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thesicilian:
I once met an agent who said the same thing you just posted, almost word for word. Funny thing is, he lived in a dirty face-me-I-face-you single room of 5k per month in Bariga. He said this when I complained about the substandard nature of the 2 bedroom flat he was showing me for 3.5m at Mende, Maryland.
Maybe you're even the one self.

Prophit:
I recently started talking to a fine young lady. She should be 28 yrs tops.

I didn't know her dating history cos I moved into the area like last year.

We just started talking this year, she manages a bet 9ja shop. I normally withdraw using the pos near her bet shop, and that was how we met and started talking.

There is a laundry guy in that area, I seldom patronize him, but the guy is chill. We greet and have discussions here and there whenever we cross paths. He doesn't mind that I rarely patronize him.


This guy's sister is about 21, in the university. She likes me a whole lot, but I have a policy not to date students (it's a long story. Don't ask me why)

He knows that his sister likes me and he knows I'm not giving her a chance. In fact one day he joked about it. And probably that's why he respects me a great deal.

So B4 we dive into the gist for today, let's call d guy Oba, let's call the bet naija manager Ego. Let's call Oba's Sister Anita.


I was standing with Ego today just gisting.

(I honestly like her, she is pretty, but I can't date her. I can't date a lady who is not on a trajectory to the top. No offence, but being a worker in all these bet shops affects the mindset. I think people that work there need to be rehabilitated. Both male and female.
Again no offence)

So Oba passed by, as usual we shook hands and talked a bit, then he passed.

I noticed the weird energy between Oba and Ego.

It was visible to the blind that these guys shared a past.

"Seems like there is a story you'd like to share" I said
"What story?" She retorted.

"Is he your ex?" I went straight for the jugular.

She stood silent for a bit. She tried to force a smile. "There isn't any story please." She said finally.

I didn't press further.

Just then someone called her into the bet shop to settle and issue or whatever that was.

So I turned to the pos lady who is her friend.
It's like the lady was waiting for the opportunity to spill the tea.

She didn't even wait for me to ask.

"Men are wicked o. God forbid. To see better man na by connection." Said the pos lady.

(I forgot to give the pos lady her alte. So let's call her Agatha. I chose the name because she has a wide mouth, and which name do you have to say with your mouth open wide?)

So Agatha started talking.

"They used to date o. For like 2 years. Before they started dating, the guy was jobless. Ego used her money to open that laundry shop for him, spent so much money on him for 2 years, then one day he beat her up and broke up with her."

Now anyone with even a brain functioning below 2 percent will know that the story isn't complete. Agatha obviously skipped a lot of details to just present Oba as the devil.

And don't get it twisted I'm not saying he isn't the devil either.
I'm just saying I don't have enough information from that gist to know who the villain was or is.

First, nobody beats up a woman for nothing.
Second, nobody beats up a woman who is his girlfriend for nothing.
Third, nobody beats up a woman who is his girlfriend, who opened a laundry shop for him, for nothing.

Agatha kept talking.

How Ego is still traumatised and hurt and broken, and devastated, and dejected, and...

She kept going.

I told Agatha to stop.

"I really sympathize with Ego, but I don't want to have this discussion with you or with her. Relationships fail all the time."

"Guys send ladies to school and the ladies end up marrying other people. Life goes on."

"Guys open businesses for ladies and the ladies still leave them. Even marriages break up. It just the way of life."

"I have been engaged to a lady. 2 weeks before our indoor marriage rites, after I had bought everything, she called it quits. I never laid my hands on her, never cheated on her. But that doesn't make her the bad guy."

Relationships are a bit more nuanced than many people believe.

That is why the best thing you can do for yourself as an individual is to invest in yourself.

Maybe you can invest in your spouse, but you see boyfriend and girlfriend, invest at your own risk.

As for Anita, I just got a couple more reasons to distance myself from her. Imagine having an elder brother who beats people up. For her, violence will just be a normal thing. I pity her boyfriend.


As for Ego, if I had even the faintest of feelings for her, such feelings died when I heard that story.

I can't be with another man's garbage. I too, deserve someone who hasn't been victimized and vandalized.

Imagine the distrust she will have for her next boyfriend or husband. No body deserves such level of damage done to them.

Prophit:
It seems u don't value mental health. You are of the impression that Nigerians are super humans.

Is someone working in a bet shop normal to you?

Bergavis:
Bergavis daily 1.5 odds rollover.
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Caaz:
Monitoring spirit....Monitoring people must really be a lucrative ventures.i hope you get huge Roi.



try dey rest,i nor owe you or any body xplanation....



Cheers.

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

KiNg0G:
I find that as a huge challenge, never had one. This is just my life patronising prostitutes and call girls since I was younger..stress free, pay and go in
I don't even know what step to take if I decide to get one, I get tired easily with people.

