₦airaland Forum

Yall don't get it..it's not about just doing well,it's about LIFE and SURVIVAL, insecurity and medical emergencies..if you mistakenly fall ill in this Nija Omoh it takes grace of God for you to get good medical attention so even if you are making 10m in a month what happens when you suddenly get sick?before them board you for flight go hospital you fit kpie for air if na emergency because you cant get good medical attention here.

Voltron007:
when will you have sense?

Haa he can NEVER have sense o,if you dey wait for him to get sense bro you go wait tire,this one na akamu dem replace him brain with na,he is a lost cause..he is hopelessly beyond redemption bro no think am.

Samantha125:
Many of them still get away with it, you only got to know the truth because her friend was jealous of her relationship with you, a very bad and disloyal friend.

No I found out from a chat my ex had with another friend of hers after I unlocked her phone and read their conversation..It was weeks later that another different friend of hers reached out to me anonymously to give me information I already knew..Anyway cheating is wrong for both genders when you are in A COMMITTED relationship..anyone who gets caught should be ready for the consequences.

Samantha125:
How would you know that she was having a secret affair? I mean a lot of you men who work away from home have been cheated on before, but never got to know about it because most women are very smart when it comes to having secret affairs.

This is no longer the 1900... Leave your wife at your own risk... And when you're busy enjoying those girls, just keep in mind that she might also be enjoying another man back home.

Nothing is really hidden under the sun na,I bet you one day he will find out somehow,maybe even her friend may inform him anonymously, it always comes out one way or the other but if by some chance she is able to hide it then fine good luck to her.

I agree women are very smart in cheating like my ex,I never knew the guy she cheated with even existed or communicated with her,I knew of others but never him,no chats etc but I saw her chat with someone else about it,that's how I first found out, and then a friend of hers who was interested in her,reached out to me anonymously to tell me about it. So I found out eventually,one way or the other it will be exposed,it's just a matter of time.

Samantha125:
All this still doesn't change the fact that she has sexual needs and also has those sexual urges while he's away... It's not like he'll know about it anyways.

She should get herself a casual boyfriend that'll drill her nicely while he's away...😏😏😏

Yeah she should do that,and also get ready to be kicked out to the streets where she rightly belongs when her husband returns,that way she can be free to get drilled like an oil well by not just one but many guys she fancies like the street bit.ch she is🙂..so by all means carry on pls.

Samantha125:
So would it also be okay if his wife also gets herself a casual boyfriend while he's away? Because she has needs as well.

When she starts providing for him then she can drag with him on benefits of been a man too,but as long as she is a help mate to him then she can't drag with him on any benefit of been a man. After all women also have their benefits that come with the gender,easier life for them in EVERY aspect than men.

A woman can easily slap a man in public and get away with it as it is part of the benefit of being a female but a man CAN NEVER try that or he will end up in the hospital or police custody,that is a female benefit that can't be dragged with women and such is the same for men with in regards to the discussion at hand.

2special:
but the O.P didn't demand for their service

I tire o,see them bashing him up and down.

EzehFx:
As a guy the op is a disappointment. His no different from those girls. I just pity the innocent wife. Damn

Disappointment how? If you as a guy in a relationship dating someone and you have cheated on that person before(MOST LIKELY )or can cheat when dating them you have no right to call the man a disappointment because he is married. You in a relationship too are expected to be loyal and faithful except it's an open relationship. How do you call him a disappointment when he has not even told you he has cheated yet?

ukaface:
I don’t even understand you sef
You observe she looks at you when you are not looking at her. How? How you take know say she Dey see you
Okay, that’s by the way sef

You don’t have girlfriend but you are married with kids. Shey you suppose get girlfriend? Even you yourself you have spoil, you are part of the moral decadence in Nigeria
You already priced a girl, but didn’t go on with it because she is almost fit to be your daughter. So if you price a girl older you for don bleep am.
And you are here analysing things like you are a saint.

Omo, the kind husbands wey women Dey marry for Nigeria na yeye o
Shuuuu

Inukwa, I have no girlfriend but married with kids.

Nkitikpa…..

Your response is hypocritical. Loyalty isn't ONLY EXPECTED from MARRIED people,as far as you are in a relationship,you are expected to stay loyal except it's an open relationship. But alas people cheat on their partners like crazy.

The same energy used to judge cheating married folks,is same energy that should be used judging those cheating while dating too,but we hear a lot of people especially females saying as long as him never marry me I can still see other men.

Sleeknigga:
I pity the innocent wife you go dash std after eyeing the coworker your no better than the girls in hotels, useless Nigerians with I judge you mindset

But you are the one judging him na,abi judging meaning don change ni?what you are doing is judging.

Omotena1:
Thank you.

Your Location

Dumb fvck.. waiting to hear from God indeed..odeh no worry as a simp wey you be you go learn painfully

Just imagine rubbish talk,you have to be a really dumb Olosho to be raped 5 different times..5 bloody different times?first one she no learn,second one she no learn reach 5 times?you carry yourself go de collect pen.is come dey talk say na rape.

micflo28:
We have same tower in Abuja, World trade Center tower at Central Area but yet to be completed.

Because of the shitty leaders in power that are killing the country.. Shameful I must say cos I live in Abuja too

NOETHNICITY:
Now IPOB must be very confused

They hate Asari, but they support Fubara

And Fubara and Wike are sworn enemies, but now Fubara has appointed someone they hate

I want to see how they reconcile this

Don't worry yourself it has already been reconciled no think am

Bendeco02:


This man sabi the game

These are the kind of men that fits wike

Let him visit Rivers state with his usual gra gra and see shege

Sim just dey checkmate them back to back..him sabi the game wella

MichaelSokoto:
chop painment
Or
Go to court!


