Politics › Re: Edo State Governor Hosts Mc Oluomo (Video) by Tonididdyx: 7:33am On Dec 19, 2024 |
Chai....my Edo  |
Satellite TV Technology › Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by Tonididdyx: 7:31am On Dec 19, 2024 |
dollarnaira: Used powMr cc needed. It was posted sometimes ago but not sure if it was here. Pls someone should help with d page. What's your offer? I have one |
Foreign Affairs › Re: FSB Arrests Man Behind Terrorist Attack On Russian General (Photos) by Tonididdyx: 8:55am On Dec 18, 2024 |
Beloved Russia is in for a long thing. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Tonididdyx: 8:55am On Dec 18, 2024 |
I like comparing with reality when watching movies. Carry ON - I got angry in the beginning. I could never find myself succumbing to every BS from an unknown caller even if gun involve 😁😂
.... Just crazy me wishing movies could go out of script sometimes.
8/10 |
Romance › Re: Yahoo Boy Sprays Cash On Girlfriend While Her Mom Packs The Money (Photos) by Tonididdyx: 7:45pm On Dec 17, 2024 |
If money touch your hand, abeg aim for bigger fish for choice of a GF
If he's self made and decides to marry from a home like this....finished is own his! ⬅️ |
Foreign Affairs › Re: North Korean Troops Killed Fighting Ukraine, Says US by Tonididdyx: 10:57am On Dec 17, 2024 |
Lol  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Igor Kirillov: Bomb Blast Kills Senior Russian General In Moscow by Tonididdyx: 10:48am On Dec 17, 2024 |
Russia sadly can never know peace anymore!
This is the disadvantage of war. |
Celebrities › Re: Photo Of Burna Boy And Chloe Bailey In Lagos by Tonididdyx: 10:46am On Dec 17, 2024 |
Come all the way from USa come kneel down  |
Nairaland General › Re: 1m Naira For Corporate Social Responsibilities For 50-75 Eligible Nairalanders by Tonididdyx: 4:46pm On Dec 16, 2024 |
I'm overly qualified for this.
I have assisted in kind and advice both online and offline to many nairalnders who can attest to such. Amidst the hardship in the country, I have shared experiences that I believe are a pathway to comfort of the mind especially during times like this. Lately I've being seeking assistance of any kind myself and my past good deeds haven't paid off but yet, I do not question my actions.ill not relent but this kind of assistance is exactly what my family and I need
Tys |
Politics › Re: We Lied To Nigerians, Buhari Was A Stranger In His Own Govt- Solomon Dalung(vid) by Tonididdyx: 4:29pm On Dec 16, 2024 |
If we not hold these leaders for neck, this childsplay will never seize |
Family › Re: After 20 Yrs Abroad, Man Returns Home To Meet Uncompleted Building, Arrests Wife by Tonididdyx: 1:20pm On Dec 16, 2024 |
In Poco lees voice,'' u go dey trust woman, woman!... U never c anything "  |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Tonididdyx: 3:01pm On Dec 15, 2024 |
Lowlifes 8.5/10 Movies usually come with a twist at the end, this one's twist came in the beginning and it was epic!
Blitz 7/10 Just because am a war monger
Laroy.texas 8/10 I just love to see simps learn the hard way 🤣 |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Tonididdyx: 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2024 |
majesticguy: Venom: The last dance : 5/10
A solid performance from Tom Hardy, also the action sequence was quite lit and entertaining. However, the predictable plot, forced humor and overuse of CGI watered down the overall experience. Your ratings are pissing me off |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Tonididdyx: 2:44pm On Dec 15, 2024*. Modified: 3:02pm On Dec 15, 2024 |
majesticguy: Red One :5/10
Not bad for an Xmas movie Movie is a 7@minimum. Gimme one reason u rated this a 5? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia-Ukraine War: World News, Weapons & Battlefield Discussions - Live by Tonididdyx: 2:26pm On Dec 15, 2024 |
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Family › Re: Married But .... Father in-law � by Tonididdyx(op): 7:59am On Dec 15, 2024 |
frozen70: They were already separated before you came in their family and that shouldn't bother you as you don't know why they are complacent that way
I think you shoude just keep up your good relationships with your father inlaw separately and keep that of your mother inlaw separately
Whatever you have for him give him and whatever you have for the other, give her
If you think you have the strength to reconcile them, then be prepared to tackle is and keep being their for them
But left for me let them be the way it is and do call him when you are free to do so, if you want to invite him to your house, you can do so get his approval and let him spend some times with you guys, but subject to your wife approval and if she refuses, forget about it
Just make sure you build your home with your wife that, you don't find yourself in that situation Am not trying to reconcile her parents, I wouldn't even dare. These days I look at it as a win-win |
Family › Re: Married But .... Father in-law � by Tonididdyx(op): 4:22am On Dec 15, 2024 |
Infotubia9ja: Bro let me drop my own two cents. You see I had the same story like yours lol.. it's funny when I read this and I feel moved to respond.
