₦airaland Forum

Nonexisting1:
When a man has brainless woman as girlfriend or wife, he will always walk the streets prepared for shame and disgrace. In one or the day within 24hrs, she will bring shame to him just like this golden hair lizard in red gown kneeling down there has just brought shame to the innocent gentleman.

As In ehnn the girl too Mu-mu..if I be the guy Omoh relationship don end for there be that o because na manipulation she dey try do..doing in public makes it really hard for the guy to reject the proposal so na setup and she don draw the guy leg come outside now..dude just wanted to hangout enjoy his meal then go home and knack but she just ended up ruining his whole week and putting him in the limelight.If you must propose why you no do am for house or room?why casting it like this..the girl is just real dumb and stvpid

OMEGA009:
You can’t fight an institution and win. ASUU na cartel and they must protect their own to avoid setting a precedent. She’ll also be persona non grata in any Nigerian university due to this expulsion. Perhaps, Ruggedman and his cohorts can sponsor her to study abroad. That’s if the Lecturer’s wife doesn’t start a criminal case against her.

Lol why rugged man?did he sponsor something stupid in the past?abeg explain make we know weda ruggedman na yeye person

Sandrazima:
On this forum you'll see threads like dating drills, how to get women etc, and you'll see pages upon pages. Some even stoop so low as buying and selling ebooks on how to chase women, yet some idiots will say men are the prize.

When have you seen women gather like ants to seek advise on how to get men?

Who then is the prize? Who wants who the most? LMFAO

If it isnt the hypocritical gender disturbing the space and looking for attention as ALWAYS. Same you like to be roughly handled and choked during sex as you said in one of your threads,same you is talking about women been ok with dildos and dnt need men..I am guessing dildos have the ability to choke you while penetration right?confused bunch..dey play just dey play.

Stupid greedy people wey no get sense..una run 20b scam and you dey use just 2m to die the matter?na greed dey always spoil deals..if i be person wey dey run illegals like this walahi deals no go cast..out of 20b una no fit arrange even 1-2b give as bribe to die matter?now una don enter hand and go suffer am. I hate greedy people both legit and illegit

Igodomigodo419:
I don't know if this the right place to share this but I hope to get Answers! A bit lengthy but hear me out guy!! 🙏🏽
How do I cope with GF’s high body count?
I’ve been having trouble recently trying to deal with my partner’s past.
I am 29 years old and have been dating her 25 years old for well over a year, and honestly it has been amazing. She’s attentive, gives me reassurance, tells me she loves me every second she gets, and never invalidates my feelings. Our conversations are engaging, we always try our best to communicate our issues and resolve problems in a way that lets us both meet in the middle, and our intimate life is really good. All of this and then some, on paper she is the perfect person and partner.

Unfortunately, I’ve met a bit of a speed bump as of late that I could really use some advice for. I had always assumed her body count to be up there as she’s attractive, has a good personality, and is overall just a great girl. However, about 6 months into dating she revealed her count to be “no more than 40” in her words. On the contrary, she is the second person I’ve been intimate with so it came as a huge shock. I remember freezing at the time, just trying to process what I’d heard. Seeing my face she started to tear up, begging me not to leave her. I comforted her and told her I’m not going anywhere, so I put my feelings aside and tried to move on to the best of my ability. Now, 9 months after that day, I’m on the verge of losing my mind. I’ve told myself every day since then that I’m secure, body count doesn’t matter, I’m going to get over it, etc. I had actually been doing really good for a while until recently. It all came crashing down when I accidentally saw some old screenshots of texts with ex’s from 2+ years ago in her camera roll (no, I wasn’t snooping, just stumbled upon it). I know I shouldn’t have read them but I did, and it was vile. It looked like conversations from the worst smut you’ve ever read, just straight phone intimacy. There was much more than one screenshot (with multiple people involved) but I didn’t have the heart to keep looking. Her and I have an open communication style so right away I brought it up to her, and she reassured me that she was different then and she only spoke to guys like that because she thought it would make them like her. She expressed how she regretted ever acting that way and how she was used over and over by men manipulating her for sex. She started crying saying how she was naive and how she wished that she had met me sooner. She apologized profusely and deleted everything straight away. Here’s the thing, I have no reason to not believe her. In this relationship I’ve come to always place my trust in her and give her the benefit of the doubt. She is genuinely the sweetest person I’ve ever met, so I could never dislike her and she’s given me every reason to trust her. I guess what I just need now is advice… I’m so lost in my head it feels like I’m drowning. I admitted to her after seeing those screenshots that her sexual past bothers me (where I brought up her body count for the first time since speaking about it 9 months ago), and that it’s going to take time for me to feel better. She thanked me for being open and honest and has been doing nothing but catering her time and effort towards me to try and make me feel better. She has been so understanding and reassures me that I’m her person and she will only ever love me every time she’s seen me looking down. During those times I cant help but shed some tears, but she doesn’t care and holds me and reassures me throughout it all.

