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Goodmarlian:
See this one?
No be only universe na galaxy, I should keep being a fool and being used by a small girl that will dump me later because of universe abi? If she is in my shoes will she date an orphan boy answer me.

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

Okpetu pro max of a girl friend.

Caaz:
Breakfast

Groundnut and garri

🤾

emmaodet:
2 of 2

People in general and women in particular will always try to push you beyond your limit or plans, it is up to you to stand your ground.
Humans naturally abuse privilege so it is in your interest to always put yourself first.
Take a person to the car stand and they point at the most expensive car in the stand. Tell them to bring 50% of the money and see them quickly retreat back to nigerian used.
Are you planning a wedding or burial and see people talking about how to make the party a 1 in town event, kill 3 cows blah blah blah until you ask them how much are they contributing and then sanity comes back - ohhhh, don't you know i am a civil servant? na him you come dey budget all these like a footballer?
Years back when i was in a financial mess - failed business, heavily indebted, family expenses etc and during this moment, my car started giving me regular issues, so i decided to dispose it and get a nigerian used car atleast to be mobile pending when i float back.
My wife heavily kicked against it, that over her dead body, she won't enter such a car with me.
That i am very pessimistic and always spoil her prayers. She will be going to church praying for the family to have big big things, i will be thinking small ...Okay now.
She said i should keep the money and work more for like 3 years to get the money for the kind of car she likes ---- i see. In 3 years alot would have happened that i would have dipped my hands in the money. A burial, maybe wedding, naming, school, medical etc anything
That money won't grow rather spent. SO i told her to keep praying while i get this naija used first to be moving around.
The aim is to pressure me. She knows my jumping around on bike and keke within a year will pressure me to suspend every otehr things and prioritize the car.
Afetr getting the car, she was the one to jump in first and when i asked her why she is not waiting for 3 years to get her choice car, reply? she turned the table on me.
That i am not a caring husband. SO i expect her to be walking under the sun and rain using keke while i am driving a car that i don't Love her ... Na sooooooo

emmaodet:
1 of 2

At the bolded ....
Ti idi ba baje, toni idi lo n da ..... When your buttocks get damaged/destroy, you ONLY will be the one to feel the pains and discomforts that comes with it. Not your wife nor family nor friends, all they will just keep telling you is to endure.
Agbara o ni owun ni ile wo, onile ni o ni gba fun ........the flood doesn't care to bring down any house in it's way, it is the landlord that has to be reasonable to create a channel/gutter for it not to destroy his hard earned built house.

Lastly, person wey dey use another person water no go value am until him start to dey fetch him own water.
He wants to flush the toilet - he uses 2 buckets.
wash plates? he uses 2 bucket. mop the floor? he uses 1 bucket
BUT when he starts fetching his own water into a storage drum and someone starts using it just like him, he starts screaming
Why did you use 2 buckets to flush? why not 1 small bucket? do you know what it takes to fetch water from a well and store?
You are very wasteful
What happens to using half bucket to wash the plates.
Half bucket is enough to clean the room, are you mopping a whole building?
He buys a padlock and locks the drum

You are just wasting ur precious time chasing shadows.

tgmservice:
With great sadness I announce his passing.
The young lad was going through a lot.

Farewell bro

How can someone who was online early this morning be dead?

eejo:
Merry Christmas to all Nigerians and it is sad that nearly 200 million people have no access to Ambulance, Fire services and emergency security services during incidents. Too many lives and properties have been lost due to this circumstances. 2026 we will make it happen by God grace. I will pressure the Government until it is done.

Merry Christmas boss eejo

DaddyGngeess:
I don't even know what to say because is far from my location, Abuja

merry Christmas sir...May the joy of the season bring good tidings, abeg u need to do Christmas for me oo

Merry Christmas Eejo .......May the joy of the season bring good tidings.

RollinTNDA:
Imagine if I meet Don jazzy
And show him my Rollinmathematical formula

That man will be making billions from bet

The problem with nairaland betting forum
98% of people in this thread are Trenches boys.

Poverty striken people that stake 40 naira
This is not a good place for business

100 housand to be financially free and be your own boss using Rollinmathematics to make your daily money.

Then again, I understand many of you here are broke to the core.
I wanted to reduce it to 10k beginerr level

But after the bad mouthing I recieved here
I have decided to scrap the 10k fee
And put it at 100 housand

It would have been a very disastrous situation of I had given out the formula for as cheap as 10k.

