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Congratulations.
Must you show your tummy to the whole world?

Wetin you show am for second picture?

descarado:
It doesn't work. That thing you tell your kids ti abstain from, they will do it out of curiosity.
But when uou teach them about sex education and it's consequences, make them your friend, they will tell uou all their journey. In between, you chip in advice. Never ever tell your kids don't do this or that. They have peers and outside world who will invite them.

I have pre teen and a teen boys. Where I live, you don't look at girls anyhow even if they are naked. It's non of your business. What I started doing is dressing up semi nude at home. It was hard but at a point they got comfy seeing me walk half naked around the home. DH almost went berserk but he later got the message. If I walk around my house with nothing on, they don't even care. Now, when they see semi nude young girls out there, it doesn't bother them. It's not enough saying look the other way cos they will never look the other way.

So preaching abstinence is waste of time. Imagine telling a young boy with rioting hormones not to experiment. Rather tell him to always use condom. We have to accept reality. We're I live, condom is placed at strategic places free

We were teenagers too.I know the world is different now but still it doesn't mean some things can't work.

descarado:
In this era, you are teaching abstinence.
Bros,wake up.
Rather teach safe sex education and how the female body works.

You can still teach abstinence...... especially the teenage years.
Teenagers really don't have business with sex.

Na wa o.Is it so bad?

Well,i've had experience with some mothers who placed their daughters on contraceptives.It's not the first option in my opinion.Teach your child abstinence is my first option.
However, teaching your child to be on contraceptives is better than a teenage pregnancy.

helinues:
Naira4dollar

ok thank you

Is she well at all?
How do you leave a baby at home alone for that long?
To do that to a child of 8yrs is still considered a big offense not to talk of a baby.

helinues:
You can buy from vendors and send to your wallet. It's not a must you buy through Binance

Pls give me names of the trusted vendors.

How can i buy crypto on Binance?

Psycho.You don't just walk away from people like this.You plan your escape.

Onegai:
Hallo!

I finally remembered my password. How have you been?

I have been cool.Hope biz and family is doing well.

Onegai:
Hun

Check out adult stores in your location.

Also, go and date. Date, not for remarriage, but for physical pleasure. Meet a man you like, make sure he's safe and discreet and take care of business. Have a guy for chatting and gisting, several guys even. Keep one for business.

Keep serious dating on the back burner for now.

Keep them all from your kids.

That's what men do in your situation and that is what you should do, too.

Move on, m'dear.

And here is the truly beautiful thing (forget, I've seen this happen too many times, I can bet crypto on it sef):

Once you're dating and moving on with your life, that your ex is suddenly going to want to come back, stylishly.

Why?

Because you're peaceful, relaxed and busy. You're not fighting him anymore, you're not bitter, you're not keeping the kids from him. You don't care if he's trying to annoy you or flaunt his new gf in your presence, he is no longer important.

His Limerence and his Mid Life crisis is eventually slowing down. The brain fog in his head is clearing. You're looking good, smelling nice and he can see you through the eyes of other men, you look fu.ckable again.

You're comfortable yet excitingly new.

But please, don't take him back. Don't ever let him come back. If he was dumb enough to leave you, be smart enough to let him go.


And if you think that I'm making this up, that nobody wants a single mum of 3: Nne, go and baff up, do makeup, wear one lovely dress that announces your singleness (you know what I'm taking about, you need heels too) and snap a good pic and upload it to Facebook.

You're about to realise how many of your male uni and secondary school classmates always hoped for a chance with you. And they are usually an upgrade to your ex-man.

The same thing happens with men who were dumped by babes. They stop grieving and start taking care of themselves and suddenly their exes want to come back.

And one last thing: don't feel old.

Mature, rich guys (especially those in Abuja and Lagos) don't like small girls of 24 yrs, they're too young for them. All the big boys, bank MDs, Governonrs, Ministers and Oil big boys are carrying 35 years and older.

Why? Because you're discreet (you have kids, so you're not fighting their wives and aren't planning on trapping them with babies), you're secure in your skin and you're eager for se.x (no need to pretend like you no like am or act like a virgin). Those 20 yr old babes are busy doing Snapchat with him, you, OTOH, have been trained via marriage: you know you will ask him if he has taking his BP meds and listen to him complain about his son's marriage and admire his grandkids. You'll even Like his wife's inspirational posts on IG and be respectful to her. You are not planning on destroying his life, so they are very safe with you.

Na now your market go sell.

I have classmates that are 43, living in a nice flat in Chelsea (UK), being sponsored by people you read about in newspapers. The 25 yr old babes flaunting on IG are for immature Mid Life Crisis guys in their early 40s (who just started collecting N2m/month from an IOC), that want to feel young, all the girls can get is N400k and "thanks" from the serious big men.

Start dressing up and spending 2 hours every weekend on the island, in strategic bars. Something go click.

I am speaking from experience.

Trust me!

Hi.Didn't know you're still here.

Na wa o.Wetin 38yrs dey follow teenager for?
I guess it was a transaction.

There should be new laws for kidnapping.Expedite trial and hang them

May God make it easy for us.

Same way many youths make bad choices.....
Stay away from drugs young people.

Let's encourage more to speak up.Parents be close to your children so they can tell you what's going on in their lives.

Men stop the abuse.There's a day of reckoning.

Rapmoney:
'Type Of Way' By Rich Hommie Quan


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KKbdErJkiY&pp=ygULVHlwZSBvZiB3YXk%3D

They said this song was a hit.I had to listen to it.
E be like I don old.RIP Tupac and Biggie.

Woman dey marry woman.
All these tying of hair like woman.Mscheeeew

How do these yahoo boys/sextortionists sleep knowing their actions have led to a loss of life?
17 years in jail is not enough punishment for them.

The victim's mom is such a compassionate woman, she's still thinking about the mother of these idiots.

AllBlack:
too early. such a young guy.

Indeed too early.

I guess money played out at the end.

Mumu proposals everywhere.

Orinechi:
Died of complications! This is the impact of sorting to become a medical doctor. Only God will save us from the hands of incompetent doctors that we have now. Sorting has finished us

Where you see sorting?

E don be for them.

Prosecute them and apply the full weight of the law on them.As a matter of fact be more hard on them like some Asian countries do.

Anyone tarnishing the image of Nigeria should not be spared.

Sadly, it's just prison sentence he will get.It should be death penalty for people like this.

Unfortunately,he may not be given the death sentence.People like this are a waste of space on the earth.