With that said, I’ve had some major anxiety the past week, kinda like the breath has been sucked from my lungs and there’s a pit in my stomach. I keep telling myself how “it’s okay” and that “she loves me” over and over again but my body won’t listen. I’ve been eating less, less focused at work, and losing sleep at night. I also know she’s been crying secretly as well, wiping her tears before I come into the room or I’ll hear sniffling from around the corner. I’m concerned that my mental state and overthinking is eventually going to kill this relationship if I don’t do something about it.

So, other than leaving her which is the absolute last thing I want to do, does anyone have any recommendations? Thank you so much in advance.

Weak ass Simp..you better chop your share and find a deserving girl for a good man like yourself..

Goodmarlian:
I think this girl will be very manipulative,we just dated for months met her in January, I have not forgiven her yet but I will eventually forgive but if she tries it again I have vowed to end the relationship.

SIMPle finished man🤣🤣..girl wey dey another man house dey collect better a gbola for two days straight screaming the dudes name and sucking and swallowing his cum got her fill and has come back to her pathetic lil puppy bf and he says he will forgive her..you will learn painfully no worry..

Who takes this ronu lunatic seriously?

Lol funny man say na it's disrespectful 🤣🤣🤣so una dey find respect and have shame?yet you paint an image to the world that makes them devalue you and your leader and country?you rig elections and steal ballot boxes and announce winners at night when everyone is asleep all are questionable behaviors that draws disrespect so enjoy your bed the way you made it,na you already dey hell na baba🤣🤣

Watcharena:
this is how slavery started. The uber driver that was assaulted by a senator got his justice through social media ,if he had put fear he would have not gotten anything.


So continue putting fear in your mind,they will continue to use it against you

Oga nothing like put fear here,no be by forming superman person dey win fight..you fight smartly not foolishly especially when your opponent is bigger and more than you all round..the lady who called out the tomatoes company last year on social media with all the noise even from diaspora and international news didn't she still end up in jail?lil smart that called out Naira and Co on social media even with the fact that Naira is disliked who is in jail now?lil smart is locked up now because they didn't fight smartly but stupidly..if you have a fight and you decide to fight without using your head because you want to form badman or jagaban na you sabi o good luck.

Lol this government sha want to squeeze out money by all means from people,from fuel,to electricity tarrifs to tax,bank transfers,plenty tollgates springing up everywhere for tax,airport entrance payment increased now ATM card withdrawal charges lol..Na all of us go suffer am both those who forced bad government on Nigerians.

Wealthoptulent:
You dey LIST?
Bruv u were WRONG from ON SET, on every OFFFER there should be an appointment letter which will INCLUDE it PROBATION and a CONTRACT must be signed to Buttress that.
1st step make a report TO NEARBY police Station to the WAREHOUSE or shop
2nd step, get a lawyer (if the salary is about 100 t0 150 k( letter from lawyer will take 25k)
after the letter which must iclude 7days ultimatum to reply or get paid..
3rd step proceed to AREA COMMAND and write NGO, human RIGHTS

Better follow this advice and DONT FOLLOW those telling you to call them out online or take matters into your hands o..you go suffer last last..you remember that woman that called out that tomatoes paste company?remember how her matter be?remember lil smart matter..no let small kids push you to problems o no fight who pass you illegally na you go LOOSE..

Watcharena:
Drag them on social media


You can start by dropping name and address of the company here. Also drop the management phone numbers

People will call to disturb them on your behalf.