So I thank you guys that bad mouthed me that day. You all helpede realize I shouldn't give this out for cheap... This knowledge is powerful

I so much like this man, u are the reason why I sometimes comes to this thread....You are mouth

Interested sir

Hamachi:
Men in their 30's and 40's what advice will yoi give to a 20 year old man today?

no matter how critical is ur situation, never ever indulge in any form of sporting betting activities.

DaddyGngeess:
So you even get money way them dey scam self, almost fell for it

DaddyGngeess:
Na waooo, that is not me, the same way these useless scammers hack my Facebook account and start using it. I will never ask anyone for money for anything because my line of business is not all this online stuff

I know ur line of duty sir

This digit claim to be daddygngeess and he cajole me to pay for cyber security course....I almost fell for it but when I realized that daddygngeess might still be sleeping as at when he contacted me, I asked for the twin name and he couldn't answer.

This is his number
815 465 4120

DaddyGngeess:
Thanks my brother, happy new month to you also, where is ur base self, lagos right? I do give away in lagos and Abuja every December like this, anyway where ever u are i will reach when the time comes, I am perfectly OK, have a lovely day

is this from u?

DaddyGngeess:
I don't know why some people will just wake up and start fabricating stories, I shake my head

merry Christmas in advance sir...

It's been a while, how are you and the family sir??...I'm loyal ooo

eejo:
Congratulations. Africans and especially Nigerians have been disconnected from their History and now struggling with identity crisis. Take time and study the history of your community, tribe and country and you will know your real identity. Look at the current military intervention in Benin story. Because Nigeria was successful Western media didn't cover the story well but if it was America or Europe their media will report extensively on the news. American politician told me that if you want to destroy people, disconnect them from their history and they will be lost forever. Check your account

Sir Eejo , I hve been ur loyal fan since the sand of time....

Merry Christmas 🎄 in advance sir....
Can u visit my signature??

Addme:
ok

merry Christmas in advance sir

kossyablaze:
I'm of the opinion that jamb and nysc should be scrapped.

merry Christmas in advance sir

Sir Eejo, we ur dedicated follower u can't jxt abandon us like that when Christmas is jxt next month.

I'm not always with ur ques.

Stephenmouka4:
na whiteiverson or abba

I was even thinking towards that direction too.

eejo:
check your kuda account

merry Christmas in advance sir...

eejo:
What has Nigeria failed to do that has delayed our development.

prioritizing education because education is light that illuminate darkness and getting rid of corruption.

seunzee:
It's divine grace I needed...cry don full my eyes....after what I posted day before yesterday I still went back to blew another 68k today.......na today I know say my life need prayer truly.....I wont go back again after today...so help me God....but why gamblers life be like this self...God I pray ...take gambling away from my life....I pray God....and please cover my secret.....don't let my debt secret go out ... please God help my life

No matter how much u craved to stop, you can never quit.
Its not a curse , that's how the game is being programmed.
It's a battle of no return....But if u are truly desperate for a change, DM me or quite me with ur Whatsapp number in a dead thread coz I was addicted to this same thing for years before grace and doing the right helped me to quit permanently.

*pls if u hve not made up ur mind to quit, kindly don't bother to reply me. Thank u.

sjx566:
‎Most men don’t understand the game they’re playing.
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‎A beautiful woman can get lifted out of a rundown apartment overnight.
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One photo. One smile. One rich simp trying to buy proximity to her body, and suddenly her life upgrades.
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‎That’s the female advantage: beauty can fast-track comfort.
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‎But for men?
‎There is no rescue mission.
‎No shortcut.
‎No “rich aunty” ready to sponsor your ambition.
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‎If you’re a young man from a humble background and you’re prioritizing lust over purpose, you’re digging your own grave.
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‎Chasing women before you build yourself is the fastest route to regret.
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‎Because while she’s using her youth to secure a better life…
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‎You’re using your youth to distract yourself from the life you should be building.
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‎Go ahead and enjoy yourself, nobody said you should become a monk.
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But never make women your mission.
‎Your mission is your foundation.
‎Without it, everything collapses.
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‎Remember this:
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‎She gets rewarded for existing.
‎You get rewarded for evolving.
‎Choose the path that pays you, not the one that drains you.
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‎Stay silent. Stay sharp.

This is top notch truth!!!!!!!