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Emodeee:
While on air (on radio) months back, a young lady sent in a text that reads; ‘Does it worth it to be sincere in relationship?’ She however, expantiated further when we had opportunity to speak saying; ‘’ I have observed that guys don’t like honest ladies. They seem to like ladies who lie…….’ ’ And as we discussed, I recalled the comment of a pretty former colleague of mine saying something similar in a different way when she said; “ I am going to be 35 and I am tired of being single. I go to church, I give offering, I don’t fornicate but all my wayward friends who have aborted, who date married men and do all sort of things have married. Many of them married rich men…….’’
Hey, do you fall into the category of ladies like the two above? Are you a good girl just tired of people taking advantage of your innocence and niceness? Some of you are virgins who have kept your purity so carefully but unfortunately, you have never been happy in your past or present relationship. My dear, I can feel you. I know how you feel. See the reasons below why some good girls stay long on the queue waiting to get hooked someday.


WHY GOOD GIRLS DON’T GET HOOKED ON TIME


1. Over selection of guys that are coming your way


2. Unrealistic expectations and desires from guys coming your way


3. When you don’t want to cross the ocean- You live with your parents (or on your own) on the Island but you don’t want to consider any guy on the mainland no matter his qualities


4. Insisting on marrying someone from a specific tribe or nationality


5. Insisting on marrying someone from your church denomination even when Christians from other folds come


6. Insisting on marrying someone in your profession


7. Poor, shabby and indecent dressing and dress sense


8. Dwelling in your shell- As a result of past hurtful experience you have decided to stay inside your shell like a snail. Ofcourse, your relationship will take on a snail speed when you embrace ‘snail-like lifestyle’!


9. Absence of divine favour as a result of your character and general lifestyle!


10. May be you are paying for your past deeds, especially when you have refused to repent, forsake your sinful ways or forgive those who hurt you.


11. Satanic mark on you


12. Pride and arrogance


13. Rude and uncouth in speaking and behaviour in general- Lack of manners!


14. Not yet your divine time to marry
For quite a number of single ladies out there, it may be a combination of these factors that is responsible for your being single whilst you ought to be married. And it could be because it is just not yet time as highlighted in point 14 above. So, how do I know my case is a case of it is not yet my divine time? Check all the points above and see from 1-13 if any of those listed are in your bag. Ask those around you, especially those who know you well, who can tell you the truth. If none of item 1-13 are in you, then I say to you HAPPY WAITING! Why? The Scripture says;
“ But those who wait on the Lord
shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like the eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They walk and not faint’



written by adegboyegailori

source: http://adegboyegailori.com/good-girls-stay-long-queue/


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lalasticlala, let's go there.

AS 4 ME, I THINK IT'S VICE VERSA COS SOMETIMES I JUST FEEL IT'S NOT WORTH IT BEING SINCERE... MOST PEOPLE WILL JUST TAKE YU 4 GRANTED...

Mercyitos37:
Not really... Cool

THANKS.. U CAN WHATSAPP ME .....ILL BE EXPECTING YOUR MESSAGE

pls who used gtbank recently for paymeNt. .HOW MUCH DID THEY CHARGE PER DOLLAR

Mercyitos37:
thanks

CAN I GET TO KNOW YOU MORE PLEASE. .HOPE AM NOT ASKING FOR 2 MUCH

Ozavize88:
Pls where is Ig or is it Kogi u wanted to say?

igarra in edo state

Mercyitos37:
Am from Esan West Ekpoma to b precised.... But base in Benin

i like u..no offense

Ozavize88:
August 28

ure frm ig rite

dacblogger:
I ve always being very nice and kind to almost everyone. Am the kind of person that can starve just to see a stranger eat,i can give out my last card just to put a smile on som1's face...
When it comes to relationships,i am always very faithful and loyal to my bf buh yet i still get cheated on and abused..
I have always being very prayerful,i stay away from pples marriage the best i can(i dnt mingle with married men even when am tempted to) ... I am the nicest person you can come across but yet i still dnt get 2 be treated right,i practically dnt get anything i want.
So it got me thinking ,What is the use of been good when you dnt gain anything from it Is it that the good lord who i so much believe and trust in does not acknowledge my been good?
I have come to the conclusion that good things happen to bad pple and the good ones are practically left out to suffer and fend for themselves.
I might be wrong tho,so i want 2 know if am right or just being delusional.

