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papiSNEH:
there was a saying then :- "ogbono no be soup na manage we dey manage am."
if person try talk am now, wo na 2by2 dem go use follow am up

PheelzAlmighty:
I hope he is happy now...


All these jobless men with raging hormones and irregular erections. Castrate the dimwit already

Consray:
What's she even enjoying in a boy of 12 years old

mu2sa2:
Liberal Christian orchestrating the butchering of fellow Christians in the ongoing madness with ukraine

wiseone28:
Wetin person go talk make bot no see as offensivè

busariabeyx24:
Why I Want to Separate from My Wife

Our relationship has become emotionally unsustainable for me, and after long periods of silence, inner conflict, and attempts to make things work, I have come to the difficult conclusion that separation is the healthiest path forward—for both of us. There are several deeply rooted issues that have contributed to this decision, and I believe it’s important to lay them out clearly.

1. Lack of Intimacy and Weaponization of Sex
Intimacy has all but vanished in our relationship. What’s more painful is that she uses sex as a tool—to control, punish, or manipulate. This has left me feeling undesired, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned. Intimacy is not just physical, it's also about connection, vulnerability, and shared closeness—and we have none of that left.

2. Emotional Abandonment and Loneliness
While she often chooses to go out and spend hours with her friends, I’m left alone in the house, feeling isolated and neglected. Even when we’re in the same space, we’re disconnected. Her priorities have shifted away from our relationship and family, and I feel like a ghost in my own home.

3. Neglect of Parental Responsibilities
Despite being a trained teacher, she makes no effort to support the children academically. Their homework, school needs, and learning challenges fall entirely on me, even though I’m also the primary provider. It hurts to watch our children miss out on guidance that she’s perfectly capable of giving.

4. Communication Breakdown
We barely talk. When we do, it's either transactional or tense. There's no emotional sharing, no joint planning, no meaningful conversation. We exist like two strangers under the same roof.

5. Disregard for My Input and Support
Time and again, I’ve offered her advice that could have helped her avoid unnecessary stress or mistakes, but she disregards me—only to later face the exact consequences I warned about. It feels like my voice has no value in her life.

6. Encouraging Poor Habits in the Kids
She not only neglects the kids’ school work, but she also encourages them to go to the next neighborhood to play or hang out—at times when they should be studying or resting. It undermines my efforts to instill discipline and focus in our children.

7. Lack of Respect for My Hustle
She shows no interest or concern in how I make money, the pressure I’m under, or the sacrifices I make to keep the family going. There’s no appreciation, no empathy, just entitlement and expectation. I feel invisible, like a machine that’s supposed to produce without rest or recognition.

8. Misplaced Priorities
Her life seems to revolve around eating, watching TV, and spending hours gossiping with friends. There’s little to no effort toward improving our household, our relationship, or our children’s future. That kind of passivity is damaging, not just for our marriage but for our family as a whole.

9. Manipulation by Friends
She allows her so-called friends to influence how she treats me, even to the point of disrespect. Rather than defending or standing by me as a partner, she lets their words shape her actions against me. This betrayal by proxy is incredibly painful.

10. Ongoing Emotional Disregard
As I write this, she has been outside gossiping with a friend for over three hours—leaving me inside, emotionally abandoned once again. This isn’t an isolated event; it’s a pattern. I’ve begged for her time, attention, and partnership, but she chooses others over and over again.

D00msDay:
Seun wetin I do u. Any small thing na ban. I was banned for just opening a thread, yet some people's here are allowed to throw tantrums around without getting banned. I smell selective justice.🤔

ghettochild:
Sometimes na bad company dey influence these women.... am sure she must have complained to friends about her lack of sexual fulfillment from her man for them to have advised her..
Instead of discussing with her man how she must be pleasured to get maximum satisfaction....
Now she just have sex with the men to please him...and gets her satisfaction from the toys.

okomile:
At least she did not bring a man to the house or caught with man

Leave Tory for Mathias ooo

id4sho:
Naija is the hottest Chic on the block

JoeRizzla:
I thought as you grow older you become more wiser and smarter ?
Serves him right, a lesson to his age mates that are preparing to do the same....

I'm sure he wouldn't do the same for nigga

dominique:
👆🏼👆🏼Tell me you're bitter and jealous without telling me you're bitter and jealous.

FactFactory:
Dude is looking for a male child; and a wife less in age of this one by 10 years.

merits:
All these on top of one expired and and condemned pussy ooo wasting of resources.

We4all:
Fine couple. But what's with men and their ungroomed beards? It's irritating.