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Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Kwinesther: 3:00pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Angelacruz:God bless you for this comment...she will regret it if she marries such a man. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by GoldenJAT(m): 3:13pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Tiredagain:And the circle continues!! So of what use is the advice you seek here?? When you know the end game already!! Listen up!! He is treating you the exact way you want to be treated. When he is done toiling with your emotion, please do not seek for advice with another monicker. One final word!! Where there is no respect! There is no LOVE. 3 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Lucyspa: 3:14pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Tiredagain: Let that man GO. He doesn't love and may never will. I have been there twice so i am basically talking out of experience. Being an introvert has a lot of disadvantages that i really hate as l am also one. It limits you and put you in a box for the rest of your life if u are not careful. I wish u would set yourself free from the shackles of introversion. U can and u will. Sis, let him go. Nobody ghosts the one that he truly loves. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by lecturerdabo(m): 3:16pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
I am surprised most people are harping on "opposite sex besties"! Is there any law against that? I've had a female best friend for close to a decade now. we are both married though she was single when we started even till date my wife refers to her as my first daughter. THE KEY IS TO ALWAYS DEFINE THE BOUNDARIES FROM THE BEGINNING!!! @Op, If everything you wrote there is the truth, I will posit that your boyfriend should be allowed to go cos there is nothing as bad in a relationship as trust issues! When once to partner cannot trust you, the relationship is ruined!! Seems he enjoy having you run after him and begging to be accepted. If he can afford to ignore you for months without reason when you are neither married nor living together, imagine what will happen when he starts waking up every morning to see your face! I may be wrong but... 2 Likes |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by luscioustrish(f): 3:20pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Just move on with your life 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Mandela27: 3:36pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:See ur craw craw head,continue having male bestfriends and men will keep dumping ur ass .who get time for incompetent girls now |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Sixfeetbelle: 3:37pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Mandela27: Why are you pained though? |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by LabuleofNigeria: 3:53pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
lecturerdabo: You claim your wife refers to her as your first daughter Have you ever got to keep your female best friend friendship as a secret away from your wife unlike the OP ? Have you always got scared and got deep secrets (that your wife musnt see or know) between you & your said female bestie unlike the OP ? Read her post properly before conluding on lack of trust from the guy. Your wife knows your female friends very well and feels secure with her around you, thats why she has guts to trust & call her your 1st daughter. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by quisera(m): 4:08pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Mandela27:Baba chop knuckle jareh.... Bitter truth@Op |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Mandela27: 4:14pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:I'm not pained sis. I mean for what reason |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Dfynboi: 4:15pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
u don't see ur fellow gals to befriend na male na im u dy make bestie,God knw i cn't have anything serious wit a gal dt has a guy as bestie cus las las the male bestie will stil end up fucking d bitch |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by blinking001(m): 4:18pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Funny people. You didnt see other women to make besties with. Male bestie fire. Be truthful to yourself madam. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by themaestro08(m): 4:38pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Tiredagain: He said its over right? Let him be and move on 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by quisera(m): 4:59pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Tiredagain:This statement confirms that the Op is a cheat. Someone advised you to dump ur guy and work on your relationship with your male bestie and u're glad about it, even offering to give it a trial. Madam you think friendship and relationship na the same thing abi? No worry ur eyes go neat....mtcheew 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Tiredagain: 5:09pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
quisera: I wish i had cheated on him at least for him to have a taste of his medicine.. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
I will not take side,you should have just allowed him read whatever he wants to read in your phone since you know you are not hiding anything,all men have problems of insecurity in relationships,your actions just trigger it the more.what are you even doing with a male bestie when you already have a fiancee |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by NobleDeSage001: 5:25pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Your boyfriend ought to be your best friend. From the look of things, your relationship with him is simply very faulty. There is no love, maturity or even understanding. If you end up marrying this your boyfriend, you may be in for a lifetime of pain and anguish in your marriage. You have seen the red flags early enough. So, decide if you can tolerate his wack attitude for life. Two persons who truly love each other can hardly spend a day without talking to each other. If your man stays for months before reaching out to you, then, something is definitely wrong. In the final analysis, you just need to choose who to stick with henceforth; your boyfriend or your best friend. From the way you are going with your best friend, it's just a matter of time before you both get down on each other. Just time, it won't take long... |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Angelacruz: 5:26pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Dis is exactly wat happened to one of my frds.But now d dude wan go marry anoda gal.Babe was heartbroken. Kwinesther: |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by LabuleofNigeria: 5:26pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Rozz: Thats the point....Intelligence spotted 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by SavageMaster: 5:32pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
ibkonekt: Are they married? |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by ibkonekt(m): 5:45pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
SavageMaster: do they have to be? you do understand the meaning of fiance. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
That on and off is a very big red flag, he could be seeing someone else on the side. Secondly I believe he just wanted an excuse to break up. Lastly you are not totally innocent either keeping a close male bestie u are not ready to let go makes some guys walk away or not want to be too emotionally invested to avoid heartbreak. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by ibkonekt(m): 5:46pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Rozz:the reason for insecurity is that 90% of women cheat...these hoes aint loyal |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
ibkonekt:when you talk of cheat,it is mostly associated with men,they believe it is their birthright |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Rozz:Men cheat agreed but not all, women are cheating at an alarming rate now. A lady will be engaged with wedding day fixed and still wants to hook up with another for dick appointment. Eyes don see things ooo, fear women. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by tunize(m): 6:30pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
roybanjo100:why calling her witch don't u have sense abi na she cause ur problem for life? just open ur mouth anyhow to abuse ppl. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by bukatyne(f): 6:47pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Tiredagain: 1. What do you need a male 'bestie' for when you have a boyfriend? 2. Why have you refused to place a premium on yourself that your emotions and body becomes easy entry and exit for your boyfriend? You are telling your boyfriend that your male friend is more available than him: are they playing same role in your life or why the competition? You also know your boyfriend doesn't love you or value you. Yet, you will keep going off and on till you are stuck and get married to him. You will now open a fresh moniker three years later wailing how your husband is scum. As for your male friend, if he is not good enough for a relationship, stop investing too much emotions in that friendship. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Waylex21(m): 6:48pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Your boyfriend is a psycho. If you can hardly understand him now that you guys are dating, you have a messed up man who's actually a baby in your hands when married. The one we want to end our lives with should be like a best friend forever somebody, not a moody, confused and obsessive brat. This your relationship with your fiance will only end in tears. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by Omoluabi16(m): 6:54pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
You're in a relationship with a man child. |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by reservd(m): 6:56pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
I don't support u having a male bestie but the fact is; ur so called relationship is not an healthy one, his immature attitude of switching off for months? That's terrible, if you like continue with it, don't come here to complain in the nearest future o, if u allow love blind u, oyo is ur case |
Re: Was I Wrong... I Need An Honest Opinion. by LabuleofNigeria: 6:58pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
bukatyne: Intelligent..... youve just got +1 follower |
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