You will come in begging you to came and collect your money


Also if is an open shop arrange with your guy who will assume to be a customer that want to buy in large quantity, then when he get to the shop spoil the company image which will stop him from buying right in front of them

E be like say una think say Nija na una imagination..you want make him end up like lil smart abi and him parents go begin cry up and down begging..I am sure you are still very young so you don't know that there are real life consequences for bad things done, especially done to person wey pass you.

1phone:
I will by the end of this week publish the company name and tag on all social media so people won't apply to work there.

I hope you have money set aside to fight wahala sha after first bailing yourself when them use police arrest you..because they sure would come after you with all they've got if you try to destroy their brand like that o..Il suggest you keep disturbing them especially the husband instead because let's be real this is Nija you can only fight your boss when you sef get money and connection otherwise you go just loss for prison while your family will be in trauma.

doncartel:
He means that if Pablo Escobar decides to arrest his father, el-Rufai family will discuss with Trump to bring out Escobar’s case file.

The case file is all about how Escobar operated the Colombian drug cartel in Chicago before cashing out to join politics in Lagos state.

🤣🤣🤣🤣Una no go kill person with laf for this country...thanks for the detailed breakdown sir much appreciated 🤣🤣

Fahvvy:
Here we go again making excuses for women's bad behavior ...

Why don't this "hormones talk" when she's at a military check point or direct this energy towards her boss at the office? ...

Why are women able to keep themselves in check around certain people but yet rant like headless chicken to others? ...

It's simply because they know that around certain people like you, their fo.olishness would be tolerated and folks like you, will make excuses for them ...

Pregnant or not, verbal abuse (abuse of any kind) is a choice! And should not be tolerated ...

@OP...
Unblock her and if you find out that the child is yours, don't abandon that child ...

You don't have to marry her, God forbid you do, but then, you do have to take responsibility for your child - IF it is yours ...

That one na simp na..I just read his dumb response and shook my head..it's guys like him who make girls like her behave that way..enabling bad behavior and dumb excuses because it's for a female.

Lakebib:
I would say it's likely to be mine though I'm not certain, I feel a bit guilty because we've been together for 3 years but then her utterances and actions leaves much to be desired.

You feel guilty?lol dey play..you know what you HEARD the night she was getting fvcked by her main Abj bf..she just wants to collect money from you in the name of abortion..a girl who could openly tell you that she can easily fvck another guy and pin it on him is the girl you are thinking is carrying your child?oboy open your eyes..as for your friend saying you shouldn't have blocked her that one na yeye talk..that girl na Olosho,serious hkup for Abuja na im she de run..

brain54:
If it's confirmed it's your pregnancy...

Then I think it's not right to abandon her. You ought to be responsible for your actions. I can never advise anyone to abandon a woman carrying his baby. Even though I am sure you aren't ready to keep it.

To think she made that statement about pinning the pregnancy on any guy she sleeps with is quite chilling. It says a lot about the kind of person she is.

Who knows if she is trying to pin the pregnancy on you?

The way some of una dey see things sha..didn't you see the part she said she can easily sleep with any guy and pin it on his heard?that pregnancy(if any)isn't his own so make he just leave that Olosho way..

Heffalump:
There is no where in my post where I supported Dominic Joshua for his atrocious deeds. Just my observation about life concerning businessmen/women during their early days. I never seek to validate the character of Mr. Joshua in my post. I even mentioned these things happen due to greed in my sentence. Most politicians you all sing praises for and worship today, had their dirt and illicit past too. That's to show that in life, some people used dubious means to get to the top. It doesn't make them right. That's a real life observation!

Now, you decided to pour invective vituperations on me for no offence. Seems you got out the wrong side of your bed this morning, or perhaps T-pain has murdered your sense of reasoning. You must be a very senseless illiterate scallywag who doesn't know how to comment with civility in an open forum. Spits

Oga you be hypocrite..it's not condemnable when they scam others but it is wrong and condemnable when they defraud you abi?stop enabling fraud..

emmy512:
sounds like a well crafted PR Campaign for him.

saying you took money from people to import phones by telling them you have it on the way is obtaining by false pretence.
even though its a common thing for naija dropshippers now.

other campaigns
https://businessday.ng/opinion/article/nigeria-2025-dominic-joshua-on-budget-indicators-and-trends
https://guardian.ng/slide/the-brand-festival-awards-2025-honoring-excellence-and-innovation-in-nigeria
https://guardian.ng/issue/dr-dominic-joshua-forecasts-economic-renaissance-the-aftermath-of-oronsaye-report-implementation/
https://guardian.ng/news/dominic-joshua-foundation-radiates-hope-and-progress-across-nigeria-a-beacon-of-positive-change/

We all know newspapers and blogs are bought / paid to write that is why i take what they do with a pich of salt and that is why i prefer my news from forums like nairaland. so it can be discussed and i get to a conclusion.

