Hi Thanks for sharing, I too, had several experiences the first one I fell in love the first 3 mos was nice but he was jealous and controlling I knew he wasnt mine to keep. 2nd was after green card and I knew he wasnt for me, 3rd one I am currently communicating with him hes in Nigeria and we are planning to meet in the spring 2012. it took me a long time to accept him bec of bad experiences, he was very patient and kind yes we had some disagreement and I noticed he was very loving and he pursuded me for 3 years! its worth the wait, worth the time and effort to earn your trust and love, hes very attentive and caring, I will post more in the spring time, I know that not all Nigerian men are bad they comes from all walks of life wheather they re rich or poor, of course they make choices I want to say to all of you be a good keeper and do well with ur man. value him always. I will and am doing the same. Hugs to all of you.