Infact go to court!

Ezmans:
the same way mc oluomo is illegally sitting tight in Abuja despite appeal Court ruling

You gerrit

Racoon:
Giving a confirmed thug like Asari Dokubo a chieftaincy title? What the Bleep is wrong with Fubara? What moral are you promoting here? You have lost my respect sir.

Oga ask wike and Tinubu what moral they were promoting when they were rigging and destroying our judiciary..no body has the monopoly of evil..if you want to play soft with evil people you will ALWAYS loose so grow some wicked balls and that's what sim is doing

DatNiggaDaz:


Pains ?

Ok. Go to court Wike

Sefair pains bro

yarimo:
Confused governor appointing criminal

But when he was constituting nuisance in Abuja making threats to Obedients then you didn't see him as criminal abi cos he was working for corn and agbado..🤣🤣 you never see anything cry and wail more we get bucket to collect your tears..all the monsters you guys created one after the other will work against you,even the corrupt judiciary and thugs just wait una go collect and una must learn.

flyinnizam:
Wigwe is a definition of my money is the cause of my death....how many nairalanders don enter helicopter before

As in ehnn na him money kill am sharp..God forbid that kind money wey go kill person o

An agbadorian seat down for toilet open dead site say na world affairs?what jokers,upside down people..pics of really bad leaders na I'm this one's the nominate as best leaders?goes to tell you that they are not mentally sound..delulu..world affairs kor,universe affairs ni

Bwanasaraw:
Sharia law should never be allowed in the South West

Let me correct you bro..should NEVER be allowed in Nigeria as a whole sef.

Lol this one wey no comment trolling Dj cuppy does that mean Nija don dey mature?🤣🤔

Wickedfacts:
Reminds me of that place where they told a father to stand up for his son to sit simply because the son has money.

For real?real life story?where did this rubbish happen biko?what's the story?

Jeezuzpick:
It's a good gesture.

Now, one question......is it possible for a Nigerian to go to a Russian University, graduate and be unable to perform upon return to Nigeria? I am really concerned because of a recent experience I had with someone who graduated from a Russian University.

I interviewed him for a job and he just about failed every question I threw at him.

He was even arguing with me over a point I made until I went online and proved him wrong.

In the end, a colleague and friend convinced my boss and I to take him, and we put the guy on the team of the same guy that was begging on his behalf.

Fast forward a couple of months, my friend was complaining about his performance.

Bro what type of job was he interviewed for?was it medical related or what?a lot of us are just curious and want to know..

gabbytabby:
We just shut shop and send him to the street where he belongs.

Lol ok we don hear,but before sending him to the street,pls make sure you wear him a kitchen apron and make him cook for you and also do the dishes while at it

gabbytabby:
Personally I would not have a problem with it only say he needs to provide an annual physical to confirm him no get any STI cos people measure others by their own standards.

Provide annual test aspa say na you marry am na and you are the provider of his life..but why yal females enjoy self delusion tho?

10thTenthMan:
Ah Haunty why na?

Please don’t divorce us na? Please Ma.

OK OYA NO VEX MA…

You know if you divorce us you will go away with our joysticks and we will not be able to use it again. And you know… you know… that if you go away all restaurants will close, and everything you do for us no one else or no other business service can ever do it. .

LET US COME TO A FAIR AND JUST COMPROMISE.

Please naaaa…..


Ok what of 2 weeks after you pushed out the Baby? Will you Manage that one ? ……

No? Ok…Oya just pick any date from the day the baby was born to after you leave the hospital? “Pwettyyyyyy pweaaaaase”?


Please naaaaa….don’t be angry na? Oya sorry let us do it one month after delivery and leaving the hospital. Just one month.

Oya no vex naaaa.

😀😀😀😀😀🤣😂😅😆😁😄😃


Wahala Dey o.

If you divorce me in such circumstances, I will go and ENSURE I DO PROPER THANKSGIVING IN CHURCH AND DONATE A LOT OF MONEY TO THE POOR AND NEEDY IN GRATITUDE TO GOD FOR SAVING ME FROM SUCH A NARROW MINDED DIABOLICAL WOMAN.

ONLY A VERY FOOLISH MAN WILL TRUST A WOMAN WITH CLOSING HER LEGS. When your legs are the easiest thing to open nowadays.

🤣🤣🤣🤣She knows if she divorces him his ability to breath oxygen will leave with her and he will die na lol..funny gender

Nigerianization:
A child can only hate a lowlife of a father based on hearsay and without trying to hear from him. If the child grows up to find out that the father is a multi billionaire, a governor or an international figure, the child will hate the mother for depriving her or him of fatherly love. Bottom line is, anybody that thinks of weaponising a child based on their emotions per time should consider what's best for the child.

If I have a child as I presently am and the mother denies me access, it's her loss. Child support or payment of school fees sef I no go do

Don't mind them,very wicked behavior weaponising a child based on her vile manipulation against the father..they always loose in the end but will never accept the reality because they are naturally self delusional.

brain54:
Apologies...

But this your reasoning sounds rather myopic.

So you as a man you stand nothing to lose right? You are happy the burden of finance would be relieved from you... But you forgot other areas of lose like raising your child as a father in a broken home. Etc.

You see leaving the responsibility and burden of taking care of the child as punishment to her.

Not all women are dependent on their man by the way.

The lose you will face is not quantifyable and just because you don’t see it doesn't mean it's not there.

Everybody loses in the end... Including the unborn child!

This your talk no make sense at all..yes everyone will have something to loose but the lady and the innocent child have more to loose than the man..infact the woman has a lot more to loose than everyone and that's what he means so calling his reason in myopic is not necessary at all,you are just been sentimental as per SIMPle man.