Bro....in most churches,youth think having feelings or sexual urge at a young age is a sin but its not...the bible told us to abstain(flee) fornication..well the church cannot give you a two bedroom flat or give you money for wedding...check your spiritual experiences if they are genuine,then pray for breakthru in your finances....I believe God will settle you.

To come out of this problem,firstly,you must have an encounter with Jesus,that is,you must be born again..secondly,stop porns to avoid lustful desires

The education system in Nigeria is bad...parents should encourage their children to learn a skill