble or maybe I really needed it to be more comfortable, with the excuse that I want to place my [url][/url] see more at http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/06/bedtime-story-of-pregnant-woman-in-her.html

daben1:
I hope you'll ''warn'' your daughters?

I'm already warning her

30th December 2018 will make it 10 good years I traditionally married,
(30th December 2008), so far so good, it has been a wonderful experience.
My mom never told me of anything i will be seeing in my husbands house, I figured them out myself. Experience they say is the best teacher and it has taught me well.

He may not change;if there is anything you don’t like about your husband during courtship, and you know you can’t live with that for the rest of your life but you think he will probably change after marriage, my sister that only happens in Africa magic. Don’t say when you get married and with prayers he will change. Yes with prayers, he will definitely change but how patient will you be before God answers your prayers.

You are responsible and to be blamed for everything; my husband will blame me even when my kids fall sick; like it is my fault they are sick. If your husband falls sick too, it is your fault, if a business plan he never told you about fails, it is your fault, if your child is not doing well academically and otherwise, it is your fault. Just accept everything is your fault and you will have maximum peace. Dont argue, it is your fault he didnt wake up early for an appointment.
Always have water in your mouth when your husband is angry at you; heyyyyyyy. Which man wants his wife to talk back at him or talk while he is talking? A story was told of a woman that reported her husband to the reverend father for domestic violence, and the reverend gave her a bottle of holy water and instructed her to always put the holy water in her mouth anytime her husband is angry and shouting at her. This she does anytime the man gets angry and the violence stopped, the woman see more [url][/url]http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/04/by-gods-grace-30th-december-2018-will.html

30th December 2018 will make it 10 good years I traditionally married,
(30th December 2008), so far so good, it has been a wonderful experience.
My mom never told me of anything i will be seeing in my husbands house, I figured them out myself. Experience they say is the best teacher and it has taught me well.

He may not change;if there is anything you don’t like about your husband during courtship, and you know you can’t live with that for the rest of your life but you think he will probably change after marriage, my sister that only happens in Africa magic. Don’t say when you get married and with prayers he will change. Yes with prayers, he will definitely change but how patient will you be before God answers your prayers.

You are responsible and to be blamed for everything; my husband will blame me even when my kids fall sick; like it is my fault they are sick. If your husband falls sick too, it is your fault, if a business plan he never told you about fails, it is your fault, if your child is not doing well academically and otherwise, it is your fault. Just accept everything is your fault and you will have maximum peace. Dont argue, it is your fault he didnt wake up early for an appointment.
Always have water in your mouth when your husband is angry at you; heyyyyyyy. Which man wants his wife to talk back at him or talk while he is talking? A story was told of a woman that reported her husband to the reverend father for domestic violence, and the reverend gave her a bottle of holy water and instructed her to always put the holy water in her mouth anytime her husband is angry and shouting at her. This she does anytime the man gets angry and the violence stopped, the woman see more [url][/url]http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/04/by-gods-grace-30th-december-2018-will.html

Silent treatment is that moment when husband and wife are not talking to each other, single syllable words like, no,yes,OK,maybe etc is used in talking to each other, probably because one person is feeling offended, and the other person does not want to apologize. Sometimes while the cause of the quarrel has been forgotten, the silent treatment still goes on because nobody wants to swallow his/her pride to apologize and say sorry.
Who said marriage is a bed of roses? If I hear. It is sweet and bitter at the same time only that we choose to see the sweet side and ignore the bitter side, that’s when marriage is sweet. There are things my husband does that i don't like.
One woman lost her husband, her only complaint was that her quarrel partner is gone, nobody to argue with or nag, nobody to fight with, she said the man should wake up that she wants to fight. Quarrels and arguments makes marriage what it is. Another woman said marriage will be very boring without quarrels, fights and arguments, she said there will be no opportunity for her husband to beg her and tell her sorry. That begging makes her feel good and very important.
When I first got married any small thing I fall back to silent treatment not knowing that if I don’t say my mind that hubby is not a mind reader, he too will ignore and then we go days without talking to each other, while we sleep on the same bed, go to church in the same car, sometimes eat from the same plate, very funny indeed. Yes, no, ok, maybe, ask him, ask her, I don’t know becomes my sentence. Sometimes he will know why I'm angry but will just form that if I don't tell him, that he won't know because he is not a mind reader. I'm the one that starts the silent treatment of see more @thisdaymom.com [url][/url] http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/03/no-communication-is-no-no_6.html

Marriage is not a child’s play; you are going to share your life and everything about you with someone else. You just have to careful in choosing who you want to be sharing your life with and raising kids with. It is not easy making that choice but you just have to make the choice. Some tips to help you make the right choice and also be happy with the choice you made have been listed here for you

1. Know what you want; before settling down with your partner, know what you want in life and in that partner, and go for it. What do you want from your partner? Don’t settle for less than what you want. Do you want a graduate, a partner with a white collar job, a business man/woman, an entrepreneur, a student etc? What do you want? A Muslim, Christian, Traditionalist etc? A partner that will be truly a helpmate or one who is just there to answer a partner? Don’t be pressurized into accepting what you don’t want. Don’t settle for that partner out of pity if it is not what you want. MY POINT; FIND WHAT YOU WANT AND GO FOR IT.

2. Medical status/background/History; Know your medical status/background/history before marriage. Know your blood group/genotype before settling for that person, you wouldn’t want to suffer your kids, by making the wrong choice of partner. If you are AS make sure you go for AA, don’t make the mistake of marrying someone who don’t know his/her medical status/background/history. Save your kids, yourself and your partner the trouble and know your medical background/history first before dating. Your partner may not find it funny to discover that you have one disease or the other after marriage. It may destroy your marriage. Know your medical history/background and let your partner also be informed about it.

3. Know how to cook; whether man/woman, see more @ thisdaymom.com[url][/url]http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/05/9-things-every-lady-should-know-before.html

5 RULES TOWARDS A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER. http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/05/he-5-rules-towards-better-relationship.html