₦airaland Forum

CodeTemplarr:
You have sweetmouth o. By the time your canteen managers loot you dry you go no say money get wings and im dey fly.

tommy589:
Good number of people with landed properties in big cities are experiencing financial difficulties and are selling.You will buy cheap and sell at millions of profit in months. Have some real estate experience in your location before getting involve. Outside this,I don't know what 100M or more is what doing

Carndidlaydid:
Why... You don't wanna have evidence of the fact that betting ruins you bah?

ObalendeCMS:
As a former Y! Boy, I can relate.

So painful!

I feel it's nature's way of punishing you for all those funds that was illegally picked.

ImmanuelMyron:
Where I live now in lekki, there's 24/7 light and i wanted to stop fast food cos it's taking alot of money from me everyday. Idk which cooker to buy.

My first option is Electric Burner Hotplate, that only use electric no gas and all.
And my second option is gas cylinder.
With heater Hotplate, I wont spend on anything expect electricity or cylinder that I'll have to be refilling.
Image below!!!

Bea1234:
Instagram blocked my account and asked me to upload my ID (birth certificate or nin) but I don't have it

Who knows any app I can use to create it?

Carndidlaydid:
I know exactly how you feel. Really sorry about your ordeal but gambling is a dangerous addiction that may even be worse than alcoholism or pornography.

It will lead you to all manner of immorality just to cover up for your losses and the drive to chase your losses. You will lie, steal, become desperate, anxious, restless and you will even crave solitude more than anything else. It will strain your relationships and degrade your level of attention to more relevant things because all you will be thinking of is how to bet or recoup your lost bets.

Donating money for you isn't the solution now. Cos whatever you get, you will still bet. No matter how much you deceive yourself that you won't.

Now, read the following carefully;

1. Tell your mother what has happened. What's the worst than can happen? She would prefer to bear the loss of money than bear your demise if you kill yourself. You will be scolded and might be insulted. That's okay, you deserve it after all.

2. Write on a piece of paper or type these words on a piece of paper and paste in your room or on a book you use regularly. "Gambling will not make me rich, instead it will impoverish and destroy me. Make sure it is visible for you to see everyday.

3. Close all your online betting account. It's the fastest way to depression. If you cannot close it, call their customer care to help you disable the account.

4. Find an accountability partner. Find someone who you know can hold you accountable and to whom you are willing to be accountable to. Might be your mum but preferably a sibling, a close friend or your girlfriend. The person must be a serious minded person who cares about you and who is also not struggling with gambling addiction. If they are trustworthy enough, save your money with them going forward. Never be too confident that today's experience has taught you enough lesson. It's a lie. You cannot manage your own finances for now.

5. Avoid visiting bet shops for any reason. Whether it is to go and charge or watch football or see a friend or just to watch others betting. Please avoid it by all means necessary. Liken it to a slaughterhouse where ritualists slaughter humans. Well so, because gambling will kill you eventually.

6. Your life is worth way more than N960k.
Will you suffer for your actions? Yes.
Will you suffer forever? No.
Learn from this mistake and gather yourself together. Start an aggressive saving culture from 100 naira to as much as you can. Deprive yourself of any unnecessary indulgence or enjoyment. You actually do not deserve it after this loss. Let that be your penance. Save, save, save and save. Go out and get busy; an idle mind is the devil's workshop. Hustle as if your mum is in a life threatening condition in the hospital and you were asked to raise some money for her surgery (God forbid that). I'm sure you'd do anything legal to find that money...... Yeah, hustle with that type of mindset. Your life depends on it.

7. I am writing this as someone who has experienced firsthand the destruction and havoc gambling have wrecked in people's lives; from established businessmen in the East to bankers in the West and students in the South South. I have seen it all while I volunteered for GambleAlert. Marriages have broken, jobs lost, businesses ruined, trust eroded, relationships wasted, talents destroyed, lives wasted just because of gambling. Trust me, it's as destructive as drug addiction. I hope one day I will be able to write a book on it.

8. Do not think you can break free in one day. Like every addiction, it takes a gradual process to break free. Too bad we have more bet shops and betting ambassadors than we have betting addiction support groups in Nigeria. You will be tempted to return especially when you remember your losses. You will see yourself starting with small amounts thinking you can control your spending limits but gradually, you will find yourself doing big numbers again. My advise in this regard is that if you are not using your smartphone to earn money, do away with it for now. Use a small phone for communication, at least for 3 months. Whenever you are thinking of betting, think of how it has ruined lives and I mean promising lives. No one gets rich by gambling. The betting companies are not philanthropic organisations.

9. Finally, my bro, I am guessing you reside in the SouthEast. From my experience with GambleAlert, the S/E is the most burdened with this social menace. You'd see businessmen once doing well suddenly became paupers because of addictive gambling. Please run o my brother.

Gambling has and will continue to ruin many lives. When I am more settled, I intend to push forward an NGO that will fight for heavy regulation of gambling in Nigeria.
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Carndidlaydid:
First kill the bookies then move onto porn


Likes of pjtech pinkNature samueltemi337 mrwhite09 realitykings alphanugget obalendecms etc will become a free and responsible men

vb0mb:
Share the petition. I will encourage about 500 people to sign.

somethinggood:
lols. I have come to a conclusion that her seeing no smoke on some persons is due to the fact that they are either terminally ill, or incomplete either due to fractures or missing body components.

eejo:
Fellow Nigerians, things have gone out of control for the average citizen and the Leaders seems not to understand. High unemployment, poverty, and death roam our street without fear. Nigerians needs help and it on the way. A new Nigeria is coming where the following will be a reality
Free Education from Primary to first degree level
Free Healthcare from birth to death
Creation of emergency response team from National call number to fire service and security response
Creation of 50 million jobs for our youths
State pension to Nigerians over 65 years of age
lower food price.
10k for the first 10 people to drop their account number

ChildOfDoom:
Currently at a brothel shaking my head in disbelief. My salary for June came on the 21st. Salary plus commission about 120k.

