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Education is not preparation
for life; education is life
itself....................

The function of education is
to teach one to think
intensively and to think
critically. Intelligence plus
character - that is the goal
of true education.

The greatness of a country is never determined by their population or resources but it is by the credibility of the super minds amongst them......

When mothers
and fathers use a coaching
style of parenting, their
children become more resilient.
The kids who are Emotion-
Coached still get sad, angry, or
scared under difficult
circumstances, but they are
better able to soothe
themselves, bounce back from
distress, and carry on with
productive activities. In other
words, they are more
emotionally intelligent.

"Family life is our first school
for emotional learning, " writes
Daniel Goleman, psychologist
and author of Emotional
Intelligence, a book that
describes in rich detail the
scientific research that has led
to our growing understanding
of this field. "In this intimate
cauldron we learn how to feel
about ourselves and how others
will react to our feelings; how
to think about these feelings
and what choices we have in
reacting; how to read and
express hopes and fears. This
emotional schooling operates not
just through the things parents
say and do directly to children,
but also in the models they
offer for handling their own
feelings and those that pass
between husband and wife.
Some parents are gifted
emotional teachers, others
atrocious."

parent-child interactions
typically happens in five steps.
The parents:
1. become aware of the child's
emotion;
2. recognize the emotion as an
opportunity for intimacy and
teaching;
3. listen empathetically,
validating the child's feelings;
4. help the child find words to
label the emotion he is having;
and
5. set limits while exploring
strategies to solve the problem
at hand.

With more than half of all
marriages now ending in
divorce, millions of children are
at risk for problems many social
scientists have linked to family
dissolution. These problems
include school failure, rejection
by other children, depression,
health challenges, and antisocial
behavior. Such problems can also
affect children from unhappy,
conflict-ridden homes even
when their parents don't
divorce. Our own research shows
that when a couple constantly
fights, their conflict gets in
the way of their child's ability
to form friendships. We also
found that marital conflict
affects a child's schoolwork and
increases the child's
susceptibility to illness. We now
know that a major result of the
epidemic of ailing and dissolving
marriages in our society is an
increase in deviant and violent
behavior among children and
teenagers.

parent-child interactions
typically happens in five steps.
The parents:
1. become aware of the child's
emotion;
2. recognize the emotion as an
opportunity for intimacy and
teaching;
3. listen empathetically,
validating the child's feelings;
4. help the child find words to
label the emotion he is having;
and
5. set limits while exploring
strategies to solve the problem
at hand.
parent-child interactions
typically happens in five steps.
The parents:
1. become aware of the child's
emotion;
2. recognize the emotion as an
opportunity for intimacy and
teaching;
3. listen empathetically,
validating the child's feelings;
4. help the child find words to
label the emotion he is having;
and
5. set limits while exploring
strategies to solve the problem
at hand.

Children whose parents
consistently practice Emotion
Coaching have better physical
health and score higher
academically than children
whose parents don't offer such
guidance. These kids get along
better with friends, have fewer
behavior problems, and are less
prone to acts of violence. Over
all, children who are Emotion-
Coached experience fewer
negative feelings and more
positive feelings. In short,
they're more healthy
emotionally.

For parents, this quality of
"emotional intelligence"-- as
many now call it-- means being
aware of your children's
feelings, and being able to
empathize, soothe, and guide
them. For children, who learn
most lessons about emotion
from their parents, it includes
the ability to control impulses,
delay gratification, motivate
themselves, read other people's
social cues, and cope with life's
ups and downs

[b][/b]In the last decade or so, science
has discovered a tremendous
amount about the role emotions
play in our lives. Researchers
have found that even more than
IQ, your emotional awareness
and ability to handle feelings
will determine your success and
happiness in all walks of life,
including family relationships.