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Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 5:09pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
quisera: I wish i had cheated on him at least for him to have a taste of his medicine.. |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 2:36pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
divineuk: Please read and assimilate my post very well.. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 2:21pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
LabuleofNigeria: Believe me, if he had lived up to the expectation I needed in the relationship, I won't be in the mess of the bestie/friendship brouhaha.. He knows that i am introvert and hardly mingle with people and that been said, I have told him times without number that i wish that he knows so much a lot about me and what i am capable of doing if something rises up about me.. |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 2:14pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
gwininfo: Thank you, I am definitely going to work on this ☝️ |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 2:11pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Palema007: Advice noted.. I will curtail the friendship aspect with my colleague too Thanks |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 2:08pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
GoldenJAT: Yea. I won't blame you calling me naive, I know all these things but just purposely ignore because I always hope that one day he will change.. I won't even surprise that I will mumushily get back to him if he comes back tomorrow.. |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 5:01am On Jun 24, 2020 |
1beat: If he had given me that opportunity, he knows that I would be open to him |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 1:38am On Jun 24, 2020 |
Mandela27: Thank you |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 1:32am On Jun 24, 2020 |
NobleSeed: It wasn't a business chat either... It was a case of confidentiality and it came at the wrong time.. |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 1:28am On Jun 24, 2020 |
NobleSeed: There’s a particular chat I had the previous night with him and believe me i can't deem fit to show someone else.. NB: It is not a sex chat |
Romance / Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 1:24am On Jun 24, 2020 |
henrybomb: All the the fights we have had over the course of the relationship was nothing serious about... He can just wake up and decide to ignore me for like weeks or months and all those times, I will be the one begging for the attention.. I decided to stop those nonsenses this year and then he started stalking me, when we made up over the phone, he agreed on catching up only for him to come up with this too.. I relayed to my best friend, he said that I should sort things out with him even if it will cost our friendship because he knows I loved the dude genuinely.. My problem now is whether to make the 1st move |
Romance / Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 1:11am On Jun 24, 2020 |
I am active member here, reason for the pseudo account. Long post alert : I was/have been in a relationship with him for years, initially it was all rosy till he began to switch on/off at intervals.We hardly request for anything from each other because we both work and contented with the little we earn. Each time I sense that he wants to be left alone, I quietly give him his space. I have tried times without number to make him open up to me but it will all seem like a waste which makes me to retreat all the time. Mind you, he knows that i love him and practically can do anything or forgive him anytime he messes up. Our last fight before this was that he called me during working hours and wanted to know if I was chanced to meet him then i asked him if all was well with him, he became angry and dropped the call. I tried reaching out to him for months but he intentionally avoided me, after 3 to 4 months of my efforts, I decided to let him be to concentrate on myself and others, he started stalking me on all online platforms. We later settled though. To the main issue for this post, I have a colleague at work, we discuss practically everything and anything. My other colleagues knows that we are both best friends and nothing else, we also make fun of ourselves on 'stories'. But the issue is that my boyfriend thinks something is beyond that our friendship and that i have things i am hiding from him. To be honest, my best friend has confided a lot to me that i promised him that it would stay between us. Mind you, we have never sex chatted nor call ourselves romantic names of any sorts. So recently, after making up with my fiance, he wanted to meet up with me after so many months, I obliged, only for him to request for my phone, I gave him voluntarily, as he was going through it, he wanted to open the chat I had with my best friend but I forcefully collected the phone from him. I tried talking him out that there's nothing going on between me and my colleague but he assumed and concluded that something is going on between us . He said that my attitude shows that I value my best friend more than him but i tried proving him wrong because some many times, I needed his attention he wasn't there and my best friend is the only one who knows everything and vice versa.. He told me right through my eyes that it is over. Besides, he had once forcefully collected his phone from me sometimes last year when i was updating his WhatsApp for him and I mistakenly stumbled upon a chat of him with a lady.. I never made a case about it with him Honest Truth : I have never involved myself in any sexual act with my best friend or any man apart from my fiance.. I value both my friendship and relationship but my fiance is making me to choose Please i need your genuine opinion Help a sister Was i wrong What advice would you give to me Please i don't wish for it to make Frontpage because either of them would see and know who's behind the post because they are both members but not active� Modified : the content of the chat I had with my colleague was about my fiance and there were so many provoking words in it, reason i did what i did because I never intended hurting him |
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