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Ehismarkninetee:
Anybody that says Ghana is better than Nigeria, is a big liar. Let me tell you the honest truth, Ghana is only better than Nigeria in aspect of electricity and security. But wait, isn’t that the key parameters to measure if a country is doing good?

I came to Ghana in 2021, I can’t say it’s the worst decision of my life. But I have had my own fair share of the popular saying “This is Accra, Cry your Cry” omo, it has been hard, but I cannot say that there hasn’t been days that were extremely good.

I came into this country using an iPhone 7, now I am using an iPhone 12 Pro Max, it was in this country I met davido one on one. This time last year I was a millionaire here in Ghana. So u see, I cannot say Ghana has been bad to me.

Fast forward to today, I am penniless. At the verge of being thrown to the street. House rent is due in few weeks time. No money for bank account, I don’t even know where the money will come from. I have contemplated returning back to Nigeria, but am I going to borrow the money to do so? Even if I return back to Nigeria now, will I return back to my father’s house? These are the questions.

Well, for now. I think I have to keep being positive and remain on my grind, hoping for God to make a way for me. That’s my only hope.

I am also a 29 year old Nigerian who moved to Accra in 2020.

Truly the cost of living is higher in Ghana when compared to Nigeria, while Electricity and Security is a big plus here.

But brother, you need to quit winning and understand that the grass is green where you water the ground

If you say you were once a millionaire in Accra, then you need to remember the child of who you are as you take care of your expenditures.

You don't have to stereotype Accra as if that's the main problem.

I live an OK life in North Kaneshie, Orgle rd to be precise and I live way below my means.

Fulani Vampires..

Naso so blood dem like.

Private security for public safety

Unserious fellows.

jackals:
I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care?

This is stereotypical of you.

That is not a men's thing, it is a human thing, women also do the same.

Then you just met someone and you are already testing them for consistency?

It look like you have some self esteem issue here, something like trust issue...

Don't you know that a man can be consistent for 5years and change after the 5th year?

Sis, work on you self esteem ... I can smell Impostor syndrome + Trust issues here...

Just be yourself and flow with the vibes, everything either fail or pass the test of time

Get to know people naturally, not by testing.

It's okay to be embarrassed, it's okay to feel awkward, it's okay to make mistake when you meet someone new

But time will tell, if the relationship will stand or not.

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Try to be modest in everything you do, also make sure you are at the giving end and not the receiving end.

You went out with a guy, you were yourself, and I believe you expressed yourself the way you are, then impostor syndrome sets in and ruin your mindset towards yourself.

Sister, that guy might have sensed that you couldn't accept who you are, and you have given him good reason to make tangible conclusions about you.

My advice to you is that, you work on your Impostor syndrome, be natural.

If you are the sort of person that go all out on people and give your best smile, your best hugs, your best attention... Accept that and don't feel bad whenever you express yourself in such manner, a guy who love that will accept you for it.

I also see that you are not open minded enough, you are the type that stereotype men, you thought this guy would treat you less because you felt that you have thrown yourself on him

That a public perception of men...

Anyways there are better ways to adjust rather than ignoring his text and calls, please where did you learn that style of communication from?

Stop it, that is miscommunication.

The only thing you should do right now is give him a call, act maturely and apologize for ignoring his call...

You owe him some explanation, and make sure you tell him the exact truth of what happened.

This will portray you as an honest person... Tell him you were embarrassed the last day and it's because it's been a while you went on a date.

Promise him it won't happen again and that you figure everything out already.

If he likes honest women, he will stick around, otherwise, he is not the one for you.

But remember, always be yourself and never feel bad about it.

Shalom.

You are on point.

bennybuhari:
ordinary EFCC is enough

That will be a mere wild goose chase.

PointZerom:
Forget it,
Before he made that declaration Buhari must have assured him of total surport.

Even Buhari cannot stand in Jagaban's way.

Mehn he look so good without the beards.

PointZerom:
He will not fall once APC give him their ticket.

I agree with you, unfortunately he won't get that ticket.

bennybuhari:
I think Osunbajo is the real political strategist here, not Tinubu. He carefully executed his plans months ago

He would fall flat like an egg dropped on a rock top.

BAT