Imagine those who don't read anything else bit newspapers or mainstream media.

Wow this people really are fraud enablers sha..people will just wake up from no where and start giving themselves titles..imagine him calling himself Dr when it is said that he didn't even graduate from the uni self to have a Degree..there should be a body to checkmate people like these. So many victims would fall for his scam after reading his sponsored post sha..I was already buying his story when I saw he is a known fraudster

Wickedfacts:
This guy is a thief who has a current case of fraud in court. The idiot is just on bail.

He is a thief and was arrested by the Police in 2021. The Police recovered 14 different properties from this criminal.

Today, the idiot has added Dr. to his name, this is a nonentity who didn't finish his first degree.

I saw the idiot at the Nigerian Energy Week in Lagos, looking like a stranded ghost. He was obviously looking for more victims.

Police carry you go court in 2021, Efcc hold you in 2022, you dey advertise yourself dey find customers.

Wow..abi na sponsored post and interview when him do to draw attention of people to give him more money thinking he will help them invest it?lol na wa o Choi see packaging na

Bea1234:
I'm in pains right now.

Last night my aunty called and asked why I didn't thank her for the money she sent.. I was confused on hearing that.

It turned out that she sent 30k to my cousin.. he senior me with 4 or 5 yesrs.. maybe he's around 25.

When I went to his house and confronted him in the evening.. he said ATM debited him but refused to pay him that he had filed complain in bank.. I believed him sef

But after doing my investigation.. I found out that this guy use the money to play visual football.

Pls how can I arrest this eediot? The guy doesn't have any property.. 2022 he sold my bicycle and claimed it got stolen from him.

I need help guys

So your aunty no see better person to send money for you na through your gambling addict cousin abi?why she no call you tell you before she send am but she call you after matter set?una family sha..

They will NEVER have sense..how do you go for a job interview without informing your family with the address?plus them tell you say where them go give you accommodation network no to dey there and probably said they will take you there and yet it didn't occur to you to send details to your family even after hearing that girls story that that useless boy killed after giving her a fake job,smh..so many red flags and she ignored them all.Too bad

Leave the fool to kpai na..who dey waste money to futh bills on top finished man?

wonder233:
See how hard they are trying to distract the masses with staged political beef.
So are we supposed to forget the hunger, insecurity and hardship in the land be excited with this watery quarrel they are trying so hard to sell?

Distract the masses how?all this while you were not distracted what did you do about the hunger?did you protest?did you fight the corrupt leaders?someone is calling them out and you are saying they are trying to distract the masses..from what exactly?smh..

I have worked with a couple of American NGOs in the past and I remember how everyone wanted to work with USIAD,so I was feeling bad for the staff of USAID on this closure but mehnn what I saw on Twitter about the MASSIVE CORRUPTION and serious MONEY LAUNDERING going on there my mouth open…hmm kai it’s real bad so I can understand why Elon shut it down..

Abegi Shift joor,those who helped your useless country during the apathied period are they not same you are killing and treating badly with your dumb xenophobia?America didn’t help you that period and we can obviously see reasons why they felt you were not worth it.Unfortunately for mumu Nigeria that helped you and got poison in return.

Bobloco:
While defending, do so with sense. Tinubu doesn’t send you o!

This is Tinubu against the people, against Nigerians who have borne the brunt of his wicked and draconian policies masquerading as economic reforms.

He keeps telling Nigerians that there is no money for subsidies and policies that could make life meaningful for them, but there’s enough money to buy a presidential jet, an all-black armored Cadillac Escalade SUV, discarding the Mercedes-Benz Maybach S-Class Buhari used. There’s money for yachts, frivolous foreign trips, and medical tourism trips and enough to embezzle and loot for him and his cronies.