I have just 3000 left. No thanks to my incessant romp with Oloshos.

I have 26 more days to cope before next pay.

Loan apps on my neck.

I will have to be extremely dubious at the office to survive

Dshocker:
U said u can only tell by seeing the person physically or looking at their picture.

So how come you can see his smoke without his picture?

Akpabio22:
do you see any smoke in the guy that is banging you

somethinggood:
funny enough thats me. I know u don't like meeting people with no smoke but if u are in Abuja, i would love to meet with you. I also sent u a mail.

I am surprised though cos i was expecting either a white smoke.

Thoughty2:
If you can scientifically explain how remote viewing, astral projection, telekinesis and other metaphysical abilities work, then I will consider your argument.

MercyStan:
I don't know about sucking up their purity as I won't necessarily say these people are pure in a moral sense. For instance the girl that acts as Daenerys in Game of thrones has a white smoke. I don't see her as pure in the conventionally moral sense. Except the purity you refer to is the purity of the soul that can't be tarnished by moral actions?

I don't agree with what you said about the no smoke people. Majority of no smoke people that I have seen are pornstars, onlyfans girls, instagram slay queens, wealthy celebrities and sports people. I honestly don't think these people are "higher spirits in the realm of the almighty"

I won't go for deliverance, thanks.

MercyStan:
I'm in my late twenties. I'm not a virgin.

Sterlingdgreat:
I have an uncle who is a senior civil servants. Before he even got the Job, he was booming in business. Right now, he has landed properties, 3 houses on lease that I know of, livestock being manage by some fulanis. With all this, are they not supposed to be living well with his family? No! Otherwise is the case. The children always look malnourished. They hardly eat good food at home, always carbohydrates in a meagre quantity. The children are always looking hungry. They can go a whole month eating with no meat or fish.

Funny enough, they serve their visitors the same as they are living. Most of the times I almost get ulcer staying with them for just a week. Time table for me is 1 0 1 serving me food that cant even satisfy a 3 year old kid.

I always wonder which kind of life is that. You have money but your family can't enjoy it. instead, he's investing it on mundane things

He only has 6 kids. Nobody is living with them again

This their lifestyle has always been like this since ages past even before this tinubulation

Please is it normal to be investing your money and not take care of your immediate family

BlackfireX:
The day a deeper life bible sister because pregnant for a tout / conductor the thing off me

nedekid:
You funny, so I arrive uk, persin pick me up from train station and decides to branch at his house, insisting I eat and meet his wife and kid, right there as a visitor casala burst. So make I find phone come de call police say my friend wife de slap am? You funny. This was 24 years ago, you probably were not born then or at most sucking breast.

jibsiddy456:
U see dat football betting...it sweet pass forex if u sabi am. I know wat im talking about

LagosG:
Egg donors are needed here in Lagos.

Ladies between 18 and 25
Blood group O
Genotype AA
Renumeration 2500 for transport on every appointment day and 125k for egg donation.
You can donate monthly during ovulation for as long as you wish.

You'd make money and at the same time put a smile on the faces of couples who cannot conceive naturally.

Signify interest below

MSN1:
The rate people are committing suicide now is very alarming and to think that we ALL have each other's medicine; is very surprising.


Please lets use this thread to reach out to one another in order to know the little way we can help. As broke and frustrated you may think that you are; you have something someone out there craves for and the funniest thing is that; That thing means nothing to you or you can live comfortably without it.

* My desire---- Am currently in need of an Android phone and i will be glad if anyone could teach me ANY Tech. skill.


*Who i can help now----- I think God can use me to help @Dbull ( Our Nairaland musician).

I just gave it a thought now that; A lot of Nigerians are dying, in depression, some are frustrated and we ALL are in places (Both financially and Graciously) to uplift others .

---I live in the house of a TOP celebrity who is into show biz. (A very kind man)
I just gave it a thought now that; even in my broke state; i could help someone here to achieve his or her goal.


@Dbull or anyone close to him should contact me ASAP... this DECEMBER may be your best to get to spotlight!.

I believe that it would be fun seeing our own Dbull performing with the likes of top celebrities and it would be a dream come true.
Thanks

SocialJustice:
See the way you write full everywhere like say Davido go read am. 😂

Tlyon:
Good evening,pls can you help in tracking my Stolen Samsung S10e , I have the imel

Godsonjolly:
Boss can you help me too? Please

Godsonjolly:
Boss can you help me too? Please

FahBuLous:
My phone got stolen in my shop by a customer and i want to track it and find it, please how can i do that.. Help a brother.
I still have the phone receipt and pack, everything about the phone is with me.

Chasito:
You just reminded me of my final year school project defense

yrhuhfy113:
See, I am a Christian BUT I understand elements because my parents did a good job teaching me using scriptures and even herbs. Just do it and notice changes this month and your dreams.