₦airaland Forum

Liliantalks:
men like you are the reason for it .

And ladies like you are what,marriage policy/game changers?

Liliantalks:
hope u r aware that after God is ur wife? Most of u men r just bullies n like arguing authority like babies !! Get a grip of urself !!! U all r the reason feminist exist !! U can’t submit to ur wife ? Why ? Because she’s a slave that I control , mean while u men don’t know the in-depth of that word submission!! U are the head of the home but u both r authorities to each other !! Understand that .

I know u are writing one long ass epistle quoting the Bible up and down ,, there is bible n there is reality !! Use ur brain n also ur biblical knowledge, do not use the Bible as a means of calling women slaves .?

When you get married,share authorities with your husband.I don't banter nor trade words with ladies.

Liliantalks:
u dont even understand the meaning of the word submission, u think it’s about slavery but it’s not !! I plan to be submissive to my husband but not like the way it is in ur head !!

True submission are usually misinterpreted by feminism theories as slavery.

Liliantalks:
it does!! As a Man U hv ur own ways of showing submissions , same with a woman , ur wife has control over you in different ways ,, u are scared of doing so many things in other not to loss ur marriage,, uncle that submission

A man who loves his wife unconditionally isn't in any way under her submission,rather it's as the bible posited.It depends on what you understand by submission though.

Liliantalks:
as a married man who’s the most important in ur life ? Who r u mandated to be faithful to ,, and emotionally satisfy ?

faithfulness, emotional satisfaction and so on does not connote to submission. They come with the institution of marriage by default.

Liliantalks:
the man is the head fine , so u assume because of that he can’t summit to his wife ? What’s submission to you

Submission can mean acceptance of authority from a higher force or power.
No man should submit to a lady.A lady's input is considered an opinion,while the man vetoes.

Liliantalks:
why not ?

Cos even the bible says submission belongs to the lady,the man is the head.

lefulefu:
not all..some are unfortunate in getting married to irresponsible men but majority do get good submissve men as husbands

A man should be good and responsible, but not submissive to a lady.

Millenniumlady:
Better don't try ruin your life cause if you borrow him now that you guys are dating you'll borrow him when you guys are married.....That's if he didn't ask you to borrow him to pay your bride price the best thing you can do for him now is to use get some food stuff for him but don't try the mistake of giving him money cause he might use that money to invite a girl over....set awong borr[color=#990000][/color]owers

You are always on the misguided side of events,especially on nairaland.

Olunmercy56:
Thank you! Even if his wife is wicked, his children can't be so foolish to listen or follow their father's instructions. Something is fishy

It's 'always" fishy when the man appears to be the victim...traits of feminism

Angelinastto:
Later they'll complain of loosing their marriages to side chicks.... Wives need to watch it abeg!
Poster please try talking to her or her mom about it to fulfil all righteousness.

Are you a side chic?

okomile:
How is he sure that she was cheating?

Woman goes out to work and husband is suspicious of her movements!

Had similar experience before and he is regretting it now but it is too late!

He should work and I will sit back to eat. Lobatan

How are you sure she didn't cheat? I bet you wouldn't have said the same if it's the other way round.Your case/experience might be different from the one in context... I condemn the man's mode of approach though.

Do not disrespect the standing rules of a government or a security operative carrying arms,most deaths recorded was avoidable.




Rip to the dead

lepasharon:
He has already been convicted

My lady,the 'suspect " is still been held in custody and prosecution is underway. He would be in prison as a convict (not a suspect) if found guilty.

lefulefu:
thats why its best to avoid women that might get u into trouble when in a foreign land.

Now that settles it bro.Stay safe!

lefulefu:
if the guy is innocent the girl will have to go in for it too.but if the bros really forced himself on the girl to have sex omo he is guilty.anyway what would make an ashawo to accuse a random stranger of rape if he didnt do anything to her.

white whores and their weird lifestyle who do drugs most of the time.Honestly,I suspect a case of misinterpreted intentions.

lefulefu:
i am very sure the guy is much guilty as charged.that character of refusing to pay ashawo before having sex with her and forcing urself on her is much common with naija guys who tag themselves as sharp guys.if u do such in naija they wont tag it rape since na ashawo but since the guy is in a civilised environment where things work he got arrested.bet he had to carry his typical naija attitude to europe instead of dropping it in naija.