You see I married my wife 4 years ago she is the only daughter of her dad.
Her mom and dad are divorced and they live in the same state infact we all live in the same state all of us infact my wife's father used to live just 30mins drive max from where we live.
Now here is where it gets so so funny and I kid you not. 9 days after my wife and I got married, we found we having a baby we told my wife's mom and her dad. My mother-in-law and I we are so chill that she now live just 5 houses away from where I live, she sold her house just to come live close to us. I never met my father-in-law in person never did he met his grand daughter for once. She is now 3 years old and guess what. Three month after my daughters second birthday, my father-in-law passed away.
Now I knew it was his pride and he was just mad at me for no reason. On multiple occasions I have reached out to him wanting to come meet him or he should at least come see his granddaughter. He never did One day he just fell down and died and doctors said he had a heart attack.
Now he married a second wife as well. And when he died, she, his wife started talking to us (i.e my wife and I and my daughter) and she started telling us how sad my late father-in-law was and he wanted reaching out to us but his pride never let him to. Just this year two months ago his wife died too(may her soul rest in peace).
What I am trying to get to you about is this.. as long as you treat your wife and children right by you and God and make sure you try your best to keep your family safe and secure. Then don't give a Bleep what your father-in-law thinks or do. He can go kiss a donkeys ass for all I care. If he don't want to be close to his family because weather he likes it or not you are now family and the family am talking about is YOU, YOUR WIFE AND KIDS. those are your family. Father in-law can go hug a transformer na himself him dey do. He is only getting old closer to his grave as the day goes by. And if he doesn't make good by his daughter and family now he will regret in his grave. But I pray it doesn't come to that. Oh I see. He thinks am lavishing on his ex wife and feels too proud to come closer so I can also lavish on him. Oh so sad to burst his thought bubble!, as this is not the case. Nevertheless because our inlaws family setup are so familiar, there's a tiny bit of possibility that's where the problems birthed. ( There's no way on earth I wouldn't be ' maybe not a pest' on my son n laws home) |
Family › Married But .... Father in-law � by Tonididdyx(op): 10:52pm On Dec 14, 2024*. Modified: 11:12pm On Dec 14, 2024 |
I wanted to create a new username to talk about this but .....F' it!
Sometimes last year I posted a topic about being married recently but my father n law has never being to my house. I received a lot of backlash
Fast-forward to 20months later since I married his daughter in full of which he gave his blessings HE STILL DOSENT KNOW MY HOUSE, INFACT I HAVENT SEEN OR HEARD HIS VOICE IN OVER A YEAR. My wife ( his daughter) had to take my 3months old son to his house so he could see his grandson ( my wife's parent had 7 girls, no son...so this was special ) for the first time ever.
Tho both my wife parents are separated and now arch enemies, this is no yardstick for such behavior.
I personally don't care anymore, my wife isn't bothered about it ( unless she's shielding it inside). I jokingly tell her most times "... As your papa dash me, you ..."
Ps: we live in same city. Ps: I used to turn up for both parents from overseas ( because I was a ✈️ worm back then ) during our dating days especially during festive seasons like this.