Bro you get time..you are responding to people whose heads are completely empty?no brain matter for the skull so need to try to reason with such..it's futile

Just kpai the 3 drunk bastards there sharp no need for long talk na

mrvitalis:
This boy boy is funny ... The bolded is very funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ... Like you could have made any difference to the outcome?

Nairaland making bunch of NOBODIES feel important since 1900 Lmaooo

Wait o it that agbado miscreant insinuating he is a resident of America?and he is supporting the evil in Nigeria?if that is true then soon Trump's hand will touch him and kick his dumb Agbadorain ass back to Nija to suffer the evil he so much loves..

AllMight:
I was driving through a town today on my way to Benin city. Some guys stopped me and demanded i gave them something. As today is sunday, i just dropped 20k for them thinking they will even be glad. Them one of them who happened to be the leader said that 20k is not enough, i should make it at least 50k. I told them that i cant give them that amount, even the 20k i gave them was because i just felt like it. Even if i want to give them, no cash. The guy still said transfer is ok, but i will make it 100ko something to me on the way, and i dont even know the town at all. I later pleaded with them and transferred extra 15k before they all got off and let me go....

In my mind i know i will be back to that town to show them. I don mark their face, especially the leader.

You no get street OT..first of all why you go even stop to entertan boys like that when nobe say them hold gun?secondly who gives street boys 20k just like that?you wan show yourself and you paid dearly for it because no body gives them that amount so for you to do so means you are weak with no experience and have a lot of money so they took full advantage. Lastly how did theyanage to get into your car?if you were street smart you would have central locked every door immediately they came close but you didn't,even when you guys started arguing you had another opportunity to do it codedly but you still didnt cos you are not street smart and as a result they ended up robbing you without a weapon..

Alwizkidi:
I am a serving Corps members serving in Kano state. I have never had a relationship through my time in school, NYSC gave me the opportunity to try new things.

In the means of getting customers as a new corps member in Kano, I joined a digital learning group, I noticed bayero university student are ones occupied the group. After some times, I started sending cold dm to all members to save my contact, that I will do well to save theirs, all in the name of getting buyers for my graphic design jobs.

After some weeks, I posted a joke that who ever have interest in me should like my status. I was so surprised to see a lady which happens to BUK student.

We chatted for some times, we discussed about her past relationship and what causes breakup between her last partner. The lady told me she's a feminist, I didn't see that as a red flag because I am engrossed in chattings with her.

As a novice in the relationship matter, I asked her if we can be dating which she accepted, within 10 days of meeting her, I invited her to my room where I had my first kiss with a lady, and other sorts of sexual play. Its very hard for me to Bleep her because I am still a virgin but I tried my best not to make it known to her I am still a virgin, but She noticed that I don't know how to kiss, 😂 am just trying to form what I am not. Hmmm

Throughout the time we being together, she has never say hi to me for once, I am the one messaging her throughout (red flag).

Recently she made a nonsense move which makes me realise the lady want to turn me to ATM(maga).

I didn't message her for like 7 days hoping she will message me one day, I waited for the time but it never comes so I messaged her to know how far about her, you can't believe after some lines of chattings the lady screenshot her data balance to me saying her data is about to finished. I told her my guy that used to sub for her is fast asleep(it's a lie). We chatted for some time till she stop replying, I guessed her sub finished that night.
Next day, I saw her WhatsApp status and I sent her a greetings but she refused to reply. I send another the next that why are you ignoring my message,

She's started saying I am talking nonsense, if she type that it won't pain me like voice note she sent. Its being a long someone say rubbish things to me like that. How can I 200 level be addressing me that way. I wait till evening time before I took the decision to forget about her, so I didn't reply her nor block her, I just deleted her cvices from experience people here.

From your write up sef you no get sense..do you need your guy to tell you to fvck her before you do?why didn't you fvck her when you were kissing her and doing other sexual things?abeg comot joor make we see road bloody simp...if your dic.k no dey work go buy Vega tab

seguntijan:
Bala was FCT minister for 5 years, Wike has been FCT minister for a year plus, Wike has commissioned more projects than Bala 5 years

Wike was governor for 8yrs with over 680 commissioned projects and Bala for 6years with less than 100 commissioned projects

The Records are there

🤣🤣680 projects na im pH never be like Dubai?dey play,just dey play...