₦airaland Forum

ValCon888:
She doesn't cheat and you don't cheat.

Take some of the burden of chores around the house. Help with the kids and if you're a good cook, help with that too. The aim is to help her with the stress so she's not facing stress at work and stress at home.

Las las, if that doesn't work and you like sex pass food, tell her to quit her job.

If she can't quit her job or you both need her paycheck so bad then buy a huge jar of Vaseline and unlimited data.

Problem solved.

Godswillu:
This is what I call using the law as a weapon rather than a guide.

The court is supposed to protect the oppressed but in Nigeria the opposite is the case.
For examples some one was sentence to death for stealing chicken and another is moving around freely for stealing billion.

infact if anybody quotes me and say something that is not nice and I discovered I am richer than you. I will send the police after you. but if you are richer than me then I will let it slide.

vickydevoka:
This is the best thing to happen to anybody in this generation. It sounds funny but I no go understand until u lose job for marriage Ur wife go carry her last money go buy human hair and iPhone 16. She go come remind u u are the man of the house make u go site go carry block

Judolisco:
With which person money abeg? Nothing must do my 5k o

Olachase:
pls is Anchor real

before i invest my last 5m inside

free2ryhme:
The tragic killing of Alhaji Amadu Surajo, the Acting Chairman of Miyetti Allah Cattle Breeders Association of Nigeria (MACBAN) in Katsina State, is just another heartbreaking reminder of the worsening security crisis that continues to plague Nigeria. The brutality of the attack—along with the abduction of Surajo’s wives and daughter—paints a chilling picture of the lawlessness that some parts of the country are experiencing. What makes this particular incident even more disturbing is the seeming randomness of the attack, happening in a region that was not typically associated with such extreme violence until recently.

It’s not just about the loss of life; it’s also about the fear and insecurity that these constant attacks create for everyday Nigerians. People can no longer go about their business, especially in certain parts of the country, without fearing for their lives. The situation in the North, and even in other regions, is rapidly deteriorating. From banditry to terrorism, to the ongoing abductions and wanton killings, it seems like no one is safe—not even high-profile individuals or leaders within the pastoral community, who are often targeted as part of larger schemes.

The abduction of innocent people, especially women and children, is an incredibly painful aspect of this crisis. The emotional toll it takes on families, who live in constant fear of losing their loved ones, cannot be overstated. These actions are meant not just to strike terror, but also to perpetuate a cycle of instability and division. The case of the missing MACBAN chairman, Munnir Lamido, adds another layer to this grim situation, with his disappearance raising questions about the broader implications of these security challenges.

It’s hard to ignore the fact that there is a significant gap in security operations, even though we see frequent statements about heightened efforts to tackle these issues. Despite the presence of security forces, the frequency and scale of attacks continue to rise, indicating that either resources are not being allocated effectively or that security agencies are struggling to keep up with the evolving tactics of these criminals.

What is clear is that the situation is spiraling out of control. While the government often reassures citizens with promises of action, the reality on the ground is a far cry from what should be expected in a country of Nigeria's size and resources. It’s beyond time for a more coordinated and targeted approach, one that addresses not just the symptoms of insecurity, but the root causes: poverty, lack of governance, and the spread of extremist ideologies. Until that happens, innocent Nigerians will continue to suffer. The security situation calls for urgent reform and a commitment to protecting the lives and livelihoods of every citizen.

Eyinju112:
Your comment no even follow the thread, looking for every slight avenue to bash Nairaland women, Shame on you.

Peakdesign23:
A finished bishop indeed. Why do men hover around married women, but the moment they're single mothers they tend to dodge them. Why?

What a painful way to die. Hmm...

iwaeda:
Another Promise Cancelled.

nams77:
How the crypto world. I am looking at going in this new year. What would you advise?