Mannymanny:


First of all, does he make moves to initiate sex? Is he interested?

Yes but unfortunately his kini no b am.

AutoChick4U:
Yes but unfortunately his kini no b am.

U both didn’t get intimate before you got married?
Must be frustrating

Mannymanny:

U both didn’t get intimate before you got married?
Must be frustrating

we not married and I definitely cannot marry him. Best to be with who matches ur pace

AutoChick4U:
we not married and I definitely cannot marry him. Best to be with who matches ur pace

Ohhh you had me lost for a minute...
You can move on then

Mannymanny:

Ohhh you had me lost for a minute...
You can move on then

gracias

Kobojunkie:
um....The images came from your heart in the first place, so obviously your heart did initially OK It even if it eventually regretted it.

The devil is the one who put those thoughts in your mind, how your mind reacts to it by either going with the flow or rebuffing it is what I'm talking about.

enonche85:
The devil is the one who put those thoughts in your mind, how your mind reacts to it by either going with the flow or rebuffing it is what I'm talking about.

The devil does no such thing. As Jesus Christ took time to explain to you in Matthew 15 vs 10 - 20 and Mark 7 vs 13 - 23, all the sinful ideas and sins you commit stem from the fact that you have stored bad things, lies, in your heart. Jesus Christ never mentioned the devil anywhere in His explanation there in those passages.

And according to the same Jesus Christ, the only way to overcome those thoughts is through knowing - accepting and obeying- the Truth(God's Law which clearly defines for us what sin infact is) that one is then set free from bondage to sin by the Truth - John 8 vs 31 - 32

So, the one who put those thoughts in your mind is you everytime you submit yourself to lies and the only way to get those lies out of your mind,to rid yourself of the falsehoods that cause you to sin against God, is by submitting yourself instead to God's Truth.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are the one who is obviously not paying attention at all in this.

Again, according to Jesus Christ, the sin of adultery is committed when one sexually lusts in his heart after another. This is what Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 tells you. .

2. Why should I need to encourage her to marry? Are you under some delusion that everyone who has sexual urges are to marry or something?

And again, Jesus Christ, not I, is the one who told you that sexual lust is adultery, and anger is murder..... so if you have a problem with that, consider that you don't have a real relationship with Jesus Christ at all.

I pity you your type.
Stand there and conclude on people’s relationship I am what I am by the grace of God.
I knew that was going to be your last statement,judgemental .
If I had known you were that kind of person I would not have dignified you buy quoting you.
So Jesus told you anger is murder and he was angry at the temple.
And your bible said be angry and sin not.
And your Jesus said if your tight hand should cause you to sin you should cut it off.
How many people are amputated??
Go back and allow the Holy Spirit to teach you.
I will not Judge you like the Pharisees.

Achorise:
1. I pity you your type. Stand there and conclude on people’s relationship I am what I am by the grace of God.
I knew that was going to be your last statement, judgemental . If I had known you were that kind of person I would not have dignified you buy quoting you.

2. So Jesus told you anger is murder and he was angry at the temple. And your bible said be angry and sin not.
And your Jesus said if your tight hand should cause you to sin you should cut it off. How many people are amputated??

3. Go back and allow the Holy Spirit to teach you.
I will not Judge you like the Pharisees.

1. OK!

2. The same Jesus Christ also taught His followers that what in fact causes one to sin are the lies one stores up in one's heart - not the limbs and eyes, or any part of your body - Matthew 15 vs 10 - 20. It is because of this that Jesus Christ also taught His followers that it is only through continuous acceptance and obedience of His Truth- His teachings and commandments - that one can be set free from bondage to sin by the Truth and be transformed into a Son of God aka a Holy/Perfect vessel worthy of the very Spirit of God Himself - John 8 vs 31 - 32. So you tell me, why would a sane individual amputate his or her limbs given this knowledge of God's Truth?

3. Jesus Christ, my one and only Teacher for that matter, is exactly reason why your ignorance of His Truth does not phase me much.

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

I dont care if u are a single mum oh!!, if u are doing for a woman that means u have reduced the stress for a man a little bit, that mean i will like to have you, not just for friendship but something good

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Due to what you have seen as a woman I believe u have learn alot, i just want to shoot my short, am 6 ft and am nice to be with, pls dm i need your type... age is number at this time and generation

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Am ready to father ur kids zero 8 one 6 zero 6five 3 two 08

Last I remember, masturbation is simple and STD-free. Sex is not a necessity in life. I’ve never heard of anyone in the real world who died from not indulging in the act. Children on Nairaland think otherwise. My decades-long experience told me all I needed to know.