Extra note: my wife and I didn't get married until my first daughter was about 2 and until that marriage, I had never met her dad 😬 ( be like na me find trouble first 😁) When I was ready to pay her price, I went to her dad who received me so graciously and gifted me drinks and money ... In his words, " I be dey vex 4 u but as you've come to do the right thing, I won't stress you, I forgive you" and he kept to his words, our marriage was literally discounted, even tho I was prepared but he and his brother ensured a smooth sailing
I find this embarrassing to discuss with my peers hence I like to read from experience of other married couples online |
Family › Re: My Marriage Of 6 Months Is Almost Finally Coming To An End, Details Inside : by Tonididdyx: 10:40pm On Dec 14, 2024 |
Most marriages that are birthed under the guise of " pregnancy", na xo e dey be.
I said most, not all!
... Clearly the both of you have nothing doing together, the toxicity is alarming. |
Romance › Re: Man Gifts Son-in-law A Brand New Jeep For Marrying His Daughter (Photos) by Tonididdyx: 10:10pm On Dec 14, 2024 |
... Meanwhile some father n law till date do not know their son n laws house where their daughter is kept! |
Sports › Re: Babangida’s Ex-Dutch Clubs Lead €170,000 Crowdfunding For His Health by Tonididdyx: 7:04pm On Dec 14, 2024 |
Nahunger: Hmm
Meanwhile note
it is only a Nigerian girl you will see preparing for marriage and she only has #5k or less in her account
With a mind blowing milage 5k too loud sef |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trapped SA Illegal Miners Ask For Tomato Sauce And Mayonnaise - PICTURES by Tonididdyx: 6:05pm On Dec 14, 2024 |
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Health › Re: What's Your Sleeping Position? by Tonididdyx: 7:19am On Nov 30, 2024 |
I sleep like 2, wake up as 14 |
Crime › Re: "I Will Waste You And Nothing Will Happen" - Armed Prison Officials Slap Lawyer by Tonididdyx: 8:36pm On Nov 27, 2024 |
This sentence should come with an instant JOB sacking for any policeman caught saying such under any circumstance |
Politics › Re: Port Harcourt Refinery: NNPC Addresses Misleading Claims by Tonididdyx: 9:00am On Nov 27, 2024 |
Dangote as nobody gree buy your oil
Start building filling stations across states, is that so hard for a big baller like you?
Because this camphur that nnpc is importing and melting for Nigerians to buy is an Mbaaaa! |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu And Remi Tinubu With President Joe Biden by Tonididdyx: 12:31am On Nov 26, 2024 |
I just dey imagine the amount of bad breathe that be flying around the room
...ew |
Politics › Re: David Hundeyin Dumps Nigeria Politics, Accuses Followers Of Not Believing Him by Tonididdyx: 12:08am On Nov 26, 2024 |
At this juncture one has to conclude ....looking at the earliest comments .... Nigeria is not worth fighting for |
Romance › Re: 35 Is Not Too Late For Marriage by Tonididdyx: 5:08pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Samantha125: I know two women who naturally had their last born children while in their 50s and the children are healthy.
So having children over the age of 40 might be risky, but it's still possible.
Or the woman can decide to have her eggs frozen until she's found the right man and then have a surrogate carry the children for her... We are far more wiser than our forefathers with the kind of technology we have today. Lol freeze eggs with which light? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Karim Khan: This Is The ICC Prosecutor Who Issued An Arrest For Netanyahu(photo) by Tonididdyx: 4:51pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
Edygrin: ICC is useless, since the issued an arrest for Putin, who has dared to arrest Putin?.. Putin has been traveling the world attending BRICS summit yet nothing, is it now Netanyahu they'll be able arrest, someone that even has the backing of the USA unlike Putin.
They should keep their arrest warrants for the useless African leaders. do you know what a warrant is? Ask Putin to travel to Italy or Canada .... There Re countries that have an arrest agreement with the ICC If you've an arrest warrant on your head, your best bet is to avoid such said countries. It's that simple |
Crime › Re: Trigger-Happy Policemen Shoot 4 Civilians In Ebonyi by Tonididdyx: 4:13pm On Nov 20, 2024 |
1bullet kill 4 persons  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia-Ukraine War: World News, Weapons & Battlefield Discussions - Live by Tonididdyx: 3:59pm On Nov 20, 2024 |
Putin Dey Bleep up...
Na small pikin dey use meat play! |
Politics › Re: Wike Approves ₦70,000 Minimum Wage For FCT Workers by Tonididdyx: 2:01pm On Nov 19, 2024 |
Tinibu go stress you but no worry wike 70k dey for you  |