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My name is Bella(Not real name). I am 42 years old, single with a very good career and I live very comfortably. A friend of mine encouraged me to post my story. Maybe I will get good advice here. But kindly post as anonymous. As I said, I am single but not by desire.

I have been in relationships, some lasted 6 months and some, three years but eventually…it didn’t work out and today, at the top of my career, the only child of my parents among my siblings that is not yet married and you know what that means when your younger siblings have children that are over 10 years old and call you big aunty. It’s embarrassing but what can I do…I can’t kill myself if I cant find a man that is ready to settle down with me…

I have dated rich guys, average guys, and even broke guys. All I want is a guy that can understand me and we can have a meaningful conversation as partners. Sadly…the closest guy to meet this description turned out to be married. After crying for days when I found out, I picked myself up and decided maybe it’s my faith to remain single.

However, my security man came to me last December. He told me that he wants to go back to his village for Christmas and he will not be returning. He has decided to go back and farm cos his father is old and needs his help with the farm. I have known Aminu (not real name) for over 8 years, he is a faithful security guard so I asked him to find someone who can replace him….someone he trusts.
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50,000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty. I felt she Betrayed me!
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https://tiktalkhub.com/my-wife-betrayed-me-pls-advise-iii/04/07/2021/

Davido’s right hand man, Obama DMW shared a video on his Instagram page about his health condition few days before his death.

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https://thepodiummedia.com/i-cant-take-this-anymore-obama-dmw-cries-out-before-his-death-video/29/06/2021/

Hmmmm it’s shocking

Davido’s close friend, Obama DMW died of suspected heart failure.

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https://thepodiummedia.com/davidos-close-associate-obama-dmw-is-dead/29/06/2021/

The Bitter Truth 1- (Love Story) - The Podium Media



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One cool evening in the month of April, Shade just realized that she was neck deep into a relationship with her best friend’s husband and she has no power to stop it. Shade and her best friend Adebisi had known each other from their primary school days, they practically considered themselves as Sisters as they loved each other so much or so we thought.
Shade lived with her grand mother because her mother was a single but wayward parent. Shade was raised by her grandmother. She never saw her mother, except once in a while. From Age 13, Shade worked with Adebisi’s mother as a sales girl in her store and That was how Shade and Adebisi became very close. Shade have always wanted to rise above her situation so she studied hard at school until after Secondary school when her grandmother could not raise money anymore for her to further her University education. All hope was totally lost when her grandmother finally died.
At the other hand, Adebisi her best friend, furthered her education immediately as she went on to study in the state University. In her final year in the University, Adebisi got engaged and in another one year, after her youth’s service, She married a successful business man named Stanley. She fell pregnant almost immediately and Because of how close the two friends were, Adebisi invited Shade to live with her as She was heavily pregnant and needed some one around as Her husband was always away due to his business.
When Shade arrived she really helped around the house as she assisted Adebisi with the house chores and she always cooked sumptuous meals. Shade was a fantastic cook and soon whenever Stanley was around he loved having meals Shade prepared, It was so obvious that Stanley had fallen for Shade due to her good cooking skills but Adebisi was not bothered as she was not even paying attention, she trust her best friend and her husband so much.
In no time Stanley who had picked interest in her wife’s best friend, began to ask Shade out, At first she declined. But when Stanley began to spoil her with expensive gifts and lots of cash. Shade fell for him shamelessly.
Few months later, Adebisi had delivered a bouncing baby boy, Shade really took proper care of her best friend. Adebisi was so impressed with Shade and one day, out of gratitude, she asked Shade “what are your dreams, tell me by the Grace of God?, I will fulfill your dreams”
Shade couldn’t utter a word as she doesn’t understand what Adebisi really meant. Adebisi saw the confusion in Shade’s eyes and she continued...
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https://thepodiummedia.com/the-bitter-truth-love-series/29/06/2021/