₦airaland Forum

odimbannamdi:
Hi Op, I sent you a PM

gunther6:
Oya if you don’t mind dropping your account number, take 50k. Satisfy your wife’s cravings. I salute you and your wife.

I have no words for that girl, 80% of Nigerians have less than 500k in their accounts. 40% of Americans have none at all and half of retirement age people cannot afford to retire.

Life transcends money, so long one’s life is lived with dignity. God bless you man.


I haven’t heard from the poster, @ tomtomastom4 pls reach out. Peace.

Olu1000:
I hereby pledge to support your wife’s delivery with 100k.Send me a DM so we can work out the details.

purejustice36:
Boss pls mention me when your heavenly blessed wife has put to bed
E get why

nenyewrites:
Is she having birth complications? If no, why is she at home doing nothing when she's just five months? That's how laziness starts.

toprealman:
I wish I had the opportunity to recruit you to work or me. You are a real man!

Paramount01:
Where did u based?

rickleye:
I've sent

Blupen:
You are a liar my friend "you can do anything you put your mind on"

Academicwizman:
Oga, I doff my hat for you for the struggle that you are going through. However, I do not see a plan for an escape route from this your analysis. I see you walking tighter rope in the future if this continues (I pray it doesn't/ Therefore, I'll like to ask the type of job that you do, particularly the timing. I am asking to know if a suggestion can be made.

ibizgirl:
Op, God bless you and your wife. You are on a good path. But this is just the beginning. You and your wife should try to expand your earning. You can't explain to a crying child no money for biscuits or indomine. God will not shame you

rickleye:
Excellent detailed report
I’ll give you #10k to buy baby stuff.

emmeyen:
This is applaudable sir. But your wife shouldn't have just resigned without thinking of a little business that will not stress her because of her condition. Even when the child comes, she may still need extra three months before going back to work. Dont forget the work, na fimd she go find am. Please you should put heads together and come up with an idea for her and at the end she may not need to hurry back into the labour market. Anything may happen to your job tomorrow.

Ovaltine:
Indeed, you are brainwashed.

gunther6:
Oya if you don’t mind dropping your account number, take 50k. Satisfy your wife’s cravings. I salute you and your wife.

I have no words for that girl, 80% of Nigerians have less than 500k in their accounts. 40% of Americans have none at all and half of retirement age people cannot afford to retire.

Life transcends money, so long one’s life is lived with dignity. God bless you man.


I haven’t heard from the poster, @ tomtomastom4 pls reach out. Peace.

Chisave:
Oga, someone just promised to support you with 50k. And he is saying he hasn't heard from you. Kindly check the second page of your thread

xxmoney15:
Guy u need to start learning skills or getting a better job.

My salary is 76k as a teacher but my living with 2 kids n my wife isn't working yet is a miracle. Just that as a physics teacher I do get private lessons, waec registration business.

Currently I'm learning forex seriously because I want to be in charge of my future. Rent is pH is not cheap, 300k for that matter.

But na God de run am for us

LikeAking:
Op u too much.

U will go very far in life.


U are also living in the right house for ur salary...

E go beta.

Valoromega:
It's not easy but when you have an understanding woman then it becomes easy.
All my life I prayed to God for a woman that will complement me cus me I don't know how to save money. Just imagine that I got married to a woman who's a lavish spender like me, Dat na wahala.
The truth is that when kids start to come more expenses will surely come that sometimes even that ur salary won't be enough.
I believe it's easy to maneuver when there are no kids yet.
Like me I just got married this year, no kids yet so I'm using this time to build up my finances cus when kids come that's when the journey starts

Valoromega:
It's important that both partners should be doing something that brings money home because as a married man earning that amount it can be really difficult because you have more responsibilities now. It also boils down to how you spend your money.
Just pray you get a wife who will be able to help you spend your money well. Cus even if ur a millionaire, a wasteful woman will wreck you

Kobojunkie:
You committed yourself to being her sole provider in the relationship, and you admit too that you didn't meet up on your part of the commitment which is what she complained of too.

Kobojunkie:
a relationship is defined by the contract you make with your partner...all relationships are not the same in this.

You promised her you would take care of her aka be her sole provider and you failed,this by your own admission.

Kobojunkie:
You promised her you would be her sole provider, so it no longer matters what your financial capacity and expenses are once you make that commitment. You should have considered your financial capacity and expenses before deciding to pledge your person as her sole provider.

The mistake is yours - you chose her and committed yourself to her in the manner that you did. You should have first resolved your financial state before entering into such a commitment to begin with. No be for mouth dem dey take live big man life.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are the one who chose the woman and made that sort of commitment to her of your own admission. There are so many women out there who don't need handouts and all from their man or any man for that matter. You overlooked all those probably because you have big man issues or something.

2. Next time, choose weight wey you know say you fit carry.

Mercychen:
Why would you do an update in an old thread?

Those who read the previous post will not be able to follow it cos they won't know what page it is or even have the time to start checking.

Better you create a new post afresh for the update.

Mariangeles:
OK. I get you.