It's just your speculation, the guy is innocent until proven guilty by law.A lot of conspiracy against the blacks out there bro.I'm telling you from experience.So what happens after the whole saga and the guy is proven innocent,or do you think it's not obtainable?

Justbehave:
Nah..She is lost already.Damaged beyond repair.

You are so right my brother,I pity guys who would end up with some of these ladies as wives.

Millenniumlady:
I think you should be more concern about your neck missing in your body

I understand your problems, but I'm neither a psychiatrist nor a counsellor.You really need help my lady.

Justbehave:
DOES she even know her parents? SMH

She really needs moral, psychological and a balanced mentality. Obviously she wasn't shown love enough while growing up She needs all the help.

Millenniumlady:
Old enough to conduct an obesity surgery on you

You are a colossal disgrace and embarrassment to future wives and mothers out there.The chances of you being raised by a single parent is very high.

Millenniumlady:
Ladies divorce any man that ask for DNA if you can trust him enough to open your legs for him then why can't he give the same trust to you This is why i stylishly ask any person I'm dating on his opinion about DNA if accept it I'll just break up with him

How old are you?

baiaon:
You should have ignored that old fool.I am surprised he didnt attach another dumb Obama photo to his silly post.It doesn't take much thought to figure out the issue between the Nigerian man and Hungarian woman is payment but trust Nigerians to always believe the worst about themselves.The Nigerian embassy in Hungary should do their job and hire a lawyer for him

My thoughts exactly.

irunoko:
ok so public sex is ok na.since it is ok then don't complain when someone is fuckinng in front of your house

My brother just stay safe,it's been nice engaging you in the argument. Anyone who wishes to fvck in front of my house is free,so far it's not inside my compound which is prohibited by law.

irunoko:
stop all this sugar coating.you see this is the problem we have with nigeria.nobody wants to say the truth again as it is.if you say the truth they will say he's too emotional



Scan through nairaland, twitter and other sites and see people who were arrested for fucking in the car in public or in the Bush.IN NIGERIA IT IS A CRIMINAL OFFENCE CALLED PUBLIC INDECENCY.theres a jail term for that

If fok is hungering anybody go to the nearest hotel and satisfy your konji

Those are bye laws and they are flexible with a very light option of fine or community services.In the full weight and rigidity of the Nigerian constitution even as amended,your case is null and void.

irunoko:
this is not an issue of morality or emotions,this is about basic decorum and ethics.

Imagine you are walking with your family or kids and they saw that sight.fine your wife can put 2+2 together because she's an adult,how about your young kids?

Getting exposed to pornographic sights at that age?


So they too will think ok because I'm hornny the next thing is to bring out my pen1s like an animal who has no capacity to reason and be fucking in an open space where people are passing by.abi of konji hook you that bad, can't you go to the next roadside hotel or Inn?


Isn't that what roadside hotels are created for? For people like you who have no control over their bodies or genitals?

When and how does this transcends to personal references? I was only trying to tell you the stand of law in it.I'm not against morality and social ethics,just so you know,your analysis are riddled with emotions,and not logical. I'm strong proponent of moralism too but my analysis are professional which is without prejudice.

lefulefu:
ur parents sent u overseas to go and study but na woman matter u come carry for head.some ppl need to undergo serious reorientation before they get off the continent of africa.they will now deport u and all the money ur parents raised by selling land to send u overseas gone down the drain.

It's an 'alleged" case of rape.Do not make conclusions yet,cos rape cases are usually complicated in some cases.

Dannyozs:
the only reason they would go free from charges is because of the lockdown order, thats assuming movement is not normal.

On any other day, if its proven they were having sex, especially unclothed, they would be heavily fined or face jail time. It has happened times before.

morality and law are different positions...their act was morally wrong but otherwise in law.

irunoko:
of course.by a sick and twisted judge

court judgements aren't whipped byYNext emotions and sentiments,what is moral is moral,what is law is law.Next time try to separate morality from law.

mofeoluwadassah:
And you want to be well after all these things you said you’ve done of which i know you’ll still go back to

This is what you get when you can’t control your prick to stay in one place

This is totally uncalled for.The Op.needs advice not blames.

irunoko:
constituting a public nuisance, public indecency,pornography, exhibitionism,disrespect for the sensibilities of others passing by or children

All the charges above lacks merit and would be struck out in a court of competent jurisdiction.