Wotowotoman:
You still never change this your phone? 🤔

Wotowotoman:
Who be this one? You are stating the obvious and think you deserve accolades? Of course one of the 4 countries wey enter Semi finals go win. Come on gerrout of here

meobizy:
You children eat everything with garri. Poverty is bad. I’m sure some members here drink garri while drinking coke.

kenlinzo:
You call it time wasting chasing shadow but, I call it keeping to strategy and plans.
Keep to your plans and strategy no matter what. If it doest pay today, it will definitely pay tomorrow.

kenlinzo:
You call it time wasting chasing shadow but, I call it keeping to strategy and plans.
Keep to your plans and strategy no matter what. If it doest pay today, it will definitely pay tomorrow.

Puntingnoob:
won the game

First punter to win 100 odds

Goodmarlian:
See this one?
No be only universe na galaxy, I should keep being a fool and being used by a small girl that will dump me later because of universe abi? If she is in my shoes will she date an orphan boy answer me.

Goodmarlian:
See this one?
No be only universe na galaxy, I should keep being a fool and being used by a small girl that will dump me later because of universe abi? If she is in my shoes will she date an orphan boy answer me.

DeclanR:
I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

Caaz:
Breakfast

Groundnut and garri

emmaodet:
2 of 2

People in general and women in particular will always try to push you beyond your limit or plans, it is up to you to stand your ground.
Humans naturally abuse privilege so it is in your interest to always put yourself first.
Take a person to the car stand and they point at the most expensive car in the stand. Tell them to bring 50% of the money and see them quickly retreat back to nigerian used.
Are you planning a wedding or burial and see people talking about how to make the party a 1 in town event, kill 3 cows blah blah blah until you ask them how much are they contributing and then sanity comes back - ohhhh, don't you know i am a civil servant? na him you come dey budget all these like a footballer?
Years back when i was in a financial mess - failed business, heavily indebted, family expenses etc and during this moment, my car started giving me regular issues, so i decided to dispose it and get a nigerian used car atleast to be mobile pending when i float back.
My wife heavily kicked against it, that over her dead body, she won't enter such a car with me.
That i am very pessimistic and always spoil her prayers. She will be going to church praying for the family to have big big things, i will be thinking small ...Okay now.
She said i should keep the money and work more for like 3 years to get the money for the kind of car she likes ---- i see. In 3 years alot would have happened that i would have dipped my hands in the money. A burial, maybe wedding, naming, school, medical etc anything
That money won't grow rather spent. SO i told her to keep praying while i get this naija used first to be moving around.
The aim is to pressure me. She knows my jumping around on bike and keke within a year will pressure me to suspend every otehr things and prioritize the car.
Afetr getting the car, she was the one to jump in first and when i asked her why she is not waiting for 3 years to get her choice car, reply? she turned the table on me.
That i am not a caring husband. SO i expect her to be walking under the sun and rain using keke while i am driving a car that i don't Love her ... Na sooooooo

emmaodet:
1 of 2

At the bolded ....
Ti idi ba baje, toni idi lo n da ..... When your buttocks get damaged/destroy, you ONLY will be the one to feel the pains and discomforts that comes with it. Not your wife nor family nor friends, all they will just keep telling you is to endure.
Agbara o ni owun ni ile wo, onile ni o ni gba fun ........the flood doesn't care to bring down any house in it's way, it is the landlord that has to be reasonable to create a channel/gutter for it not to destroy his hard earned built house.

Lastly, person wey dey use another person water no go value am until him start to dey fetch him own water.
He wants to flush the toilet - he uses 2 buckets.
wash plates? he uses 2 bucket. mop the floor? he uses 1 bucket
BUT when he starts fetching his own water into a storage drum and someone starts using it just like him, he starts screaming
Why did you use 2 buckets to flush? why not 1 small bucket? do you know what it takes to fetch water from a well and store?
You are very wasteful
What happens to using half bucket to wash the plates.
Half bucket is enough to clean the room, are you mopping a whole building?
He buys a padlock and locks the drum

tgmservice:
With great sadness I announce his passing.
The young lad was going through a lot.

Farewell bro

eejo:
Merry Christmas to all Nigerians and it is sad that nearly 200 million people have no access to Ambulance, Fire services and emergency security services during incidents. Too many lives and properties have been lost due to this circumstances. 2026 we will make it happen by God grace. I will pressure the Government until it is done.

DaddyGngeess:
I don't even know what to say because is far from my location, Abuja

RollinTNDA:
Imagine if I meet Don jazzy
And show him my Rollinmathematical formula

That man will be making billions from bet

The problem with nairaland betting forum
98% of people in this thread are Trenches boys.

Poverty striken people that stake 40 naira
This is not a good place for business

100 housand to be financially free and be your own boss using Rollinmathematics to make your daily money.

Then again, I understand many of you here are broke to the core.
I wanted to reduce it to 10k beginerr level

But after the bad mouthing I recieved here
I have decided to scrap the 10k fee
And put it at 100 housand

It would have been a very disastrous situation of I had given out the formula for as cheap as 10k.

So I thank you guys that bad mouthed me that day. You all helpede realize I shouldn't give this out for cheap... This knowledge is powerful