U're right... It happens to me a lot.... But my conscience will not let me go d wrong way..... So just keep being urself

Fresca:
Where is that? I don't even know it

where in lag are yu

janefarms2015:
Na so u dey demand airtime and send curses to whoever fails to gv u, im trailling u already and will get u soon, any mumu man will fall for ur antics here, were. Olodo, u will be exposed and banned

IF no be say na fool she be

Please I got these 3 invites today..... Please I need your help if they're real or not







(1) From the HR Desk, you are invited for an interview Tuesday, 16/5/17 by 9am at No. 98 Palm Avenue, Mushin, Lagos.REF: HR/IAIS/29


(2) Sequel to your CV review, you are to report for an interview on TUE 16/5/17 9am @ 98, Hillstar Building 3rd Floor, Papa Ajao Mushin Lagos. APL/31 081-1277-4041


(3) FortuneCareersLtd Invites U for career chat by 9am on Tue 16 /5/17 @192 Ikorodu Rd, beside FirstBank, Palmgrove Lagos. FC/ZP/DD2 http:///n89p, 081-0394-5247

MGResources invites you for a brief/assessment @ 161 Ikorodu Road Onipanu Lagos opposite Eco Bank by 9am on Monday 15/05/17. HR67:080-7646-5658



Got this message this morning... Help me out please

greatnaija01:
Kindly remove your number, rather use emails. cos the kind of guys who will keep contacting you... even after you have found the good ones ..MAY DISCOURAGE YOU. for your safety, REMOVE YOUR NUMBER. Use your email to know them before trusting your number to anyone.

Y advising a scammer na

Megabush:
Hungry scammer!!! Go get a life

Real scammer.... She's in lag.... Na better rape go end her case

Geraldyne:
ok

can I call yu

D89576BC....

She is fun n interesting.. She needs new friends

May 10

tholarrr:
Gnld..Scam

Thanks bro

In lieu to your application,You're invited for a Customer Service duty with ACR GROUP by 9:am on 31st MARCH @No95,Fadeyi B/Stp,Fadeyi,Lagos. Details in ur mail






Please house I need your help... How true is this and also I need help on the location...... Please help

ElArchana:
Guys from Benin n Delta age 26 - 30 Seeking for true relationship that will lead to marriage whatsapp me on 08067801552 Should be Lagos based

Wow, e just be like say make I marry now

kelvinrhs:
How do you know my mind is too corrupt. "You can't judge who you haven't met" MY QUEEN!
But on the plus side its cool that you did not take it as a insult.
I've been wanting to talk to you lol! Are you really a succubus or is it just a nickname?

the nickname sha... I hope she knows d meaning tho

08060959934

ElArchana:
Helo, my name is Gloria n I need male friends from Edo Benin, add up for serious relationship, whatsapp me on 08067801552, should be Lagos based

Hello can I add yu up... Am lagos based also

JUBSAM:
I got same email but I'm not in Lagos at the moment.

Which role did you apply for?

I applied for customer service.....




Any idea on what to expect

Based on your recent application, you're invited for an interview at WORKFORCE, Beside UPS, Gbagada, Lagos on Mon 20th MAR by 1PM. Bring a CV and dress formal.



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Please any info on the said location as there is no phone number to call for clarification....


Please I need help....

Am new in lag......

ikhuoria2:
this is one of the few sensible comments i've seen so far in this thread ...the rest baseless comments ...i dont know who made your brains....

Thank yu but God created my brain........